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Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Miami11: 8:17pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Acidosis: Easy dude!! Easy, Ain't nobody bothered by your infants rhetoric( we not gonna miss supper because of this your ignamouraos threats) You are clowning threatening one person to the other, Why don't you act like a grown man and exchange ideas decently, what's with this blood boiling and chest thumping, You mean all this rantings because apparently women are now more educated and independent, At this pace you will get high blood pressure worrying about women, 8 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Acidosis(m): 8:20pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Joavid: I think I have enough to put these 'I'm-a-perfect-wife' folks in their right horizons, but I'm worried some of them may hold meetings on my matter. It has been confirmed times without number that we have more witches, relationship destroyers and home wreckers on this section than anywhere in Nigeria. With the same measure I'm currently using on Politics section, I shall henceforth give to them in multiples. The message of CHANGE must be enforced here. We must reduce the divorce rate in Nigeria by stating the rules point blank. Until they begin to grow natural d**ks (not candles), we shall never allow them displace other men same way they turn theirs to vegetables. 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Acidosis(m): 8:28pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Chillisauce: ahahaha, I used to like your food on that foodies thread o, but I never knew those meals were prepared by a typical Onitsha masquerade. So you actually know how to make dishes, but you go about encouraging family boss-ladies who come here to tell us how they command their husbands in the kitchen. Who see you now go think say ur type no dey cook o You are a woman; a woman is what you are. Grow as a woman and be the best you can be; BUT be submissive to your husband. Get it? 1 Like |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Miami11: 8:32pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Acidosis: You seem to be having far deeper issues, consult a shrink boss, nobody formed perfect wife, nobody is perfect, we all just do what is best for our individual families You have problems man, so divorces are caused by women in entirety, I pity you. Just take your fight to parliament and congress, you will win by a landslide, bravo man! 7 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Acidosis(m): 8:51pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Miami11: So far, I've come to realise you all (3) reside in Western countries, so I can understand you're simply acting like the romans (remember that saying? ACT LIKE ROMANS WHEN IN ROME). However, in so far as Nairaland stands to uphold the Nigerian way of life, we have to continually ring the message of TRUE VALUES. I'm not ready to type epistles but I know the benefits and the ills of Globalization & Westernization. This revelation should settle the matter, right? 1 Like |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Askseek(f): 8:54pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Miami11:"we all just do what is best for our individual families" Truer words have never been spoken. What I don't understand is why many can't just accept that what works in one persons home most likely does not work in his neighbors home. We seem to have a need to force our opinions unto others and make opinions law and get into a tizzy fit when others don't agree especially if they suffer from that severe form of inferiority complex that small minded boys suffer from. It really is unfortunate that some men, I mean boys do not see the glory extended to them through their wife and reject God's gift under the guise of being the head of the house. They conveniently forget that a good leader knows when and how to delegate, a good leader knows how to carry people along. A good leader earns respect and does not demand it. I make 2-3 times what my husband does and have done so from the beginning of my career. He was touchy about it at first even though we run a joint account. Against my natural instincts, I massaged his ego it did not work, begged him tire, no way he was driving me crazy so I told him one day "get with the program, enjoy the comforts my higher earning ability gives you and our kids or punish yourself, your choice but me will continue making the money." Eventually he became comfortable. What & why he became comfortable I have no idea. I believe it was choice he made for himself. Regarding my home, I manage my home, no questions asked. We make decisions together, but I make decisions for my husband and vice versa as long as it is in the best interest of our family and those few times I have a doubt then it's tabled for further discussion. Again works for us. If you want something else do it , why the huffing and puffing because others do it differently 4 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by cococandy(f): 9:03pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Acidosis:Jabs ko. I'm talking to you directly. The man you're calling a vegetable and dumb as a duck, do you know him personally? You're forming Mr "cool I don't insult people", now that I faced you but you didn't have problem insulting a man that didn't do anything to you. 6 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by cococandy(f): 9:06pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Miami11:No worries. |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Askseek(f): 9:14pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
cococandy: @cococandy: you will give this boy in a man's body an apoplexy oh. Sofry for him body oh |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Mamatee07: 9:17pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Askseek: Gbam, this is a forum for sharing ideas. We don't all come from the same background and we don't all have the same views which is what makes this place interesting. Imagine if everyone had the same views on marriage? that would be so boring. people just need to live and let leave, if something works for me i have a right to share it. Its now up to others to pick which ideas or advice they want to try in their own homes based on their ideals. That you can't imagine something working for you does not mean someone else is lying when they say it does. Attacking people for stating their opinion is wrong and it makes people not even want to contribute to discussions. Now the thread has been totally derailed. @OP, like someone said if you can give examples of things she does that you think are bossy that would be make it easier for us to advice you. One needs to be sure that she's indeed bossy or you may just be overly sensitive becasue she's earning more. i'am saying this because once a woman earns more men start to attribute everything she does to the fact that she's wealthier and it may not even be so. It seems you mentioned that she's pregnant , maybe that's it 1 Like |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by EfemenaXY: 9:46pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
flokii: Mind what business? Is Nairaland your private property? Why must you know what tribes the couple come from? How is that any of your business? Or better still, how does not knowing where they come from hinder you from posting your "advice" on here, assuming you have anything of substance to share here? Trouble maker. 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by flokii: 9:58pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Ok!... it's like you have brain touch now lemme tell you why I asked... I have seen cases like that of this OP... infact it's very common and in order to give my advice I'd like to know if is same tribe or intertribal marriage.. cos most times it's actually nothing atal... all I wantd was DEEP info as I dnt do shallow or on-the-surface thinking like most of you do hope you're satisfied? |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by EfemenaXY: 10:04pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
flokii: It WAS shallow of you to ask what tribes they come from and you know it. What if the couple in question aren't Nigerians? What then? Just admit that you haven't got anything relevant to contribute. You probably aren't even married. You're way out of your depth here. 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by flokii: 10:09pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Ok sire I get ur point... sorry for my mistakes buh with what I read about him being a low income earner and d wife going into business painted a typical Nigerian couple to me |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by EfemenaXY: 10:24pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
flokii: No worries bro. Apology accepted. A man earning less than his wife isn't the exclusive to Nigerians only. It can happen to anyone, any couple around the world. |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by flokii: 11:10pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Alright.. can I get some info. from you?.. concerning U.K Scotland to be precise |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Fkforyou(m): 11:46pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Lol....over sensitive people every where, taking everything that's been said here personal. Drop your comment and swerve or better still, maintain your lane shikena. Its as simple as that. |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by PinketteDawn: 4:10pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
eyinjuege: Good points here. The key to this is listening. Both parties should not just hear each other but listen to each other. Men and women hardly think alike. Once we begin to understand that and appreciate this difference, then things will become easier. 1 Like 1 Share |
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