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Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Truckpusher(m): 1:33pm On Sep 23, 2015
MrsChima:


Yrah...you are. wink

Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Truckpusher(m): 1:37pm On Sep 23, 2015
Trypa:





Lol truckpusher but it's the truth they will come to insult her but mi them off line n see what they do with married men nonsense
Na so nau. grin

I've met a girl that specifically told me that she prefers married men, citing that relationships between singles usually comes with too many dramas. grin

I just taya and I was able to figure out what she was talking about. cheesy

some girls no get joy at all. grin

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Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by MrsChima(f): 1:38pm On Sep 23, 2015
Truckpusher:
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African men love citing violence. undecided

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Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Truckpusher(m): 1:39pm On Sep 23, 2015
MrsChima:


African men love citing violence. undecided
Olodo, she can't even quote properly. tongue

I knew you would fall for it.

Oya take am

Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by MrsChima(f): 1:40pm On Sep 23, 2015
Truckpusher:
Olodo, she can't even quote properly. tongue

I knew you would fall for it.

Oya take am

Quote these nuts woman beater!

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Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by freecocoa(f): 1:40pm On Sep 23, 2015
Truckpusher:
Hard to believe.
Believe it because it's true.wink
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Truckpusher(m): 1:42pm On Sep 23, 2015
MrsChima:


Quote these nuts woman beater!
Of course we only beat you in those delicate areas that has a bittersweet feeling.

Come over here lemme spank your tiny ass. grin
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Truckpusher(m): 1:43pm On Sep 23, 2015
freecocoa:
Believe it because it's true.wink
You've got to prove it. grin
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Appareil(m): 1:53pm On Sep 23, 2015
May the Lord deliver you from the hook!!! Satan hide behide though it is so sweet.
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by freecocoa(f): 1:55pm On Sep 23, 2015
Truckpusher:
You've got to prove it. grin
It's already proven, duh!
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by MarieSucre(f): 1:57pm On Sep 23, 2015
He waited so long before telling you the truth. That is one gigantic red flag draping the sky. Put yourself in her shoes(the first wife).
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Truckpusher(m): 1:58pm On Sep 23, 2015
freecocoa:
It's already proven, duh!
Gerara here menh....shiit! cheesy
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by ifemuyiwa(f): 2:04pm On Sep 23, 2015
kingofpool:
Dnt mind that useless thing, see as she even open her odour manufacturing company(mouth) self the talk am.
She asked for advise nt insult. moreover, she never knew he was married when she fell in love. Dnt act innocent dear, face reality. No offense pls

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Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by freecocoa(f): 2:05pm On Sep 23, 2015
Truckpusher:
Gerara here menh....shiit! cheesy
You are gonna miss me when am gone.cheesy

Bye.
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by mastasam(m): 2:05pm On Sep 23, 2015
if u r a Christian d bible says u should do unto odas wat u want odas to do unto u bt dats only for those who have conscious.
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Truckpusher(m): 2:12pm On Sep 23, 2015
freecocoa:
You are gonna miss me when am gone.cheesy

Bye.
I got the message - You're not going anywhere.

In fact I'm already beside you - Just turn around. wink
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Emodeee: 2:27pm On Sep 23, 2015
Missmossy:
Oh Lord!!!



Are they still ladies like this? Its so obvious your love is based on his wealth. No wonder you are obsessed with him grin grin he took you out of 'Nigeria shore' very funny!




Are u different from her?
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by amunkita(m): 2:45pm On Sep 23, 2015
honeygirl17:

Mohammed , you like

Leave the moham call me Med..


Ur boii meni*
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 2:47pm On Sep 23, 2015
That man is not your husband! The earlier you leave him alone, the better for you. I deduced from your post that you are infatuated with him, you enjoy the nice things he does for you and feel you owe him, hence your staying on in a make-believe love web. Snap out of it, you are better than playing second best in any man's life. All straying married men always lie about their wives. I met someone once who lied he wasn't married (meanwhile he was married with 2 children), I refused dating that man, something in me saw he was very shady. I did my investigations and found out all that he was hiding, I gave him a stern warning to keep off. My life and peace of mind is paramount. I put it to you that that your lover won't divorce his wife. In most cases, such men fear their wives and are speechless at home. If the woman he married was not good enough, why would he go on to have more kids? Fear God!!! Avoid married men. Their wives would either be praying dangerous prayers for you or go diabolic (babalawo things). Some Vindictive wives would even pay someone to kill you or deform you. Do not take what is not yours, your own would locate you if you trust God. Be wise.
VICTORIA91:
Dear NL,

I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded.

At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one.

He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins).

I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself....

Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED.
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by freecocoa(f): 2:52pm On Sep 23, 2015
Truckpusher:
I got the message - You're not going anywhere.

In fact I'm already beside you - Just turn around. wink
Lol, seriously you no well.cheesy

I'm going jor.
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by chichriso: 2:58pm On Sep 23, 2015
you are so wicked for trying to ruin another woman's family, God will punish you for that if you continue following that ''blind'' man
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Mariojane(f): 3:39pm On Sep 23, 2015
that is what married guys tell ladies to deceive them. he aint divorcing his wife. all what he did for you is a normal thing any guy can do for any girl either there is true love or fake love.
my advice: move on with your life and get your own man. don't break anyone's home cos KARMA is a Bi.tch
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by kulay1(m): 4:02pm On Sep 23, 2015
he is caring & loving translates to 'he is loaded and spend on you' Nigerian girls and their materialism....smh
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Missmossy(f): 4:26pm On Sep 23, 2015
Emodeee:


Are u different from her?
Bleep off my mentions angry


Wonder what planet you are from.

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Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Emodeee: 4:28pm On Sep 23, 2015
Missmossy:

Bleep off my mentions angry



Wonder what planet you are from.



She don vex o.......


U know I'm doing all these because I luv u.
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by zanga420: 4:37pm On Sep 23, 2015
oizapendent:


Thank you for this sensible speech....Hypocrite everywhere!!!
its so disgusting in this country. Do background check on all the insulters, majority of them are with one married/family man or the other n vice versa. Shioor!!!

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Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by KingTom(m): 4:39pm On Sep 23, 2015
Missmossy:

Bleep off my mentions angry



Wonder what planet you are from.
shocked shocked shocked
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by benzion72(m): 4:44pm On Sep 23, 2015
Dear Lady, I am not suprised you fell for his handsomeness and cash which you do not know its genesis and the first wife did. Please do not be carried away with his sweet talk that is 1730 trick of married men always condemning their wive to enter under skirt of ladies. It made me remember my friend that I called T that was his antics. And gullible women do buy cheaply into such word. Honestly you have been conned. I am sure the man may have use you successfully in your last journey with him to courier some hard drug unknown to you. And if you are not careful you may find yourself in real mess. There is no free launch even in free town
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by SeverusSnape(m): 5:15pm On Sep 23, 2015
humilitypays:
Let me believe she didn't know...but then, let me give ladies ready to listen and learn some brotherly advice:

if you meet a Nigerian guy who is 33 years and above, and financially buoyant with high-paying job or business, please have it in mind that the chances of him being married is 90% or more, and u know why?

In Nigeria, except a guy comes from a wealthy family and inherits wealth from his parents, there is no way a Nigerian guy could be rich and single at 33 and above!

Guys start becoming financially stable in Nigeria from the age of 30 and above....and before they get to the age of 35, they get into a committed relationship or most times marriage.

Though there are few exceptions, but not too rampant in Nigeria.

Due to our harsh economy and long educational/NYSC system, majority of Nigerian guys start becoming financially buoyant from 30yrs and above and by that time, they are either married or in a committed relationship to marry. Except for few guys who were fortunate to make money on time either via Yahoo Yahoo, drug business, sheddy business or ICT....and who may have been unfortunate with women....which is the only reason a Nigerian guy could be 33, rich and still single with no wife or fiancee.

Back to the topic, she said they met online....which usually starts from one of them sending the other a friend request, a private message or an instant chat message....whichever it is, she must have gone through his profile, checked his profile pictures and more to know his worth and outlook....of course that's what ladies do first before responding to a guy's chat, friend request or PM on any online platform....and reason most guys take time to edit their profile and upload the best of their photos to entice the ladies they will be reaching out to.

So, you can't tell me she fell in love with him because of any other thing aside an initial pictorial or profilic impression based on what the guy wrote about himself on the platform they met, so she fell for him for his wealthy outlook of course...she can't swear against this assumption.

Its high time ladies start being honest that what attract them most in a guy nowadays is his financial worth or financially outlook (from the way he dressed, the car he drives, the house he lives, where he works, etc)......just as men are blunt with what attracts them to a lady first- physical beauty!

Men are diggers of physical beauty and maybe good character whereas women are diggers of money and material things....its that simple, so why do ladies try to form innocence?
Best comment of the thread

I hope VICTORIA91 read this!

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Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by MDanjay: 5:21pm On Sep 23, 2015
Be careful you're in lust with a married man not love wait for yours ehhhh
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 6:20pm On Sep 23, 2015
david22uu:

Person papa for that matter... #comonsense
common sense they say, is not common

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Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by donodion(m): 7:44pm On Sep 23, 2015
grin grin grin see as dem dey condemn her...Hypocrites!!!

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