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Re: About Women Making The First Move. by naijaboiy: 9:51pm On Jan 02, 2016
doveda:


daretodiffersmiley
so you have two accounts? Lol.

Anyway Don't really expect anything from me. There was nothing special in what I said than the fact of things.

So I don't get why you are surprised.
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Laveda(f): 9:52pm On Jan 02, 2016
naijaboiy:

Chai! cheesy

Talking to random girls is one very difficult task I can't boast of being successful in. Very awkward and challenging.

I have some friends who do it and successfully pull it off. I don't know how they do It. Some guys are just bad. cheesy
Really wicked! grin grin First class embarrassment grin

Some guys are just bad..they are gifted cheesy
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Laveda(f): 9:53pm On Jan 02, 2016
francizy:



Waiting... cheesy
Okay.. tongue
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 9:54pm On Jan 02, 2016
Oliviaarims:


Nope. It was actually unconscious.
Linus onyeashi

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Re: About Women Making The First Move. by doveda: 9:56pm On Jan 02, 2016
naijaboiy:

so you have two accounts? Lol.

Anyway Don't really expect anything from me. There was nothing special in what I said than the fact of things.

So I don't get why you are surprised.

I was banned

Thanks to you and your fellow wizards

It wasn't emotionalsad
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by LordOfTheWeed: 9:56pm On Jan 02, 2016
Laveda:
Nah... I can't try that shít again..
Imagine being turned down when you've surmoned the courage to talk to him sad

I dont advice that...keep flashing that green light..if he's too dumb to see it...fùck him undecidedundecided.
Sweetheart, so you mean if I don't make the move, you won't? embarassed
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 9:56pm On Jan 02, 2016
kinglekan:


No of the above.
Delectablegyal, pussysandie, sandie or irunoobo would do just fine. grin
Lmao...

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Re: About Women Making The First Move. by tosyne2much(m): 9:56pm On Jan 02, 2016
As a general rule, according to our culture, it's frowned upon for a lady to woo a guy or even show greenlight. All I know is that the world is changing and the way things are being done is different from the way it used to be done.

We are in a scientific era where new ways of doing things have replaced the old thumb method. Ladies, don't be deceived, go for what you like, don't be fooled that when a guy woos you, he will cherish you. However, there are certain ways to make a guy know you want him, so you don't have to woo him expressly


Remember that guys are not magicians who can read your mind. Not every guy is gifted in noticing greenlight. Note that some guys are shy while some are introvert.

Ladies who dwell in this old erroneous belief are backward minded. Not every lady is destined to be wooed by men


*dont let ego wreck your life*

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Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 9:58pm On Jan 02, 2016
Akious2k2:
It's funny how some ladies think guys are dumb 4 not responding 2 there supposed "Green light"

Must every guy talk 2 every lady


Of course, they mustn't.. And nobody suggested otherwise.
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 10:00pm On Jan 02, 2016
coltaine:
I would like to commend d op as wel as oda contributors to d topic....i c brilliance here. Since opinions are subjectiv, dis ma opinion...i wouldnt mind to b wooed by a female frnd, i repeat a "frnd" nd my reason bin dt d only reason i wud eva take a gal serius is if dr was at least a level of familiarisatn btw us....dere is sumtin c'mon to gals, it's hard to knw wat dy are tinkin lyk d guy who wantd 2 pull out pple's eye because he mistook a gal starin at him as a GREENLIGHT, on a personal level i dnt bliv in dos so calld "greenlights" o...na scam!...i dnt nid a greenlight, if i like u. At least i wil woo u wit ma mind prepared 4 a rejectn bt greenlights make u tink d wooin is gonn b positive bt u end up hearin i av a boyfrnd...nd u stil xpect 2 kip chasin u...all in d name of showin i luv u


Gracias.. cheesy
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by naijaboiy: 10:00pm On Jan 02, 2016
Laveda:
Really wicked! grin grin First class embarrassment grin

Some guys are just bad..they are gifted cheesy
Lol...you are right.

You know that sometimes a guy will be coming to approach you and in your mind you have said that you won't even listen to a word he says but by the time he's done you yourself will be surprised and wondering how he was able to sweep you off and make you lose your guard.

Some guys are bad! cheesy

Ever experienced any? wink
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 10:03pm On Jan 02, 2016
naijaboiy:

Look at all these mumu girls that cannot handle rejection.

So for the fact that you give a guy green light then it's now compulsory for him to look your way? For fùcks sake a guy may not also care about your green light because you may also not reach the standard he wants in a lady. You may probably be ugly or shapeless or a drama queen.

Going by that it's not by force for a guy to woo you because you are showing him green light.

So fück you too and your dimming green light! undecided
You really need to kill Yourself boy!gringrin


My Opinion...My perspective, Your opinions? Extremely Irrelevant n insignificant!wink Utterly inconsequential!wink

Esther fabian Has spoken!tongue kill Yourself Cry-baby!

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 10:03pm On Jan 02, 2016
francizy:

I hope you ain't a feminist tho? angry
I'm not.
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by naijaboiy: 10:03pm On Jan 02, 2016
doveda:


I was banned

Thanks to you and your fellow wizards

It wasn't emotionalsad
Lol...I'm happy about your ban. grin

What did you do? cheesy

And errmmm....you keep following me about, is it your own way of showing green light? cheesy
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Laveda(f): 10:04pm On Jan 02, 2016
LordOfTheWeed:

Sweetheart, so you mean if I don't make the move, you won't? embarassed
Oh ...hunnie..I can give you all the colours in the world..green, blue, red, name them..even the brightest white undecided

If you can't notice them...sorry cry cry
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by doveda: 10:05pm On Jan 02, 2016
naijaboiy:

Lol...I'm happy about your ban. grin

What did you do? cheesy

And errmmm....you keep following me about, is it your own way of showing green light? cheesy

Haters gonna hate!sad


Why are you asking a rhetorical question? grin


Let's just say you are my victim for nowsad tongue
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by naijaboiy: 10:05pm On Jan 02, 2016
Estharfabian:
You really need to kill Yourself boy!gringrin


My Opinion...My perspective, Your opinions? Irrelevant!wink

Esther fabian Has spoken!tongue

Who is this deluded teenager?

Please fade away like your IQ did while you made that comment. undecided

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Re: About Women Making The First Move. by tonyx4x44(m): 10:06pm On Jan 02, 2016
Estharfabian:
I'd still make my "Yanga" even after 30!!cool

LoL!grin I'd flash him those romantic signs n lights...if he can't decipher its meaning, then, he ain't smart! I detest dumb people!




Maybe he's just not into you... Or finds you unattractive tongue

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Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 10:08pm On Jan 02, 2016
naijaboiy:

Who is this deluded teenager?

Please fade away like your IQ did while you made that comment. undecided
LoL!grin

Really? You're that Hurt?embarassed

BTW...I'm legally An adult!angryangry
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Laveda(f): 10:08pm On Jan 02, 2016
naijaboiy:

Lol...you are right.

You know that sometimes a guy will be coming to approach you and in your mind you have said that you won't even listen to a word he says but by the time he's done you yourself will be surprised and wondering how he was able to sweep you off and make you lose your guard.

Some guys are bad! cheesy

Ever experienced any? wink
grin I haven't really had much experience when it comes to that..but the one I had embarassed we later fell in lust love... lipsrsealed

Some guys are just awesome cool
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by naijaboiy: 10:08pm On Jan 02, 2016
doveda:


Haters gonna hate!sad


Why are you asking a rhetorical question? grin


Let's just say you are my victim for nowsad tongue

LOL it's not rhetorical!

What did you do that got you banned? grin

I think I'm enjoying this victim ish because it seems you are the one suffering from it. More bans gringrintongue
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 10:09pm On Jan 02, 2016
tonyx4x44:




Maybe he's just not into you... Or finds you unattractive tongue
No one could dare find me unattractive....undecided

I Have a beautiful heart...priceless!grin

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by doveda: 10:11pm On Jan 02, 2016
naijaboiy:

LOL it's not rhetorical!

What did you do that got you banned? grin

I think I'm enjoying this victim ish because it seems you are the one suffering from it. More bans gringrintongue

Ermmm...I insulted someone.

I am not suffering from anything. How can you suffer from something that you enjoy doing?
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by naijaboiy: 10:12pm On Jan 02, 2016
Estharfabian:
LoL!grin

Really? You're that Hurt?embarassed

BTW...I'm legally An adult!angryangry
Hurt? Did you smoke something this evening?

Legally an adult? Please remind me of the age that makes one a "legal adult". And you seem to forget that being an adult is not an excuse to display how crude and unexposed you are to certain things.

The birds are always there for you to tell your story.
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Laveda(f): 10:14pm On Jan 02, 2016
gemale:

So u have neva paused 2 tnk dt some guys too live in perpetual fear of being turned down by women? D embarrassment & huge dent 2 1's ego & self esteem as well as d emotional hurt. Do u tnk we as men dnt feel it when u rebuff our advances? Bt we get over it in tym. So shld u pple shld u decide 2 take d bulls by d horns & ask us out. As 4 ur green lights, Women tnk men r psychic. Is dere anything lyk 'standard signs a woman lyk a guy'? No, D poor guy u r flashing those signs probably might tnk u r just bein nyc 2 him while some1 u r just nyc 2 might mistake ur friendliness 4 amorous feelings. So many times d latter has been my case & so many times I have heard 4rm many pple abt hw 1 girl I know bt wishes 2 remain anonymous fancies me & I can't seem 2 figure out who. I have in fact given up on tryn 2 ask females out because it seems I don't just get d female way of thinking.
I understand you dear smiley
Hope we all find who'll love us..exactly like we do wink 50/50....
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by tonyx4x44(m): 10:14pm On Jan 02, 2016
Estharfabian:
No one could dare find me unattractive....undecided

I Have a beautiful heart...priceless!grin


Miss good girl gone bad, Dey there dey feel yourself tongue

I'll ignore your green/blue light on purpose
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jan 02, 2016
naijaboiy:

Hurt? Did you smoke something this evening?

Legally an adult? Please remind me of the age that makes one a "legal adult". And you seem to forget that being an adult is not an excuse to display how crude and unexposed you are to certain things.

The birds are always there for you to tell your story.
Yes!!!!!!! he's hurt!undecidedgrin

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by naijaboiy: 10:15pm On Jan 02, 2016
doveda:


Ermmm...I insulted someone.

I am not suffering from anything. How can you suffer from something that you enjoy doing?
The more you think you are victimizing me the more your troubles on Nairaland will increase. grin

I'm an untouchable god tongue
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jan 02, 2016
tonyx4x44:


Miss good girl gone bad, Dey there dey feel yourself tongue

I'll ignore your green/blue light on purpose
****Good lady gone bad Actually*...undecided


LoL! then! you'd lose A rare diamond...lipsrsealed

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jan 02, 2016
Well well... This has been a thoroughly informative and interesting thread for me. I did discover new things and had some wrong notions set straight, had to view certain things from a different perspective and saw some sense in them.

I believe a lot of others learnt too. I'm actually not so rigid.. I listen to voice of reason.

So, in the absence of of any further controversies which I intend to counter, I might as well strt making moves on a number of these guys here. Lol.

Tosyne2much
Ronald4lif
Kinglekan
Wristbangle
BUTCHCASSIDY
Doskie

Pls, permit me to woo u all.
I'd have wooed Francizy too, but that one is going about looking for boobs.

I'll woo naijaboiy in private... And if he misbehaves, all his results will disappear from the notice board!

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Re: About Women Making The First Move. by naijaboiy: 10:18pm On Jan 02, 2016
Estharfabian:
Yes!!!!!!! he's hurt!undecidedgrin

Girl go and read a romance novel or something.

And then stop displaying this facade of an egotistical girl that is on so high a horse and cannot jump down to do certain things when you are actually a shy little dove.

It's too manly for a girl. undecided
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by doveda: 10:18pm On Jan 02, 2016
naijaboiy:

The more you think you are victimizing me the more your troubles on Nairaland will increase. grin

I'm an untouchable god tongue

Look at this oneundecided


I have coconut head. This ban is just one of those things

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