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Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Nobody: 8:20am On Dec 29, 2015 |
I just don't like bossy women...not loyal,always right on their own,not God fearing,they ridicule everybody including husband and children. I'm a man and always be bold no time to tolerate nonsense. 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by cococandy(f): 9:10am On Dec 29, 2015 |
agarawu23:if he washes her panties nko? What's wrong with that? 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Nobody: 10:06am On Dec 29, 2015 |
eyinjuege: Very sensible Most times men make things about them. It's very unlikely that whatever she is doing is against him, or to boss him around, she is simply trying to do what needs to be done or to improve things. Instead of him to truly sit down and discuss things reasonably and compromise, it becomes she wants things her way. I have this same problem with my 'husband' 8 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by agarawu23(m): 10:48am On Dec 29, 2015 |
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Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Nobody: 10:51am On Dec 29, 2015 |
Burger01:I am a peace loving person o, no wahala here 4 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Kk4(m): 11:03am On Dec 29, 2015 |
The husband should je je be the actor because after boss initial gra gra, actor go always win. Shikena |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by lilmax(m): 11:05am On Dec 29, 2015 |
Miami11:I don't know why I find this funny But it's the internet anyways 7 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by flokii: 11:22am On Dec 29, 2015 |
PastorAji: what tribe is ur friend and also that of his wife? I have my answers already.. just want to confirm |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Nobody: 11:32am On Dec 29, 2015 |
lilmax:internet where cat claim to be tiger 9 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Chidoks(f): 11:34am On Dec 29, 2015 |
doctoradekokolo:Oga mi, won't this detachment kill the marriage? Stay withdrawn? No now. I can't imagine a marriage without friendship and laughter. The situation is already bad, that will just make them drift apart gradually...where will wifey be when he attends church services with the children? Challenges must come up in marriages, the solution we settle with must be aimed at restoring the marriage to it's original state otherwise it's not a solution at all Haven established that, I agree with you on not delegating primary responsibilities (i.e.school fees, house rent and feeding) problem is : the man didn't state his salary and size of his family.If he earns 20k per month with 5children,then the wife must come in in shouldering these basic needs. He should pray alright but self evaluation is most needed. What's his attitude towards hustling.does he rely on his salary alone, or does he have some side business that he supplements with? I say this because I once advised a dear friend to add something to his means of livelihood since he has the time and they often go on strike. He came up with excuses which includes money. I asked him to draw up a plan,lay it to heart and save towards it that provisions will come.He kept on complaining.I even suggested selling provisions since they often buy on credit and he struck it out.fast forward to 1still week of December,he called and during our discussion he mentioned how his wife didn't bathe their kids and ignored other chores till he came back from work and did them.I made excuses for her considering the fact that she was on maternity leave.but deep down I knew the cause.You can't bring back less Money and expect her to do more house chores(this doesn't apply to all women though) All this couple need is a talk.either alone or with a marriage counselor.They need to bare their heart to each other and forge ahead. Nothing is seriously wrong yet. 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Chidoks(f): 11:40am On Dec 29, 2015 |
Time for reporting,separation and'disciplining' never reach na. JudgementHammer: |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Ngokafor(f): 11:42am On Dec 29, 2015 |
Miami11: ....Ouch!!! 4 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by PastorAji(m): 12:00pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Chidoks:he earns 36k |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Chidoks(f): 12:16pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
PastorAji:That's something to work on How many children? |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by JudgementHammer: 1:11pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Chidoks:How u take know. He's a man not a woman. U know how long he don dey endure am b4 he voiced out? Besides I no say make he separate immediately. I told him to go tell her sensible ppl 1st If he no go report to her ppl or discipline her, wetin make he come dey do. Just sit and look? Or get provoked and beat her up? |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Chidoks(f): 3:03pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
JudgementHammer:The wife 'lately' started being bossy which means she wasn't like that from the onset. The man earns 36k per month.I don't know the size of that family but let's assume they have 4 children, that makes them 6.plus one likely dependant(house maid)that brings it to 7. 7 mouths to feed,house and clothe. 5 children to pay school fees for. Remember the man has to save,send money to his mother or whoever. There is this possibility that she didn't mind but as time goes by, the responsibilities become heavier(i.e.from primary to secondary school- higher school fees et.al) The burden may cause her change in behaviour. In my opinion they should sit and talk. Reporting her to any third party is not the best. It may make her spill the beans and they would both wash their dirty linen in public. Another important factor is his attitude towards making and spending money because considering the cost of living these days,earning 36k is a big challenge 3 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by JudgementHammer: 4:08pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Chidoks:Where in the orginal post did u see 36k Sit and talk with someone who earns more than u. U fit use water quench petrol fire? When familiarity is already a problem on its own. She no go hear anything. Asking him to do it is just like calling cow uncle becus of d meat it has. I councelled him seeing beyond that. If u were a footballer na back u go dey dribble go? Only an outsider can make her see things properly not d broke husband she's familiar with. But just like I said in my previous post, he can do d talk at least to follow due protocol and fulfill righteousness so that he won't be blamed for acting foolishly later on since he can't find a better job. Well oga op d ball is in ur court. All men have their tolerance span and limits. So keep tolerating d humiliation with a closed mouth at home and in public till u reach ur limit. Just make sure say by d time u reach ur limit, u never turn to wife and ur wife to husband or beta still, make d 3rd party a pastor u can trust. |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by cococandy(f): 4:14pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
agarawu23:Yes I typed it. What's wrong with a man washing his wife's panties? I can wash my man's underwear. And if I was a man, I Can do same for my woman. Y'all are weird. In a very strange way. 10 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by agarawu23(m): 4:18pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
cococandy:OMG!!! Cococandy, I hail your husband 5 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by cococandy(f): 4:19pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
agarawu23:I hail your wife too. 5 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by agarawu23(m): 4:20pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
cococandy:I am not married. I am a single dad. |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by 2mNaira: 7:01pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
cococandy: I find this ur qustion funny. A man washg his wife pants.In my own weird opinion, that is no longer a husband.That qualify for a house help. 4 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by 2mNaira: 7:12pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
cococandy: I laughed so hard!!! Because I am ever careful to never say what pple might construe as being an unsult, I will not say what I really think. But that fellow is certainly not weird. 3 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by cococandy(f): 7:27pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
mnairaland:But he can wash her cloths so What's the big deal if he includes the underwear? Can someone genuinely tell me what's up with the discrimination between clothes and underwear. agarawu23:Don't worry, when you marry you'll wash more than panties even. 5 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by babeabike: 8:24pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
PastorAji: Though I know money plays a lot of role in position assumption but often times its more about the personality than money. Maybe your wife is a strong Choleric ,Cholerics like to be in charge regardless of their financial status.Financial status or contributions can also trigger their bossiness I just feel you both need to sit,talk about it and draw her attention to your observations 1 Like |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by lilmax(m): 8:44pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Oyind17:of course You dey mind am? lion online, domesticated animal offline 6 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by eyinjuege: 5:00am On Dec 30, 2015 |
mnairaland: You will be surprised at how many men have ever washed their wives panties before in secret, but will swear publicly they can never do that. 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by SAMBARRY: 6:13am On Dec 30, 2015 |
JudgementHammer:grow up na Reporting your wife TO your kids or in-laws. Chaii.you're only opening doors of disrespect.where do you see talkative men that get respected. Meanwhile if it's a woman doing all this b.s you'll say she's immature and not ready for marriage. She talks too much She lacks self respect 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by SAMBARRY: 6:24am On Dec 30, 2015 |
agarawu23: You're writing letter to disgrace. Threaten a woman that earns 4x what you earn? Why do you people's phenese shrink when she's relatively comfortable financially 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by SAMBARRY: 6:27am On Dec 30, 2015 |
Oyind17:even Ben Bruce cc Mr head of the home
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Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by agarawu23(m): 6:53am On Dec 30, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:she earns more than me doesn't mean I can't talk o, well, I don't know if she ready to marry her money cos I can't shitt from her |
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