HARDDON:



She's got ur ballz mehn!
U, out of been naive, have giving her d controlling numb n oh boy! How she controls u so!

Bliv me,
B4 she kissed u, she had been sending subtle signals u cudnt decode. She had to lady up n kissed u. U should Hv stressed n teased her b4 letting her taste ur lips.
Btw
When a gurl says I'd be leaving soon, it means take d moment n make gud use of it n stop been a clueless duck!

Where she is going to might be to meet a guy like me..... bliv me, I have had other guys spend on girls, even romance her but they just excused em selves, call me up n oops!


There is something u should learn fast n that is never blaze in not matter how u feel she needs u.

I told u guys countles times:

SENSE PILL 59:
In arousal, men got switch, u flip on just @ d sight of some soft mounds while women got NUMB, u have to gently n stealthly increase it's intensity. Any attempt to flip a numb, u burst d arousal bubbles!


U can't just jump from kiss To popping off boob1es! Unless ofcos she is a regular!

N u never apologize for been a man!

Countles Times I've made gurls do what they never imagined, making them sleep over even when they had made other plans is myhobby!
Theyluv spending times wit fun people


I've made ladies fail their exams b4 Cos they read to a point they became bored, I came on d scene wit my tension relieving pills only for them to forget they got papers d next day n had me overdose!

Countless times I've made gurls abandon their loving n caring bfs for my crazy adventures!
wit me, stolen water, always taste sweeter

Never apologize

HARDDON:



She's got ur ballz mehn!
U, out of been naive, have giving her d controlling numb n oh boy! How she controls u so!

Bliv me,
B4 she kissed u, she had been sending subtle signals u cudnt decode. She had to lady up n kissed u. U should Hv stressed n teased her b4 letting her taste ur lips.
Btw
When a gurl says I'd be leaving soon, it means take d moment n make gud use of it n stop been a clueless duck!

Where she is going to might be to meet a guy like me..... bliv me, I have had other guys spend on girls, even romance her but they just excused em selves, call me up n oops!


There is something u should learn fast n that is never blaze in not matter how u feel she needs u.

I told u guys countles times:

SENSE PILL 59:
In arousal, men got switch, u flip on just @ d sight of some soft mounds while women got NUMB, u have to gently n stealthly increase it's intensity. Any attempt to flip a numb, u burst d arousal bubbles!


U can't just jump from kiss To popping off boob1es! Unless ofcos she is a regular!

N u never apologize for been a man!

Countles Times I've made gurls do what they never imagined, making them sleep over even when they had made other plans is myhobby!
Theyluv spending times wit fun people


I've made ladies fail their exams b4 Cos they read to a point they became bored, I came on d scene wit my tension relieving pills only for them to forget they got papers d next day n had me overdose!

Countless times I've made gurls abandon their loving n caring bfs for my crazy adventures!
wit me, stolen water, always taste sweeter

Never apologize

HARDDON:



Know what she is doing to u now? It Is called basic law of Economics!

the scarce d commodity, d higher d value/ price.

The more she ignores u, the more needy u'd get, d more needy u get, d farther u drive her off!

Now get up on ur feetz $older! Dust urself up n start ignoring her too! Bliv me, if she has any feelings 4 u, she wud soon start calling....which u must ignore.
While @ it, meet other ladies wit these drills !

Sense Pill 60:

U r too handsome n special to be toiled with!
Don't hesitate to let go any gurl that is not worth it

berbz:
thanks so much...

Chiscomax:
Before I make another move let me consult the oracle harddon. The conversation with the girl on WhatsApp has been going very well. Every time she keep calling me a stalker but me in return keeps turning it on her calling her the stalker. She has refused to tell me where she stays even when we live in the same city for now. I asked Ber where she lives and funnily, she replied with "I live in a house"... I think j am giving in much at the moment t and I want to quit chatting with her for a while maybe until Saturday. What do u say?

elkon:
what's up..bro.. Please I need ur advice on dis..I don't know If I was d one having dis problem or nt..Please I don't even know what wrong with me..im physically okay.. toning chocolates skin. . etc. ever since my ex nd I split up I find it difficult to get a gal. my problem is whenever I saw a girl dt I like I used to be scared or afraid to approach dem.or.let m say I don't know what to say to dem... am some kind of guys dt was endowed with swag..Please help ooo.. which rituals do ii need to perform. .

Bodmas94:
Hey, harddon.....
I wanna commend you for the great job you've been doing here.....your ship hasn't lost steam at all......
I want to know your thoughts on how to go about bursting the brains of girls who want to pretend that they are pious which I know it's not totally true cos they are human.....and not some form of robots.....I recently met a girl on whatsapp who alleges to be one of them.....she rebuffs every kind of sassy and flirty conversations between us (as recommended by you)...she tries to act prude.....she is always like "please change topic"....... any suggestion as to what I should do.....

Principe:
Harddon well done.

How do you keep yourself safe?apart from using protection do you sometimes reject some 'offers' because you are not sure of the person?

Even though I use protection sometimes I get scared.

HARDDON:


These spurred me on.

Luckily, d madam was a sweet nice lil one

HARDDON:



She wasnt as jelos n surprised as her gurls.

Told her i needed some lin, she asked about d size( now here is d deal, this was meant to be a surprise package, n while we were having pne of those sweet nothings moments, bae had told me 38" with an alphabet attached)

I promptly told d madam cup 38".
She went on to ask about d what d letter was, i didnt know cos bae didnt say!
To ease tins, she asked if it was a small 38 , mid or big 38, i had no idea but i used d law of visualization n picked mid 38.

She showed me a wide range of them, i felt em then finally coughed out 12k for 1. Pant"s elastic, so no worries bout that.

HARDDON:
If you may, I must say..... dont remember the last time kiss came first for me

HARDDON:
Id usually skip kissing, use other modes to achieve my aim

benjsniper33:
Hello my dear HARDON, I need your help more than EVER, I feel I am trapped, confused and cornered or even controlled, This is how I feel but I am not really sure . My self-esteem, respect and independence is at stake here. HARDON I need your help, candid advice and brutal solution to my predicament . This is my story.

When I was in 100 level, I was serious-minded, focused, determined and studious, all I did was come into the lecture room and leave immediately after lectures without having to stick and hang around. My colleagues made lotsa friends but not me, I made only a friend on my class , I am on good terms with people but I prefer my solitary self and my only friend. Although I am not topping my class but out of almost 150 students in my level I am in no 1-5. When a lecturer asks a question that is very complicated that no one in class can solve or answer I rise to the occasion and most of the times I am always providing answers although not all.
There is this girl that always crush and trip on my then, she is always wanting to be with me, sit with,e, talk to me, hear from me she tells me all about herself , her parents ,the position she is , her family and almost everything about herself etc in short she is always all over me BUT I didn't give her an ounce of attention , I treated her like she was just a piece of distraction, I didn't just give her any chance or attention , she wasn't on on my head that time, I was just focused But she was persistent till 200level first semester when i think she gave up, we do see in class but I don't just care bout her. She ceased talking to me her body language was like she is hating me, she hisses each time I pass by and she kinda gets irritated when I passes by but deep deep down I later got to know she was dying for me but hates the way I don't even notice her.
Then after 300level first semester exams a friend of mine who noticed the "chemistry" went to meet her and was like " Bae, why is it that you and benjsniper ain't cool like before, you guys don't really talk again, why? " at that moment I happened to pass by then he summoned me to come which I did. Then he started interrogating me and the Bae and he was trying to make us come together and yes it worked! And I responded well to her surprise, I told her I didn't intentionally want her to feel unwanted, that she shouldn't think that way blah blah blah blah.

Although I didn't envisage a relationship, I only wanted to make peace but the re-Union rekindled her feelings and she was once again all over me, the next day she came to me and requested for my phone number which I gave her, she told me she would like to see me after our last paper, she kept calling me on and on again and again. In short we met after exams and we clicked this time I responded well and gave her attention. We started getting intimate BUT we never had sex.
She loves and respect me, she loves being around me she tells me she cares a lot about me , when I call her to come over she comes without excuses , she sacrifices her plans just to show up in my apartment and I appreciate her and I am sometimes rigid but i am also gentle and I am getting to like her, love her , enjoy her company, I tell that I like her but I am kinda always shy to say I love her , she has told me she loves me like 5 times now, something which she hardly does to someone.
But HARDON I Nurse some measure of fear cos she is beautiful and she has guys on her, she puts her phone in flight mode when she's with me, she tells me the guys who are in her, sometimes she shows me their pictures, she has a lot of guy friends that I do not know, she talks to them flirts with them, visits them and sometimes they take her out. There was an occasion when I saw her enter an eatery with a guy she didn't see me then I called her to ask where she was she told me she is in an eatery, I asked "with who" she said she is alone. I kept quiet till now. She's very cool with me, but the way and manner in which she talks to me now reflect that the affection has kinda reduced , she still tells me she loves and miss me but I have a strong hunch that she is double dating if not triple dating. And funny, this is the time I am getting serious with her, I am having feelings for her and it's like my world will crumble if i don't hear from her. She respects me but these days she is becoming bold to subtly disregard me. Hardon I need your help here cos I don't wanna loose her, even if I do at last I want to have my confidence, manliness,respect and focus.

Help me HARDON HELP!!

benjsniper33:
Hello my dear HARDON, I need your help more than EVER, I feel I am trapped, confused and cornered or even controlled, This is how I feel but I am not really sure . My self-esteem, respect and independence is at stake here. HARDON I need your help, candid advice and brutal solution to my predicament . This is my story.

When I was in 100 level, I was serious-minded, focused, determined and studious, all I did was come into the lecture room and leave immediately after lectures without having to stick and hang around. My colleagues made lotsa friends but not me, I made only a friend on my class , I am on good terms with people but I prefer my solitary self and my only friend. Although I am not topping my class but out of almost 150 students in my level I am in no 1-5. When a lecturer asks a question that is very complicated that no one in class can solve or answer I rise to the occasion and most of the times I am always providing answers although not all.
There is this girl that always crush and trip on my then, she is always wanting to be with me, sit with,e, talk to me, hear from me she tells me all about herself , her parents ,the position she is , her family and almost everything about herself etc in short she is always all over me BUT I didn't give her an ounce of attention , I treated her like she was just a piece of distraction, I didn't just give her any chance or attention , she wasn't on on my head that time, I was just focused But she was persistent till 200level first semester when i think she gave up, we do see in class but I don't just care bout her. She ceased talking to me her body language was like she is hating me, she hisses each time I pass by and she kinda gets irritated when I passes by but deep deep down I later got to know she was dying for me but hates the way I don't even notice her.
Then after 300level first semester exams a friend of mine who noticed the "chemistry" went to meet her and was like " Bae, why is it that you and benjsniper ain't cool like before, you guys don't really talk again, why? " at that moment I happened to pass by then he summoned me to come which I did. Then he started interrogating me and the Bae and he was trying to make us come together and yes it worked! And I responded well to her surprise, I told her I didn't intentionally want her to feel unwanted, that she shouldn't think that way blah blah blah blah.

Although I didn't envisage a relationship, I only wanted to make peace but the re-Union rekindled her feelings and she was once again all over me, the next day she came to me and requested for my phone number which I gave her, she told me she would like to see me after our last paper, she kept calling me on and on again and again. In short we met after exams and we clicked this time I responded well and gave her attention. We started getting intimate BUT we never had sex.
She loves and respect me, she loves being around me she tells me she cares a lot about me , when I call her to come over she comes without excuses , she sacrifices her plans just to show up in my apartment and I appreciate her and I am sometimes rigid but i am also gentle and I am getting to like her, love her , enjoy her company, I tell that I like her but I am kinda always shy to say I love her , she has told me she loves me like 5 times now, something which she hardly does to someone.
But HARDON I Nurse some measure of fear cos she is beautiful and she has guys on her, she puts her phone in flight mode when she's with me, she tells me the guys who are in her, sometimes she shows me their pictures, she has a lot of guy friends that I do not know, she talks to them flirts with them, visits them and sometimes they take her out. There was an occasion when I saw her enter an eatery with a guy she didn't see me then I called her to ask where she was she told me she is in an eatery, I asked "with who" she said she is alone. I kept quiet till now. She's very cool with me, but the way and manner in which she talks to me now reflect that the affection has kinda reduced , she still tells me she loves and miss me but I have a strong hunch that she is double dating if not triple dating. And funny, this is the time I am getting serious with her, I am having feelings for her and it's like my world will crumble if i don't hear from her. She respects me but these days she is becoming bold to subtly disregard me. Hardon I need your help here cos I don't wanna loose her, even if I do at last I want to have my confidence, manliness,respect and focus.

Help me HARDON HELP!!

HARDDON:


I'd share more as we go on...... From the beginning of the convo to the end of the jungle ........ Fasten ur Date belt!

@ bolded, money has no bearing in dating. Just that it adds a lil swag n fun n surprise element n some guys say it gives them confidence!

But it shldnt be the bases of ur dating life!
Btw, I said FUN places not EXPENSIVE PLACES.
Places that can help u break d bonds Btw u guys. N relate more physically.

If u don't have 1.5k to take a gurl out, u mos def have 300 to prepare her special indomie don't u?

Call her up @ noon n say : hey, I went to d market today( anticipation). Dinner @ this address....( drop ur address ) tell her u are the chef there. Give her time the dinner wud be serving ...( anticipation, surprise , ) how can she resist that? SEE?

Btw, Neva look down on ur self.... Keep @ these skills n acquire some money making skills , soon u do Gud!


U shld know nonetheless, that money is an essential ingredient if u wano take d r/ship to marriage levels.

DavidTheGeek:

Other modes? Please give example

youngfocus:
yea it bn a while dat I av been following dis treat nw I tink it testimony time.testimony time!! special numba time testimony time. I CNT imagine how my life av been in miserable in d life of women,my big tnx to hardon baba for dis life turn around for gud treat he created in dis word web of women(w.w.w)than wen am witout game wen ever I appear in front of girls like dis they already knw my motive dat is dating issue .bt nw girl ar confuse abt me due to my unpredictable and I dnt care attitude nw they ar toying around me just like suger in d mist of ant.hw can I do dat.gud sense of humor,I dnt care attitude.cos if u ar fine like man maid I does not move me u ar going to pay my money once u step at my shop,nw am having abt 8 gf DAT dey thought am dating dem nt knw am just experimental hard don dating dril in their body,attracting any girl I wnt is never my p anymore. let me just share did little tail between me and yellow pawpaw,she work into my shop and greeted gud afternun sir were am battling wit Samsung edge power switch.
me_ hw can I help u,
she_I wnt to repare my Microsoft touchpad sir
me_Aaaah hw cum you broke touch pad like dis is there hammer in your hand am very sure wen dis phone is coming to word next time it will b running from falling into ur hand again.let me see DAT ur hand and I pick up is hand and feel it.me aaaah hw cum your hand is hard like dis did u work wit ppl pushing truck she was disgrace and she cnt even control d way she was laughing at dsame time (I was like pls dnt die here ooo )
me it will cos u 3500 she started begging and beg BT I insisted ooo it got to a stage she sais I did nt even knw girl and I said hw did she wnt me to knw a girl DAT is using man DAT is working hard phone DAT she should av been using 3310 at least she will nt av noting to complain abt and she started laughing again and she agree to pay.(I tink inside me so u av d money DAT she was demonstrating here like snake),and I collected d money. I said I will av date her nw BT she is nt just my type she is to yellow for my liking,she said and am nt to yellow ooo.dat is wat guy use to say though. nd I said u wnt to start begging me again abi OK gv me time to tink abt it and I said bye I av a lot to do.I will keep you in touch hw tins is going. BT yellow girls ar nt just my type sha. though

HARDDON:
skip that....

use the touchables to invite the untouchables

WackyJ1:
HARDON.

Well done on this thread. I haven't gone through all the pages but I follow and keep it as sort of a reference thread.

I noticed that many of the words you use or lines involve having a teasing mentality. I'm not really too good with that, I end up sounding serious or generic or I don't want to tease in an area that will offend the lady , especially If it's a lady that I don't know before. If I get comfortable with the lady I can be quite funny but being funny and teasing in the first convo is not really easy. Any pointers?