Am a guy but dat question is some hw meaningless. ..
It's her past life she may not evn wnt to rememba it, coz some grls were rape, or force to do it. ..n her telling u may coz negative effects on d relationship. ..real men wouldn't ask his lady dis question....

Spidermon:
Well....
I only get inquisitive about a woman's sexual history when I slot my d1ck into her pu5sy and it feels like dropping a pencil into a teacup.
Then, it would only be logical for me to want to know if she has been masturbating with anti aircraft missiles or if her previous sex partners included Godzilla, Thor etc...

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freecocoa:
Have you stopped for a minute to think that most of them probably told the truth? It's common knowledge how most men behave when it comes to sex, especially with naive girls.

R*pe is very common in naija whether you people believe it or not, infact you know sef so no need to talk plenty.

rape for were,who rape una? Shun all these childish lies u whores and slots are just using to cover up ur true identity, the real thing is that good girls are just scarce like diamonds...

Am a guy but dat question is some hw meaningless. ..
It's her past life she may not evn wnt to rememba it, coz some grls were rape, or force to do it. ..n her telling u may coz negative effects on d relationship. ..real men wouldn't ask silly question....

Sometimes there are Qs u let go, it might look similar because most of these ladies r bbeen abused by their close friend or relative and they ll later make it a family affairs *my point* if you dnt really agree to this act report to the nearest police station or any NGO, this will reduce the crime and it wouldn't be a trending issues amongs ladies

Thou it is Unnecessary, but guys do ask abt it. But most girls will tell you they were raped. Funny thou

my fellow men leave all these lies that these whores and slots tell,they are just covering up their empty selfs,why not just accept the simple fact that you willingly gave up ur virginity to ur guy, guilt causes lies,a good girl never gives it up,leave all these loose girls, the real thing is that good girls are scarce like diamonds...

They feel by telling us they were rape by an uncle we will believe them.They willingly gave it to him cos they were ho.rny.

Chubbiehills:
..With the cases of molestation here and there, remember that this victims will grow up and if this same answer is given,that means you won't believe them.. 70% of Nigerian's girls are victims of molestation, it is only some of these men are caught...

Lies from the pit of hell

Find some other question to ask cos this one is not necessary

How much can you invest in a lady to make how a better person is a nice question

YourMain:


Lol . I don't need to lie.

Princess, everytime am sad I just look at ur dp and I willl alrite. U really pweetie, pls d next miss NL, go for it and let me be ur manager(campaign) and midolian will be d vice.
U look like a goddess, if u from my village, dey will worship u.

Edusouls:
Shut up,the past never stays dead,you women think that all those past dirty lives of urs is written off,of course not,it lingers and follows u for lifetime and surely into the home thats why most marriages today are full of scandals and they fail,so we men should always ask and be concious of the past of the person we are commiting our future with, cos we dont want to end up with women with various curses...

I'm sorry, but u didn't have to say shut up, kindly hold on to your past, dig as much as u can about her life, may no curse come to you. It is a choice that God has given to all mankind. If God has forgiven and blotted out my past and given me a new path, I don't see why I shouldn't run with it.

I love to stay and chat on this topic but I got to go to work. ciao.

leGeExus:
u get the questn buh u don dey say smt else o....the post hit u somewhere i gueSs

Nothing else, just being me. I believe in success and moving forward, if that question or activity is not helping in that direction, please shove it and move on.

It can be simply describe as insecurity. She doesn't know why you ask that question. It's possible you've heard a tale about her from whatever source or maybe you re just being inquisitive. So she employs that gimmick to settle your curiosity.

Adaeze003:
Uhm... some girls were raped as children especially those who lived in the face me I face you houses. Even those who grew up with a silver spoon got molested one way or the other under their own roof. Should I even mention the "daddy and mummy" games?

It shouldn't come as a shock to anyone with the kind of men we have in the society...

I'll always tell parents to know where their kids are at all times.

Lies...Most 9ja girls(75%) gave up their virginity in their conscious mind

Nigerian society. Very short sighted people. Smh

To parents reading this, a very high percentage of people who disvirgined young girls comes from within and the near environment. Some of these girls usually say the truth, although in a twisted way so as to avoid being seen as loosed.Truth is your sisters usually are disvirgined by someone with in or close to tHe family.

By the way,Why ask such questions?

christinie:
pre marital sex is a taboo in my home. Thanks. Bye.

This hit me like a bomb blast. Your family must be a great one if what you said is anything to go by. Nowadays where pre-marital sex is seen as the norm.

Anjorson4sure:
If you have value for your relationship you will not border over non issue conversation. You should look for what the future hold for both of you not the past

Because no guy want to wife a hoe.So many runsgirls and hoe plays virgins when they retire from their jobs.

lawnreigh:
I find it difficult to believe how most ladies lie about how were disvirgined to their boyfriends/Fiancé and co, most times they usually lie, it's either they were raped by a neighbor when they were young or probably one brother in their area which makes it hard to even believe the one saying the truth because it seems to be the same lie trend among ladies.

Is there anything bad in telling your boyfriend how you were truly disvirgined by former boyfriends et al?

can you please tell us how you know that most ladies lied about how they were disvirgined? Are you there when they were disvirgined?

christinie:
Can you prove this allegation?

how is dat an allegation, most of us know dat it is true.

Lawsimon:
This hit me like a bomb blast. Your family must be a great one if what you said is anything to go by. Nowadays where pre-marital sex is seen as the norm.

why should it be the norm? It should be discouraged. Unmarried people should not be involved with sex. Am not here to preach though.

Why concern yourself about a woman's virginity and who opened it rather than what she is made of, who she is and what she could be around you? For your information! All the prostitutes you see everywhere were once virgins and later became paid slots. So my point is that what a woman has upstairs is the most important cuz it's only when her head is washed beyond her moral conscience that her legs opens. If your to be wife is still a virgin, she might be worse afterwards if she is not wise unto her self as a woman.

Is the question even necessary? Nairaland be dumbing Nigerians down.

Gurgle:
so the guy wont take them for a

you're asking this question. havent you seen the sheer volume of threads concerning female virginity on NL

if its you wont you do it

Thank you jare for saying the truth. No be all those yeye "why does he want to go to memoryt lane" answers. Some Ladies and yeye borrowed terms. Simple question, una dey write textbook as answer. It is simple, you do not want him to think you are a sl.ut who sleeps around!
Guys will tell you how it happened. I have never met a guy who ran away from this question.

cheechee16:
its fine when u want to know abt her previous relationships and not who deflowered her...cuz wen u finally know,ur mentality abt her changes
The qtn is nt necessary if u ask me,it can only bring up more qtns like a lady asking her man who disvirgined him and how many ladies has he disvirgined....c'mon shit happens!!!!

Isnt it better for a guy to know his gf past due to how our future wives are running after aristos and doing prostitution?We need to know our future wives waka-about in the past.

shaiba:


Nothing else, just being me. I believe in success and moving forward, if that question or activity is not helping in that direction, please shove it and move on.

Aiite,you have your point tho!

abat4real37:
can you please tell us how you know that most ladies lied about how they were disvirgined? Are you there when they were disvirgined?

It's because lying is their birthright

christinie:
why should it be the norm? It should be discouraged. Unmarried people should not be involved with sex. Am not here to preach though.

I used to preach like this, only that it didn't yield expected result. It seemed like I was just wasting my time and energy. I decided to quit.

To all u ladies that lost it in odd places eg under d stairs, in d bush, accept my appologies. Pls leave ur details @ d nearest police station so they can "try" to find ur virginity

lawnreigh:
I find it difficult to believe how most ladies lie about how were disvirgined to their boyfriends/Fiancé and co, most times they usually lie, it's either they were raped by a neighbor when they were young or probably one brother in their area which makes it hard to even believe the one saying the truth because it seems to be the same lie trend among ladies.

Is there anything bad in telling your boyfriend how you were truly disvirgined by former boyfriends et al?

shaiba:
that is past and the future is bright with him by her side. would it be fair to ask how he was disvirgined? why should it be of interest to him? would the answer make them richer or add more years to his life? Honestly I don't see how it can better the future of that relationship.

MOVE ON BRO

When an expected needled hole is a well and u don't see reasons why questions should be asked?