x6blade:
This story brings anger to me. It's similar to my story I disvirgined my girlfriend but after some months I had to travel out of the country after 2 months this girl slept with another guy I was very suspicious and I questioned her which she confessed to. I broke up with her faster than the speed of light it took her 3 months of begging to get me back. But ever since then I don't see her the same way , and I always have this thought that there's always a guy in the corner. I know I wouldn't stay long in the relationship as I feel nothing.

repogirl:
Well...... Anybody can cheat, there is no saint anywhere..... This all comes down to your friend's instinct and conviction. Your friend should follow his mind because she may truly have changed or she may not.


Only him knows the girl, no one here does but I can assure you that chick lied saying that she only slept with that compound guy once.... ......cos if a virgin slept with a guy once, she wouldn't go running to her main guy immediately.... She and her compound guy might have done it a few times although she might lie to her main guy so that he doesn't feel too bad.

Anyway, that she slept with someone else doesn't mean much, people make mistakes but if they are willing to sincerely change, they should be forgiven.

So tell your friend to consider other factors, like her attitude and other stuff... Like I said earlier, only him knows who she really is and his instincts should lead his decisions.
Goodluck

By the way, I just got my next short story idea from this, lol.

kunleajao:
This is my first time commenting her but always been following on this forum. Hmmmmmm this world sha wonders sha neva end this same things happen to me too my girl claim to be a virgin wish I accpeted later I found that she was nt a virgin wish I question her on it @ the initial she said she was raped u kno love now I stil accept her cos I love then. Later she did somethings wish makes me not to believe her then she then told me she raped by her ex. My own piece of advice for advice for your he shuld 4give her and leave cos I tell she will still do it and evetually leave him by that time he go pain your friend. Cos am ought to have leave my girl the mother begged me wish I accepted later nko. Let your 4give her and later go they ar all fone of it I tell she will still do more than that quote me.

maxiuc:
Nonsense same thing happened to me lky they say had I know comes at last that will the girl words one day As for ur if he doesn't want to die young he should better leave that girl

Dozzmani:
Hello friends

I have been a reader in this forum for a while now,usually see the help through advise being given to people,which made me to bring this issue here because at this point,I don't know what exactly to tell this my guy becuase this issue is beyond me.

My friend has been dating his girlfriend for two years now,the babe is know to us(his friends) and his family as the only woman for him. It was a no sex relationship as the girl said her virginity is her pride. My guy accepted to wait till when they get married as he truly love this babe. Last year ending, one guy moved into the compound of this girl, that was when stories entered their beautiful relationship.

To cut the long story short, recently my guy's girlfriend that never wanted sex started disturbing him of sex, he was surprised about it, later agreed as she made him promise her to indulge in it with her. Alarm blew on the supposed day they were meant to have the sex as he wanted to cover his white sheets because of possible blood stains, she told him blood won't come out. He went in and blood never came out. Since then, she had been lying and swearing she was a virgin which my guy persisted she was not.

She opened up to him of recent that she lost it to the new guy in their compound who as of then almost made them to break up but was pleaded with him not to break the relationship by her aunt and some good friends of hers'.

She doesn't have anything to do with that guy she lost it to because the issue went out of proportion then in their compound, which made my guy to start growing faith in her again upon knowing she slept with that guy in her compound few times when she cheated with him.

She recently confessed to him she knew blood won't come out as she slept with the compound guy once before the day they had sex. The twist now is that who he met a virgin could not hold on to it for him but gave it away to another guy.he is questioning the girl's love on how she could have done such.he still loves her but can't say if he can trust her not to try such if eventually he marries her.she begged for forgiveness.but to be honest,I don't know what to say to this guy.

Please, friends, your candid advise will go a long way in shaping someone's future here as of life partner as he plans on getting married by next year ending..

tosyne2much:
You try to coarse a lady into sex, you are being tagged a person who's only in for sex



You practice celibacy, they still go at your back bleeping
somebody else


Ladies are confused set of beings and i doubt if God Himself understands them

Omotayor123:
Story for the gods

morethanadoll:
If I was him, I definitely wouldn't marry her at this point. Why would she choose to lose it with a complete stranger instead of her man? Some of these women that I read about on some of these posts are straight up sluts, man.

tellwisdom:


No dey whine me...Wha happened to you coming to my house to kiss me?

repogirl:
Well...... Anybody can cheat, there is no saint anywhere..... This all comes down to your friend's instinct and conviction. Your friend should follow his mind because she may truly have changed or she may not.


Only him knows the girl, no one here does but I can assure you that chick lied saying that she only slept with that compound guy once.... ......cos if a virgin slept with a guy once, she wouldn't go running to her main guy immediately.... She and her compound guy might have done it a few times although she might lie to her main guy so that he doesn't feel too bad.

Anyway, that she slept with someone else doesn't mean much, people make mistakes but if they are willing to sincerely change, they should be forgiven.

So tell your friend to consider other factors, like her attitude and other stuff... Like I said earlier, only him knows who she really is and his instincts should lead his decisions.
Goodluck

By the way, I just got my next short story idea from this, lol.

yaskarahyelhope:


Because d guy manage be virgin abi? Nonesense! Make e no forgive na. As e don taste d forbidden fruit, make e go taste taste others. See guys and selfishness O. If Na d guy, e go agree not to touch d supposed girl but will be frolicking outside. And claim he waited till d wedding night. Afterall U cant know a virgin man since there's nothing to check. Na because she confess to am no be so? After all she was actually a virgin. Aaaaaaaah! Men, guys, so-called gentlemen....

henribj:
better tell your friend not to proceed with that marriage o
he should just have his own share of the national cake and move ahead.

Flashh:
She starved the main guy sex but gave it to another guy just in few time of meeting him. That's very obnoxious mehn!

A guy should always have it in mind that the girl/lady he is dating might fúck-up anytime.

So that she won't hurt your feelings after cheating on you.

Dumping her will be like dumping a refuse without getting hurt because it doesn't comes like a surprise to you.

Dozzmani:
Hello friends

I have been a reader in this forum for a while now,usually see the help through advise being given to people,which made me to bring this issue here because at this point,I don't know what exactly to tell this my guy becuase this issue is beyond me.

My friend has been dating his girlfriend for two years now,the babe is know to us(his friends) and his family as the only woman for him. It was a no sex relationship as the girl said her virginity is her pride. My guy accepted to wait till when they get married as he truly love this babe. Last year ending, one guy moved into the compound of this girl, that was when stories entered their beautiful relationship.

To cut the long story short, recently my guy's girlfriend that never wanted sex started disturbing him of sex, he was surprised about it, later agreed as she made him promise her to indulge in it with her. Alarm blew on the supposed day they were meant to have the sex as he wanted to cover his white sheets because of possible blood stains, she told him blood won't come out. He went in and blood never came out. Since then, she had been lying and swearing she was a virgin which my guy persisted she was not.

She opened up to him of recent that she lost it to the new guy in their compound who as of then almost made them to break up but was pleaded with him not to break the relationship by her aunt and some good friends of hers'.

She doesn't have anything to do with that guy she lost it to because the issue went out of proportion then in their compound, which made my guy to start growing faith in her again upon knowing she slept with that guy in her compound few times when she cheated with him.

She recently confessed to him she knew blood won't come out as she slept with the compound guy once before the day they had sex. The twist now is that who he met a virgin could not hold on to it for him but gave it away to another guy.he is questioning the girl's love on how she could have done such.he still loves her but can't say if he can trust her not to try such if eventually he marries her.she begged for forgiveness.but to be honest,I don't know what to say to this guy.

Please, friends, your candid advise will go a long way in shaping someone's future here as of life partner as he plans on getting married by next year ending..

4stylz:
Don't forgive cos she will still cheat on you and plead with you; don't pity her, let her go.

henribj:
better tell your friend not to proceed with that marriage o
he should just have his own share of the national cake and move ahead.

4stylz:
Don't forgive cos she will still cheat on you and plead with you; don't pity her, let her go.