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Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by danbrowndmf(m): 1:40pm On Sep 12, 2015
Aminat508:
Most women really don't care whether you have money or not. That may seem shocking, but it's true. cool


What women do care about is HOW YOU MAKE US FEEL. kiss

You need to be able to give us an EXPERIENCE. You can do this with money - but sometimes it works even better to do it without money . not only sex matter abegi grin

there is more to the equation than cash YES

Show us love, care, nd be contented.

Mae West once said, "A man can be short and dumpy and getting bald but if he has fire, women will like him." A man with "fire" gives women good experiences that they remember. And those experiences do NOT have to cost a lot of money
talk for urself mir
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by AGB7(m): 1:41pm On Sep 12, 2015
Omotayor123:
But most ladies tend to see money first before any other things..
na hunger cos am. True.
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by misspicy(f): 1:42pm On Sep 12, 2015
Cutehector:
lol if I ddnt read dem, I wouldn't hav told u nice comments...
Oh so sorry,i didnt see the nice comment part...


buh arnt u afraid guys will accuse u of supporting girls u dnt know offline,no let jollyjoy,mystage and profojah see this o grin
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by danbrowndmf(m): 1:43pm On Sep 12, 2015
Jollyjoy:
the fact that you grow up with that awkward mentality that ''ladies are bought by money'' those not mean those contradicting that believe are liars...get that straight.
talk for yourself.. I know a girl in this forum that has bodly say she's dating for money....talk for urself mir
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by danbrowndmf(m): 1:47pm On Sep 12, 2015
EggovinMma:
My body no be firewood nne!
lols...Shey u know fit date man wey know get money na?
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by janefrancisca(f): 1:47pm On Sep 12, 2015
Emilyhills:

Make I check your picshure godu. cool cool
wetin u wan use pikshur do? smiley
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Kennydoc(m): 1:48pm On Sep 12, 2015
FruityLass:
90% for money?

8% for sex?

2% for support?

What kinda olosho survey is this.


So there are no hardworking, selfdepedent and career driven ladies.

Ok

Don't mind her. She didn't even include those who are genuinely planning for marriage.
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by danbrowndmf(m): 1:52pm On Sep 12, 2015
adeh39:


You are observing from kids not mature ladies angry
so all those Nigerian actress who say dy can't date poor man ,u are more mature than them?





E ye ma so I so Ku so mir
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by ladyF(f): 1:52pm On Sep 12, 2015
Omotayor123:
Ladies where are you Guys Abeg give ladies space.
Introvert and ladyF una dey run tongue
Aminat508 no laugh for this matter ooo. Oya modify undecided
Lol lemme read comments on this one *spreads mat* grin
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by thelish(f): 1:52pm On Sep 12, 2015
In most cases, the money is d number one thing for babes. Na d way u spend for dem pass, love dey later enter. Some might be working, but they still feel the guy is entitled to caring for their needs. U see babes managing a cheating n useless boyfriend the guy is spending on them. The most painful part is dat some are from well to do families. When I was dating my hubby in school, I know how many stroking I take from friends cos I was helping out with cash. they said I was a disgrace to womanhood. And I ask them if boyfriend don turn automatically to my dad, to cater for me. Babes will always listen to a guy driving range rover evoque, weda Na him get am or not, than listen to a guy dat is trekking. Abeg I don tire to type. anybody doubting, should go out there n do d survey.

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Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by ruffDiamond: 1:54pm On Sep 12, 2015
grin
feran15:
90%? please what kind of people do you move with?
she is dead right grin I,d put it around 95 % and I'm dead certain u are among those abeg leave the forming' for the marine grin The remaining 5% are probably still in infancy .nowadays, there are different category of OLOSHO among naija gals now even young lady still under their parents can be rightly described as OLOSHO in their relationship style with guys for two major reason


1 if u depend on yr boyfriend for nearly all of yr NEEDS u can be labelled liability or a probem but may not necessarily be called OLOSHO

2. If u had to use sex as bargaining chip to get what u want by outrightly DEMANDING ,ANTICIPATING AND OR EVEN EXPECTING MONETARY REWARD for sex that's consensual and gratifying to both party involved MAKE A CONFIRMED OLOSHO cos that's what a prostitute does :money for hand, yansh for ground tongue

2 if ANY LADY,for WHATEVER REASON at all HAS MORE THAN ONE BOYFRIEND THE IT GOES WITHOUT SAYING SHE'S ALREADY BECOME A LADY OF EASY VIRTUE!!



These are the bane of our gals at the moment it's saddening to think they are more than ready to do all these for the flitting pleasure and fake glam lifestyle of the moment in exchange for godly virtuous living,finding true love,fulfilling relationship and lasting happiness as was the norm in the day of our mothers

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Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by sulmeza(m): 1:54pm On Sep 12, 2015
misspicy:
..

This is the answer on every girls lips,so niggaz keep ur fvcking money to yourselves,spend it on your families and h**s,use it to attain success....not coming to spew trash on nairaland....



Besides all this school boys, corpers and job seekers wey dey Nairaland so,how much money do you af that y'all claiming you spend on girls,your parents are still giving you money yet you will claim you are giving girls money,please how much is your allowance sef


And Op expect this thread on FP anytym.from now
Lalasticlala loves my postsgrin
dis gal get bad mouth...hahah.. undecided
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by 4stylz: 1:55pm On Sep 12, 2015
adeh39:


Painful truth?

U must be joking...... sad

Deal with it
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by eipreel(f): 1:55pm On Sep 12, 2015
i have a boyfriend because i need him to teach me mathematics undecided

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Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Sep 12, 2015
danbrowndmf:
so all those Nigerian actress who say dy can't date poor man ,u are more mature than them?





E ye ma so I so Ku so mir

Age is not maturity smiley
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by 4stylz: 1:58pm On Sep 12, 2015
misspicy:
..

This is the answer on every girls lips,so niggaz keep ur fvcking money to yourselves,spend it on your families and h**s,use it to attain success....not coming to spew trash on nairaland....



Besides all this school boys, corpers and job seekers wey dey Nairaland so,how much money do you af that y'all claiming you spend on girls,your parents are still giving you money yet you will claim you are giving girls money,please how much is your allowance sef


And Op expect this thread on FP anytym.from now
Lalasticlala loves my postsgrin

How much have you made in your life
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by danbrowndmf(m): 1:58pm On Sep 12, 2015
thelish:
In most cases, the money is d number one thing for babes. Na d way u spend for dem pass, love dey later enter. Some might be working, but they still feel the guy is entitled to caring for their needs. U see babes managing a cheating n useless boyfriend the guy is spending on them. The most painful part is dat some are from well to do families. When I was dating my hubby in school, I know how many stroking I take from friends cos I was helping out with cash. they said I was a disgrace to womanhood. And I ask them if boyfriend don turn automatically to my dad, to cater for me. Babes will always listen to a guy driving range rover evoque, weda Na him get am or not, than listen to a guy dat is trekking. Abeg I don tire to type. anybody doubting, should go out there n do d survey.


Cc Aminat
Misspicy
Adeh39





Your fellow girl already accept u girls more more attention to range rover guys
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Nobody: 1:59pm On Sep 12, 2015
nonsense survey!!!!! what of single ladies [b]nonsense survey!!!!! what of single ladies [/b]nonsense survey!!!!! what of single ladies
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by danbrowndmf(m): 1:59pm On Sep 12, 2015
adeh39:


Age is not maturity smiley
you said 16 to 17yrs old..so I gave you older pple.



Next time talk for yourself mir
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by ishiamu(m): 2:00pm On Sep 12, 2015
misspicy:
..

This is the answer on every girls lips,so niggaz keep ur fvcking money to yourselves,spend it on your families and h**s,use it to attain success....not coming to spew trash on nairaland....



Besides all this school boys, corpers and job seekers wey dey Nairaland so,how much money do you af that y'all claiming you spend on girls,your parents are still giving you money yet you will claim you are giving girls money,please how much is your allowance sef


And Op expect this thread on FP anytym.from now
Lalasticlala loves my postsgrin

You seriously need senses
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Nobody: 2:00pm On Sep 12, 2015
Omotayor123:
They said guys go into relationships for sex And intimacy(How True) ... Why then do ladies go into relationships Especially those that will tell you they are not ready for marriage.


A friend told me courtship is a scam and fraud. He said if I guy tells you " I want to court you" it's tantamount to saying "I want to sex you" And I agreed with him on that as I have seen a marriage that didn't last six months after 10 years of courtship And a Marriage of no courtship that lasts for Eternity.!

I realized *from personal survey* that :

90%of ladies have boyfriends for monetary/financial benefits *imagine a girl telling her boyfriend "You can't be sexing me for free* (how's she different from a prostitute).
And they tend to dump the guy sorry as$ should he default in meeting up with their demand. And move on to the next victim.

What happened to Being self Independent

8% of ladies have boyfriend for sex. *Imagine a single lady coming to social media to lament about how she's being sex starved. (lipsrsealed) when does pre marital sex become a necessity undecided

What happened to Abstinence till Marriage

2% of ladies have boyfriend for support. They need someone they can talk to and share things with.

Which category Did you Belong



P. S. I stand to be corrected. No bashing or derailing please.
Let us Interact in a Mature Manner.
. [/color]
Girl, you've nailed your fellow girls and I'm so astonished. cheesy

Thanks for enlightening a guy like me because i'm somehow inexperienced when it comes to dating.

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Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by 4stylz: 2:02pm On Sep 12, 2015
ellacute45:
nonsense survey!!!!! what of single ladies [b]nonsense survey!!!!! what of single ladies [/b]nonsense survey!!!!! what of single ladies

I am sure you are waiting for a rich man b4 u date

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Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Nobody: 2:07pm On Sep 12, 2015
danbrowndmf:



Cc Aminat
Misspicy
Adeh39





Your fellow girl already accept u girls more more attention to range rover guys

undecided

That's her opinion not mine cool
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Nobody: 2:08pm On Sep 12, 2015
4stylz:


I am sure you are waiting for a rich man b4 u date
She feels so disappointed right now grin

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Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by janefrancisca(f): 2:11pm On Sep 12, 2015
danbrowndmf:
so all those Nigerian actress who say dy can't date poor man ,u are more mature than them?





E ye ma so I so Ku so mir
U should know maturity is not about age. Those actress, some of them are just high class ashis using the industry to showcase themselves. While some are so use to living above their means and so they need a money bag that will also foot their bills. Some still date rich men because others are dating rich dudes too. There are some career ladies that are earning big but still av so many rich boyfriends...so sometimes its not all about age,status etc but the issue of materialism,greed and trends that is in the system.
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by danbrowndmf(m): 2:12pm On Sep 12, 2015
adeh39:


undecided

That's her opinion not mine cool
and that was why I said "Talk for yourself"
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by danbrowndmf(m): 2:13pm On Sep 12, 2015
janefrancisca:
U should know maturity is not about age. Those actress, some of them are just high class ashis using the industry to showcase themselves. While some are so use to living above their means and so they need a money bag that will also foot their bills. Some still date rich men because others are dating rich dudes too. There are some career ladies that are earning big but still av so many rich boyfriends...so sometimes its not all about age,status etc but the issue of materialism,greed and trends that is in the system.
what's your point exactly?
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by feran15(m): 2:13pm On Sep 12, 2015
ruffDiamond:
;Dshe is dead right grin I,d put it around 95 % and I'm dead certain u are among those abeg leave the forming' for the marine grin The remaining 5% are probably still in infancy .nowadays, there are different category of OLOSHO among naija gals now even young lady still under their parents can be rightly described as OLOSHO in their relationship style with guys for two major reason


1 if u depend on yr boyfriend for nearly all of yr NEEDS u can be labelled liability or a probem but may not necessarily be called OLOSHO

2. If u had to use sex as bargaining chip to get what u want by outrightly DEMANDING ,ANTICIPATING AND OR EVEN EXPECTING MONETARY REWARD for sex that's consensual and gratifying to both party involved MAKE A CONFIRMED OLOSHO cos that's what a prostitute does :money for hand, yansh for ground tongue

2 if ANY LADY,for WHATEVER REASON at all HAS MORE THAN ONE BOYFRIEND THE IT GOES WITHOUT SAYING SHE'S ALREADY BECOME A LADY OF EASY VIRTUE!!



These are the bane of our gals at the moment it's saddening to think they are more than ready to do all these for the flitting pleasure and fake glam lifestyle of the moment in exchange for godly virtuous living,finding true love,fulfilling relationship and lasting happiness as was the norm in the day of our mothers




am a dude
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Nobody: 2:14pm On Sep 12, 2015
adeh39:

undecided
That's her opinion not mine cool
It's now her opinion, huh?
You better accept the truth.

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Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by holysina(m): 2:21pm On Sep 12, 2015
Emilyhills:

You are reasoning my brother. 3Bottles for you!

origin or hernesy wink
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by passionate88: 2:22pm On Sep 12, 2015
FruityLass:
90% for money?
8% for sex?
2% for support?
What kinda olosho survey is this.

So there are no hardworking, selfdepedent and career driven ladies.
Ok
In Nigeria?.
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by janefrancisca(f): 2:23pm On Sep 12, 2015
danbrowndmf:
what's your point exactly?
its clear...some gals date for money but definitely not 90% while some date for other reasons.

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