motherfucker:
Mothers are very protective of their son. You wouldn't understand until you have raised one for 27+ years and a lady comes in one day to take away what she has laboured for.

The mother would always feel no one can take care of her child like her. What most DIL should do is assure MIL that her son is in safe hands. It's that simple but most of you would rather compete with her or take her head on, which often backfire

Benita27:
I am not sure of the bolded, because is not usually written on their forehead.

babyfaceafrica:
any lady who loves her children more than her wife is a potential mean MIL...fact!!!

olab007:
Well my case was an exceptional case , my mum actually love my wife , infact i was away for sometime and my wife was staying with her in the same house infact they were so close to the extend that my wife is my mum banker, she drop her ATM card for my wife and its my wife that control wht happen with the bank account for her, maywhile i must aplude my wife at the other hand she is also a good wife sincerely i thank God for my home and my family.

Benita27:
I noticed 80% of our Nigerian mother in-laws threat their daughter in-laws badly unlike their foreign counterparts, and this trend is so common,once a man says he wants to take you to see his parents instead of excitement a certain fear creeps in.
personally i'm not scared of meeting the man's father because i assume father's trust their sons to have made the right choices, but for the mothers is not usually the same, was able to ask someone if she felt same and she confessed feeling worse.
Why are our Nigerian mother in-laws so mean?.
Need your contributions, and Ladies how do you feel when getting to meet them?.

Cc: Aderola15.
Talk2Bella.
IamNawty.
Laveda.

motherfucker:
Mothers are very protective of their son. You wouldn't understand until you have raised one for 27+ years and a lady comes in one day to take away what she has laboured for.

The mother would always feel no one can take care of her child like her. What most DIL should do is assure MIL that her son is in safe hands. It's that simple but most of you would rather compete with her or take her head on, which often backfire

Benita27:
I am not sure of the bolded, because is not usually written on their forehead.

bukatyne:


@Bold:

The simple solution is to marry her son herself.

bukatyne:

> Women in miserable marriages especially 'staying' for their kids > Women who are not busy > Women who place their children first etc.
Cc: Acidosis

Talk2Bella:


I just saw a vision for you

Nah only son and only child u go marry

Benita27:
Neither of the above mentioned.
Their foreign counterparts aren't as mean as our Nigerian mother-inlaws are.
You're referring me to a movie of a mean mother in-law like i haven't seen one.
They're more liberal and understand what space means in a marriage.

ammyluv2002:
I think, it has to do with so much love and attachment to the guy especially if he's the only son/child. The mother becomes madly in love with her son to a point of her getting jealous of the son's wife.

Benita27:
I noticed 80% of our Nigerian mother in-laws threat their daughter in-laws badly unlike their foreign counterparts, and this trend is so common,once a man says he wants to take you to see his parents instead of excitement a certain fear creeps in.
personally i'm not scared of meeting the man's father because i assume father's trust their sons to have made the right choices, but for the mothers is not usually the same, was able to ask someone if she felt same and she confessed feeling worse.
Why are our Nigerian mother in-laws so mean?.
Need your contributions, and Ladies how do you feel when getting to meet them?.

Cc: Aderola15.
Talk2Bella.
IamNawty.
Laveda.

Benita27:
[i]Why are our Nigerian mother in-laws so mean?.

Avalon316:


You are so right. You just described the love between my mum and I. Nothing and no one can come between us.

JUSTbuchi:
Finally it did make front page


My aunt always gives praise to God that her mother in-law is no longer alive

olab007:
Well my case was an exceptional case , my mum actually love my wife , infact i was away for sometime and my wife was staying with her in the same house infact they were so close to the extend that my wife is my mum banker, she drop her ATM card for my wife and its my wife that control wht happen with the bank account for her, maywhile i must aplude my wife at the other hand she is also a good wife sincerely i thank God for my home and my family.

Benita27:
I noticed 80% of our Nigerian mother in-laws threat their daughter in-laws badly unlike their foreign counterparts, and this trend is so common,once a man says he wants to take you to see his parents instead of excitement a certain fear creeps in.
personally i'm not scared of meeting the man's father because i assume father's trust their sons to have made the right choices, but for the mothers is not usually the same, was able to ask someone if she felt same and she confessed feeling worse.
Why are our Nigerian mother in-laws so mean?.
Need your contributions, and Ladies how do you feel when getting to meet them?.

Cc: Aderola15.
Talk2Bella.
IamNawty.
Laveda.