Tallesty1:
Abi?


I asked the same question in Facebook group yesterday and a guy from that village said that the reason it is applicable to only women is because the men paid their price(bride price).

Didn't make much sense to me but @ least they have a reason.

BIDOO:





And if the woman the perpetrator I mean resist to confess







His first born will dissipate from this earth





And u call that a culture?






Does that sound good for your ear







A part of bennin is a part of *make I no talk am sha*

Ranks007:
Aitee1 asuk abre uduibe

xynerise:
Many traditions have not been fair to the women. The men are free to cheat but the women can't because they are robots abi? Such tradition was created by a selfish man.

On the contrary, I heard that a tradition in Edo state is doing the opposite. A woman cheats and the husband dies

Tamee:


Easy dude Are we defending a term paper on gods and chauvinistic traditions huh
what's all that you typed up there? easy ok, chill out.

MizMyColi:
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MizMyColi:
Such tradition, whether it is applicable to man or woman, or both is simply barbaric and crude. It must be vehemently rejected. It promotes murder and oppression/bondage.

People should be free to make their choice and live with the consequence as meted to them by the cosmos.

It's really not in the place of any mortal (exceptions though) to determine who lives or dies.

Why destroy what you couldn't possibly create?

#MyTake

greatiyk4u:


Dis is because d men re free 2 be polygamous n not d other way round

Tallesty1:
A married woman was caught in the act here on Friday. It happened right in her husbands house so neighbours were there to witness what happened. I was there too to witness the taboo cause her husband was just shouting that whoever was around should come and witness a taboo.

Sha, that is not why I am writing this post.

What actually necessitated this post was a convo I had with a man on my way back.

Man: It is stuffs like this that makes me appreciate where I come from.

Me: Huh

Man: I appreciate my village the more anytime I hear or witness something like this because married women don't cheat on their husband in my place.

Me: How is that possible?

Man: They Know what would happen to them if they dare cheat on their husband.

Me: What will happen to them.

Man: If a married woman sleeps with another man, or collects money from another man, or spends her husband's money on another man without telling her husband, she will run mad.

Me: And if a man sleeps with another woman?

Man: Nothing, except the woman has a husband.



What he's saying in essence is that a married woman who sleeps with a man that is not her husband or collects money from a man who is not her relation or spends money on another man without informing her husband will lose her sanity. The madness is curable but she must confess her sins to regain her sanity.

So Nairalanders, what do you think of this people's tradition?

BTW, the man is from one village at obollo.

ibedun:


Hmmmm I believe!

Tallesty1:
You made it seem like all Nigeria men are Chauvinist, barbaric and women beaters.

That hurts the many of us who are against such traditions and ill-treatments that men dish out to women.

All the part bout amadioha were jokes anyways and I found the tradition rather funny, you would be shocked if I tell you how they divorce or punish their women.

I skipped that part in my post cause it a story for another day.

Cutehector:
Lol if dat kind of law was put in place in evry community in nigeria whch covers both men and women, den no one will cheat.

Atlantian:
Yes, as men, we must concentrate our efforts in making a lot of money, the more money we have, the less the probability that someone else might lay our wives. #Fact!

xynerise:
Many traditions have not been fair to the women. The men are free to cheat but the women can't because they are robots abi? Such tradition was created by a selfish man.

On the contrary, I heard that a tradition in Edo state is doing the opposite. A woman cheats and the husband dies

eherbal:
Because Some Women Are Very Loose. Why DO You Think Satan Approached Eve And Not Adam?

xynerise:
Many traditions have not been fair to the women. The men are free to cheat but the women can't because they are robots abi? Such tradition was created by a selfish man.

On the contrary, I heard that a tradition in Edo state is doing the opposite. A woman cheats and the husband dies

Tamee:


But people who cheat do so because they are selfish and nonchalant about the feelings of other people. Do you know you can be rich and your wife would pay a poor man with your money just to lay him.

Tamee:


Just catching fun
I'm far out of the reach of gods who kill women anyway, are you?

Atlantian:
My wife doesn't like poor people. There is a possibility that she could cheat with a popular American Actor above the level of Brad Pitt but with less money than me, but with a poor man ? The answer is "Not in this lifetime".

Tamee:


Ok. Your wife is a financial racist LOL
Just that some women who crave for bigger erm erm and attention spend their husband's money on poorer men who can satisfy them, that's why I said people cheat cos they just wanna cheat, has nothing to do with whoever they are cheating on most times.

ammyluv2002:
Back to sender!

Tallesty1:



In my village, if you know that your woman is cheating on you and yet you continue to eat her food, you will die.

A woman that cheats and refuses to confess will run mad or die.

But you are safe if you confess.


Being a woman is really had.

cococandy:

Those gods clean my house and I pay them.

Dem no reach.

Atlantian:
She is not on that league. She is a top model with a skin that poor people can go blind just seeing. Where she lives, poor people cant afford the toll at the city gate.

Tamee:


Ok, guess you have a green card then, that's the only way them gods will clean for you.