Strahovski1:
I advice you divorce the man and move on.. What legacy are you leaving for your children? especially the boys?

Do not make anymore of yourself a fool. Just leave the man unless there is more to it because i dont understand

Nkasiobi87:
there is noting more in this, my husband hate to be challenged in any decision he makes.he an authoritarian man so all he is doing is his word to stand.

Nkasiobi87:
there is noting more in this, my husband hate to be challenged in any decision he makes.he an authoritarian man so all he is doing is his word to stand.

Michellla:
beg his mistress??
No guy is worth all that stress.

ipledge10:
even me?

Michellla:
i think i told you one time you're an exemption

Nkasiobi87:
there is noting more in this, my husband hate to be challenged in any decision he makes.he an authoritarian man so all he is doing is his word to stand.

myfantasies:
So u r saying even as a wife ur words r not important, u r being taken for granted

SMH

I don't pray for such

Strahovski1:
I advice you divorce the man and move on.. What legacy are you leaving for your children? especially the boys?

Do not make anymore of yourself a fool. Just leave the man unless there is more to it because i dont understand

Divorce him with 5kids already?? ...Hahaha

tellwisdom:


Divorce him with 5kids already?? ...Hahaha

pbs4real:
dnt worry i wont do that to u.

myfantasies:
Really?
I did not know we r planning on getting married

Strahovski1:


The kids is a good reason to divorce. .

Ok if you are in her shoes you would let your children grow up into seeing their father have have a mistress.. bully and maltreat their mother?

One has to be reasonable.. it has been happening for long even before she had 5 kids. . Yet she went on to have more kids.. and still complain then there is more to it that she is not telling us.

Don't mind these women of nowadays. They feel they've assumed total control simply because they had/have a baby for the man. If you no dey make your man happy, or do wetin go make am happy, Aunty Janetii, you are GONE. Shikina- Dem no dey price am

my hubby is cheating on me,He even let his mistress live in our home though a big compound but different quarters. and he said that if I don't like it that am free to give him a divorce I fought for him but I see his mind is with the girl so I give up. I just stay because I have 5kids all boys.I can't leave them. so I focus on my children while he and his mistress do there things. but what I don't understand is that any time I want to go out he insist that someone must accompany me.He never allows me to go out alone.I have been obeying this order till one day I try to break it I told him I was going to the saloon,I left without any of his guard because I feel caged I really wanted to have my freedom. I really wanted to fight back.I only go out once in a month to visits my friends. he stoped all my employment opportunities I had. on my way back home I notice a car has been tailing on me.it was my husband knowing that I left alone he came after me. when we got home hell lose he was so mad at me that he wanted to kill me that day.after that he went back to his mistress. I wanted to go to the site he was building a house which I notice that any time I said I will go there he keep objecting that day my car broke down since he was going there too I wanted to join him in his car but he rebuke me.left with his mistress. I told him that I must come there through taxi and alone. that day I did not go.the same thing happen today and I have already told him that I will go there tomorrow he didn't say anything.Should I go or not?

cococandy:


Nothing can be done for you. You're too far gone in the pit of low self esteem to be helped.
If you can still call the fellow your husband, forget it. It's done.

You sunk from level -1 all the way to -100 where your husband's employee can raise hands to beat you and his mistress openly jeer at you while the man insists you beg her and serve her for him to allow you stay in the marriage.
There's no lower you can go.

Telling you to leave him will be a waste of time. Like you haven't been told that already.
You've probably heard that before but chose to pray and fast and grovel for acceptance that was clearly never gonna come.

Just tie your wrapper well now and go beg the girl. Bring her to your house and let her have the bedroom with Oga. Make sure you prepare breakfast too before they wake up and serve them in bed in line with his command.

You see, the happier you make his mistress, the happier he'll be with you and maybe just maybe, one day he will smile at you again.

Isn't that what you want?

cococandy:


Nothing can be done for you. You're too far gone in the pit of low self esteem to be helped.
If you can still call the fellow your husband, forget it. It's done.

You sunk from level -1 all the way to -100 where your husband's employee can raise hands to beat you and his mistress openly jeer at you while the man insists you beg her and serve her for him to allow you stay in the marriage.
There's no lower you can go.

Telling you to leave him will be a waste of time. Like you haven't been told that already.
You've probably heard that before but chose to pray and fast and grovel for acceptance that was clearly never gonna come.

Just tie your wrapper well now and go beg the girl. Bring her to your house and let her have the bedroom with Oga. Make sure you prepare breakfast too before they wake up and serve them in bed in line with his command.

You see, the happier you make his mistress, the happier he'll be with you and maybe just maybe, one day he will smile at you again.

Isn't that what you want?

pbs4real:
nw u knw ryt?