Rhesusmonkey:
14years go just dey hungry som pple.

Me and you must split that 14 years

Why cant I compliment somebody without people making stup!id comments

If you are insecure about your sexuality, I am not

Gurgle:


Me and you must split that 14 years

Why cant I compliment somebody without people making stup!id comments

If you are insecure about your sexuality, I am not

easy ma'am, just neede 2 b sure its nt something that wud lead to 14yr stuff, also u gats work on thy sense of humour, no beefing. cheers.

Rhesusmonkey:
14years go just dey hungry som pple.

Rhesusmonkey:
easy ma'am, just neede 2 b sure its nt something that wud lead to 14yr stuff, also u gats work on thy sense of humour, no beefing. cheers.

Apologies, I shouldn't have lost my temper

You were the 3rd person to say that and it was starting to irritate me. If you check that sonofanimal guys comment you'll understand what I mean

But anyway Im sorry

Gurgle:


Me and you must split that 14 years

Why cant I compliment somebody without people making stup!id comments

If you are insecure about your sexuality, I am not

u too like quarel pass fight, bt I think the monkey guy made a valid observation, btw don't u guys sleep at nite

Gurgle:


Apologies, I shouldn't have lose my temper

You were the 3rd person to say that and it was starting to irritate me. If you check that sonofanimal guys comment you'll understand what I mean

But yeah Im sorry

WHAT AGAIN!! WHAT AGAIN!!

sonofananimal1:
WHAT AGAIN!! WHAT AGAIN!!

I wasn't talking to you

Gurgle:

I wasn't talking to you

BUT WHY MENTIONING ME

Castroii:
u too like quarel pass fight, bt I think the monkey guy made a valid observation, btw don't u guys sleep at nite

Have you seen me anywhere before

I have reason to be awake

Is something keeping you up late

sonofananimal1:
BUT WHY MENTIONING ME

You can see why I mentioned you, its quite clear

Castroii:
u too like quarel pass fight, bt I think the monkey guy made a valid observation, btw don't u guys sleep at nite

What valid observation

Gurgle:


Apologies, I shouldn't have lose my temper

You were the 3rd person to say that and it was starting to irritate me. If you check that sonofanimal guys comment you'll understand what I mean

But yeah Im sorry

no probs ma'am, I was jst joking wif u, am sorry too 4 being among the unlucky guys dt made u lose ur temper.

Rhesusmonkey:
no probs ma'am, I was jst joking wif u, am sorry too 4 being among the unlucky guys dt made u lose ur temper .

Lol

The Op is partly correct.
I heard one of my revered mentors who is also a preacher make a striking statement.

He said any lady that is having problem settling down with her husband.There are either of the two reasons responsible.

1. The devil, demonic forces are real that attempts to block a persons marital destiny, no matter how beautiful she is and wonderful.The problem would still linger with her.
2. The lady herself, by her bad attitude has sent away the right man that came to her.

If this were to be a research, one of the recommendations would be : Promotion of polygamous family like in the days of old. IRONICALLY, IT IS THIS SAME WOMEN THAT WILL KICK AGAINST IT BECAUSE OF THEIR 'UNACCOMMODATING' NATURE. I no talk anything o

bezimo:
The Op is partly correct.
I heard one of my revered mentors who is also a preacher make a striking statement.

He said any lady that is having problem settling down with her husband.There are either of the two reasons responsible.

1. The devil, demonic forces are real that attempts to block a persons marital destiny, no matter how beautiful she is and wonderful.The problem would still linger with her.
2. The lady herself, by her bad attitude has sent away the right man that came to her .

110% AGREE WITH THIS ONE

Gurgle:

Corrected* You look beautiful in your profile picture
cc: tunnamania11

14YEARS oo

ronald4lif:
There are potential husbands everywhere and when they're ready to get married they will. They keep waiting for ready-made guys whose heart belong somewhere else, prolly to a loyal lady who stood by them through thick and thin.

Except if they want to tell us those bus drivers, conductors, unemployed graduates and those earning less than 50K a month aren't good enough. Then they can as well mould a Dangote and Tony Elumelu replica for themselves.

Uhm... so the struggling guys are ready to get married? or you're saying if I date a brokie today, when he makes it tomorrow he must get married to me because I stayed through thick and thin?

I'm no gold digger(just to clear that up) but you guys should be realistic for once in your lives. Some brokies date girls for years and after they get the dough, they start chasing after flashy girls apparently the former gf will no longer be good enough for them. Some even tell the girls shiit like "if you see someone that wants to get married to you, get married oh!" because they ain't ready and this stupiid statement will come after the chick must have spent 2yrs or more with the niggur.

What's my point? Yeah some grass to grace relationships work out but some don't! That's the truth! So ya'll should stop acting the saints here just for likes and be realistic.

A girl is free to choose whoever she wants and guys are too. In the end, some people(both girls and boys) will indeed regret their choices and for certain reasons, the girls regrets are more pronounced but it doesn't give guys the right to in anyway tell girls how to live.

Live and let live... That's all I have to say.

Thank God am the last to comment! Abi na crime?

Adaeze003:


Uhm... so the struggling guys are ready to get married? or you're saying if I date a brokie today, when he makes it tomorrow he must get married to me because I stayed through thick and thin?

I'm no gold digger(just to clear that up) but you guys should be realistic for once in your lives . Some brokies date girls for years and after they get the dough, they start chasing after flashy girls apparently the former gf will no longer be good enough for them. Some even tell the girls shiit like "if you see someone that wants to get married to you, get married oh!" because they ain't ready and this stupiid statement will come after the chick must have spent 2yrs or more with the niggur.

What's my point? Yeah some grass to grace relationships work out but the majority don't! That's the truth! So ya'll should stop acting the saints here just for likes and be realistic.

A girl is free to choose whoever she wants and guys are too. In the end, some people(both girls and boys) will indeed regret their choices and for certain reasons, the girls regrets are more pronounced but it doesn't give guys the right to in anyway tell girls how to live .

Live and let live... That's all I have to say.

SO WHO DO YOU WANT TO START DATING NOW


A READY MADE MAN OR SOMEONE LIKE DANGOTE

The part of Igbo land where I come from bride price is very low as low as #100 so
I think the op and some people who commented before me should stop this self pity,Not all Igbo ladies are affected by all these bride price thing
Some of the problem are spiritual but we in our ordinary eye will say go marry now does it mean that men are blind and can not see
Cases like spiritual husband,spiritual covering, bad people,( here I mean people who go the extend of using diabolic means to stop there fellow's marriage ) witches cultism,evil relationship far and near it goes on and on,it can take a strong man of God to break the yoke
Another area is this fashion thing ladies who are over doing fashion ,some times send the wrong signals to a prospecting husband,exposing the better part of ones body in the bid for getting attention can also send a wrong signal to a good man.
woman in general has this already made guy syndrome, is left for the ladies to look inward ,An ask the question what is really wrong with me,some time calling and crying to God will do .God is never late.

sonofananimal1:
SO WHO DO YOU WANT TO START DATING NOW


A READY MADE MAN OR SOMEONE LIKE DANGOTE

Is dangote not ready-made

alex406:

And we should clap for you.

Yea that's what you should do for your senior

Men are very scars now, so women try. Nd hold ur own tight,o even without bride price

Thanks for this post. I hope most of them learn....

You rejected every guy that came your way.
Now, you're in your late 30's.
Sorry, take heart

jamex93:
kai


God bless this ryter


to crown it all old single ladies r the source of their own problems.

And with the way you write, you are the source of your own problems.

Op, you try.

Hello concerned ladies, the first thing here is to know and acknowledge that you have problem getting a spouse.

Some will tell you, it doesn't matter, at most they will be a single mother especially the proud career women that feels that they are rich , they can easily care for themselves and their one or two children from one or two different men. What a shameless generation!

In a nutshell, ladies, deal with these issues:

Acknowledge the problem
Avoid proudness
Have a good character
Get a good social life, mix up well..
Dress well, not exposing your bodies.
Go for deliverance in a church like MFM, if need be, as it could be a foundational issue.Pls avoid any Pastor, prophet or MOG that try to sleep with you in the name of driving out your spirit husband, or demands money from you as sowing husband seed especially those of you that are pretty, well educated and work in a good organisations.

Set a goal for your self.

I know some ladies in such condition, like a decade ago. When you approach them, they turn you down or even started avoiding your calls.
Now Jungle don mature, most of the guys they turned down, are married with wifey, 2 or 3 children. When you call them now, they answer you fast, even call when you don't call them, send you # Happy new month msg sms, send happy weekend sms, trying yo be nice. Medicine after death. One told me that she did not have a Mum to advice her then, now she is her forties, good job, good pay, lives alone in one of the cities, in a good accommodation, no Man.


Well, before I forget, most of them are quick to tell you that my dear marriage is NOT a must ooo

Marriage is not for everyone oooo , agreed 100 %.

I can't imagine myself being under one stupid man that will be controlling me, my movement, my life, is not just possible, I cannot even change my maiden name, so forgerit, that is forget ooo, when time come, you will blaming witch in the village when you use your own mouth to run your opportunity down.

One babe, even took offense even when someone asked her why she never Marry. She is good looking but fake.She is the type that dresses up and use make up to put a birthmark on her face, she bleaches, she is into runs, immediately you see her you will decode if you are a sharp guy. All she is after is a loaded guy that will take her out to the movies in Silverbird, buy her clothes, get her upkeep money, new phones, she was not working but has more clothes than working class babes.
Always on the call with different guys, she stay in Lagos.The babe is her mid thirties now, her immediately sister is a single mother now, got married and leave the man after a baby...

Most men, I repeat most men do not go for such ladies, because they will not give them joy , peace and rest of mind in the marriage.
Men prefer women with submissive nature, respectful, meek,well trained lady and even less than 30. To me, age is NOT a number when it comes to Marriage, women have limited time frame that they are very fertile. Once a women clocks 40, it takes special grace of God for her
to conceive and give birth. Not in this generation that even somebody in 20 to 21years old women are battling infertility , people differs but women should understand that their number is like in the ratio of 3:1 to man.



The earliest women face the current realities of life starring them on the face the better.

The 70 or 90yrs old Mama you see in your neighborhood was once a sisi, baby laaa hot, baby oku, Akwaa nwa, Omo too shoo, Omo to sexy, Omo to gbasski, sweet angel etc whatever name you call her in her prime. It is only a matter of time, just some few decades from now.

hmmm another marriage thread abi na wedding thread.Men why una de complicate women life like this.No be by law or by force to marry.I notice men on this thread talking up and down,marriage this marriage that.
Mtchewwww abi na de kind topic this wey go make una start feel important ba?

Long throat men.If na to run behind ready made women who have made it una go be first people but you are here complaining when a woman seeks a rich husband.You all should go and sit down.
To all the ladies hunting husbands please don't let a man take you for granted because some of them when they come across a woman who has advanced in age,they begin to think they are doing you a favour by dating you.God punish the devil !!!!!!


Marriage is not compulsory ,do you think it is every married person that is happyEnjoy your selves and stop putting yourself under high blood pressure in the name of marriage

Hope after saying all of this you now feel good about your self.I know your type and I pity your type.

aspirebig:
Op, you try.

Hello concerned ladies, the first thing here is to know and acknowledge thst you have problem getting a spouse.

Some will tell you, it doesn't matter, at most they will be a single mother especially the proud career women that feels that they are rich , they can easily care for themselves and their one or two children from one or two different men. What a shameless generation!

In a nutshell, ladies, deal with these issues:

Acknowledge the problem
Avoid proudness
Have a good character
Get a good social life, mix up well..
Dress well, not exposing your bodies.
Go for deliverance in a church like MFM, if need be, as it could be a foundational issue.Pls avoid any Pastor, prophet or MOG that try to sleep with you in the name of driving out your spirit husband, or demands money from you as sowing husband seed especially those of you that are pretty, well educated and work in a good organisations.

Set a goal for your self.

I know some ladies in such condition, like a decade ago. When you approach them, they turn you off or even started avoiding your calls.
Now Jungle don mature, most of the guys they turned off, are married with wifey, 2 or 3 children. When you call them now, they answer you fast, even call when you don't call them, send you # Happy new month msg sms, send happy weekend sms, trying yo be nice. Medicine after death. One told me that she did not have a Mum to advice her.

One babe, even took offense even when someone asked her why she never Marry. She is good looking but fake.She is the type that dresses up and use make up to put a birthmark on her face, she bleaches, she us into runs, immediately you see her you will decode if you are a sharp guy. All she is after is a loaded guy that will take her out to the movies in Silverbird, buy her clothes, get her upkeep money, new phones, she was not working but has more clothes than working class babes.
Always on the call with different guys, she stay in Lagos.The babe is her mid thirties now, her immediately sister is a single mother now, got married and leave the man after a baby...

Most men, I repeat most men do not go for such ladies, because they will not give them joy , peace and rest of mind in the marriage.
Men prefer women with submissive nature, respectful, meek,well trained and even less than 30. To me, age is NOT a number when it comes to Marriage, women have limited time frame that they are very fertile. Once a women clocks 40, it takes special grace for her
to conceive and give birth. Not in this generation that even somebody in 20 to 21 is battling infertility , people differs but women should understand that their numbet is like in the ratio od 3:1 to man.



The earliest women face the current realities of life starring them on the face the better.

The 70 or 90yrs old Mama you see in your neighborhood was certain a sisi, baby laaa hot, baby oku, Akwaa nwa, Omo too shoo, Omo to sexy, Omo to gbasski, sweet angel etc wharever, like you in her prime. It is only a matter of time, just some few decades from now.

marriedvirgin:

Hope after saying all of this you now feel good about your self.I know your type and I pity your type.

Pity fire, that is bitter truth....maybe you are one of them, see your name ....married virgin ...how naa?