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Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by wristbangle: 6:36pm On Apr 19, 2016

I have come te realise no matter how hard you try to please some ladies, nothing can ever stop them from cheating on you. It will be better if a guy can identify these bad traits as well as how best to deal with such ladies whether to terminate the relationship abruptly or cope with it.

I will be opening our eyes with this write-up so that we will be familiar to these habits

1. She becomes your enemy when you are broke

Life is not a bed of roses, therefore, everyday cannot be lived like a christmas day but some ladies don't even care. All they want is money coming out of your pocket each time they are in need, and failure to do so makes her becomes your enemy. If a lady starts nagging and threatening to dump you because you didn't fulfil your monetary promise, just know that there's probability that she will be cheating on you in marriage in a bid to get that which she desires.

2. She flirts with several guys

A flirt will always be a flirt anytime any day. Don't ever think marriage can change a lady that flirts except God delivers her from the act. Some of them flirt with several guys and will deem it right saying she only flirts with them and doesn't allow them get under her skirt. A lady with this ideology will no doubt be promiscuous when married.

3. She is not sexually satisfied with you

Just when you're bleeping a lady and she reading a newspaper or picks her phone and start replying her mentions on nairaland :O , just know that you never find wife at all oooo.. To worsen the case, if the guy's joystick is as small as that of Tosyne2much and inexperienced in several sex positions like Lalasticlala, she will definitely go to Kinglekan to satisfy herself. Such a lady is very risky to marry.

4. She accepts ridiculous money and gifts from guys

I don't know why some ladies have no standard that they can beg for ridiculous things from guys.. This habit only portrays how cheap these categories of ladies are, and I can't but pity any guy that falls in their trap. Even if a dude that marries them is as righteous as Jesus Christ they will still cheat on him.

5. She receives calls every now and then

When you're with a lady and her phone keeps ringing every 5mins it's better you have a heart to heart talk with her otherwise, you might end up with a miserable marriage life.. That is the way it will it will continue when married. That was the reason why Toyin Aimakhu's husband dumped her when he could no longer cope with such habit.

6. She is too secretive

When a lady is unnecessarily being secretive with a questionable character, then something is up her sleeves. It will be a big risk to marry such a lady otherwise you may have yourself to blame.

7. Her yansh no dey sit down for one place

Just when a lady is always found everywhere, bro you need to think twice before making that lifetime choice. She no dey use ear hear club house, pepper soup joint, birthday party and the likes.

8. She's very happy to have various toasters

Guys, when a lady is very elated and prides herself based on the number of chairmen stalking her, then there's high tendency for her to cheat in marriage.. When issues arise some of them will even be threatening you with break up and that they are only managing you cos they've got better guys toasting them.

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Vinshu(f): 6:38pm On Apr 19, 2016

I receive calls very often even more than my hubby. Yet, I ain't sleeping around

And I accept gifts from people either material or financial from both male and female yet, I ain't sleeping around.

Somethings are to be kept secret.

People can posses traits but ain't who you think they are.

NOBODY SHOULD FVCKING MENTION ME OR FVCKING QUOTE THIS COMMENT! KEEP YOUR VALUES AND BELIEFS TO YOUR SELF.

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by tosyne2much(m): 6:39pm On Apr 19, 2016

I kuku dey on my own when oga Wristbangle start Aluta

Aluta CONTINUA !!!

* Oyah make I add my own join then*

9. She wants gender equality

She wants to rub shoulders with her husband and therefore bashes anyone who holds contrary opinion to this equality they have been fighting for; she wants the senate to formulate laws that will favour gold diggers whereby, they will marry a man today, break up with him tomorrow without a cause, and file a court case against him demanding for half of what the gentleman has laboured for.. These categories of ladies like to reap where they did not sow and may definitely be sleeping around when married

10. They will fault the write-up

Another sign to know that a lady will be sleeping around in marriage is that, she will look for a way fault this write-up as well as making contradictions just to justify her act. If a lady condemns number 1 to 8 then she will definitely be a perfect description of the OP... We don't need to go far, the troll above me is a perfect example

*My mouth no go kill me sha *

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Nobody: 6:40pm On Apr 19, 2016

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by dollyjoy(f): 6:42pm On Apr 19, 2016

@no6 though,i am naturally secretive not cause i have things up my sleeve but just love doing things my own way cool

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by donephi(m): 6:44pm On Apr 19, 2016

These are not enough signs or reasons

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by wristbangle: 6:47pm On Apr 19, 2016

Vinshu:
I receive calls very often even more than my hubby. Yet, I ain't sleeping around

And I accept gifts from people either material or financial from both male and female yet, I ain't sleeping around.

Somethings are to be kept secret.

People can posses traits but ain't who you think they are.

Is your husband aware of the bolded yet he is not concerned? Like seriously, u accept everything guys offer u including your admirers and in return they expect nothing? undecided

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Nobody: 6:48pm On Apr 19, 2016

These are just on-the surface traits now.. What about she will have her phone, the gallery of the phone, the phonebook, and all on passwords, she will have numerous uncles too.

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Nixiepie(f): 6:51pm On Apr 19, 2016

Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by tosyne2much(m): 6:53pm On Apr 19, 2016

AirSultan:
These are just on-the surface traits now.. What about she will have her phone, the gallery of the phone, the phonebook, and all on passwords, she will have numerous uncles too.

she go password everywhere

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by wristbangle: 6:54pm On Apr 19, 2016

AirSultan:
These are just on-the surface traits now.. What about she will have her phone, the gallery of the phone, the phonebook, and all on passwords, she will have numerous uncles too.

It's part of the equation bro. Don't mind them. The funniest thing is when u caught them in the act, they will say "he is my uncle". Which uncle? undecided

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Vinshu(f): 6:54pm On Apr 19, 2016

wristbangle:

Is your husband aware of the bolded yet he is not concerned? Like seriously, u accept everything guys offer u including your admirers and in return they expect nothing?

He is aware. Because I share them with him. As I am aware of any gift he receives, so is he aware about any gift I receive.

He is not so insecure to be concerned about whom I'm receiving gifts from because the person giving me the gift knows that there are no strings. I don't pretend to be single outside. Everyone around me knows I'm married. So whoever is giving me a gift especially men, and expecting something in return is in for a shocker.

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by onstelly(f): 6:55pm On Apr 19, 2016

tosyne2much:
I kuku dey on my own when oga Wristbangle start Aluta

*Make I add my own join then*

9. They want gender equality

Just when a lady wants to rub shoulders with her husband and bashes anyone who stands against this; she wants the senate to formulate a law that will favour gold diggers whereby, they will marry a man today, break up with him and file a court case against him demanding for half of what the gentleman has laboured for.. These categories of ladies will be definitely be sleeping around when married

10. They will fault the write-up

Another sign to know that a lady will be sleeping around in married is that, she will look for a way fault as well as contradict the write-up just to justify her act.

Make I just dey observe sha

I disagree with you on this

Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Affable0709(m): 6:55pm On Apr 19, 2016

Truth is, almost every girl does at least one of these things, are we saying they are all likely to cheat?
Other things i can think of:
*when the hubby is far away; lets say he is a traveller, soldier or something that keeps you away from her for some time, yes! She is likely to cheat.

*she is more likely to cheat when he is 'careless' in all aspect.

*when she has a higher sex drive. She's more likely to ring her ex.

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Nobody: 6:56pm On Apr 19, 2016

tosyne2much:
she go password everywhere

You go hearam na!... Everything you wan open like this, na to they input password. Oshu mi for some ladies o

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by nikkypearl(f): 6:58pm On Apr 19, 2016

booked

Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Nobody: 6:58pm On Apr 19, 2016

wristbangle:

It's part of the equation bro. Don't mind them. The funniest thing when u caught them, they will he is my uncle. Which uncle?

And meanwhile she is yoruba and the uncle is igbo! cheesy

. Some girls ehn...

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by DanceVille: 6:58pm On Apr 19, 2016

Make Me Add my own join.

9.She's Using Excessive Make up:
Whenever she's going out and she didn't tell you where she's going.Guys if you find out her face is too much caked with powder, believe me, she's going to a man's house.

10. Receiving Of A Hidden Call Identity Number: If you notice your wife is being call with a hidden ID.And she quickly ran into d bathroom to receive the call.
Guys! That's a weird alert that her second man is calling her for a One Night Stand.

11.She Travels Alot:If she's a person that travels a lot.And she's not in any form of business.
Today, from Kwara to Lagos to Kaduna to Portharcourt without her doing any specific thing.Believe me, she's staying with another man.

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by wristbangle: 6:59pm On Apr 19, 2016

dollyjoy:
@no6 though,i am naturally secretive not cause i have things up my sleeve but just love doing things my own way

Oh that's nice but will u like your partner to be secretive as u are?

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by tosyne2much(m): 6:59pm On Apr 19, 2016

onstelly:
I disagree with you on this

Oyah give me your reasons

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Lordabas: 7:01pm On Apr 19, 2016

Nonsense!

If you make good use of yor God given prick and rise to the occasion when it matterz drilling her to high heavens. There is no way on earth your wife won't be loyal to you!

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Julietcutie(f): 7:02pm On Apr 19, 2016

true...but not all

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by falconey(m): 7:02pm On Apr 19, 2016

Tremendous write up wristbang, some are hilarious.

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by wristbangle: 7:04pm On Apr 19, 2016

Vinshu:

He is aware. Because I share them with him. As I am aware of any gift he receives, so is he aware about any gift I receive.

He is not so insecure to be concerned about whom I'm receiving gifts from because the person giving me the gift knows that there are no strings. I don't pretend to be single outside. Everyone around me knows I'm married. So whoever is giving me a gift especially men, and expecting something in return is in for a shocker.

I appreciate openness in every form of relationship be it dating or marriage which ofcourse u have exhibited. Left to me, I still feel u should reject his gifts if his ulterior move is to have relationship with you.

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Phikom(m): 7:07pm On Apr 19, 2016

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by Vinshu(f): 7:08pm On Apr 19, 2016

wristbangle:

I appreciate openness in every form of relationship be it dating or marriage which ofcourse u have exhibited. Left to me, I still feel u should reject his gifts if his ulterior move is to have relationship with you.

Well, you have a point though.

Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by wristbangle: 7:09pm On Apr 19, 2016

falconey:
Tremendous write up wristbang, some are hilarious.

Thanks boss. cool

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by dollyjoy(f): 7:12pm On Apr 19, 2016

wristbangle:

Oh that's nice but will u like your partner to be secretive as u are?

not at all sad

Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by wristbangle: 7:16pm On Apr 19, 2016

@danceville, grin

. Hilarious comment

Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by DanceVille: 7:19pm On Apr 19, 2016

wristbangle:
@danceville, . Hilarious comment

Thanks Boss.

Wonderful Write-up Boss.

Cheerz!

Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by MzPecs(f): 7:24pm On Apr 19, 2016

What on earth is a responsible guy doing with a lady with such traits?

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Re: Guys, 8 Habits In A Lady That Shows She Will Be Sleeping Around In Marriage by kristen12(f): 7:35pm On Apr 19, 2016

tosyne2much:

9. They want gender equality

Jeez!! You're such a baby.
SMH

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