Let's assume u finally let her know ur place.

Please for the sake of BossBallz, remove ur mind from bedding her that very day if u r looking for a long term r/ship n u want her for keeps.
But if u just wano ride her, then u must have used the chat to ur advantage. Either ways

i was reading dat ur experience wit DAT banker....was lafing nd wishing m d one doing all dos stuff,its fucking fun,i was lyk wu z dis guy self....PLS CAN U SHR US MORE...and I hex realise money realy hv a long way to go...cos a girl i meet some months ago,we dey go on fyn tinking I don dey c result... due to no money to tk ha to fun plcs u talking about,she no longer gv me tym again,yesterday i saw ha wit anoda guy,lafin all over him,wit ha handling alot of stuff frm shoping...all she could do z wave her hand to me,not painful too much sha...i was lyk martin d broke guy,no game, c ur lyf.lolz...buh d devil z a lier sha...no go gv up sha...buh na to face ma book wela na DAT sure for broke guy lyk me...mk I no lose to birds...

@the don dada,the bigger boss baller,the don Juan, the legendary HARDDON- Respekt man.

It actually took me 48hrs or less until this moment to go though all your drills and other corresponding comments. What a lives saver are you?!..step by step drills for 'em brotherly to geet. The way you dishing em out in etal even make it easier for me to digest,I'm enthralled.

It's so painful and shameful to see that most guys don't understand this age we in..do you have idea the ratio of female population to male's! Now you need to go figure out, then you will understand the need to take control of your emotion and stop being a jack after them females. Only if you could knew how most of them are dying inside to have a(real) man,not all the Mr nice guyish your mama raise you to be.

Brotherly,i won't want to bore you with long epistle. I will advice that guys should on no any condition fall in love with no female because from DON drills n other correspondent,the outcome has done more damage than desire. So beloved brotherly, your only sole responsibility of falling in love should be with your creator. This can only caution you against heart break.

Finally,@HARDDON don't let all drills tips go with only raising big ballers and in returns causing all 'em casualty in opposite sex go throwing venoms.We shouldn't just let 'em go without spotting our own Michelle Obama and the likes.




NB: Pls,any time you out there balling do remember CONDOM o!

Aiziko:
. Wow....nice analysis or should I say great analysis (cos u don't like being nice).I really get ur drift.So u mean the only weapon to win her back is jealousy.but how can I use it? Or in other words how can I make her jealous when am not d man other ladies want?Thanks.

Start rolling with her finer friend. Or someone finer, more endowed and rob it on her face. that is, if u know she always hand out in a place, make that place a date spot Btw u n this new catch. Let her see another gurl taking her spot with some much Luv. Play , laugh , hold hands , sing with the new catch . so u wud have her seeking ur attention.

HARDDON:


Start rolling with her finer friend. Or someone finer, more endowed and rob it on her face. that is, if u know she always hand out in a place, make that place a date spot Btw u n this new catch. Let her see another gurl taking her spot with some much Luv. Play , laugh , hold hands , sing with the new catch . so u wud have her seeking ur attention.

bro pls I need a good line in starting a chat with a girl online ,am a funny cool guy , but my problem is how to start the conversation , thanks man

HARDDON:
Let's assume u finally let her know ur place.

Please for the sake of BossBallz, remove ur mind from bedding her that very day if u r looking for a long term r/ship n u want her for keeps.
But if u just wano ride her, then u must have used the chat to ur advantage. Either ways

baba...bin dey follow this thread now for long...yo the man....ahswear..all your drills just point to one thing...you be typical Alpha male...


make I ask something confusing... is it okay to approach a new chick on streets?not that kinda street..I mean like seeing a new babe first time.....and how?

HARDDON:


5) u r a Virgin? Wow! Thank God ! I finally met my type! I am too! u wudnt bliv All the gurls I have met so far seem to be more interested in getting down with me than knowing me first!
When they start d lovey dovey, touchy smoochy moves , i usually dont respond but since dis idiat of a d1ck has a mind of itz own ( look down @ it) n wakes up, they think I want them too! They pull off my cloths, push me to the bed n sits on the d1ck while I fold my arms n watch them!
Can u imagine only them sitting on my d1ck ooo, only them go screaming ! I just lie there watching them until they clutch me like demons n give out this whytish substance from inbtw their legs. I just clean the idiat d1ck up, wear my cloths n go home!

Hahahaha... Been following your post silently for a while now.... A friend recommended it for me...



Ride on!!!!

HARDDON:
Let's assume u finally let her know ur place.

Please for the sake of BossBallz, remove ur mind from bedding her that very day if u r looking for a long term r/ship n u want her for keeps.
But if u just wano ride her, then u must have used the chat to ur advantage. Either ways

The best way to get her home, is not to ask her over! Is to take her home!

When u play ur card so well, she wud naturally pester u cos she wano come know ur place!


How do u play ur card well? .....by never inviting her over n when she ask about where u stay, u always make fun of the question every time! She wud get curious to know what u r trying to hid.
This is d trick bad boys user to get ladies so stung ! The more they try to know y bboys behave like they do n try to change them, d more they fall head over heels!


Keep her guessing, anticipating,,,, it generates romantic tension Btw u two.

Always remember :

Sense Pill 37: The Party that SendsLess in any marriage or r/ship has d controlling nob of the other!

HARDDON:



The best way to get her home, is not to ask her over! Is to take her home!

When u play ur card so well, she wud naturally pester u cos she wano come know ur place!


How do u play ur card well? .....by never inviting her over n when she ask about where u stay, u always make fun of the question every time! She wud get curious to know what u r trying to hid.
This is d trick bad boys user to get ladies so stung ! The more they try to know y bboys behave like they do n try to change them, d more they fall head over heels!


Keep her guessing, anticipating,,,, it generates romantic tension Btw u two.

Always remember :

Sense Pill 37: The Party that SendsLess in any marriage or r/ship has d controlling nob of the other!

chairman...still dey await your reply..this the post again



baba...bin dey follow this thread now for long...yo the man....ahswear..all your drills just point to one thing...you be typical Alpha male...
make I ask something confusing... is it okay to approach a new chick on streets?not that kinda street..I mean like seeing a new babe first time.....and how?

The Party that SendsLess in any marriage or r/ship has d controlling nob of the other!

KAI I don fvck up

lodphil:
Bro u r doing a great work

Pls there's this chick DAT has been giving me green light,but immediately I started talking to her she kind of always tells me DAT she knows what I want by my looks and DAT I will not get it.From her body language and d way she looks at my face and lips I know she really lyks me,she has even told me so once;there was a tym I sent her a friend request on FB,she never accepted it buh always accepts other people's request,I had to later cancel the request.Have asked for her number buh she declined giving it to me,saying she will give it to me later.

I just want to forget about the chick and move on,am not the desperate kind of guy.

Dis kind of thing always happens to me with chicks;they show me green light,buh once I meet them even without intending to ask them out,they start forming hard to get.Some even snub me when I say hello to them,and later start staring at me,expecting me to meet them again.

Boss pls I need guidance here.

Ladies always want to test u. Cos they want to be sure if u r what u seem to be.
They want to get into ur head, mess with ur emotions, confuse ur brain and then watch in amusement as so many guys fail this test !
Once u fail the test, they friend zone u.

When gurls give u green light, it means:

1) its a test to see if u wud just blaze in n want to bed them or u know ur onion n this trick of theirs n hold ur own.

2) they like u but don't wano come cheap, so they spin d green light ish n get u to declare interest so it seem u r the one that want them n they start playing hard to get

3) they want to steal u from ur boo n spoil d fun r/ship Btw u guys! A lil interest from u, n they r in ur bed, in ur head .


But I think in ur case, ur body language is undoing u. That is not helped also by ur words .

Women read meaning a lot into our body / facial languages n most time, they r right.
U need to change ur body language

temi4fash:


Meet a babe on whatsapp..

we are in a group together on whatsapp

She pm first but said it was a mistake, i said no wahala but there are no mistakes in life, we got hooked up for a reason and held a brief convo with her via whatsapp.

Then about 3 or 4 days ago she just sent me pm and we have been having a not too part convo though i go blank sometime.

But i dont think i have done badly so far.

what do i want?

Just dont wanna blow it. i want to be unpredictable and enjoy the moment and see where it leads us.

Can you good tips on how to do that.

Thanks

The bolded is ur bane. What we fear most times, comes to pass.

Be u gee! U r d boss. N bosses don't get scared of blowing it with their subordinates!
Its d subordinates that r usually scared of blowing it.
All u need r all over the threads.
DIGEST IT .

LeoSneh:
bro all my life.. I've always been admired by them girls, some even tell me bluntly, but due to shyness I'll be acting all nice to them. a girl once asked if I don't like her because when I see her I behave as if I don't, which in turn draws her/them more closer to me, but deep within I really want to have the girl... I just want that bad guy strategy... and I'm now learning to overcome shyness.. so now I want to face the girls bold this time but I don't know how to... get their number, moreover due to shyness I can't get a girl. 2. there was this girl that likes me so much and she visited me one day... as I said I'm now overcoming shyness I tried to make a move and she refused.. how do I get her back and so she'll concur to my advances?? and to girls in general how and when do you make the move when she pays you a visit.

To be Blunt,
Gurls don't like u sexually ! Its the shyness/niceness foolishness in u they like!

They see u as their brother , not a potential date.
The like ur honey not U d bee.

All u need r lined up in these threads, go tru them n digest them!

I have also dealt with shy guy issues n how to overcome them b4 , look for it in the pages

junnyjake:
man, I gotta really say you've been doing a really wonderful job here, with your tips I bet even a monkey who forgot to pay his brain bills would easily woo a lady with minimal stress.

I would PM you about something I need your help with.

let me share my story.



I wasn't a good guy from the start, I was using stuffs but then I commanded lots of attention from the female folks.
then I was confused, was it d fact that I'm dark, 6 ft tall, handsome, with purple underlip, with an impressive muscular structure, my baritone voice even though I never really seemed interested in dating most of the time because I was really dedicated to my job.
and I don't stress when trying to get any ladies attraction, no matter how beautiful, I always have my way.
so I suddenly started dating a lady, I didn't have much time for her because of my job, she sees very little of me, she tried hard to change my destructive habits which she failed miserably at, always wanting me around, with just a little misunderstanding I'm all ballistic- this scares her. we didn't last up to a year before I broke up with her for cheating, though remorseful and contrite, I never changed my mind.


fast forward 2 years later
I met a damsel, Now I decided it's time to grow up, I no longer do stuffs and this changed me in ways I couldn't imagine, going soft, not easily angry, laugh and joke around, something I rarely did.
This also affected how I treated ladies, I'm more calm, call like 5 times a day till she got tired of me, I just wasn't the tough guy I used to be. love happened to me and I blindly fell in, I gave myself totally to her in love.
wasn't too long before she dumped my a$s.

then I realized that of course my looks were attractive but not enough and them ladies weren't attracted to me only because of that but the bad boy they saw in me, the feeling that they have a kind of a competition to please me. Then I realized that I needed to toughen up and get my acts together.
And I know I won't go back to the way I was - the things I was using, the only part I'd revive is the divinity of the alpha male.

lessons:
never compromise your hustle 4 no lady.

once she feels she can have you all to herself, that's when you begin to lose her.

don't lay blame on her if she breaks up with you, you're mostly part of it through your actions and inactions.

guys should stop being an a$$ in midst of other men, its a major turn off. Don't allow your friends permit you around.

I guess, that's enough said, HARDDON, you gon reply my mail right?

Lol @ bolded! U cracked me up gee !
Btw, these r not Tips, They r DRILLS!

Life is all about balance: unpredictability is the right word!

U never know the next move of a bad boy, he might call today, n in the next one week, forget that she exist. Then she wud be forced to call n know what is going on . if he is cheating again? If he is alright ... This is what creates attraction.

This is why gud gurls get so hunged on b gees .

U can't afford to get humble in the jungle, u can't be too soft, nida can u be too hard! Even d sun , as hawt as it gets, smile some times .

SENSE PILL 40: THE WORSE THING A GUY CAN DO IS TO GIVE HIS LADY FULL SEAT IN HIS LIFE. U BECOME REDUNDANT ALWAYS UP IN HER FACE!
GIVE HER THE GIFT OF MISSING U!

nb: sand is an element as Gold is, how come the world crave gold n not sand?
SEE?

Be there, yet not There! Ladies Luv that.

I have heard a lot tell me that I only call whenever jRod needs servicing ! Yet they still come over!

Aiziko:
Hardin pls I don't know how to say did but u gotta help me out.I know I am shy and previously a sucker in the ladies world. There is dis my dream lady that I can die for.I use to act nice to her but afta reading ur thread I changed my attitude towards her.this has got her somewhat amused as she replies in her chat with:", smh o,nawa o,hehen".The problem is I don't know what to do now.Advice is needed pls

@ bolded
Boss don't die for his worker, his workers die for him!

Snap out of that niceMAN attitude.

.

frankmoney:
Nice work man .. I need your help , am a shy guy generally .. My problem is how to start up a convo without the usual boring questions like how are and how was your day , please help me out

Go tru the pages of this thread!

There are a lot of practical flows u can use when rolling red.

But u must deal with ur shyness first b4 u think of rolling with ladies !

It beats my imagination how a guy can be shy!?
Shyness is one of ladies' attributes not guys!

martoz:
i was reading dat ur experience wit DAT banker....was lafing nd wishing m d one doing all dos stuff,its fucking fun,i was lyk wu z dis guy self....PLS CAN U SHR US MORE...and I hex realise money realy hv a long way to go...cos a girl i meet some months ago,we dey go on fyn tinking I don dey c result... due to no money to tk ha to fun plcs u talking about,she no longer gv me tym again,yesterday i saw ha wit anoda guy,lafin all over him,wit ha handling alot of stuff frm shoping...all she could do z wave her hand to me,not painful too much sha...i was lyk martin d broke guy,no game, c ur lyf.lolz...buh d devil z a lier sha...no go gv up sha...buh na to face ma book wela na DAT sure for broke guy lyk me...mk I no lose to birds...

I'd share more as we go on...... From the beginning of the convo to the end of the jungle ........ Fasten ur Date belt!

@ bolded, money has no bearing in dating. Just that it adds a lil swag n fun n surprise element n some guys say it gives them confidence!

But it shldnt be the bases of ur dating life!
Btw, I said FUN places not EXPENSIVE PLACES.
Places that can help u break d bonds Btw u guys. N relate more physically.

If u don't have 1.5k to take a gurl out, u mos def have 300 to prepare her special indomie don't u?

Call her up @ noon n say : hey, I went to d market today( anticipation). Dinner @ this address....( drop ur address ) tell her u are the chef there. Give her time the dinner wud be serving ...( anticipation, surprise , ) how can she resist that? SEE?

Btw, Neva look down on ur self.... Keep @ these skills n acquire some money making skills , soon u do Gud!


U shld know nonetheless, that money is an essential ingredient if u wano take d r/ship to marriage levels.

luckgood:
@the don dada,the bigger boss baller,the don Juan, the legendary HARDDON- Respekt man.

It actually took me 48hrs or less until this moment to go though all your drills and other corresponding comments. What a lives saver are you?!..step by step drills for 'em brotherly to geet. The way you dishing em out in etal even make it easier for me to digest,I'm enthralled.

It's so painful and shameful to see that most guys don't understand this age we in..do you have idea the ratio of female population to male's! Now you need to go figure out, then you will understand the need to take control of your emotion and stop being a jack after them females. Only if you could knew how most of them are dying inside to have a(real) man,not all the Mr nice guyish your mama raise you to be.

Brotherly,i won't want to bore you with long epistle. I will advice that guys should on no any condition fall in love with no female because from DON drills n other correspondent,the outcome has done more damage than desire. So beloved brotherly, your only sole responsibility of falling in love should be with your creator. This can only caution you against heart break.

Finally,@HARDDON don't let all drills tips go with only raising big ballers and in returns causing all 'em casualty in opposite sex go throwing venoms.We shouldn't just let 'em go without spotting our own Michelle Obama and the likes.




NB: Pls,any time you out there balling do remember CONDOM o!

If not that I got my Emotions in check, I wud hve been floating in them sexy skies because of ur praises!
Do u play the talking drum? Cos only those men got these kinda sleek praise swags!



Yea u right about falling in luv n heart breaks! They r like bread n butter! Some get lucky anyways n marry that very one! Only a Lilliputian few though!
Luv in r/ship, no matter what any1 tells u out there, is a weakening force. It robs u of all ur guts n ur manliness . it deballs u n leaves u headless, lifeless n wanting. This is why u go seeing people wanting to commit suicide when boo break up wit em cos they know that the only need to life they got( their balls) is gone!


Ofcos , we ain't here to raise drones . our aim is to raise men that understands what is it TO BE A MAN and also r in the KNOW about LADIES' WORLD ( TRICKS , GAMES, ALL D DIFF LIGHTS THEY EMIT). And therefore, are well placed to draw Luv n attraction from them lady folks n if they so chose, WIFE THAT ONE THAT ONE THAT MEETs THEIR HIGH STANDARDS.

SENSE PILL 40: LADIES ARE ATTEACTED TO GUYS WITH SEXUAL EXPERIENCE N STAMINA. GUYS THAT R SO SEXUALLY BALANCED( SEEN IT ALL IN THE WORLDS OF WOMEN) THAT GURLS DONT FREAK THEM EASILY.



and finally , condoms( this is just brilliant of u!) I was coming to this point though. We just started talking about getting physical.

Words of wisdom from u gee n hey,

Ur dick isn't meant for every thing under skirts!
Have standards ( yea thatz me throwing weak jab)

Good day Harddon.... I made the 'big' mistake of telling her I LOVE her and afterwards she said she'll give me an answer after our exams.... I'm a final year student and she'll be entering her 300level after the said exams.





According to my deductions, the reason she's holding back her answer is because I'll be leaving after exams...


The truth of the whole matter is that the feeling is mutual between us..,..



By the way, after coming across this post , I haven't called , texted or whatsapped her since last week....



What's the next step??...


Thanks for your time.,.. sorry for the long epistle

frankmoney:
bro pls I need a good line in starting a chat with a girl online ,am a funny cool guy , but my problem is how to start the conversation , thanks man

There r no perfect lines out there , just perfect situations , perfect picture, perfect update n/ or perfect U.
The main ingredience in this dish is ur ability to think on ur feet!
Study her past posts, comments,picture updates, her Bio, her signature , her friends , her response to other guys.... Then spin lines with these

go tru the thread n read how I swun fun n wit when with ladies. U wud learn how to start convo.
What ever u do, ur stating line should be catchy , strangely fun! Attractive


Here is an example of d one i threw to one of my 9ner on Fb last month:

On her bio page, she wrote she doesn't respond to Inbox Mges but like meeting new people, like cheese .... n based on who I am, I see tru such BS , guess what I did? inboxed her with:



ME: I wanted to say "Hi" but realised u must have been saying hello to some other guys, so I maintained. Wanted to sing soul but noticed u cant dance, so I chilled. Wanted to tell u wor I'm about but realised u rather not meet new people, had to burst d idea. I came with chocolate but u do cheese n chess, couldnt but roll.
One thing im yet to figure out is: how can some1 be sweet as saccharine yet as cold as a stone? How can some1 Luv meeting people yet not care if they freeze or fry?
Here is whirlwind, still got ur sky diving adventurous suit?

( she responded immediately)

HER: Hi I might

ME : Hello I might not. Sure u got enough adventure to ride this whirlwind lil one?


.....n it goes on......
Guess where we @ now?

HARDDON good evening boss i need your help I'm already shy to talk to girls even if I manage to talk to them I always ask boring questions like do you stay around this side,what's your name things like that

druxy:
baba...bin dey follow this thread now for long...yo the man....ahswear..all your drills just point to one thing...you be typical Alpha male...


make I ask something confusing... is it okay to approach a new chick on streets?not that kinda street..I mean like seeing a new babe first time.....and how?

Alpha Male? Is there a word like that?

Don't mind the men that coined that word : they just felt very posh with their pumpous self cos of the lil light they saw tru into the world of women!
N just saw how weak n needy other guys were n coined that to put a wedge Btw them n those that don't understand women!
Just like the rich doing everything to keep d poor , poor!

But do u know the gospel truth?

God created all men as 'alpha males'
We all have the latent ability just ignorance that blinds the eyes of the majority!

Did u read in d Bible? Abraham's pet name from Sarah is lord?

Learn the light off here n u wud turn one urself!

Ofcos u can and should always approach motion ladies! But I don't recomment it to newbies !

Motion targets can be trickish most expecially if u ooze the wrong airs n body language. They r trickish cos they r in motion. They can cross the road abruptly , start making calls, branch a store (even though they ain't buying nothing, n sit down Dere) , take a bike or taxi.....all to gt u off their backs. These can discourage a newbie.


I recommend stationary targets for a start, meet @ banks, shopping mall, eateries , gym, poolside, spa , lecture halls, hostel etc...... Places u know she isn't going no where soon.....


If u have been following the thread, then u wud have been so gud with striking convo cos we have dealt with that

PreciousRahl:





Hahahaha... Been following your post silently for a while now.... A friend recommended it for me...



Ride on!!!!

That friend must like u so much! If it is a lady, know that she luvs u n take ball steps to cuddle her

if it is a guy, know that he wants u to save all the unnecceasery money u been blowing on random gurls without getting laid so u can increase his beer quota!
However it is, u r so screwed now! Hahaha



Kindly remind us, which brand of ride r we cruising on?

HARDDON:


Alpha Male? Is there a word like that?

Don't mind the men that coined that word : they just felt very posh with their pumpous self cos of the lil light they saw tru into the world of women!
N just saw how weak n needy other guys were n coined that to put a wedge Btw them n those that don't understand women!
Just like the rich doing everything to keep d poor , poor!

But do u know the gospel truth?

God created all men as 'alpha males'
We all have the latent ability just ignorance that blinds the eyes of the majority!

Did u read in d Bible? Abraham's pet name from Sarah is lord?

Learn the light off here n u wud turn one urself!

Ofcos u can and should always approach motion ladies! But I don't recomment it to newbies !

Motion targets can be trickish most expecially if u ooze the wrong airs n body language. They r trickish cos they r in motion. They can cross the road abruptly , start making calls, branch a store (even though they ain't buying nothing, n sit down Dere) , take a bkke or taxi.....all to gt u off their backs. These can discourage a newbie.


I recommend stationary targets for a start, meet @ banks, shopping mall, eateries , gym, poolside, spa , lecture halls, hostel etc...... Places u know she isn't going no where soon.....


If u have been following the thread, then u wud have been so gud with striking convo cos we have dealt with the

hehe....una wan fall my hand sha..una wan tell me say Alpha/real men ain't a word...every man only need to bring out that part with your drills...BTW...being an alpha doesn't entails only skills with women...you are a pro.... no need to talk on that bro


BTW...kindly drop the drills for going for non stationary babes...learning ain't ever enough...*winks*

HARDDON:



That friend must like u so much! If it is a lady, know that she luvs u n take ball steps to cuddle her

if it is a guy, know that he wants u to save all the unnecceasery money u been blowing on random gurls without getting laid so u can increase his beer quota!
However it is, u r so screwed now! Hahaha



Kindly remind us, which brand of ride r we cruising on?

Hahaha , it was a guy who introduced me to this thread after I told him to share babes for me

I don't get the question you asked



"Which kind of brand are we cruising on?"


Please come down to my level


Thanks!

I have been on this thread for a bit now but m not that c&f guy I just go straight to the point
I have a girl on Bbm I plan on meeting dis weekend a pool meeting to be precise but the problem here is I don't know how to take it to the flirty stage..
I need help boss

HARDDON:


The bolded is ur bane. What we fear most times, comes to pass.

Be u gee! U r d boss. N bosses don't get scared of blowing it with their subordinates!
Its d subordinates that r usually scared of blowing it.
All u need r all over the threads.
DIGEST IT .

Thanks

Master HARDDON, there's this girl(my classmate in sec school) we last saw each other in 2012, she added me on 2go and we had all those dry chats back then; and we've not really had a great conversation( just d normal questions and answers thing like:do u have a girlfriend and all that). She called me last december to wish me a happy christmas but I was "too du.mb" to take over from there.

though I'm no longer using the number she has but I have her number. the main point is that I've been having her on my mind lately, so what aproach would you recommend/suggest for calling her.

N.b we're both 22.

luisina:

@dp

Looks like you done with some round of bed exercise... Though not pleasurable. I feel your disappointment

I have this girl I like very much, we talk usually on phone or when we meet on campus. I recently invited her over and she agreed to come. My question is, is she In for the sex or is she just coming as a friend. Don't want to fall my hand.