KingCheezyPuff:
I agreed that you don't have to go out an eat all the time..... But you overlooked it
I suggested less expensive places...... but you shot it down.
Help him spend more carefully you said.....spend less on gadgets an less important things I suggested but your termed me a parasite.
It's apparent you see spending on a woman as harmful to a man's future.
Is he not investing in one with her

Sex is not all a women gives into a relationship so for you ta say that's all we bring shows me how you see us.
No wonder you think we're an expense to be cut out.

tonytony208:


Lolz

I understand you lady.

You guys are not expenses to be cut. You are bigger, stronger and more powerful than that. In fact, the best gift to a man is an understanding and supportive woman.

But the problem is most women don't want to be understanding and be supportive anymore and this has casted aspersion on the word "love" that they utter in relationships.

I still agree with the op (just like you) that eating shouldn't be a must every time the man takes the woman out.

you always laugh at me
If you don't see spending on us a problem why are you arguing with me

sexytyga:
You do well... But you forgot to mention NL names

KingCheezyPuff:
you always laugh at me
If you don't see spending on us a problem why are you arguing with me

tonytony208:




Lolz

I'm not laughing at u; just laughing with you.

Spending on a woman may not be a problem, but it shouldn't be seen as a major criteria or condition or determinant for a relationship.

In actual fact, a woman will not see spending as an integral part of a relationship, provided she sees a future in that relationship.

A futuristic woman will know that the man will still spend on her in the future even if he can't at the present...….my 2 pence.

I've not been laughin'.
I say it can be depending on if the man is not spending because he doesn't see you as worth it.
But if he ain't got ta spend.....understandable.

KingCheezyPuff:
[b] I've not been laughin'.
I say it can be depending on if the man is not spending because he doesn't see you as worth it.
But if he ain't got ta spend.....understandable.

KingCheezyPuff:
I object ta number 6!!!
I am not a "man wrapper" but highly selective.
With so many choices I just want to be sure I've made the right one.
An naturally I need ta take a few samples

I object ta number 8 too!!
Water!! Coffee
What kinda date is that.A cheap one!
I need ta know if this man is of a generous heart.

rosalieene:

you even have time to analyze yourself from what he said.!! All this dumbass guys!!

What Are you insulting him, me or the both of us.

tonytony208:


Oh OK.

Now we are seeing from same perspective.......U & I

No you just wanted me ta pardon the man. Weall I hope you know most men have the money ta spend if they'll let go if some non essentials.
He can still spend on his woman!!! bye.

KingCheezyPuff:
No you just wanted me ta pardon the man. Weall I hope you know most men have the money ta spend if they'll let go if some non essentials.
He can still spend on his woman!!! bye.

tonytony208:


Instead of making him spend the money on his woman, why can't his woman work together with him so that they can invest the money on good project? Isn't that why a man needs a woman? Someone to think and plan with him till death do them part?

BoiledHead:


Make dem come finish me for here abi?

KingCheezyPuff:
The uh can do both.Bye....again

tonytony208:


If he is spending on his woman, what then should his woman do for him?

And what stops the lady from getting a job and sharing in the spending instead of seeing the man as her meal ticket?

looool That's all you think about.
You just can't do nothin' sweet fer a woman.
I got ta go.
Cause you'll been went on forever Good afternoon to you sir.

tonytony208:


In other words, you are broke girl who doesn't agree with number 6 and 8, abi? I've resolved never to date a girl that has no job and not financially responsible to herself.

KingCheezyPuff:
looool That's all you think about.
You just can't do nothin' sweet fer a woman.
I got ta go.
Cause you'll been went on forever Good afternoon to you sir.

tonytony208:


A lady should not see a man as her meal ticket.

A lady shouldn't expect a man to do for her what her dad cannot do for her.

A serious lady that is worthy of the name will not see spending as an integral part of relationship.

Even if the guy is stinkingly rich, a true lady worthy of attention and worthy of honour will not think the next thing is for the man to be spoiling her with gifts.

A true lady is responsible for herself and not turn herself to a dependant or parasite.

Thank God I've waved final goodbye to jobless and irresponsible girls, who see relationship as poverty alleviation program.

what I say guy you live ta argue.
I ain't ever say she was dependant on the man.
That ain't right ta put that pressure an load on him.
I'm only an have always been talkin' goin' out on nice dates.
Dates that don't happen everyday,why not splurge an enjoy

tonytony208:


In other words, you are broke girl who doesn't agree with number 6 and 8, abi? I've resolved never to date a girl that has no job and not financially responsible to herself.

KingCheezyPuff:
What Are you insulting him, me or the both of us.

KingCheezyPuff:
what I say guy you live ta argue.
I ain't ever say she was dependant on the man.
That ain't right ta put that pressure an load on him.
I'm only an have always been talkin' goin' out on nice dates.
Dates that don't happen everyday,why not splurge an enjoy

tonytony208:


I sincerely feel it is misplacement of priority for a lady to see "spending on her" as a must.

Relationship is supposed to be partnership and not parasitism.

After spending on you, what will you do for him or give him? Just sex? Then you aren't doing anything for him; you are just taking from him.....and that is synonymous to parasitism.

tonytony208:


Hmmmm.....I get you.

Finally! bye.