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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by delishpot: 5:55pm On Dec 03, 2016
So....... virginity =happily ever after marriage?
Even in those days when it meant life or death, pride or shame, it did not guarantee that the marriage was happy.
Virginity is good, for males and females. No woman should give hers to a street dog posing as a husband. It should be the woman's/mans choice and the virgin must marry a person who has a morally clean life.
Giving your Virginity to an abusive spouse doesn't mean they would automatically change and start treating you right.

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by BabaRamota1980: 5:55pm On Dec 03, 2016
Bukybabe:
I hope it's the both parties that is waiting till the day they will get married..Because the guy can't be fucking around and expect a virgin girl to take to the altar..

trust me, you dont want to marry a virgin man. Men are like babies, even into old age and always will need mama. The notion of mother is a transformation through our life stages from womb to grave.

If you have a brother, son, boy friend and still virgin by time he turns 19 something his ego is already fvked up!

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by Goldenheart(m): 5:55pm On Dec 03, 2016
I am 'no' virgin! d(@_@)b
Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by SoNature(m): 5:56pm On Dec 03, 2016
The hottest part of hell will be reserved for guys who spent better parts of their youth ages deflowering girls (other guys' wives actually!) in the name of love and looking for virgins when they are ready to marry.

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by bobbybrown007: 5:56pm On Dec 03, 2016
Am also a virgin have never been dis flowered before, but I don't no if my ........... Is
Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by delishpot: 5:58pm On Dec 03, 2016
BabaRamota1980:


trust me, you dont want to marry a virgin man. Men are like babies, even into old age and always will need mama. The notion of mother is a transformation through our life stages from womb to grave.

If you have a brother, son, boy friend and still virgin by time he turns 19 something his ego is already fvked up!

False. Virginity does not mean ignorance. Both are virgins and as such learning to explore the horizon together.

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by IYANGBALI: 5:58pm On Dec 03, 2016
My bweast might have digested but I am proudly a virgin


#teamsaynotopreekandcucumber
Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by mengho(m): 5:58pm On Dec 03, 2016
Although we are nearly extinct, we still won't fade into oblivion.. cheesy
Team virgin till marriage or live my life till i die pure & untainted cool
Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by Nobody: 6:00pm On Dec 03, 2016
rubbish, virginity is just a Damn concept that's being overrated. if you want to keep you virginity, good. if not good. just be a good person at heart. besides virginity does not guarantee a happy marriage. STOP JUDGING PEOPLE

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by Nobody: 6:02pm On Dec 03, 2016
I want to marry a virgin man. undecided

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by djlaqua91(m): 6:02pm On Dec 03, 2016
Some Ladies will come here and now claim Virgins. ANAL Virgins that is grin

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by enitey(f): 6:03pm On Dec 03, 2016
MackBrooklyn:
Virginity is the best wedding gift any man would receive from from his newly wedded wife but lately, there is nothing such as virginity any longer because it'll have already been given out as a birthday gift, token of appreciation, job assurance, church collection, examination marking schemes and transportation fares cool






Loooooool@Church collection and transportation fares

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by MVLOX(m): 6:04pm On Dec 03, 2016
Nice one.... am saving dis and will definitely show it to my fiancé as we re both resolve yo remain vrigins until we get married.... seriously its a very fine day to be a virgin especially afta the Chelsea win...... plus am 28 she is 26.....
Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by sukkottt: 6:06pm On Dec 03, 2016
Bukybabe:
I hope it's the both parties that is waiting till the day they will get married..Because the guy can't be fucking around and expect a virgin girl to take to the altar..
But its not competition na. the guy is the one with the money so he deserves a virgin. you what are you bringing to the marriage besides ya vajayjay ? is it too much to ask for the vajayjay to be intact if i will buy you house and car ? lolzzzz

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by bejeria101(m): 6:07pm On Dec 03, 2016
MackBrooklyn:
Virginity is the best wedding gift any man would receive from from his newly wedded wife but lately, there is nothing such as virginity any longer because it'll have already been given out as a birthday gift, token of appreciation, job assurance, church collection, examination marking schemes and transportation fares cool

You forgot blackberry and iphone
Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by NBossConcept: 6:08pm On Dec 03, 2016
fellis:
Loooool!!!

Op thinks the only sexual problems married couples have is tied to size of manhood.

Op is your manhood small? Don't let your spouse lack of virginity before marriage discourage you eyear? Try other fun stuff with her in the bedroom to compensate.

That's why it's good to read and comprehend, not just to read. I actually referred to both the guy and lady. A guy that has never slept with a woman till his marriage and likewise the Lady will never have sexual issues in their marriage. That has nothing to do with other marital issues that prop up. Every experience they will have together will always be fun at different stages. You are probably talking of fun stuffs out of your own various imagination of the different fun experience you have gotten. You are so not a virgin before marriage guy from your comment.

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by Ohamzee: 6:08pm On Dec 03, 2016
MackBrooklyn:


cheesy grin




Obi, that depends on your own definition of "Virginity" tongue
baby are u a virgin? yes i am. azin u've never had sex before? lol that is ur own perception of virginity?

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by bejeria101(m): 6:09pm On Dec 03, 2016
So you were told that those that married as virgins never had problems? Who virginity epp?

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by BabaRamota1980: 6:11pm On Dec 03, 2016
delishpot:


False. Virginity does not mean ignorance. Both are virgins and as such learning to explore the horizon together.

what horizon together?

What is the sexually attached factor for a woman to desire a virgin man, can you share?
Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by BabaRamota1980: 6:13pm On Dec 03, 2016
IYANGBALI:
My bweast might have digested but I am proudly a virgin


#teamsaynotopreekandcucumber

hahahahahahaha. grin

#teamchidinma

my chidinma is a virgin

Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by Nobody: 6:14pm On Dec 03, 2016
lezz:


It's a changing world with new value systems and conventions. Sex is no longer sacred as it once was. The fabric which holds the serenity of sex is getting thinner and worn-out by the day, shredded by new values and media culture.

Perhaps , as a remedy, couples should seek greater emotional bonding in the absence of virginity. Not all women are in an emotional prison of the ex who deflowered them.

As a matter of fact, most virgins are tricked, coerced or cajoled into surrendering their virginity in their preteen or prepubescence , hence loyalty still lies with the guy who truly has her heart first, or hopefully, with the one who will have her heart.

Emotional compatibility should be promoted and nurtured and genuine friendship forged. This is the sure means of burying the hovering ghosts of the virgins' past.

Then of course, the art of fücking must be mastered and given in artistry to seal the deal of marriage.
You have spoken well bruv.
Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by mikolo52076: 6:15pm On Dec 03, 2016
It all begins from infancy... Girls at 12-15 years of age tends to read love books, sex stories. This makes them want to exploit at earlier stage.. Parents should cursion their children. Mind the kind of books they hide to read.

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by nkemdi89(f): 6:15pm On Dec 03, 2016
When you tell a man you are keeping it for him they will give you 101 reasons to loose it. As a lady you keep on experiencing heart break because you want a man that will key into your principles, couple with the fact that he explore every other means from your body to satisfy his urge. The day you tricked him into bending your rules and at end you still remain obstinate that will cause another strain in the relationship, you will become the highest betrayal to him. Basically the whole virginity issue is getting obsolete as our society has failed to upheld it.

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by Annie2059: 6:16pm On Dec 03, 2016
very correct ...
Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by GoodBuhari: 6:17pm On Dec 03, 2016
MackBrooklyn:
Virginity is the best wedding gift any man would receive from from his newly wedded wife but lately, there is nothing such as virginity any longer because it'll have already been given out as a birthday gift, token of appreciation, job assurance, church collection, examination marking schemes and transportation fares cool

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by totalhouse(m): 6:17pm On Dec 03, 2016
MackBrooklyn:
Virginity is the best wedding gift any man would receive from from his newly wedded wife but lately, there is nothing such as virginity any longer because it'll have already been given out as a birthday gift, token of appreciation, job assurance, church collection, examination marking schemes and transportation fares cool
This guy bad no be small.. Lol

No matter how less fancy it is in our present generation, virginity is the way to go because it is safer, peaceful and honorable... Close up till you get the permit
Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by Pchidexy(m): 6:19pm On Dec 03, 2016
NBossConcept:
[s]eWe hear alot of people saying a guy or lady is not good in bed or one party doesn't satisfy the others sexual desire. Trust me this is mainly attributed to those who never married as virgins.

When two people get married as virgins, there is no way they will have any issues with their sex life because first of all, no matter the size of the guys manhood, that is what the lady's virgina will get use to and their way of sex life is what they will both grow with and add spices to just the way they want it.

Now because so many people these days get disvirgined very early and probably end up being with more than one person before they get married, the issue of sexual satisfaction always arise and this is because of the different experiences one gets to have. In this regard you find yourself comparing one particular persons way of sex to another and when your married partner fails to be like one of those you have been with in the past, it becomes an issue and you start looking for were to get extra satisfaction that will finally destroy your marriage.

Be a proud virgin till marriage and trust me you will be one of those to have a happy ever after marrid life.[/s]
Nonsense

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by BabaRamota1980: 6:20pm On Dec 03, 2016
nkemdi89:
When you tell a man you are keeping it for him they will give you 101 reasons to loose it. As a lady you keep on experiencing heart break because you want a man that will key into your principles, couple with the fact that he explore every other means from your body to satisfy his urge. The day you tricked him into bending your rules and at end you still remain obstinate that will cause another strain in the relationship, you will become the highest betrayal to him. Basically the whole virginity issue is getting obsolete as our society has failed to upheld it.

True.

Listen to what lezz said up there. He summed it up.

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by Nobody: 6:21pm On Dec 03, 2016
Virginity is worthless to me undecided

Please respect my opinion, thank you smiley
Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by nextstep(m): 6:21pm On Dec 03, 2016
Frankly I think all this focus on virginity is sexist, chauvinist and self-serving. Who are men to lecture anybody on any kind of "virtues"?

This mentality harks back to the days when women were supposed to be property, exchanged from father to husband for a bride price. She was not supposed to have an identity of her own, but bound to these two men in her life. The focus on virginity arguably made sense: both parties wanted to be sure they were trading a product of genuine value. As for the woman being traded, who cared what she thought or wanted.

Fortunately times have changed and we are all more enlightened than we used to be about this issue. Sadly some vestiges of a bye gone era still haunt the modern age.

Let people do what they want with their own bodies; accept that women are people too, with their own aspirations, not commodities to be "kept", "protected", "hedged" or "traded" like a valuable painting. Once you do that, you'll feel less need to fixate or advise on something as personal as this.

i.e. none of your damn business

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Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by IYANGBALI: 6:26pm On Dec 03, 2016
BabaRamota1980:


hahahahahahaha. grin

#teamchidinma

my chidinma is a virgin
chidinma have tooked cucumber to disvirgin herself
Re: The Disadvantage Of Being Disvirgined Before Marriage. by 4nobody4every1: 6:27pm On Dec 03, 2016
lezz:


It's a changing world with new value systems and conventions. Sex is no longer sacred as it once was. The fabric which holds the serenity of sex is getting thinner and worn-out by the day, shredded by new values and media culture.

Perhaps , as a remedy, couples should seek greater emotional bonding in the absence of virginity. Not all women are in an emotional prison of the ex who deflowered them.

As a matter of fact, most virgins are tricked, coerced or cajoled into surrendering their virginity in their preteen or prepubescence , hence loyalty still lies with the guy who truly has her heart first, or hopefully, with the one who will have her heart.

Emotional compatibility should be promoted and nurtured and genuine friendship forged. This is the sure means of burying the hovering ghosts of the virgins' past.

Then of course, the art of fücking must be mastered and given in artistry to seal the deal of marriage.
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