lovelygurl:



Then get angry but money doesn't impress me. And to your question of you see the poor associate with the rich, like seriously how many rich kids have ever been in a slum. That's just normal!

darkrebel101 abeg eh, borrow me 50k make I travel enter Germany give this bae hot slap...



Look lovelygurl, you are still young ok.. money doesn't impress you because you are a product of your parents"s accomplishments, now separate yourself from their wealth..

All this boring and annoying post

Women and gold digging, ask ladies who married guys becos of their money how they are been treated

DarkRebel101:


But, if we have them both placed on a measuring scale, the chances of her marriage to the rich guy – who likes her but whom she does not like very much – making it unscathed through the vicissitudes of marital life, pales in comparison to the chances of the success of her marriage to the one wherein a symmetrical love-liking exists, even though the relationship as she said, is fraught with quarrels and disagreements — which I think is a normality and nothing out-of-synchro. I mean, who wants to be in a relationship where everything is always peaceful and as boring as a nondescript Swiss village? A little disagreement every now and then pumps in litres of excitement into a relationship.

[...]

She is only 25 and the guy is only 27. I do not see why there is the rush to get a rock on her finger, except it's a personal touchstone she set for herself, but I highly doubt it. I think she is being shoehorned by family or she feels left behind because her friends have long embarked on the marital voyage.

She says the guy she likes-loves is hooked to the strings of his family's aprons, but if we have this cast upon the screen of investigation, we would discover that she is also being pressurized into marriage by her family, and is only pandering to their wishes in her hankerings for a man – any man at all – to lead her down the aisle. In other words, she is also being controlled by her family members in a way, and already entering, or rather, about to enter into the marriage institution for the "wrongest" reasons.

I believe the story is laced with mistruths or is a total hoax.
How many Naija babes would come online to ask you whether or not to marry a rich guy with different houses and cars, or whether she should stick with a not-too-financially-bouyant guy who has shown no inkling of his interest in getting married to her in the foreseeable future? Now that's a curious thought bubble we should mull over.

I don't know who you are but I will find you and give you a hug. Indepth analysis. I love your write-up by the way.

Joavid:


abeg calm down, madam long-throat.

first, free that 27 year old bobo cos nothing he does for you is enough as long as the thought of your ex bank account gives you orgasms.

besides, what have you done with your life so far since you graduated?
Do you have a career?
Do you have goals and plans?

_marriage is not an achievement._

Who's is dz Joavid?
U too dey talk sense... Kizzez

lovelygurl:



Then get angry but money doesn't impress me.
And to your question have you seen the poor associate with the rich, like seriously how many rich kids have ever been in a slum. That's just normal!

Curiously interesting. Tell me, girl, what then makes you tick? Power and authority? Charisma? Sexual prowess?

NA wa ooooo..... Wen hunger dey kill people for street... NA marriage concern u NA for here.... Abeg who know wia I fit buy 1 bag of rice for 5000naira Jare.... I wan do party. Dis satday... If I no see rice buy... Make everybody forget say I get partY ooo....

lovelygurl:



Looooool what's your problem. There are actually women out there who money don't impress.
Money only impresses lazy women, when a woman works hard, a man with money is just a bonus

nice to know that..buh idonblivit

Billiondoe:
What are the characteristics of a good marriage, am 25 and single and staying in a relationship is like world war 2... seems like love is not all it takes... am in a relationship with a 27yr old man and we r In love and we are both university graduates but I dont think we can make it to the alter cos it's a different drama everyday, never caught him cheating and he respects me but his family controls a better part of him and he isn't ready for marriage anytime soon and I have this ex who is very willing all I have to do is tell him am ready and am no longer in a relationship, he is rich and has different cars and houses but am not so into him but he loves me for sure....

if this is truely the case, u might want 2 consider having a good conversation with ur guy. cos if u're thinking about getting married 2 ur ex because he has cars and money, u're getthing it all wrong.
i'm not even sure u love him. what will happen when there's no money again?
my opinion: stay eith the present guy and talk things out with him

TreasuredLeidy:
u're in love with ur present guy buh you are desperate to get married.
he doesn't cheat n he respects u, good to hear. Stick with him Gurl. when he's ready, sooner or later, he would propose.
I guess d drama is cos his folks control him, when u both are married, I don't think they wil control him again.

don't think of going back to ur ex cos it's obvious ur not in love with him but his Money.

#Shalom

What kind of advice is that? You must be really young but one thing you would know is that whatever flaw someone has is usually exacerbated by marriage. If you think he is being controlled by his parents now and you think things will get better after marriage then my sister you are on a long thing. That's why they say before you marry someone look for the signs. If someone has a problem with temper or cheating before marriage and you think that marrying him is going to change him, well good luck with that.

Marlvin:



Lol.... HAVE A HEART! The young girl is facing a dilemma.

Which dilemma? What's the point of coming to discuss her personal life online when there is something called prayer. Pray for God's guidance it's as easy as that.

donbenedict:
darkrebel101 abeg eh, borrow me 50k make I travel enter Germany give this bae hot slap...



Look lovelygurl, you are still young ok.. money doesn't impress you because you are a product of your parents"s accomplishments, now separate yourself from their wealth..

Loooooooool!

Well my own is if you have the opportunity to make a better choice,take it, what matters in marriage is peace of mind for you, both financial peace of mind and psychological peace of mind, and a man with a good gene to make offspring, if love was yardstick there would be no reason for people to fall out of love

Yes end it since you don't have a heart

lovelygurl:



Loooooooool!

if u mention dat crap abt money don't impress me again, I will beat the you in you.

Follow the money

Billiondoe:
What are the characteristics of a good marriage, am 25 and single and staying in a relationship is like world war 2... seems like love is not all it takes... am in a relationship with a 27yr old man and we r In love and we are both university graduates but I dont think we can make it to the alter cos it's a different drama everyday, never caught him cheating and he respects me but his family controls a better part of him and he isn't ready for marriage anytime soon and I have this ex who is very willing all I have to do is tell him am ready and am no longer in a relationship, he is rich and has different cars and houses but am not so into him but he loves me for sure....

Do whatever makes you happy.
If you leave your guy for the ex, you won't be the first nor the last .
If you stick with your current guy too, You won't be the first nor the last.
The difference btw the two is the one that will make you happier with no regrets

Sounds like a stupid question!

Many girs lose their senses once they see cars and houses.

Are you sure you are not just finding excuses to go after the cars?

lovelygurl:



Then get angry but money doesn't impress me. And to your question have you seen the poor associate with the rich, like seriously how many rich kids have ever been in a slum. That's just normal!

the dumbest question I have every read in history!

have you journey to a slum and see some humanitarian work?

I have seen many rich kids in a slum helping the poor, just that news don't carry those type of story!


you just prove to me that women have insect brain

DarkRebel101:


Curiously interesting. Tell me, girl, what then makes you tick? Power and authority? Charisma? Sexual prowess?

I'd rather go for things like intelligence, being open minded, respect and charisma


Intelligence and respect are the most important things to me.

buoye1:
Love you

Am a guy biko!


I mean like or share

2dugged:
Well my own is if you have the opportunity to make a better choice,take it, what matters in marriage is peace of mind for you, both financial peace of mind and psychological peace of mind, and a man with a good gene to make offspring, if love was yardstick there would be no reason for people to fall out of love

you get sense

Billiondoe:
What are the characteristics of a good marriage, am 25 and single and staying in a relationship is like world war 2... seems like love is not all it takes... am in a relationship with a 27yr old man and we r In love and we are both university graduates but I dont think we can make it to the alter cos it's a different drama everyday, never caught him cheating and he respects me but his family controls a better part of him and he isn't ready for marriage anytime soon and I have this ex who is very willing all I have to do is tell him am ready and am no longer in a relationship, he is rich and has different cars and houses but am not so into him but he loves me for sure....

Just look at what a grown up lady is saying,,, u better think of the future of u and the kids to come. A guy isn't ready and u are here asking questions...

Person wey make money na for him head o... Think ur own now that u have time... I know my comment may be confusing but if u use ur tongue, u go know how many teeth u get

@27 his not ready? And his still control by his people


when do you think he will be ready And he will grow above people controlling him?

I'm not saying you should go back to your ex....but your present guy is still a child!!!

Billiondoe:
What are the characteristics of a good marriage, am 25 and single and staying in a relationship is like world war 2... seems like love is not all it takes... am in a relationship with a 27yr old man and we r In love and we are both university graduates but I dont think we can make it to the alter cos it's a different drama everyday, never caught him cheating and he respects me but his family controls a better part of him and he isn't ready for marriage anytime soon and I have this ex who is very willing all I have to do is tell him am ready and am no longer in a relationship, he is rich and has different cars and houses but am not so into him but he loves me for sure....

U started d whole thing alittle bit well d ending is where u r wrong. What I value in relationship is understanding n happiness. U don't need any advice now cos when most ladies sees a rich guy there is nothing u wud say that they wud understand. "He is rich n has a lot of cars" do u no if he is a driver? N apart from that, what u r see now is what u no. Do u think d guy doesn't no that u r loving him for what he has? Some woman r rituals product. U don't no tomorrow. Jah bless all d ladies who steak to a guy when he was hustling till he finally made it not leaving there guy for already made. Its a decision u have concluded u don't need advice.

Billiondoe:
What are the characteristics of a good marriage, am 25 and single and staying in a relationship is like world war 2... seems like love is not all it takes... am in a relationship with a 27yr old man and we r In love and we are both university graduates but I dont think we can make it to the alter cos it's a different drama everyday, never caught him cheating and he respects me but his family controls a better part of him and he isn't ready for marriage anytime soon and I have this ex who is very willing all I have to do is tell him am ready and am no longer in a relationship, he is rich and has different cars and houses but am not so into him but he loves me for sure....

Depends on what your relationship like with your ex. He is ex for a reason best known to you. Up to you to weigh btw the two but don't go for the former bcus of his $$$$ only. And since you knew him, you most definitely know what he does for living

Billiondoe:
What are the characteristics of a good marriage, am 25 and single and staying in a relationship is like world war 2... seems like love is not all it takes... am in a relationship with a 27yr old man and we r In love and we are both university graduates but I dont think we can make it to the alter cos it's a different drama everyday, never caught him cheating and he respects me but his family controls a better part of him and he isn't ready for marriage anytime soon and I have this ex who is very willing all I have to do is tell him am ready and am no longer in a relationship, he is rich and has different cars and houses but am not so into him but he loves me for sure....

Can you see the devil using ur destiny to play merry bet visual?

Billiondoe:
What are the characteristics of a good marriage, am 25 and single and staying in a relationship is like world war 2... seems like love is not all it takes... am in a relationship with a 27yr old man and we r In love and we are both university graduates but I dont think we can make it to the alter cos it's a different drama everyday, never caught him cheating and he respects me but his family controls a better part of him and he isn't ready for marriage anytime soon and I have this ex who is very willing all I have to do is tell him am ready and am no longer in a relationship, he is rich and has different cars and houses but am not so into him but he loves me for sure....

advice is What we seek when we know the answer but pretend Not to know --erica jones

Billiondoe:
What are the characteristics of a good marriage, am 25 and single and staying in a relationship is like world war 2... seems like love is not all it takes... am in a relationship with a 27yr old man and we r In love and we are both university graduates but I dont think we can make it to the alter cos it's a different drama everyday, never caught him cheating and he respects me but his family controls a better part of him and he isn't ready for marriage anytime soon and I have this ex who is very willing all I have to do is tell him am ready and am no longer in a relationship, he is rich and has different cars and houses but am not so into him but he loves me for sure....

Olorunshogo girl sighted...u better be with the one you love...he is broke today doesn't mean he will remain broke forever....

Billiondoe:
What are the characteristics of a good marriage, am 25 and single and staying in a relationship is like world war 2... seems like love is not all it takes... am in a relationship with a 27yr old man and we r In love and we are both university graduates but I dont think we can make it to the alter cos it's a different drama everyday, never caught him cheating and he respects me but his family controls a better part of him and he isn't ready for marriage anytime soon and I have this ex who is very willing all I have to do is tell him am ready and am no longer in a relationship, he is rich and has different cars and houses but am not so into him but he loves me for sure....

think of the recession ma dear

K

goingape2:
the dumbest question I have every read in history!

have you journey to a slum and see some humanitarian work?

I have seen many rich kids in a slum helping the poor, just that news don't carry those type of story!


you just prove to me that women have insect brain

You just proved how clever you are by generalising over and over again. You want to FORCE me to be impressed by money. I have seen a lot of women who just married for money. They will wear the most beautiful clothes etc yet are still not happy. I don't want to go through that path and you can't convince me to. You don't even have the power to. Money is good but I would rather work for MY OWN money than MARRY BECAUSE OF MONEY.