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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by kilokeys(m): 3:42am On Jul 31, 2015
Nneka123:
Why should one even bother going down the memory lane

If he's going to ask me stuff like that, he should also be ready to open up as well. But this topic ain't for me. Bye grin
hahaha i see you kiss
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by CJAY07(m): 3:42am On Jul 31, 2015
cheechee16:
its fine when u want to know abt her previous relationships and not who deflowered her...cuz wen u finally know,ur mentality abt her changes
The qtn is nt necessary if u ask me,it can only bring up more qtns like a lady asking her man who disvirgined him and how many ladies has he disvirgined....c'mon shit happens!!!!

So is it better to lie and maintain a false image of a saint,especially to a guy you hope to spend the rest of your life with? I believe in openess on both sides.. The big things matter as much as the little things.Sometimes understanding where she is coming from creates an avenue for better understanding and compatibility. If your partner cant take the truth or accept you still, then maybe he is not meant for you...cos in the end something about that past may leak and then he will realise that you also lie too.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Bollove: 3:45am On Jul 31, 2015
UpLoyo:


Height of joblessness, of that relevance is somebody's else virginity? Some of you are just too disgusting to be allowed amongst sane people. There's always a stupid article about ladies, do you perverts have a mother or sister in your lineage at all? What is your damn business if a ladies lies about her virginity to her man, is that your freaking problem? Bunch of jerk offs, I blame the clown responsible more monitoring this website, it has really gone to the dogs.
why this ranting, you don't have to kill yourself cuz this is a forum and the last time I checked there is no any age restriction whatsoever. Thus, if you see any thread that is lower than your IQ or beyond your level of comprehension, be mature enough to just move to the next thread. There are millions of thread on Nairaland , stop behaving like a kid urself.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by CJAY07(m): 3:55am On Jul 31, 2015
freecocoa:
We must have diffrent understanding of what "agreeing" means, I wonder how you can say you agree yet here we are.

No, I'm not guessing, I do know many girls who lost their virginity through r*pe, you first have to understand that many people don't even know what rape is.

Plus, I don't remember saying every girl who's lost her virginity in naija did so through rape, so what's your case exactly?

Even if you know 100 Nigerian girls who lost theirs due to forced s*x,Its still wrong saying that most Nigerian girls lose their virginity that way.. Thats a big statement to judge from just your experience or perspective.Oh and from the many girls you think you know that lost their virginity that way, were you there personally to witbess it, or are you just making assumptions on the credibility of all reports you hear.In the end, i can also say I know another set of 100 Nigerian girls who didnot lose their virginity that way, and it would be my word against yours. If you must make such statements with authority provide credible evidence (facts and figures) to back up your case and clearly state how you gathered such information.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by AreaFada2: 4:01am On Jul 31, 2015
Women like to keep secret. Their mind deep gan.

Most girls in 9ja set up are disvirgined way too young. It can be by one randy "uncle" or another respected figure in the neighbourhood.

The circumstances are usually not pretty. It's even traumatic for some.

Some are disvirgined by a boyfriend. But either way, the age and circumstance would diminish the decent and big girl image most babes like to project.

We should protect our daughters from randy guys ready to deflower even 10 year olds.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Lovechyld101(m): 4:18am On Jul 31, 2015
Ladies and this stupid line "its in d Past" that's my past" some ladies past can affect her 10times in d future even to her Next Generation ,Ladies b careful of d past u make now in d present.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Bollove: 4:25am On Jul 31, 2015
freecocoa:
If you understood my post, why then are you asking questions that suggest you don't?

Where did you read that a girl should use the r*pe excuse?

And yea, may sound crazy but I'm sure many Nigerian girls lost their virginity through forced sex, whatever figure you choose to use as the percentage, is entirely up to you.
I disagree with you on forced sex and I am speaking from many experiences !!!

At puberty, so many things happen to a girl's system and most times their bodies push them to do what they may not ordinarily wanna do ............ it takes only few ones to exercise significant control over the urge to get seriously dicked especially within the age of 13-22 .... At this age, you may see them behaving funny around neighbours, uncles, cousins and even their own brothers ........wiggling their buttocks and asking what you think about the growth of her breast and bumbum...... around this age, these little girls can even rape their young cousins or force him to touch them in their private parts or seduce their elder ones through rough play e.g sit on your laps, grind your dick, blind touch on your dick, barge you at the toilet to check what real dick look like etc ... The mature boys around could also take the girls curiosity to another level and helped her to bang it and this is what you call "rape"

Keeping virginity is an herculean task and a punishment that requires a lot of mind control and body restraint .... enduring the pressure for years is not a child's play..... I was a virgin for first 23years of ma life and was on holiday for another four years, the pressure I passed through would be a child's play compared to that of a woman due to their body system !!

IMHO, the rate at which girls of nowadays wanted to lose it is higher than the urge at which guys wanted to bang girls which may lead to rape......

why most girls claimed rape or blame uncle, cousins, neighbours for deflowering them baffle me and makes me see such girl as irresponsible ..... mind you, they won't even tell their parents about it nor anybody while secretly engaging/enjoying the illicit act

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 5:05am On Jul 31, 2015
Most guys don't even like virgins they want it already deflowered for easy access.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Pangea: 5:15am On Jul 31, 2015
MasterRahl:
Why is this particular post attracting so many comments from the ladies?


grin grin lipsrsealed

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Lolladey(f): 5:15am On Jul 31, 2015
It is no lie. Most of the time girls are molested at a very tender age by those they trust e.g family, friends or neighbors (especially in face me I slap you buildings). The percentage of girls that are exposed in this manner is alarming and they are thereby exposed sexually

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by ElFenomeno1: 5:24am On Jul 31, 2015
lawnreigh:
I find it difficult to believe how most ladies lie about how were disvirgined to their boyfriends/Fiancé and co, most times they usually lie, it's either they were raped by a neighbor when they were young or probably one brother in their area which makes it hard to even believe the one saying the truth because it seems to be the same lie trend among ladies.

Is there anything bad in telling your boyfriend how you were truly disvirgined by former boyfriends et al?

You are a jobless cow OP
The moderator that pushed this thread to the front page is a fuc king donut!
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by RomanyChi(f): 5:29am On Jul 31, 2015
shaiba:
that is past and the future is bright with him by her side. would it be fair to ask how he was disvirgined? why should it be of interest to him? would the answer make them richer or add more years to his life? Honestly I don't see how it can better the future of that relationship.

MOVE ON BRO

exactly!
well said

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by delazore(m): 6:01am On Jul 31, 2015
Some ladies even lie unnecessarily, I wonder why they r always fond of that wink
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Spidermon: 6:01am On Jul 31, 2015
Well....
I only get inquisitive about a woman's sexual history when I slot my d1ck into her pu5sy and it feels like dropping a pencil into a teacup.
Then, it would only be logical for me to want to know if she has been masturbating with anti aircraft missiles or if her previous sex partners included Godzilla, Thor etc...
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 6:01am On Jul 31, 2015
Shaadey:
Why must he know how she was deflowered?? can he re-flower her??
Hahahahahahahahaaha
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by delazore(m): 6:05am On Jul 31, 2015
Donwalterthegr8:
Most guys don't even like virgins they want it already deflowered for easy access.
u r very right, to disvirgin is a like a problem to me
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Edusouls(m): 6:22am On Jul 31, 2015
shaiba:
that is past and the future is bright with him by her side. would it be fair to ask how he was disvirgined? why should it be of interest to him? would the answer make them richer or add more years to his life? Honestly I don't see how it can better the future of that relationship.

MOVE ON BRO
Shut up,the past never stays dead,you women think that all those past dirty lives of urs is written off,of course not,it lingers and follows u for lifetime and surely into the home thats why most marriages today are full of scandals and they fail,so we men should always ask and be concious of the past of the person we are commiting our future with, cos we dont want to end up with women with various curses...

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Edusouls(m): 6:24am On Jul 31, 2015
ivyT:
Like seriously...

some things are unnecessary
of course is very necessary, men dont want to end up with women loded with curses from past deeds...

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by PRYCE(m): 6:27am On Jul 31, 2015
OREMUSSANCTUS:
That was how I asked my first gf, if she was a virgin, she said Yes and No. I was confused, she now said d guy penetrated her, buh it was painful she now asked him to stop. I was so vexed.
My oda ex, told me she was disvirgined becos her mum wasn't caring and was always scolding her. I was just looking at her like mumu, so no woman wan accept say she want am.
I don't trust grls at all, not even yourmain
My bros them ban you?
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Edusouls(m): 6:33am On Jul 31, 2015
OREMUSSANCTUS:
That was how I asked my first gf, if she was a virgin, she said Yes and No. I was confused, she now said d guy penetrated her, buh it was painful she now asked him to stop. I was so vexed.
My oda ex, told me she was disvirgined becos her mum wasn't caring and was always scolding her. I was just looking at her like mumu, so no woman wan accept say she want am.
I don't trust grls at all, not even yourmain
i dy tell u brother, my gf told me she was abused at age 8, then since then she has not met a man, later found out na very fat lie, the girl sexually active die...women are sisters to lies..
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by egopersonified(f): 6:33am On Jul 31, 2015
I just dey laugh. When we all stop trying to impose our fantasies about our partners, then we won't be disappointed at strange discoveries, then we can talk of having soulmates and best friends in a relationship.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by stonecoldcafe: 6:34am On Jul 31, 2015
1miccza:



In as much as i agree with your last line about opening up don't you think it's necessary for the sake of trust??

You are being childish bro. Stop it!
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by kazmanbanjoko(m): 6:35am On Jul 31, 2015
Imagine, see topic sef.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 6:38am On Jul 31, 2015
Because they really do not want to know the truth.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Edusouls(m): 6:39am On Jul 31, 2015
pTomz:
If she likes let her say the gods raped her, where will her lie channel her to?
thank you brother, women love lies a lot,infact their lives depends on it, answer to ur very intelligent question is that the lies always and always end them up in misery and regrets later in life...

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by seeker121(m): 6:40am On Jul 31, 2015
In short those girls are LION OZUMBA, speak the truth even if it is bitter.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by stonecoldcafe: 6:42am On Jul 31, 2015
dudesexy1111:
If she like make she lie it none of my business....na to sign my own waka comot....no tyme....trustnogirl#

Na so. Sign dey go na so people still dey sign your wife go. Na so life be abi you wan ff me bet?
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Edusouls(m): 6:42am On Jul 31, 2015
ThisMeansWAR:
why would any dude wanna know how his girl got disflowered?
because you dont wanna end up with a LovePeddler or a reckless slot, pretending to be a Good girl,cos if u later find out ur love and trust naturaly diess...

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 6:42am On Jul 31, 2015
leevi93:
Jesus Christ...!!! people children don suffer finish
Aye ti baje gan
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by christinie(f): 6:43am On Jul 31, 2015
kilokeys:
don't mind these virgin hunters.
Shallow minded pple..
as if they can truly tell their girlfriends how some of them were deflowered by their spoilt maids.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by justjify(m): 6:44am On Jul 31, 2015
MasterRahl:
Why is this particular post attracting so many comments from the ladies?
Its because they are concerned and who knows if its what they do?
I got worried when I saw all their posts condemning the need for guys to know.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Edusouls(m): 6:45am On Jul 31, 2015
INTROVERT:
Virgins have no business on this thread.
yessoo girl, i feel your tweet, so much confidence in you..

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