dollyjoy:
@no6 though,i am naturally secretive not cause i have things up my sleeve but just love doing things my own way

there's every likelihood to get such a girl, not 100 percent.

wristbangle:


Is your husband aware of the bolded yet he is not concerned? Like seriously, u accept everything guys offer u including your admirers and in return they expect nothing?

She's not a Nigerian. .... so it's allowed

herbie27:
prick no be everything o for relationship.

my goodness! Is this a guy ,or a girl?

Vinshu:
bbb

So you are a dumping ground for expired goods ?

See how confident you are to state that you receive items from a wide variety of people.

Some people have no shame. Sorry..

Vinshu:
I accept gifts from people either material or financial from both male and female yet, I ain't sleeping around.
.

So U think the males giving you gifts are Santa Claus? Abi U don turn charity foundation wey niggas go dey give without expecting returns ?

U dey make me laugh ooooo

let me guess. Ur excuse will be:

1) I'm married/ in a serious relationship & they all know it

2) all men are not the same

3) I give with a free mind. So they are also giving with a free mind



my dear, U no be tax collector oooooo

100Cents:


So you are a dumping ground for expired goods ?

See how confident you are to state that you receive items from a wide variety of people.

Some people have no shame. Sorry..

Now that you have commented. Did it change anything?

onstelly:

I disagree with you on this

When will Nigerian women honor the DIGNITY OF LABOR and stop hoping on feeding from crumbs handed by people out of pity ?

I have never seen a RICH BEGGAR.

And you lots are satisfied with begging ?

Vinshu:


Now that you have commented. Did it change anything?

It didnt because your mind is made up.

But the truth has been said.

You lack shame.

Vinshu:


. Everyone around me knows I'm married. So whoever is giving me a gift especially men, and expecting something in return is in for a shocker.

I sha hope U won't learn in a tight corner

wristbangle:


This one na Nitrogen cycl abi wetin? Hahahaha

lol. Na Oestrogen cycle u go soon see

A wise elderly man once told me " the more gifts a lady collects the wider her legs are spread"




Let's be realistic in this economic situation very few men would give without expecting something in return



Vinshu I respect your opinion or way of life but please and please respect our culture



Honestly are you saying none of these men you collect from have asked for something in return?

damiosy:
A wise elderly man once told me " the more gifts a lady collects the wider her legs are spread"




Let's be realistic in this economic situation very few men would give without expecting something in return



Vinshu I respect your opinion or way of life but please and please respect our culture



Honestly are you saying none of these men you collect from have asked for something in return?

They haven't asked for anything. Besides why is everyone focusing on the men part? I clearly stated both male and female. So it's not like it's every man on the street.

Also, I'm not African at all.

Affable0709:
Truth is, almost every girl does at least one of these things, are we saying they are all likely to cheat?
Other things i can think of:
*when the hubby is far away; lets say he is a traveller, soldier or something that keeps you away from her for some time, yes! She is likely to cheat.

*she is more likely to cheat when he is 'careless' in all aspect.

*when she has a higher sex drive. She's more likely to ring her ex.

I guess he means a combo of all 8 traits

Vinshu:


He is aware. Because I share them with him. As I am aware of any gift he receives, so is he aware about any gift I receive.

He is not so insecure to be concerned about whom I'm receiving gifts from because the person giving me the gift knows that there are no strings. I don't pretend to be single outside. Everyone around me knows I'm married. So whoever is giving me a gift especially men, and expecting something in return is in for a shocker.

wit diz kind comments... And u meet bad guys, hmmmm...
(singing)
I can see raping coming around...
Coming around.... Eehhhh.
Coming around.... Sister
Coming around.... Cos you're lose....
#justSinging

[quote author=Vinshu post=44851811][/quoteo]

U ARE NOT SERIOUS.PLS THINK WELL AND COME BACK. ALL LIARS SHALL HAVE THRIE PART IN THE LAKE OF FIRE...

tosyne2much:
I kuku dey on my own when oga Wristbangle start Aluta

Aluta CONTINUA !!!

* Oyah make I add my own join then*

9. She wants gender equality

She wants to rub shoulders with her husband and therefore bashes anyone who holds contrary opinion to this equality they have been fighting for; she wants the senate to formulate laws that will favour gold diggers whereby, they will marry a man today, break up with him tomorrow without a cause, and file a court case against him demanding for half of what the gentleman has laboured for.. These categories of ladies like to rea[/b]p where they did not sow and may definitely be sleeping around when married


[b] 10. They will fault the write-up


Another sign to know that a lady will be sleeping around in marriage is that, she will look for a way fault this write-up as well as making contradictions just to justify her act. If a lady condemns number 1 to 8 then she will definitely be a perfect description of the OP... We don't need to go far, the troll above me is a perfect example



*My mouth no go kill me sha *

Is this what gender equality means to you?

You have just confirmed your immaturity and how uneducated you are. Even simple google would have helped your sorry situation. But no, you are to lazy to fact find before writing trash.

Gender equality means equal treatment of both sexes, and neither should be discriminated based on their gender! Gosh!! How do you kids reason!

Gender equality is sending both male and female children go to school, as seen in many tribe, they do not believe a girl child should be educated, because she will be married off someday.

Gender equality denounces violence against women, just because they are women. Imagine a woman being dehumanised because she is a widow, her inheritance stolen from her by her husband's family, and children yanked off her. If your mother ever fell victim you won't be bold enough to type rubbish.

Gender equality is equal wages for men and women, why should a woman earn less because she is a woman? Note here I said wages and not salary, as seen in manual labouring

Gender equality is a woman joining the military without being molested and disrespected by her male counterparts (this is more visible in the US army, I don't know how it is in the nigerian army). Even in the nigerian army, which woman has ever risen to the highest rank, even if she qualifies for the rank?

Gender equality is having women that qualify professionally to make decisions in the boardroom. Check most boardrooms only men. Is it that no woman qualifies?

I have taken time out to educate you on gender equality. I do not support the bill because a bill without mindset reorientation will only be useless.

In case you didn't know, Gender equality also advocates equal treatment for both sexes, such as paternity leave for new fathers. Or don't new fathers stay up all night to wailing babies?

onstelly:
I disagree with you on this

that is a sure sign in this thread.

[quote author=Vinshu post=44851811][/quote]supposedly,,,from from a woman or should i say girl who supports women cheating on their''hubbys'.what a world of hypocrisy.smh

You're 99.9% right

henry49:
my goodness! Is this a guy ,or a girl?

So what?, are you the person i quoted?.

nefertitiram:


Is this what gender equality means to you?

You have just confirmed your immaturity and how uneducated you are. Even simple google would have helped your sorry situation. But no, you are to lazy to fact find before writing trash.

Gender equality means equal treatment of both sexes, and neither should be discriminated based on their gender! Gosh!! How do you kids reason!

Gender equality is sending both male and female children go to school, as seen in many tribe, they do not believe a girl child should be educated, because she will be married off someday.

Gender equality denounces violence against women, just because they are women. Imagine a woman being dehumanised because she is a widow, her inheritance stolen from her by her husband's family, and children yanked off her. If your mother ever fell victim you won't be bold enough to type rubbish.

Gender equality is equal wages for men and women, why should a woman earn less because she is a woman? Note here I said wages and not salary, as seen in manual labouring

Gender equality is a woman joining the military without being molested and disrespected by her male counterparts (this is more visible in the US army, I don't know how it is in the nigerian army). Even in the nigerian army, which woman has ever risen to the highest rank, even if she qualifies for the rank?

Gender equality is having women that qualify professionally to make decisions in the boardroom. Check most boardrooms only men. Is it that no woman qualifies?

I have taken time out to educate you on gender equality. I do not support the bill because a bill without mindset reorientation will only be useless.

In case you didn't know, Gender equality also advocates equal treatment for both sexes, such as paternity leave for new fathers. Or don't new fathers stay up all night to wailing babies?

Sowi !! I can see how frustrated you are... There are subtle ways to make contradictions

I thought you said before that some things are to be kept secret. Now you turn right back around to say you tell him everything. My dear you are a cheat. You shouldn't accept gifts from every dick and Harry out there cuz you think you're a hilux. One day you will fall..... That's if you haven't fallen already.

Vinshu:


@embolden

That is a very silly question.

Besides, my husband knows I accept gifts. In fact, he always wants to take take the big part of it especially if it's money. Not all men are insecure. I

tosyne2much:
Sowi !! I can see how frustrated you are... There are subtle ways to make contradictions

Next time just say thank you.

If you weren't constantly showing your ignorance, I would have been nicer.

Even the bible states "study to show thyself approved"

Research more before you write in a public forum, so that you expose the limit of your mental capacity.

FYI it's not gender equality that will make a woman divorce her husband and get half of his entire estate, a simple court marriage gives her that entitlement. But you wouldn't know. Your ignorance will not let you

Vinshu:


He is aware. Because I share them with him. As I am aware of any gift he receives, so is he aware about any gift I receive.

He is not so insecure to be concerned about whom I'm receiving gifts from because the person giving me the gift knows that there are no strings. I don't pretend to be single outside. Everyone around me knows I'm married. So whoever is giving me a gift especially men, and expecting something in return is in for a shocker.

you'l get urself into trouble soon.. “Despise the free lunch” Oversabi, just dey run mouth anyhow.

tosyne2much:
Oyah give me your reasons

What does gender equality have to do with being unfaithful?
How does holding a contrary opinion to this post make someone an adulterous woman?

Even with the gender inequality we still have men who are flagrantly promiscuous under the guise of "Men are naturally polygamous" and "I am an African man". And y'all don't say peep.

prinsam30:
what if she exhibit all these characteristics you just laid down and yet she's not sleeping around, what can we call that

what if we add 4+5 and it doesn't give us 9?

Chuvin22:
what if we add 4+5 and it doesn't give us 9?

just what I thought

MarieSucre:


What does gender equality have to do with being unfaithful?
How does holding a contrary opinion to this post make someone an adulterous woman?

Even with the gender inequality we still have men who are flagrantly promiscuous under the guise of "Men are naturally polygamous" and "I am an African man". And y'all don't say peep.

I am in support of gender equality but in a country like ours when such law is enacted, you will see the way how Nigerian ladies/women will start behaving. So it's not gonna work here

wristbangle:


I am in support of gender equality but in a country like ours when such law is enacted, you will see the way how Nigerian ladies/women will start behaving. So it's not gonna work here

You are afraid. Thats all.

nitwitfabian:


You are afraid. Thats all.

Lol afraid of what? The mentality of a black woman is much different from a white woman abeg

wristbangle:


Lol afraid of what? The mentality of a black woman is much different from a white woman abeg

You are sTill afraid. Infact, the mentality is wht ur scared of. What you all dnt know is that if u give this gender equality thingy to dem, they will beg you to come and take it back because 90 percent of african women arent fashioned to be in control. They enjoy being kept.

Vinshu:


Well, you have a point though.

why collect gifts from men at all if not greed and selfishness once u re married you steer clear,soon your husband will begin to come home with gifts from other women then you will begin to wail