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Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Nobody: 2:54pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
teeboo:Kudos....3rd Party would only take side, add pepper and salt and ultimately be glad that things get worst. Diplomacy, Openness, Patience and communication are the keys to lasting relationship. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Nobody: 2:54pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
timawoku: I'm envious of your marriage.. Understanding is key here. More laughter and sweet lovemaking in your marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Nnemuka(f): 2:55pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
kennyman2000:ewwwwww dont make me puke..... so when its his turn to explain why things should go his way, he would equally bring out her breast and play with it? |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by homirefacuny(m): 3:03pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Mekzmoney:You did all this to your gf..... What if na your wife?? |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by kennyman2000(m): 3:05pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Nnemuka: Thats the wife method.. Dont know of the husband method, but the husband must surely have his own method. What we're talking about here is how each spouse resolve their conflicts and i only have that of the female method which i shared. |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Nobody: 3:05pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
lonelydora: Aww thanks, my mirrors agree with you. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by tunde1200(m): 3:07pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
nice one. timawoku: |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Urine: 3:11pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
kennyman2000: |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by bummyla(m): 3:19pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
privately in the bedroom! http://www.bummyla.com |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by missmalachi: 3:51pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
we hav a silent rule that no mata how angry we ar,we dont raise our voice on each other n wen visitors come around,we act lik d sweet couple we r n entertain them.non of us feel to big to apologize to each oda,hs anger does nt stop him 4rm eating neither stop me 4rm askin him wat I shld cook 4 him.most times,after morning devotion we just forget we wer hvin issues. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by tunwumi: 4:01pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
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Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by litetias(m): 4:07pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
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Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by TLAX: 4:07pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Lateralmaths: Just discuss in an open, non judgemental way and be prepared to let common sense prevail. Usually, raised voices are distractions and puts both of you on defensive mode. ...and this last bit for guys, make sure the disagreement does not degenerate to malice, cold war, no speaking terms etc. because you are destined to lose this one. Its unfamiliar territory for you but its built into your spouse/partners DNA and you will most likely loose. Better you make your peace if you are wrong than be forced to eat the humble pie. Trust me! 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by flokii: 4:20pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
oya all dose wey don get Spouse.. make una come yarn ewo lewo.. |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 4:30pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
timilehing:How do you end up with such a spouse? |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 4:32pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
kennyman2000: hmmm that's exploitation. |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 4:34pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
captainprogress:spot on |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 4:37pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
MizMyColi:wow. everyone should learn this. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 4:39pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
timawoku:I love this. |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by boxypane(m): 4:39pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Its obvious that without maturity to a reasonable extent, marriage wouldn't occur in the 1st place. As for US, our understanding of each other helps us go through issues without raising voices on each other. I believe in Understanding and Trust and Patience. It works anyways. |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 4:41pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Dacman:Dangerous. Your method treats the symptoms and ignores the cause. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 4:42pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
bolajioginni:I know say you dey joke if not I would have said you belong to the medieval ages. |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 4:44pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Timoleon:and what follows after that? 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 4:45pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
allanphash7:Is that what resolves the conflict? Na wa o |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by BCJAY(f): 4:45pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
madridguy:thanks bro, i feel relieve a bit for such comment coming from a muslim. I think i should just continue taking it easy although its sometimes frustrating, i believe he doesnt live the true muslim life and as you ask whether he is a muslim or mumeen i think it is MUSLIM tanx. |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 4:47pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Chestar5:Could you pls give us examples of biblical methods? |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by eagleccentric(m): 4:48pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Reading thru all ur posts only confirms one fact, whats gud for a may not necessarily be gud for b, but what stands out is the fact that there's always a way out. Thats why i'm not a believer in marriage counselling because we are all different and there is no one formula dat works for all. Someone once told me dat God created quarrel for husband and wife. How true dat statement is. There will always be conflict in marriage, but every successfully resolved conflict will serve to make it better. On third party involvement?? Hmm!! Sometimes third party must be involved, but the key is limit it as much as possible. And in the instance when they come, for the sake of peace and tomorrow, watch what you say. Don't say what will ruin your spouse reputation. He/she may never forgive. In all, marriage is a blessing. I believe that after salvation, the next best thing God gives is a good home. But truth is, it takes hard work... 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 4:49pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
lonelydora:Do you also acknowledge your wrongs and apologize when you are wrong? |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 4:50pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
evegran:boyfriend and husband na two different levels o |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by lonelydora: 4:50pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Lateralmaths:Yes oooooo. I love my beautiful wife so much, so i apologize when im wrong. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 4:51pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
xeeco:Wow. My favourite so far. God bless ur home. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Resolve Conflicts/disagreements With Your Spouse? by Lateralmaths(m): 4:54pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
evegran: Would really love it if you could explain your points further. I believe many of us will learn from further explanation. Thanks |
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