POWEROFPEACE:
My fiancée took money from me one day only to wire it into another guys account. God so kind, she forgot the teller inside her bag and I saw it. I took the name and brows it on Facebook. I was very honest with the guy during our chats so that he told me the whole truth. I wish to quit the relationship even though she is begging but I don't know if that is the right decision because I will be 35 years in just few days from now. Your quality advice might just give way to meaning, Please.

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Your story is not perfectly complete. This a very serious issue you don't have to give us half baked story else u will be wrongly advised

Lilimax:
Forgive her and trust her cos she'll not do it again
Afterall she has not said I DO to you.
But If this repeats itself after your wedding, she's looking for something else

are u high or sumtin, ow cn sum1 see red flag b4 marriage and u want him to ignore. . Dozn't make sense,send the hoe away asap. . .naija is too big for nonsense.

POWEROFPEACE:
....she forgot the teller inside her bag and I saw it.

Deposit slip.

A teller is a bank offcial who supervises withdrawals and/or deposits.

Odunharry:

This is very correct.. I wonder why people are saying sit her down or talking love.
Love isn't enough but if the op can tolerate Her, good for him
As for me, even if i forgive Her, I can't trust her anymore and that the feelings I have for her will gradually start diminishing.
it's best they go seperate ways..

Those talking about sitting her down,never understand how this things work,bet me if the guy go ahead and marry the lady he will then understand my point here.

Op you can't take advise here as your post didn't touch on important issues like...
How long have they known each other.
Have they made love? from your tone I assume they have.
What exactly was the money for?
What did her phone call log reveal in terms their communication frequency. Etc
This is somewhat complicated and you may need to handle it based on facts and not opinions.

MUVA:
Ronald4 lif kindly get back to me when u see this.

Yes bruv.

alobright17:

Those talking about sitting her down,never understand how this things work,bet me if the guy go ahead and marry the lady he will then understand my point here.

very true.. I wonder who will marry someone he/she doesn't trust..
Going that path is torture to both of them..

Me I tell people, i can't Just see myself having dealings with someone I don't trust.

VanBommel:
OP u better use your head. As I type, if not for the commandment "thou shall not commit adultery" and the law of karma, I would have emptied one bag of semen inside this beautiful married ex of mine that is lying beside me on this my cozy bed.

may God help us. ur married ex? and the husband will be out working hard to take care of her and possibly the kids. SMH

AngelAhnie:
yes, we forgive easily

wow that's good.

btw...how re u?

IF she is seeing some other guy at this time, then it simply means she will continue seeing so many of them when you finally tie the knots.

In sammy okposo's voice * u better run-run -run from d devil he wants to destroy u.*
If ure playing games with d devil, ure on a highway to d grave. Quit ASAP

POWEROFPEACE:
My fiancée took money from me one day only to wire it into another guys account. God so kind, she forgot the teller inside her bag and I saw it. I took the name and brows it on Facebook. I was very honest with the guy during our chats so that he told me the whole truth. I wish to quit the relationship even though she is begging but I don't know if that is the right decision because I will be 35 years in just few days from now. Your quality advice might just give way to meaning, Please.

Decision?

Odunharry:

very true.. I wonder who will marry someone he/she doesn't trust..
Going that path is torture to both of them..

Me I tell people, i can't Just see myself having dealings with someone I don't trust.

committing such cheats in marriage is even different from doing it few months,weeks or days before marriage,besides for better for worse rules no dey for dating or relationship.

ronald4lif:

Yes bruv.

Does your pm work? I'd like to discuss something private with you.

Lilimax:

Not so! He should forgive her if truly he loves her.

4get love,that's wah u galz use in deceiving us after all ur rubbish.

phony story

what exactly did the guy confess to u?
if he told u they are still dating, then I wdnt blame u for squashing the relationship.
Except if she's sincerely remorseful.

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Julianyao:


Will be frank with you, there's no point in marriage. Just get someone to have kids for you on contract. I bet you you're not gonna have a lot to worry about.

POWEROFPEACE:
My fiancée took money from me one day only to wire it into another guys account. God so kind, she forgot the teller inside her bag and I saw it. I took the name and brows it on Facebook. I was very honest with the guy during our chats so that he told me the whole truth. I wish to quit the relationship even though she is begging but I don't know if that is the right decision because I will be 35 years in just few days from now. Your quality advice might just give way to meaning, Please.

God used this situation that just occurred now to show you that she is not the one, things like this happens few months to wedding to show us like an eye opener that the person is not meant for us, that is why we put our partner in prayer before we marry so that God can reveal to us if the person is the right one.
your financee is in love with another guy, she want to marry you for marrying sake, if you marry her,she will continue the r/ship with him and you will spend the rest of your life regretting why you married her.

About your age, do you know that you can meet the right person date her for a month and you guys will get married and you will still find peace and happiness in your marriage. My friend dated her husband for 3weeks and they got married, the are happily living together for 5years now. its about finding the right person, your soul mate,your better half.

firstEVA:
It would hurt no doubt, but I can't leave a man if I consider him fit for me in every aspect of life because he cheated at a point in time, once he is genuinely apologetic, I will forgive and go on with wedding plans.




Btw it shouldn't be news that women forgive easily, it's men that don't.

it simply shows that you are desperate to marry.

Bro for me to be frank every Man has a chance of repentance,, because believe me U too is not perfect U will fall into the same shoe someday after been married! Fact ## forgive Bro if she's your kid sis who's in her condition will U condem her to heart break?

Not önly dat she's a cheat but she also extorts money 4rm u to pay other guys 4 shagging her,u found out b4 walking down the aisle,instead of thanking God 4 d revelation,u'r here asking jamb question..marry her and u'll cum bak here to tell us how ur wife poisoned u cos she wanted to poke a guy on ur matrimonial bed..mtchew, seems men luvs marrying bad wives

POWEROFPEACE:
My fiancée took money from me one day only to wire it into another guys account. God so kind, she forgot the teller inside her bag and I saw it. I took the name and brows it on Facebook. I was very honest with the guy during our chats so that he told me the whole truth. I wish to quit the relationship even though she is begging but I don't know if that is the right decision because I will be 35 years in just few days from now. Your quality advice might just give way to meaning, Please.

You shouldn't even be asking for advise since you're old and no longer a kid.. Dump her sorry ass or else you feed the nation thru your wife (that's when you're married to her already)..

VanBommel:
OP u better use your head. As I type, if not for the commandment "thou shall not commit adultery" and the law of karma, I would have emptied one bag of semen inside this beautiful married ex of mine that is lying beside me on this my cozy bed.

please how this your married ex get to this situation with you? on the same bed for that matter? of all the places in the world, its ur bed.
please explain to us.

The devil you know is better than the devil that you don't know. What's the guarantee that the next girl won't be worse. I would recommend you forgive and overlook what she did but let her know that there won't be a second chance if she is caught again. Let her cut ties with the man... And start a completely honest life with you. It's not too late to make amends. Secondly do u mean to tell me that you have never cheated on her, had intentions to cheat or helped another female since u have known her? If you love her u will overlook.

ireneony:
Forgive and forget

Don't even type this again...

Alezy:
wow that's good.
btw...how re u?

Fine and you?

BiafraBushBoy:

Don't even type this again...

Fine boy,how far?

AngelAhnie:
Fine boy,how far?

Yo baby am fine.. Rain just spoilt my day...

nairamaniac:
please how this your married ex get to this situation with you? on the same bed for that matter? of all the places in the world, its ur bed.
please explain to us.

the truth is that before she got married, I did things that no MAN had ever done to her before, and those things drive her crazy. She was engaged even before we started doing things, which I never knew until the week of her marriage. I pray she gets over it cos it's not making sense

Vickyydera:
it simply shows that you are desperate to marry.

it's genuine love, one you've never experienced in your life. Q