Walking on the street that leads to my workshop, I stopped by my 'customers' shop to exchange pleasantries.

We were still talking when a lady that sells 'okpa' came around to collect her money from those who bought but didn't pay immediately. A particular guy started teasing her with subtle threats not to pay her.

The drama became irritating and I asked my customer why he couldn't just hand over the money to her so she could continue with her daily hussle. He smiled and said 'he had slept with her'

What has that got to do with anything.., I asked?

You won't understand. He slept with her and told his friends about it. Everybody here knows he slept with her.. I'm sure others have taken their rounds to sleep with her.

Why are you telling me this? What will this information do in my life? He slept with her.. And so??

Don't you know her dignity and honor as a lady has been shattered??

At this point I was visibly annoyed.. Which dignity? So having consensual sex with a fellow adult will reduce a lady's dignity while that of the man would stay intact.

You are a lady. If it is public knowledge that a man slept with you, it is a thing of shame.

See ehn, if I have sex with a man and he decides to tell the whole street that he had sex with me, it wouldn't faze me a bit. I would make sure I walk the street each day with head held high. If there is anything that would shame me at this stage of my life, it ain't sex.. I told him and continued with my journey visibly annoyed.

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Guys, if you practice Kiss and tell, You are indescribably stupid.
If you feel it is okay to tell your friends that you had sex with a girl in a bid to shame her, you are still stupid.
Ladies, there is nothing to be ashamed of if the sex was consensual. I'm not advocating you sleep with whoever comes your way, but if you do decide and its consensual, there is still nothing to be ashamed of.
Your honor and dignity isn't lost simply because you had sex. Who started this bullshit?

It is sad living in a society where a lady is shamed and made an object of ridicule simply because she had sex with another who somehow find covering from societal tags and labels.
The lady becomes the one with the lost honor and dignity while the other participating party is left off the hook because of his gender.

This is the society we live in and it is still sad that a whole lot will defend this ridiculousness.

Kachisbarbie:
Hopeless?
That's harsh...I agree though, irredeemably hopeless.

TheManfromKenya:
What is there in telling people u slept with a girl... Same girls that we go abt saying how u cummed in 3 mins or have a small pee pee later ?..
As long as i paid you and u didnt f me for free, if i like i go NTA i go announce., e no concern anybody

TheManfromKenya:
What is there in telling people u slept with a girl... Same girls that we go abt saying how u cummed in 3 mins or have a small pee pee later ?..

As long as i paid you and u didnt f me for free, if i like i go NTA i go announce., e no concern anybody

Ishilove:
This submission by Facebook user Vivian Adaeze is timely, and I agree wholeheartedly with her. Guys who kiss and tell are weak, spineless, cretinous and are not fit to be called men. I feel nothing but contempt for such weak specimens of manhood.

Ishilove:
This submission by Facebook user Vivian Adaeze is timely, and I agree wholeheartedly with her. Guys who kiss and tell are weak, spineless, cretinous and are not fit to be called men. I feel nothing but contempt for such weak specimens of manhood.

fairlyusedpant:
Cc lalasti.clala nwachukwu the only chief ogadimna atulegwu 1 from the tribe of aba... Better topic don show, abeg take am to the promise land

ireneony:
why...like say other topics nor deserve fp.
guy stop to de assslick

HungerBAD:
Do i Blame the men?no.

Do I blame the women?yes.

A woman that respects herself,should be very selective and careful with the kind of men she sleeps with,especially if you want your name and dignity intact.

When you sleep with grown babies,who run about talking about their sexual exploits,then expect tales about you.

Women who allow kids masquerading as men,deceive them into sending naked pictures,taking naked pictures of them or even engaging themselves in making sex videos,should expect their disgrace sometimes in the nearest future.

Some even get these videos,as gifts to their husbands on their wedding day.

Yes,the modern women like the writer of this story can say sex is overhyped,and she can walk with her head held up high after sleeping around.

But the good women,brought up properly by any good family will not make comments like that.

They will rather not want their sexual discretion become a public discuss.

Tallesty1:
Good things taste best when shared, fvck stories inclusive.

Don't mind me, ts childish but ladies also brag to their friends when they get a guy with a bigger cock