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Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by nuellabond(f): 2:39pm On Jul 11, 2006
Is it possible for a man love a lady and still cheat on her?
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by DaHitler(m): 2:41pm On Jul 11, 2006
Its very possible.
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by Busta(f): 2:44pm On Jul 11, 2006
@ nuellabond

thats a very good question but i think the answer is Yes, lets see wat other pple are gonna say here
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by Hotstepper(f): 2:50pm On Jul 11, 2006
yes, depends tongue
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by Busta(f): 2:57pm On Jul 11, 2006
@ Hotstepper

depends on wat?
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by DaHitler(m): 3:00pm On Jul 11, 2006
I don't think it depends on anything. Its just male nature. If you can get away with, you most likely will cheat. Personally, I won't because I am too busy to juggle 2 girls at once. cool
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by Hotstepper(f): 3:04pm On Jul 11, 2006
I still believe there are still gurls and guyz who won't cheat and am one of dem, watz da joy of it?
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by shadex1(m): 3:13pm On Jul 11, 2006
nuellabond:

Is it possible for a man love a lady and still cheat on her

lipsrsealed
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by saintchux(m): 4:47pm On Jul 11, 2006
Cheating someone you love is not possible.

What is love? If you really love someone you will not do anything that will hurt the person. The problem we have is that people use to take their emotion and feeling as love. True love is a commitment. A commtiment not to cheat your spouse. A commitment to have a feeling of your spouse. A commitment to always be there for your spouse. A commitment to always cherish your spouse.

You cheat when the commitment are no more there. Check this.

A man got married and the wife naggs ( don't ask me why) after seven year, the guy got himself another girl to cool off.
The commitment is now dead. so what happen, is that the guy does not care any more. No more commitment. The spouse feeling is no more an issue.

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Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by toptho(f): 7:34pm On Jul 11, 2006
Many guys argue that it is possible to love someone and still cheat on them.They say they are usually attracted to a/some quality/ies different from that of their girlfriends'.
i dont think so anyway,if u love someone u shld find it difficult to cheat,u might find someone else attractive but u shld never act on it.
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by shadex1(m): 7:41pm On Jul 11, 2006
its absolutely possible to love someone n cheat on the person
man body no be wood.
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jul 11, 2006
Duhhhhhhhhhhh angry angry, Wat kinda question is this, y not, Is he a spirit that he cant move at the slit touch of a lady??
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by luvly(f): 10:32am On Jul 13, 2006
I blive a guy can love a girl and still cheat on her.its in their nature 2 cheat.
guys 4 give me abeg oooooooo smiley

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Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by babymine(f): 10:47am On Jul 13, 2006
Some guys say they can because it's in their nature but I don't think it's applicable to them all.
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by Oracle(m): 3:40am On Jul 14, 2006
Love for a woman doesnt mean there won't be any heartbreak, besides we hear about loving couples who lived for over 10 yrs and still suffer the pain of heartbreak.
the vital thing is the RESISTANCE -------- The ability of the Man to resist temptation. Bcoz whether you're in love or not temptations will definitely come.

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Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by hotangel2(f): 5:52am On Jul 14, 2006
Impossible upon imposicant.

If you really really love somebody, u won't intentionaly cheat on her. If you r drunk, i understand. But being in ur normal sense, u will not cheat on her/him.

The answer is NO. A man cannot LOVE a lady and still cheat on her. He'll first of all have to change the definition of "love".
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by Nobody: 7:51am On Jul 14, 2006
Its possible but i wouldnt call it TRUE LOVE then but its possible.
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by mamaput(f): 7:58am On Jul 14, 2006
It is possible , very then sex has nothing to do with love. A man can forget about it the moment its over. But the woman he loves is always on his mind.
The only thing that will stop him is the fear of loosing the woman.
I had a boyfriend that was seeing other Women (Girls) then. All knew he was my boyfriend but they still say him . he did not love them they did not love him.It was just all about Money.
And they knew. They also knew he loved me,

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Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by mamaput(f): 8:01am On Jul 14, 2006
hot-angel I think it is a woman that will not cheat on a man if she loves him . A woman loves with her whole heat mind and Body.
If she dose it , she had avery good reason and will hate her self for doing it, she will even feel like confessing.
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by thupsie(m): 12:05pm On Jul 14, 2006
Ladie this has been for ages and its high time u recognise just keep ur mind of it no matter what , men will always have extra tyre Its serves has check and balance of our moral decadance!!!!!
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by thupsie(m): 12:10pm On Jul 14, 2006
Ladie this has been for ages and its high time u recognise just keep ur mind of it no matter what , men will always have extra tyre   Its serves has check and balance of our moral decadance!!!!!
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by hibans(f): 1:50pm On Jul 15, 2006
Its possible me can do anything when it comes to sex, but i believe there are still young men up there who cant even try that bull shit.
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by IBBFan(m): 2:05pm On Jul 15, 2006
if a man doesn't cheat while in a committed relationship (or even when married), then he'll never know the worth of his woman. if a woman tries it, she'll regret why her fish brain though about such and might think further of doing something stupider.
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by hibans(f): 2:07pm On Jul 15, 2006
Its possible, men can do anything when it comes to sex part.

But i believe there are still good ones up there if u search well, lol

Is anyone cheat on u?
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by kheme(m): 7:36pm On Jul 15, 2006
NO!!!! Love is NOT selfish! cheating on her would be selfish!
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by CalabarMan(m): 9:25pm On Jul 15, 2006
My people SEX and LOVE are two different things for men. We can sleep with someone we don't love and love someone without sleeping with them. So the answer to your question is yes.

I have this colleague who recently got married he promised never to sleep with the babe until they got married as he was badly in love with her but he was busy sowing his wild oates all over town prior to the wedding. Now he is married and sticks to his wife alone.
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by Nia: 9:08am On Jul 16, 2006
I think the question should apply to both men and women because cheating occurs among both groups of people.  To answer the question, I'll say "no".  What it all comes down to is discipline. Real love requires (self) discipline and self control.
Nobody has a monopoly on temptation because we all get tempted every now and then. What matters is how we handle those temptations. In order to prevent hurting someone we care about, we learn to keep those temptations in check. When you really care about someone and you respect them enough to conclude that you "love" them, I think you will work hard to prevent them from losing their trust in you, or make them question or abandone their relationship with you, which can happen as a result of cheating.
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by Seun(m): 11:08pm On Jul 16, 2006
CalabarMan and others, would you accept it if a woman says she slept with a man but she really loves you?

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Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by desiree(f): 11:21pm On Jul 16, 2006
MEN don't love anything or anyone but their willies.
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by adconline(m): 1:32am On Jul 17, 2006
It only happens in Maury Show. Anyway, my mere understanding of love is when a mother unconditionally loves her child.

good day
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by Busta(f): 2:40am On Jul 17, 2006
adconline:

It only happens in Maury Show. Anyway, my mere understanding of love is when a mother unconditionally loves her child.

good day

LOL grin
Re: Can A Man Love A Woman And Still Cheat On Her? by iice(f): 6:54am On Jul 17, 2006
yes its possible but it depends on the person, some ppl got more control than others tongue

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