| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by sammytwain(m): 10:32pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Bro,you don dey friend zone street,just dey chill dey go until your bank account dry  4 Likes |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by klax(m): 10:32pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Pls custodian of English is this correct?
I'm I *RUSHING* her.
Pls help this guy to modify the title correctly. |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by djeezy(m): 10:32pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
vicfuntop:
Maybe she saw ur unserious moniker KONJIKILLER. Truthfully she doesn't like you. I mean she doesn't feel anything for you. That's the friend zone. True. 2 Likes |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by PHfinest(m): 10:33pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
The expression is "Am I Rushing her?"
Not: I'm I
Not: Are My
Mods need some continuing education 1 Like |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by lumzybo: 10:34pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Wake up bro. U shld be smarter than this. U shldnt walk on the highways with ur eyes closed. Open ur eyes and face it.
It's either she do or not.
Else I will take u as grandpatron of friendzone club of 9ja.
Repeat after me THIS YEAR 2017, I ReFUSed To BE A MAGA Oya pray! Pray!! Pray!!! 14 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by helphelp: 10:35pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
KONJIKILLER:
Good day, Nairalanders, I don't know what the females here have to say about this but I'll gladly welcome any criticism.
So there's this girl, Sharon(not her real name), I met her November last year. Ok, she's smoking hot, very attractive and absolutely smart. We got so close and told each other a lot of things, darkest secrets, and stuff she wouldn't even tell her mom. She concluded that we become best friends but deep down, I wanted more than that because I was already falling, I just didn't know what to say. Every time we talked on the phone, it was usually for more than 30minutes that my friends would be wondering if we were dating, even my close pals made fun of me that I was being friendzoned. One night in December, I called her and from the way I was talking to her, a normal girl would catch the cruise that a nigga was flirting although it wasn't obvious. After the call, I texted her that I had something to tell her but then, I just told her I'd say it later. She laughed and told me she knows what's up with me but that she's been waiting for me to spit it out. I asked how she knew, she said by behavior towards her and everything was obvious that I had these feelings for her. She added that I should be patient and not rush it, I was totally relieved, even my buddies said 'she go gree, no worry, the babe like you die'.
Guys, from that day, I've been treating this girl like a queen, buying her stuff, calling her and doing the regular things a boyfriend would do, hoping she'd eventually agree to date me. Her mom even saw the stuff I bought her, she asked her if we were dating and she told her we were talking about it. All these events happened late last year and she still hasn't made a brother happy. The last time we talked about it was on the 30th of December and she specifically told me she had feeling for me but that "she wants to get her emotions right". Sister what does that mean now?
We stepped into the new year, the first week passed, so did the second week, she hasn't said a word about "US". Her birthday is coming up in two weeks and I plan on confronting her day before her birthday to know exactly what she wants with me.
Am I moving too fast? Am I impatient? Some of my friends are saying she might be too shy to say the three letter word, that I should try and make a move by kissing her or something. NAIRALANDERS, what am I missing Have you finished revising for that exam? |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by George2016(m): 10:36pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Guy be bold to tell her exactly what you want from her then it is her decision to say yes or no.
Spending 1K is too much to get her attention. 1 Like |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by YoungDaNaval(m): 10:36pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
One thing Im sure of is having a girl as a bestie is nothing but friend zone!! |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by Carsonv(m): 10:36pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
You just pop the question my friend. It can either go both ways bit make sure to stack your odds enough to go your way. Assumption is the number 1 killer of relationship 3 Likes |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by tobey2ng(m): 10:37pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Play along bro.She has accepted you already.Assume the position of bf -i.e hug,hold hands,touch and kissing
Her response to all these will make you know your position of which she has gave you green light already.Be on top of the game bro 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by Nobody: 10:38pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
KONJIKILLER:
Good day, Nairalanders, I don't know what the females here have to say about this but I'll gladly welcome any criticism.
So there's this girl, Sharon(not her real name), I met her November last year. Ok, she's smoking hot, very attractive and absolutely smart. We got so close and told each other a lot of things, darkest secrets, and stuff she wouldn't even tell her mom. She concluded that we become best friends but deep down, I wanted more than that because I was already falling, I just didn't know what to say. Every time we talked on the phone, it was usually for more than 30minutes that my friends would be wondering if we were dating, even my close pals made fun of me that I was being friendzoned. One night in December, I called her and from the way I was talking to her, a normal girl would catch the cruise that a nigga was flirting although it wasn't obvious. After the call, I texted her that I had something to tell her but then, I just told her I'd say it later. She laughed and told me she knows what's up with me but that she's been waiting for me to spit it out. I asked how she knew, she said by behavior towards her and everything was obvious that I had these feelings for her. She added that I should be patient and not rush it, I was totally relieved, even my buddies said 'she go gree, no worry, the babe like you die'.
Guys, from that day, I've been treating this girl like a queen, buying her stuff, calling her and doing the regular things a boyfriend would do, hoping she'd eventually agree to date me. Her mom even saw the stuff I bought her, she asked her if we were dating and she told her we were talking about it. All these events happened late last year and she still hasn't made a brother happy. The last time we talked about it was on the 30th of December and she specifically told me she had feeling for me but that "she wants to get her emotions right". Sister what does that mean now?
We stepped into the new year, the first week passed, so did the second week, she hasn't said a word about "US". Her birthday is coming up in two weeks and I plan on confronting her day before her birthday to know exactly what she wants with me.
Am I moving too fast? Am I impatient? Some of my friends are saying she might be too shy to say the three letter word, that I should try and make a move by kissing her or something. NAIRALANDERS, what am I missing Oga you too buy buy sef! Calm down please! Get to know why she is sticking with you! 3 Likes |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by Nobody: 10:39pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Guy move on. It 's a NO. Don't wait on bitches. 2 Likes |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by omooba969(m): 10:40pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
vicfuntop:
Maybe she saw ur unserious moniker KONJIKILLER. Truthfully she doesn't like you. I mean she doesn't feel anything for you. That's the friend zone. . 3 Likes 
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| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by ogtavia(m): 10:41pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
KONJIKILLER:
Good day, Nairalanders, I don't know what the females here have to say about this but I'll gladly welcome any criticism.
So there's this girl, Sharon(not her real name), I met her November last year. Ok, she's smoking hot, very attractive and absolutely smart. We got so close and told each other a lot of things, darkest secrets, and stuff she wouldn't even tell her mom. She concluded that we become best friends but deep down, I wanted more than that because I was already falling, I just didn't know what to say. Every time we talked on the phone, it was usually for more than 30minutes that my friends would be wondering if we were dating, even my close pals made fun of me that I was being friendzoned. One night in December, I called her and from the way I was talking to her, a normal girl would catch the cruise that a nigga was flirting although it wasn't obvious. After the call, I texted her that I had something to tell her but then, I just told her I'd say it later. She laughed and told me she knows what's up with me but that she's been waiting for me to spit it out. I asked how she knew, she said by behavior towards her and everything was obvious that I had these feelings for her. She added that I should be patient and not rush it, I was totally relieved, even my buddies said 'she go gree, no worry, the babe like you die'.
Guys, from that day, I've been treating this girl like a queen, buying her stuff, calling her and doing the regular things a boyfriend would do, hoping she'd eventually agree to date me. Her mom even saw the stuff I bought her, she asked her if we were dating and she told her we were talking about it. All these events happened late last year and she still hasn't made a brother happy. The last time we talked about it was on the 30th of December and she specifically told me she had feeling for me but that "she wants to get her emotions right". Sister what does that mean now?
We stepped into the new year, the first week passed, so did the second week, she hasn't said a word about "US". Her birthday is coming up in two weeks and I plan on confronting her day before her birthday to know exactly what she wants with me.
Am I moving too fast? Am I impatient? Some of my friends are saying she might be too shy to say the three letter word, that I should try and make a move by kissing her or something. NAIRALANDERS, what am I missing well you can be patient and be good all you want but dude...she eventually will turn you down..she has her sights on someone else maybe richer than you...sorry bro....the woman heart works in the funniest of ways...believe me...she just likes you but will never date you or anything like that... 5 Likes |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by idu1(m): 10:42pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
The disappointment wey she go land for this my guy head eh.... Women matta tire person. I just pray God grant you the strength to bear the lost sha 6 Likes |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by MeGaStReEt: 10:42pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
My ex, even though we've broken up, I 'm still waiting for her to say "Yes" to my asking her out. We dated for a year or so.
I remember when I used to tease her and say, babe, you still haven't said yes, then her reply is "after you don fuckkk me tire" which yes you dey wait for again.
Some don't just say the normal yes, be a man and do the needful.
If na by money, another niggaah go spend pass you. 14 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by Cutie09(m): 10:43pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Bro you are falling in love but you don't know if the girl is falling in love with you. Well you've to ask her out I mean ask her out that you want her to be your girlfriend. She's not a mind reader she doesn't know what you want to tell her so it's better you tell her your mind.
Also one thing you should know is she older than you or how old is she? Because with your action she seems more mature than you
Lastly please don't buy girl or girls gift hoping that they will love you cause a girl loving you is only Base on your attraction to her your confidence Nigeria girl look at your security do you have a roof under your head or you ate still. Living with your parents
Good luck bro I hope it will end in happily ever after for you and sharon 6 Likes |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by Nobody: 10:44pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
She friendzoned you. |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
baba dont wait for that yes, try and kiss her, if she withdraws omo let that be the last time u roll with her or even get mushy and shii with her. if she doesnt withdraw, thats the sign that she's into u. dont waste that money, some people never chop wey need the money 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by Okeyson4wisdom(m): 10:46pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
KONJIKILLER:
Good day, Nairalanders, I don't know what the females here have to say about this but I'll gladly welcome any criticism.
So there's this girl, Sharon(not her real name), I met her November last year. Ok, she's smoking hot, very attractive and absolutely smart. We got so close and told each other a lot of things, darkest secrets, and stuff she wouldn't even tell her mom. She concluded that we become best friends but deep down, I wanted more than that because I was already falling, I just didn't know what to say. Every time we talked on the phone, it was usually for more than 30minutes that my friends would be wondering if we were dating, even my close pals made fun of me that I was being friendzoned. One night in December, I called her and from the way I was talking to her, a normal girl would catch the cruise that a nigga was flirting although it wasn't obvious. After the call, I texted her that I had something to tell her but then, I just told her I'd say it later. She laughed and told me she knows what's up with me but that she's been waiting for me to spit it out. I asked how she knew, she said by behavior towards her and everything was obvious that I had these feelings for her. She added that I should be patient and not rush it, I was totally relieved, even my buddies said 'she go gree, no worry, the babe like you die'.
Guys, from that day, I've been treating this girl like a queen, buying her stuff, calling her and doing the regular things a boyfriend would do, hoping she'd eventually agree to date me. Her mom even saw the stuff I bought her, she asked her if we were dating and she told her we were talking about it. All these events happened late last year and she still hasn't made a brother happy. The last time we talked about it was on the 30th of December and she specifically told me she had feeling for me but that "she wants to get her emotions right". Sister what does that mean now?
We stepped into the new year, the first week passed, so did the second week, she hasn't said a word about "US". Her birthday is coming up in two weeks and I plan on confronting her day before her birthday to know exactly what she wants with me.
Am I moving too fast? Am I impatient? Some of my friends are saying she might be too shy to say the three letter word, that I should try and make a move by kissing her or something. NAIRALANDERS, what am I missing[ am never a fan of having relationships but ill tell you not to rush it, give it time. For now I think ur hormones are speaking faster than ur head, distant urselves and see if its infactuation or love 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by oluwasegun007(m): 10:47pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
conclusion : there are so many dudes on her list, my fear is dat u are not amongst the first 3.....also I can deduce from ur write up that her age bracket is between 23-25, assuming she was in her late 20's she'll have introduced you to her mama long before now . my priceless advice is to take is slow and shine yet eyes... the only person that will tell u d truth is is u.....pis 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by jfleece(m): 10:47pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
daewoorazer:
How about you buy her more stuffs, literally assume d position of a maga boyfriend, spend all ur hard earned cash on buying her chocolates and pata. 
U don't know u dey spoil Market For other real niggaz...
Just so u know, d patas u buy today, niggaz will remove it tomao.
Make I free u small, stop doing like yemi my lover, where u shld have assumed d position of a boyfriend shld be in gestures(kissing, caressing... Anything dat disturbs her).... Not spending
Some gals don't do d toasting and yes parole
#zanga I like smart dudes like u... Hit me up for a bottle of royal whiskey.. 4 Likes |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by Armstrong34(m): 10:47pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Buh seriously Op,u deserve that picture of give that man two medals..... One for being a *********...... And two incase he loses the first..... Babe never tell you YEs, u Don dey shower goodies for the babe head.... Maka y na..... I jus hope you an afonja o.... 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by adegeye38(m): 10:49pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
oluwasegun007:
conclusion : there are so many dudes on her list, my fear is dat u are not amongst the first time 3.....also I can deduce from ur write up that her age bracket is between 23-25. my priceless advice is to take is slow and shine yet eyes... the only person that will tell u d truth is is u.....pis 7 Likes 
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| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by goingape1: 10:50pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
KONJIKILLER:
Good day, Nairalanders, I don't know what the females here have to say about this but I'll gladly welcome any criticism.
So there's this girl, Sharon(not her real name), I met her November last year. Ok, she's smoking hot, very attractive and absolutely smart. We got so close and told each other a lot of things, darkest secrets, and stuff she wouldn't even tell her mom. She concluded that we become best friends but deep down, I wanted more than that because I was already falling, I just didn't know what to say. Every time we talked on the phone, it was usually for more than 30minutes that my friends would be wondering if we were dating, even my close pals made fun of me that I was being friendzoned. One night in December, I called her and from the way I was talking to her, a normal girl would catch the cruise that a nigga was flirting although it wasn't obvious. After the call, I texted her that I had something to tell her but then, I just told her I'd say it later. She laughed and told me she knows what's up with me but that she's been waiting for me to spit it out. I asked how she knew, she said by behavior towards her and everything was obvious that I had these feelings for her. She added that I should be patient and not rush it, I was totally relieved, even my buddies said 'she go gree, no worry, the babe like you die'.
Guys, from that day, I've been treating this girl like a queen, buying her stuff, calling her and doing the regular things a boyfriend would do, hoping she'd eventually agree to date me. Her mom even saw the stuff I bought her, she asked her if we were dating and she told her we were talking about it. All these events happened late last year and she still hasn't made a brother happy. The last time we talked about it was on the 30th of December and she specifically told me she had feeling for me but that "she wants to get her emotions right". Sister what does that mean now?
We stepped into the new year, the first week passed, so did the second week, she hasn't said a word about "US". Her birthday is coming up in two weeks and I plan on confronting her day before her birthday to know exactly what she wants with me.
Am I moving too fast? Am I impatient? Some of my friends are saying she might be too shy to say the three letter word, that I should try and make a move by kissing her or something. NAIRALANDERS, what am I missing all I just have to say is that you are a big mugu! the sign is there! that ape dont love you and you are just her backup plan. why will she say yes at first  I always tell you people! fvck those idiots and forget them! why did you want to wife her what is your reason for wifing her other than seex? if you want a child just fvck her without condomm and there you go instead of thinking to marry one ape who doesn't love you! you guys need to start using your brain! naija women are not worth marrying! there are just only good for sexx and nothing much 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by Quintessential1(f): 10:50pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
@Konjikiller. The situation is a lil dicey, esp for us, the readers. We can't quite tell how she feels about you. She may be attracted to you but might still have lingering feelings for someone else. Perhaps, she needs to know if she'd rather stick to that other guy or let him go completely,; and before she's sure of that, she probably doesn't want to get seriously involved with anyone else. Not even you.
And then again, she might just like you in an ordinary way, as a friend, as anything except as a lover. In that regard, she may not want to get romantically involved with you. Possibly, still, she may love you, but still needs some more time to put things into perspective, to see if a relationship with you would be sustainable in the long run. Not everyone rushes into a relationship.
But I don't encourage you to wait any further. Tell her how you feel about the long wait and that you don't intend to wait any longer. 3 months is enough time to think things through, so if she really digs you, then a relationship is worth a try. Don't settle for anything less. Make sure it's a proper relationship she's agreeing to. 16 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by muller102(m): 10:52pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Op go and sleep. The babe no send u at all 1 Like |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by PublicAssurance: 10:54pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
stay there another person is choooooking her! keep deceiving yourself 3 Likes |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by redcliff: 10:55pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
KONJIKILLER:
Good day, Nairalanders, I don't know what the females here have to say about this but I'll gladly welcome any criticism.
So there's this girl, Sharon(not her real name), I met her November last year. Ok, she's smoking hot, very attractive and absolutely smart. We got so close and told each other a lot of things, darkest secrets, and stuff she wouldn't even tell her mom. She concluded that we become best friends but deep down, I wanted more than that because I was already falling, I just didn't know what to say. Every time we talked on the phone, it was usually for more than 30minutes that my friends would be wondering if we were dating, even my close pals made fun of me that I was being friendzoned. One night in December, I called her and from the way I was talking to her, a normal girl would catch the cruise that a nigga was flirting although it wasn't obvious. After the call, I texted her that I had something to tell her but then, I just told her I'd say it later. She laughed and told me she knows what's up with me but that she's been waiting for me to spit it out. I asked how she knew, she said by behavior towards her and everything was obvious that I had these feelings for her. She added that I should be patient and not rush it, I was totally relieved, even my buddies said 'she go gree, no worry, the babe like you die'.
Guys, from that day, I've been treating this girl like a queen, buying her stuff, calling her and doing the regular things a boyfriend would do, hoping she'd eventually agree to date me. Her mom even saw the stuff I bought her, she asked her if we were dating and she told her we were talking about it. All these events happened late last year and she still hasn't made a brother happy. The last time we talked about it was on the 30th of December and she specifically told me she had feeling for me but that "she wants to get her emotions right". Sister what does that mean now?
We stepped into the new year, the first week passed, so did the second week, she hasn't said a word about "US". Her birthday is coming up in two weeks and I plan on confronting her day before her birthday to know exactly what she wants with me.
Am I moving too fast? Am I impatient? Some of my friends are saying she might be too shy to say the three letter word, that I should try and make a move by kissing her or something. NAIRALANDERS, what am I missing Follow this advice you would thank me. Be available less often, call less, flirt when you talk, dont buy her stuffs anymore and treat her like you have other girls. She would come crawling. Dont talk to her about any more feelings, send her something very small on her bday and dont attend it, i mean literally dont see her. I repeat stop buying her items and treating her like a queen. She is not! 13 Likes |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by nuggarito: 10:55pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
A real ni**a should have waited, by buying her stuff, you've dug a big whole for yourself. 1 Like |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by k9ine(m): 10:57pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Are u not sure you want her just to kill your konji Mr Konjikiller?
It appears she is in a relationship, and wouldn't want to keep two of it.
If her guy fails her she would come and tell you yes.
If her guy proceeds with her she would reject your offer, and still tell you both still be friends. |
| Re: Nairalanders, Help Me Out, She Hasn't Said Yes by Dyt(f): 10:57pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Nawa for the MOD ooo I'm I rushing her 1 Like 1 Share 
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