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| How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 7:42pm On Aug 29, 2015 |
Hello Niaralanders. How do you resolve conflicts/disagreements in your marriage? Do you discuss it quietly or with raised voices? Do you listen so as to know what to say or do you listen to understand him/her? Do you involve third parties? Can people look at your face and discern that there is an issue between man and wife? Do you approach conflict resolutions from 'my' or 'our' perspective? At what point do you pray about the issue? Pls let's discuss. You never know how helpful your comment could be to someone. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Nobody: 7:44pm On Aug 29, 2015 |
Avoiding third party and outside interference.. Avoiding break in communication during period of conflict.. Avoiding physical methods like fighting and raining abuse. Then applying patience and remembering how much love use to exist because sometimes relationships and marriage defies logic and intelligence. 43 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Aug 29, 2015 |
The children does not us. Looking at them, u can't just have issues. 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by kennynelcon(m): 7:57pm On Aug 29, 2015 |
Forgiveness
Tolerance
and Communication. I'm not married anyway. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by teeboo: 7:58pm On Aug 29, 2015 |
We discuss it quietly, hubby knws raising his voice will get me more angry,we made it an habit not to keep malice,each party admit wen wrong and apologise dats all. No third party,no neighbour to come settle fight. 40 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by ronald4lif(m): 8:06pm On Aug 29, 2015 |
Why limit it to the married  |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 8:13pm On Aug 29, 2015 |
runzlord:wow. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 8:13pm On Aug 29, 2015 |
ronald4lif:only the married have spouses 60 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 8:14pm On Aug 29, 2015 |
teeboo:cool. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 8:32pm On Aug 29, 2015 |
kennynelcon: hmmmn I pray you practice these when u get married. 5 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Yustash001(m): 9:03pm On Aug 29, 2015 |
Here to read elders' comments... 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 9:22pm On Aug 29, 2015 |
Yustash001:Make your comment while we wait for the elders. |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 7:22am On Aug 30, 2015 |
All the ghosts viewing this thread make una dey comment
na. make your presence known. 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by McEwen(m): 1:39pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Brb |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Nobody: 1:39pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
 Here to read comments...  *brings out writing pad*  1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by kulobyno: 1:39pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Ok |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by timilehing(m): 1:39pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Some people don't just want to be happy in any relationship. No matter how hard you try to settle conflicts or minimize its occurrence, they won't yield. I do wonder if they're from Mars. Talking from experience 9 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by An2elect2(f): 1:40pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Lol. Do we have mummies and daddies here  1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by kennyman2000(m): 1:40pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
This topic has made frontpage before and here's the post of a moniker and that post sticked to my brain since then and i dont think i can ever forget as i gave it to a friend and it worked for her.. Here's the moniker response.. Whenever hubby is yelling, saying, we've to do it this way, that way and she doesnt want it that way.. She'll allow him to yell, say all whatever he wants to say and not utter a word. Later, when he's calm.. She'll now go and meet him, pray for him to pacify him and also for him to be focused on what she's come to discuss and then explain to him calmly on why they've to do it her own way.. Note: not that, she'll go and say, we've to do it this way.. What she does is to give him detailed reasons why her own way is the best, the advantages, disadvantages of her own method over him own. As soon as she's done explaining to him.. She'll sharply reach for his di ck, bring it out and started handling and playing with it and the man will just start laughing and thats all.. Gave this tip to a female friend and she came back to give thanks.. Check my signature for ur customised wristbands. 22 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by youngwarlocks: 1:40pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
ok |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by powerfulsettingz: 1:40pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
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| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by captainprogress(m): 1:41pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
some persons can be very unreasonable, just ensure u dont marry the wrong person. compatibility is a necessity... 15 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by princemillla(m): 1:41pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
We av a way we get talking like nothing ever happen subsequent, we both say sorry, Ithen carry on |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by MizMyColi(f): 1:41pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
You can state dearly and firmly how you feel or what you think without showing aggressiveness or defensiveness. Have you noticed that you have this need to always be right? You should have a rethink. It is a form of violence. You need to watch out for any tendency to mindfully defend an entity or image with some voracious passion. If you take a step back and watch your mind in that particular state of unconsciousness, you will be able to dis-identify from such tendencies, as your consciousness of being from which love, joy, peace and everything good flows from takes over. This is the end of all arguments and POWER GAMES, which are so corrosive to relationships. Remember this always, Power over others is weakness disguised as strength. True power is within, and it is available to you now. - Excrerpts from https://www.nairaland.com/2500091/power-now-eckhart-tolle-book 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by timawoku(m): 1:41pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
I don't really know how we do it, sometimes we can go from 200MPH to 0, last time we were in a heated arguement, I called her 'egyptian coconut', we both looked at ourselves and busted into laughter. Another time, she was on my neck, things got heated up and she came up to me, I told her not to smack her lips again as it was turning me on, she smiled and I grabbed her, we were giggling and you know the rest... Bottom line is, know how to end a conflict by understanding your partner, not hitting below the belt, respecting one another, as well as making loads of love, its one of the best marriage gifts! 38 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Dacman(m): 1:42pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
With sex  |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by kamez(m): 1:42pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
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| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by bolajioginni: 1:43pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Omo na beating your spouse sure passs ooo...... 5 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Timoleon(m): 1:43pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
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| Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by allanphash7(m): 1:43pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
After serious of arguement then bed things Op u know now |
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