chenor:


Oga didn't you see where she typed that he wants to get her pregnant before getting married. Is that sex before marriage too?

CAPSLOCKED:




THIS LADY DESERVES A MEDAL FOR HER SINCERITY. HONESTLY.

I DO NOT SUPPORT ABORTION, BUT IT DOESN'T MEAN I DESPISE THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE ABORTED.

WHAT IF SHE'S STILL ABLE TO CONCEIVE?
WHAT IF THE NEXT GIRL THE FIANCE FINDS CANNOT CONCEIVE DUE TO MULTIPLE ABORTIONS, BUT KEEPS IT ALL A SECRET UNTIL 20YEARS INTO THE MARRIAGE?

MEN THAT GUY IS A COWARD, FOR ME.
HE'S THE TYPE TO LIVE WITH THE LIES FOREVER RATHER THAN SWALLOW A SIMPLE TRUTH ONCE AND FOR ALL. HE'S A CHILD WHO'S NOT READY TO GET MARRIED. SOMETIMES I WONDER WHY WE THE MEN WANT TO KNOW THE TRUTH WHEN NOT ALL OF US CAN HANDLE IT.
ALL THE GIRLS AROUND ARE SCAMMERS, CONSULT ALL THE GODS AND ORACLES IN THE WORLD YOU'LL STILL END UP WITH ONE SCRAB, EACH ONE MORE TERRIBLE THAN THE NEXT.

fullofregrets:
I am full of regrets and I feel so suicidal right now , I am really depressed

sexymoma:
If na another person type wetin u type so.. u go cut im balls

ItsQuinn:
That's even good sef .....your gf or wife don't need a guy like you, she deserves someone better

fullofregrets:
well I have done everything necessary , my
womb is okay and intact

chenor:


Mister must you react this way. Obviously you have no sympathy. She admitted her mistake and came clean. Probably she didn't want to remain guilty for ever.

If you are a Muslim or Christian. What happened to the do not condemn part?

People make mistakes. Other than bashing her why don't you drop a word of advice.

What of if someone else you know is in her shoes and needs advice. Is this what you will do.

If you are not married. What of if the girl you get married too has deep secrets, even if you are married. How are you sure she doesn't have secrets that can throw you off balance.??.

Your moniker says HardMirror right?. Are youno really cold blooded in life. From the way you are acting.

She didn't type the whole gist so you can't conclude and say stuffs.
Well we will never know what others are going through till we pass through it or someone dear to us does.

Just not impressed with your words

Cutehector:
whch one is gbege? U want d innocent man to not have kids? Pls abeg. She understands that it's all her fault so she shouldn't act all surprised he left.

ClinicalHope:
How do you know the man is innocent? And how sure are you that one of his ex girlfriend(s) did not abort his child?

naijaboiy:

That's right!

It's better you let him find out from someone else years later, so he can kick you out of the marriage in an even more embarrassing manner.

I think that's very logical.

chenor:


Oga didn't you see where she typed that he wants to get her pregnant before getting married. Is that sex before marriage too?

sinceraconcept:
can you marry a girl that had been a lesbian for 20 years?

IyfeNamikaze:


Your daughter is surely going to end up like this, now shout a big AMEN

danbrowndmf:
she praticed lesbianism for 20years but now she's a changed person.yes i can marry her

fullofregrets:
hmmm , this comments makes me wow , so its a crime to speak my mind , you don't know my pains , so I beg you not to judged me , before you judge ask yourself if you have the courage to open up your flaws to people , its been done , no one should crucify me , we are all humans in flesh , in one way or the other , we have succumbed to the flesh, I am telling you that the unwise decision I took was something I regretted , I am not proud of my pasts , I am sober and feel bad , and I have mend my ways ever since , we should all learn to forgive , and pls those who judge me don't forget you are still in the race , the life and flesh in you can still mislead us in one way or the other , who are you all to play God the judge , I only need advice , not to crucify someone who's dejected right now , peace out

Laveda:


You should know everyone is not the same, not everyone can handle it.. That's what some people have failed to understand, not because a man says he loves you and would marry you, then you choose to open up everything to him.

Really, there are some truth we can't handle, that's fact!

MrPresident1:


Hey, everyone makes mistakes. Your fiancee is only being childish, he will come back when his thoughts clear up and he realises that no one is a saint. If he doesn't come back, he is not the one for you. Your own will come and stay with you.

No need to commit suicide over triviality, or you think your life is cheap?

sinceraconcept:
but change is never permanent. We all get rich,and broke at times. Look old and young at times,fleshy,muscular,slimmer and back to our normal self at times. She'll still feel interested in dating girls after her initial gra gra,give am 5 years and she go dey bring girls come your house pretending its only a female friend or smooch girls for work

danbrowndmf:
my questions are why do u think hiding it from him is best?, and what makes you feel or think he can't find out after the marriage? Don't you think telling him earlier will be better?. I want you to know that 'NOTHING' is a secret unless the truth is not set to come out yet. Anybody who cannot accept your past, let him/her gerra-out.

stepaz:
do u know what it means for a man to get married and hope to have children and when the child is not coming ur wife wakes up one day to tell u that she did an abortion for some one else which might be the cause of her barrelness so pray not to experience it

Laveda:


Its not like she won't be able to give birth, so what's the ish here?

For me, anything I know would push my man away I wouldn't tell him..

There are things my fiancee would tell me and I can't handle it, I'll rather walk away.
You're just one person. We aren't all the same while some can live with the truth, some can't. That's the case here..

Ratello:

I can only pray for you to be CAREFUL what you indirectly wish for yourself. You can bookmark this post of yours except you repent. A woman was caught in adultery in the very act yet Jesus refused to judge and condemn this same woman but asked her accusers to judge her themselves if only they did not commit even worst sins, well you know the story, they left the woman alone while feeling guilty themselves.(John 8: 3 - 11) and who are you to judge another humans probably you are not better than (Matthew 7; 1 -5). Be careful when ranting online and please take your pills regularly.

danbrowndmf:
and when your fiance finds out later?

ItsQuinn:
so I'm cold-hearted because I'm not suicidal? Just listen to yourself ....no offence, you sound stupid

Fumiex:
My dear sis don't ever feel bad abt telling him d truth. D next guy u are going to meet, also tell him d truth from d onset n ask if e is ready to accept u. U r worth more Dan u think. U might hv ask God for forgiveness n he has forgiven u but a virgin may b commiting other sins n may not Mk heaven. It's not abt wat pole think here abt u it's abt wat God thinks abt u. Don't feel bad abt anything its in d past. Look toward to d future.it might not b easy but u wil surely scale through. If am to advice u I wil say don't accept yr fiancée if e cums bk to u. Someone who truly loves u wil come. Just b prayerful n draw closer to God