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Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by sweetcocoa(f): 5:14pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Pidggin:You need to stop whatever you are on. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by sweetcocoa(f): 5:16pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Pidggin:You are the one with the problem here. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by kennydotkom(m): 5:19pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
ring7: Lolzz. U no say. Na because of mentality that they brought into marrige is that their mother- inlaw wil always be a wicked one. Most of them never pray to hv mother-inlaw. Yet i never sew ex- mother or ex - father but they forget that they can divoice their husband anytime. Though men must love his wife more than his mother but he suld not allow his wife to dictate how he should relate wit his mother. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by JSMB: 5:20pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
JUSTbuchi: Shebi your aunt sef go become mother-in-law someday and maybe someone too go thank God |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by barbie1018: 5:24pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Well, I have never experienced such. My mother in law is the best! |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by sweetcocoa(f): 5:26pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
NevetsIbot:Why are you just looking at her? Isn't it possible what she wants your wife to do, will be healthy for your marriage? Don't people share tips anymore? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Pidggin(f): 5:28pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
sweetcocoa: Explain |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by josite: 5:32pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
It is simply because mother in law being female can see through your pretence and can further tell if u are a witch or tragedy personified. Wise men drop the idea if their mum says no. Bad wives should avoid highly spiritual mother in laws in their own interest. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Pidggin(f): 5:32pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
sweetcocoa: I hope you are not planning on substituting your son for a husband. As long as you don't do this you will not have problems letting go and your son won't have to chose between you and his wife because you will be busy taking care of your own husband. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by sweetcocoa(f): 5:40pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Pidggin:Your mind is not right for for interpreting that picture the way you did. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by luminouz(m): 5:40pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Pidggin:U super make sense! Get a jug of chilled palm wine n add d cost to my nairaland account! 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by jordinsparkles(f): 5:42pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
My mother-in-law isn't like that oo |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by sweetcocoa(f): 5:43pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Pidggin:Again, you prove how messed up your mind, is, by assuming a son can be used as replacement for a husband, because a woman hugged her son. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by chiraqDemon(m): 5:43pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Its mostly moms and sisters Im my moms fam i noticed my grandma likes all her sons in law But she despises all her daughters in law Idk but its annoying she is always like they are not making my son buy things for mw they are turning my sons against me Always lookimg for non existent reason to dislike Like on of my uncle's wife and my grandmom are like cat and mouse Grandmom made her an enemy she also despises my grand mom My mom too takes the same stance against all her sisters in law Men dont have time to beef....women do. Just hope my mom doesnt try that with my wife o I need peace in life 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by chiraqDemon(m): 5:47pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
josite:Do witches even exist Is that not the idea of pastors and other superstituous ppl to grab money from ppl that believe in folk lore |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by motherfucker: 5:48pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
bukatyne:whatever rocks your boat. I am not unaware to the fact that most of the women in this family section HATE their mother-in-laws. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 5:53pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Benita27: |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by sweetcocoa(f): 5:57pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
motherfucker:Na wa o, does he stop being her son because he is married? How exactly does extending family, mean taking away what was laboured for? |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 5:58pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
ammyluv2002: Not yet. Very soon. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by HENRY940: 6:00pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Benita27: I think u should ask for some tips of the wife's behaviour to d mum, she has some little stuff that matters that she does. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by ammyluv2002(f): 6:01pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Avalon316:I hope she would understand |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Favored4gud: 6:01pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
It depends on the guy you are dating or about to marry. If he looks out for you, mother in-law is not a problem Benita27: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by SycophanticGoat: 6:02pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Pidggin: Hehehehe! I know the lady in that pic is you... Hmmm.. What about women who turn out bad mothers (I mean women that threat their children like trash, simply because of one thing or the other-from experience tho), can lack of intimacy also result to that? |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 6:04pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
ammyluv2002: Why not?. She should understand. Mothers are precious. They can do anything for their kids. Isn't that enough to love them till the end of time? |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Emasel(m): 6:07pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
It happens more when the daughter in-law is from another tribe and when the woman is illiterate. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by ammyluv2002(f): 6:08pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Avalon316:Of course! Nothing can replace our mothers, but as regards the topic thats what I'm talking about here. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by sweetcocoa(f): 6:09pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Ugosample:I beg to differ. It is more about being emotionally healthy than visiting one another, than what you term individualistic society, the US is a very individualistic society, yet this issue plays there and so is New Zealand, Australia and a bunch of other countries but MILs and DILs disagree there. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by sweetcocoa(f): 6:13pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Jerryojozy:Why can't he do dishes, is he not a human being who eats with dishes? Even if he doesn't use dishes sef, can't he be of help in the house? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Pidggin(f): 6:15pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
SycophanticGoat: Lol, yes of course. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by HENRY940: 6:18pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
gabicon: My mum will not curtail any xcess, a relationship is for two, my papa xcesses neva dey xhausted to curtail. Guys should give mums a body language that tho they respect their mum, their relationship with wifey does not need d 3rd party. I think their advice will be asked for when needed.There are some mistakes some mistakes adults should be allowed to make, if they are anxious, mums should get in their closets and pray for us.....ur welcome. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Alegirl: 6:20pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Is not about mother in-law,is about woman been able to manage her fellow woman. many ladies have the mind set that mother in-laws are bad so you hear say words like I don't want a mother in-law,I don't disturbance she most call before coming to my house may while they own mother and people will not call before coming.As a woman which of us will pray that when her son is getting married that she should be present. If we can tolerant our own mothers we can do same with mother in-laws and stop preparing for battle where there is non |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Menzy86(m): 6:22pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Wit d quality of DIL's these days contaminated by a warped sense of gender equality, why won't MIL's b in constant battle wit them? E.g MOST 9ja babes these days think it is 'modern' or 'acceptable' not to know how to cook. Or to rule out d possibility of preparing a particular dish even if its ur husband's favourite and expect it to be ok by everyone. |
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