Toks2008:


Lol! take a look at you for instance..I'm resting right now and here you are with a face and figure pleasing to my eyes.

I could place my number here right now and cut the drama that would have come with me seeing you on the road and bracing up to walk up to you and probably getting any of those awkward responses or you just might allow me waste time ranting just to say sorry I'm engaged or even married or I may discover you are a teenager or less than 25 which is a no go area for me...and I can go on and on and on.

But with my number here or just sending you a mail, we can just get hooked for a purposeful affair...that's the point.

Responsible guys don't have time to woo ladies upandan.

Gbayi

firstking01:
Online dating is real but it never last.

it does... for real..not all anyway

I dnt believe in an online dating

All join

Almost everyone is online these days especially Facebook. One man's bae is another man's LovePeddler

Online dating is okay but avoid badoo pls, 95% of girls on badoo r runs girls

Am a relationship consultant , yes online dating is real and if you must search for a partner online you really need to do your assignment very well.. From experience many guys and ladies seeking love online are with wrong intentions. Some are married with kids yet they are still be looking for a serious relationship.. Tell lies here and there which is very bad. For your own safety and for you to be sure you are safe dating online. Try to employ the service of an online matchmaker to help you scrutinize people with wrong intentions. Its not all about joining whatsapp group up and down. But thorough check before dating.. For example background information checking of guys and ladies requesting for online dating will prevent you from meeting the wrong person. Especially people with fake profile...

I'm never liked online hook up

cause people are so fake that if you get involved with anyone online.
by the time you get to meet each other
it's a different person your meeting...

but if it's works out for some people then it's cool
I'm just saying ....

None of my online hookups have gone past casual, its really beginning to bother me,how do these ladies find husbands online self

interesting topic.

Miladi:
Spot-on.

Like ur eyes....

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suzan404:
Online dating helps you avoid embarrassment
The first is obvious; dating websites prevents you from you from having to get rejected, or reject anyone, in person. The second is something you may not have thought of. People may hold back feelings or thoughts when meeting in person because they are too embarrassed to talk about them....

Online dating allow you to specify your intentions right
from the beginning so you can find people looking for the
same thing as you. If you are seeking a soul mate, this
prevents you from wasting your time with casual dating.

The same cane used in flogging the spirits is the same cane that beats the Air...in as much as the online dating is beneficial to others, so also it is detestable to others. Different strokes for different folks ..

beautiful232:
I'm never liked online hook up


cause people are so fake that if you get involved with anyone online.

by the time you get to meet each other

it's a different person your meeting...


but if it's works out for some people then it's cool

I'm just saying ....

How many of my PM's have u declined?

Hmmm... On point...

QED. Nice one!

chineloSA:


IF SOMEONE IS INSINCERE, THEY ARE INSINCERE, ON-LINE OR OFF-LINE.

2dugged:
None of my online hookups have gone past casual, its really beginning to bother me,how do these ladies find husbands online self

Luck, deliberate and strategic persistence. Not do or die, though.

bbmpin:
The "ONLY" set of people that support, practice and engage in online hook ups are "unattractive people"

spare me your low self-esteem motivated opinion!!! ˆˆˆˆˆˆˆ #bible for low lives

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Some people are photogenic.

Photo-editing softwares are not helping matters as well.

People project how they feel about themselves which may be false.

Once in a while, there may be an outlier.

But for the most part...

Online dating are for losers.

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online is not mostly recommendable anyway

Join the best online relationship on Whatsap. Check my signature

True but you forget to add that most people who seek on relationships have failed at achieving any relationship in real life that's why they go online. Many people who online date come with a lot of baggage

Online dating always creates a fantasy.ppl putting fake pics to hook up potential victims and besides most dating sites are crawling with ritualists and kidnappers.so i wouldnt advice my sister to hook up to a dating site lest ye be lured to a hotel or other creepy area.remember d case of cynthia.

Nice piece @Toks

However you forgot to analyse the disadvantages and cautions ⚠ needed to tackle the disadvantages don't forget that's why online fraud (aka Yahoo) is used on foreigners to extort them.

suzan404:
Online dating helps you avoid embarrassment
The first is obvious; dating websites prevents you from you from having to get rejected, or reject anyone, in person. The second is something you may not have thought of. People may hold back feelings or thoughts when meeting in person because they are too embarrassed to talk about them....

Online dating allow you to specify your intentions right
from the beginning so you can find people looking for the
same thing as you. If you are seeking a soul mate, this
prevents you from wasting your time with casual dating.

u r so buriful

deathcomestoall:
True but you forget to add that most people who seek on relationships have failed at achieving any relationship in real life that's why they go online. Many people who online date come with a lot of baggage

@deathcomestoall......u dey work mortuary

bbmpin:
The "ONLY" set of people that support, practice and engage in online hook ups are "unattractive people"

spare me your low self-esteem motivated opinion!!! ˆˆˆˆˆˆˆ #bible for low lives

bullshit.

Toks2008
Nice thread
I agree with you but
Isn't 'hookup' used to refer to sex?

suzan404:
Online dating helps you avoid embarrassment
The first is obvious; dating websites prevents you from you from having to get rejected, or reject anyone, in person. The second is something you may not have thought of. People may hold back feelings or thoughts when meeting in person because they are too embarrassed to talk about them....

Online dating allow you to specify your intentions right
from the beginning so you can find people looking for the
same thing as you. If you are seeking a soul mate, this
prevents you from wasting your time with casual dating.

Nice one.

For someone to say unattractive people do online hookup is laughable because we have very hot dudes and ladies who hardly have time to do that offline chase. I can imagine someone like Seun or lalasticlala to start running after one babe offline.. Kojoo.

I'm not talking about playing around but hooking up with a really serious minded lady.

In my environ I hardly see a single lady of marriageable age except all those smallies that still want to jump around ready to offer you free thing but dare not talk about commitment because they will run

There comes a time in someone's life when you are not interested in playing around and most ladies in this category are busy professionals you can easily see in purposeful places

BTW you have nice *coughs* but I only judge a lady's outward beauty with her full figure in view.

AnonyNymous:
Toks2008
Nice thread
I agree with you but
Isn't 'hookup' used to refer to sex?

Thanks.. We'll I don't know about that synonym but the hook up I used here means what it is... Meeting someone.

daramolaa:
Nice piece @Toks

However you forgot to analyse the disadvantages and cautions ⚠ needed to tackle the disadvantages don't forget that's why online fraud (aka Yahoo) is used on foreigners to extort them.

You are right about that but then I guess it's the same with the regular offline thingy.. Caution us the watch word.

But the interesting point here is that I laid much emphasis on a better chance for a guy getting a sincere lady as compared to the other way round... So ladies need more caution.

ireneony:
get the fuvkk off my mentions!

I ve ban him. Let me know if he disturbs u again

Toks2008:
Online hook up simply means meeting someone online while you do proper offline dating and talking about online platforms I'm referring to all forms and types of interactive media you can think of.

While many people consider it dangerous to connect to people of opposite sex online,I can say with all sincerity that I have met more fantastically decent. responsible ladies online than offline and after thorough evaluation I have come to realize that while it is more difficult to find responsible guys online.the reverse is the case when it comes to finding decent ladies and below are 6 reasons why I believe so.

1.Most decent and marriageable ladies usually stay indoors:

If they are not at work,in the mall or in church then you can bet they are at home with their family members watching TV or browsing the Internet as well as checking their watsup. facebook.Twitter. instagram...and this makes it easier to come across them online.

2. Most responsible and marriageable ladies are always busy:

As expected,most responsible ladies of marriageable ages are usually very busy as you are likely going to find them at their work or business centers which hardly give room for guys to have easy access to them due to their tight itinerary but when they get home, you are most certain to find them in a more relaxed mood to socialize and ofcourse the online platform is the best option.

3.There is a better chance of hitting the spot:

While the offline chase usually comes with the restraints and frustrations of seemingly mature ladies who deeply want a man yet will put up an indifferent disposition and act like they don't care, the online chase is a different ball game as it gives a no holds Barr opportunity to communicate sternly and purposefully which usually yields a purposeful result as you will know if you still have a chance or if you need to look elsewhere.

4.You tend to get your most preferred choice in one spot:

In a week it may be very difficult for a guy to meet a lady offline who has The face or body type that endears him and if he eventually meets one. she may be too young.unserious, or even marrried.

But the online platform eliminates these hiccups to the barest minimum.Yes pictures do lie these days but at least you will get to have a better clue of the person in terms of Age,facial looks, body structure,relationship status and a bit of interaction good enough for you to know if you need to get closer.
The other good side to online hook up is that you can approach any lady regardless of her status and you just might win her heart if you fit into the picture of what she wants.

5.It gives you more integrity:

I don't know about anyone else but the act of wooing a lady is pissing to me especially when you consider the possible outcome of the move as regards the immature dispositions expressed by some ladies..

The sad twist to it is the way many ladies see a guy who is still single and searching because they will be quick to call you irresponsible just because you wooed them today and they see you talking to another lady tomorrow as if you are not entitled to keep trying until you get.

6.A better choice for responsible guys and introverts:

I want every lady to understand that introverts are the best guys any lady can pray for.

This set of guys don't indulge in vague things of life but are deeply responsible with no time to start chasing skirts around and if they ever show interest in you then don't bother proving hard to get because they may never give you a second look.

Hooking up online might just be the perfect choice for this set of guys as they will have the oportunity of getting their prefered choice while eliminating the stress of offline 50/50 chase.

While it is quite easier to see teenagers and fun seeking ladies all over the place,I strongly believe that hooking up with responsible, responsive and marriageable ladies seem easier online than offline.

I don't know if this makes sense.

bros, the post na Blast, E make sense die, you Be Gbolos!!!