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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by kettle84(m): 5:08pm On Jan 19, 2017
Hormoniyi25:


New year pussy... Lol
youths of nowadays now see no wrong with formication like it is no sin. smh

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by hefelove(m): 5:16pm On Jan 19, 2017
hydel:
Guy u made me remember those annoying period between February to sometimes June of last year when my brother brought her Gf packing in to live with us, the lady stayed in our hostel for minimum of good 4 months, as at last year my bro was in his final year while this lady was in 300level (she's in her final year now tho') i don't just know why some ladies find it so easy and pleasing to live with a guy in the name of love when none of the guy's family knows her yet not to talk of getting married, this girl packed in with us and continued to live with us for months, my bro on the other hand bangles this lady every available time, even during afternoon times when I'm usually off to school, at times i may wake up in the middle of night just to see strange things, their was a faithful time i returned home for lunch & i met the both of them in a vast romantic mood, i had to get back and retired at my friend's place for lunch. sometimes towards june ending i tabled my complaints to him (my bro) that i couldn't continue, he then made arrangements for her then she packed out tho' they have gone separate now, i still sees her often on campus cos she's now in her final year, she doesn't even feel ashamed to say hi to me always...ladies can be sometimes surprising.
maybe she wants u to continue the banging from wer ur brother stopped
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by dantori(m): 5:17pm On Jan 19, 2017
jesfrosh:
YES YES

N:B - Original names have been changed for Private reasons


It all started last year when me and a friend needed somewhere to stay,so we started scouting for free apartments around my school,then one day my friend John called me,said he found a guy that needed roommates and was asking for 80k#,I asked him to make enquiries and find out if the guy can take in 2 people.

After talking to the guy John said him and the guy had concluded that we both could come in and agreed on #50k each,we went to the place and it was in a raz environment but we were in urgent need of a place to stay so we took the place.

6months down the line John had moved out Cuz he didn't pay fully and I was left alone with the guy at the apartment,just last two weeks he said his junior sis gained admission and that he's going to serve February and so he's going to give his sister his place in the room,I was like Wtf :-/, so his sister moved in last week..... chai the girl set die.....so I've recently been thinking how only me and this girl would stay alone in a self contain apartment without any ********* happening,because January first I made a resolution to no do fisting and player this year kiss , but it's not been easy whenever she's in the room I can't even wear only boxers cus my blokos would be showing..... I can't polute the air (mess) in peace :-( , and I can't come out of the toilet without tieing my towel,it's just been one week tho.....I don't talk to the girl much tho.... but it's not been easy.....I can't imagine how the next few months with this girl would be.....I'd keep you guys posted....I need advice from experienced people tho....so share your experiences here too
:-)



don't mind my grammatical blunders tho






Don't worry dude keep cool she'll come for you

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Kingsley1000(m): 5:19pm On Jan 19, 2017
Prognose:
For real bro?



grin grin grin

Poor girl. Konji wan kill am but you no fit code angry
u nailed it

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Kingsley1000(m): 5:20pm On Jan 19, 2017
ogtavia:
last year after NYSC,a friend of mine came over when she left her PPA and came to stay with me cos she was looking for a job in the state where I lived...in fact, I had a female friend to pair her with but she refused saying she would only be comfortable staying with me...so she stayed a little over a month...I am team #nosexbeforemarriage so it never even crossed my mind that anything would happen...initially we had no issues but along the line she became a real pain in the A and became so annoying...she picked up anything I said and started a quarrel with it wherein she insulted me and I kept quiet...bear in mind,she was the first person I met when I got into UNI,my buddy from secondary school was her family friend so he introduced her to me,when I came to know her in school initially she showed glimpses of aggressiveness but I thought she was only being playful.... well,she had a sister in that same town but refused to stay with her...anything I said made her angry...I cooked,cleaned,washed while she watched movie,ate and slept..i would go to work,come back and still cook...during the rare occasions where she cooked or cleaned,i knew an insult session was coming....she is my agemate,i nearly asked her to leave but couldn't,..on a good day she is really nice but on those terrible days...she becomes a monster.....we slept on the same bed since I lived in a studio apartment....but a time came when she on her own decided to sleep on the couch and sometimes lay a mattress on the floor and slept....finally finally she announced she was leaving and I was so relieved....till today most of my friends never believe I had nothing intimate to with her....i had no lady in my life then,i didn't know about her....she is pretty,great figure and all that,but I just wasn't attracted to her and if I ever was, I never would act on it...there was a time I travelled and post poned my return but forgot to tell her, when I came in at night,she was soo madd but didn't say a word,i noticed so I kept quiet ,she had cooked so while eating I playfully her asked why she didn't even call to ask me how my trip had been and when I would finally return ... even though we spoke while I was away and she even mailed me a document I forgot....she really exploded....she said many things,one thing she said that shocked me was when she asked me why I expected her to call when she wasn't my girlfriend or sexually attracted to me,i could only keep quiet and stare at her....when she was done,i quietly said sorry,...a short while after that,she left......
is like your organ of copulation isn't functioning properly....so u couldn't read the signs

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by vicben27(m): 5:21pm On Jan 19, 2017
Prognose:


On second thot i dont blame you sha. Some girls give off a wrong vibe.

There was this girl that I knew back then in Uni. She had put me in the friendzone then and you know how difficult it is to come out of that place when you are already in. 3yrs down the line and we had graduated and i was staying on my own when she called that she need a place to stay for a while as she was job hunting. I agreed and she came around. We slept on the same bed, used the same bathroom (but not at the same time), the thing is, I was kind of already used to her, saw her as a sister and such. Next thing thing i know she started encouraging long night talks and saying how i was good to her in school. For some reason I just wasnt comfortable with the while romantic turn, like being romantic with my sister. That night she wore a light blue satin material, almost transparent and was using style to cuddle up to me, ended up sleeping on my chest. My brother, my body no fit react, it all seemed so wierd to me. The next day she woke up and started getting irritated for no reason, picking quarrel here and there, a few days later said she wanted to leave. I wanted to escort her to the park and she said why should i, was i her boyfriend. I was like undecided. Guy I free her o. She later whatsapp me and apologise and we started chatting again but not like before. Havent spoken to her in years since then.

mst ladies ar like dat! dy may b attracted to u! but wont want to mak d first move especialy wen dy see u as a potenial husband! dy get very irritated wen ur nt shwin any sign of attraction or affection towards dem!

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by princeemmma(m): 5:22pm On Jan 19, 2017
Catalin:
Why should I have the opposite sex as my roommate when I have not lost my mind?



I can have only my husband as my roommate.
comon na lie jooo, u know the work of kanju, u won dey form holy here, na lie joooooooooo
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by discman2k2(m): 5:22pm On Jan 19, 2017
Na dis kain topic una dey lyk pass. Pipu wt baad mind don full ground nau!
Well, i was once approachd by a Polytechnic student in my former office to allow her spend just a week to collect her result. Haba, me a reknowned player wt an Idle babe foe bunk?! Hwever d gal jst dey form for me, only allow me 2 suck boobsy! oboy e no easy for me dat period.
GOD DEY

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by adeniyi65(m): 5:22pm On Jan 19, 2017
Prognose:


On second thot i dont blame you sha. Some girls give off a wrong vibe.

There was this girl that I knew back then in Uni. She had put me in the friendzone then and you know how difficult it is to come out of that place when you are already in. 3yrs down the line and we had graduated and i was staying on my own when she called that she need a place to stay for a while as she was job hunting. I agreed and she came around. We slept on the same bed, used the same bathroom (but not at the same time), the thing is, I was kind of already used to her, saw her as a sister and such. Next thing thing i know she started encouraging long night talks and saying how i was good to her in school. For some reason I just wasnt comfortable with the while romantic turn, like being romantic with my sister. That night she wore a light blue satin material, almost transparent and was using style to cuddle up to me, ended up sleeping on my chest. My brother, my body no fit react, it all seemed so wierd to me. The next day she woke up and started getting irritated for no reason, picking quarrel here and there, a few days later said she wanted to leave. I wanted to escort her to the park and she said why should i, was i her boyfriend. I was like undecided. Guy I free her o. She later whatsapp me and apologise and we started chatting again but not like before. Havent spoken to her in years since then.

OMG!! many guys dont understand women body language.she gave you a trial only for you to mess it up hiding under the umbrella of family tinz when you both never relate.she was ashame of herself coz you may have caught what she really want that night and think you turn her down coz you never think she can do that. Thats why she want to cover up her shame by turning everything to quirel.

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by 2shur: 5:26pm On Jan 19, 2017
baba my gal s friend came visiting and my gal be get some kind event shiit like dat for weekend and her gal had exams..but me ai no say all dese ones na blocking students.
we smoke sk dah evening.
baba gen tank full up.
play music..drink enuf monkeytail.
oh bobs when she go baff.
come out
towel fall off.
jesu..meanwhile she don high..
i help am reach bed..br u know it
my dhic don hard.
men na condom tins.
i fhuc her luke mad.
e remain small she 4 talk say i will marry u.

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by NaeChris: 5:26pm On Jan 19, 2017
Tabbaz1:

2 WEEKS? Like seriously lipsrsealed
Baba na wetin i see o.
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by abdulmalik3(m): 5:27pm On Jan 19, 2017
Princess4ng:
There was a time we stayed in our room 5 of us... 2 gurls and 3 guys.... Believe me when I said we were very comfortable staying togeda.... We were friends and nobody was dating nobody.. Infact, we were more like brothers and sisters.... It was fun but we had to adjust cus of what pple said....
as beautiful as you are ? though it all about your mind
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by princeemmma(m): 5:28pm On Jan 19, 2017
Kingsley1000:
is like your organ of copulation isn't functioning properly....so u couldn't read the signs
yes i think his organ is not working, i need to

Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by NaeChris: 5:29pm On Jan 19, 2017
igbalodehunter:
And Are You a Man?
LOL. Before nko? A man o self control.
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by princeemmma(m): 5:30pm On Jan 19, 2017
NaeChris:
My room mate's towns girl came to my school to register and sit for her Post JAMB but she had no where to stay, my room mate has apparently left the room for me and relocated to his girlfriend's lodge before then. He told me his towns girl will be coming to stay with me. Well, she came, nothing happened. As a Chineke boy, i sleep carry my face put one side till day break. I intentionally take my bath as early as 5 before she wakes up make i no tempt am while on towel. This happened for 2 weeks after she must have finished with her registration and exam.
dem swear give you, abi ur life don scatter, girl sleep your ouse for two weeks, u never did tungu tungu at all, hee heeee

Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by NaeChris: 5:30pm On Jan 19, 2017
Princess4ng:


I can... It depends on how long I've known the person and the type if person he is
What type of person are actually refering to? The rough type or a gentleman?
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by OwoLee(m): 5:33pm On Jan 19, 2017
centboy123456:






Abeg go na u holy pass abi

She no holy pass, she just saying, she can't tolerate it, we all have differences, let's learn to respect our individualities...

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by LaideOyadeyi(m): 5:33pm On Jan 19, 2017
I twice have a female as room-mate,the first time was in 2012,we met through HINTS MAGAZINE,she was a final year philosophy student of AAUA and she wished to have her IT in Ibadan,i promised to fix her up where i work(International Institute of Tropical Agriculture),she came but i couldn't fix her there but at FRCN ibadan station.
We Bleep almost every night for the 3 months,i would have marry her but she prefer male friends to female.



The second experience was last year,she was a junior staff where i work,she worked directly under my supervision.We both had accomodation problem at the same time though i usually lodge in a hotel,i suggested she join me and she agreed,this continue until the 9th day when we have sex .

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by MARKETfund: 5:37pm On Jan 19, 2017
equily:
..I was buying fufu at one junction while waiting for change I saw a woman with a little child. The child was walking a bit faster than the woman and the woman shouted; "Degree wait for me". I was so amazed hearing that name. So to satisfy my curiousity, I walked closer to the woman and asked; "ma, why do u call this child degree"? The woman laughed and said "I sent her mother to the University and this is what she brought home.


grin grin grin

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Princess4ng(f): 5:37pm On Jan 19, 2017
NaeChris:
What type of person are actually refering to? The rough type or a gentleman?

I mean how safe I'll be with the person... Mentality matters.... Make person no rape me for night biko grin
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by igbalodehunter(m): 5:38pm On Jan 19, 2017
NaeChris:
LOL. Before nko? A man o self control.
Kontinu!
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Princess4ng(f): 5:38pm On Jan 19, 2017
abdulmalik3:
as beautiful as you are ? though it all about your mind

Then what had beauty got to do with staying in a room with friends? Na only ugly pple dey stay for room with friends

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by vicben27(m): 5:39pm On Jan 19, 2017
Handsomecole:
Well it's really not much of a big deal. It all depends on the mind set. Back then in school I had two best friends and they were ladies.

Atimes I sleep in their room for weeks, and believe me, I really enjoyed it without sex. Infact the girls change in my presence, I even use their towel. Atimes one of them comes to my room to pass the night and nothing happens. It's just a thing of the mind set.

There was a time one of them travlled I was with the other girl for two weeks and nothing happened.
gay alert!

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by Handsomecole(m): 5:41pm On Jan 19, 2017
Bros! Please give me your sister's number let's find out wink
vicben27:
gay alert!

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by mzzhavilah(f): 5:46pm On Jan 19, 2017
goingape1:
nothing really! because nowadays guys don't normally do those stuff in fear of rape accusations
ok
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by jtjohn(m): 5:48pm On Jan 19, 2017
drealnamdy:
Yes i have.. infact in my case.. back when i was in my finals at the university..i had a room mate who happens to be our family friend cos we grew up in the same neighborhood and we are also from the same village. while i was in my finals, he was still in diploma and cldnt secure admission afterwards..he later proceeded to the east where he finally secured admission and allowed his younger sis to stay with me in place of him since his properties were still in the room... omoo.. it was drama upon drama upon drama..its either she finish taking her bath n hangs her pants anywhere in the room..uses my towel..dumps her monthly used pad anywhere in the bathroom with the stench blood without disposing it or inviting her boyfriend over to my room whenever i go for lecture..omoo.. i no fit shout sef..i jst tire aswear.. she was attractive but i saw her lik my kid sis soo there was no attraction what so ever . the whole situation continued until she invited her female friend over who was searching for admission to stay with us ..she later proceeded to sleeping at her bf's house leaving her friend to stay with me.. this time around ..this friend of hers was very clean, attractive and prettier.. first night went, second and the third..gbagam! it happend that i was just on my own oo...preparing for my test the next day.. while reading.. she walked in..greeted me, walked straight to the bathroom, came out and went straight to bed..with this tight silky short night gown..omoo mehn.. temptation.. that was wen the devil decided to switch my academic mind to the latest style in xvideos.com... cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy... nothing dey enter again oo.. na so i close the book.. joined her in bed..she turned over to cuddle me.. the rest na adventure undecided...before morning.. we don knack three round.. grin grin grin grin
badest
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by adeniyi65(m): 5:50pm On Jan 19, 2017
thunderbabs:
A hot female as my roommate ? shocked

Na homezone chick be that and jealousy go dey on Overdrive.

Girlfriend for same compound sef na one hell of a tingy talkless same room. The devil will definitly use your prick or you use it urself grin
lol grin
thunderbabs:
A hot female as my roommate ? shocked

Na homezone chick be that and jealousy go dey on Overdrive.

Girlfriend for same compound sef na one hell of a tingy talkless same room. The devil will definitly use your prick or you use it urself
lol grin
thunderbabs:
A hot female as my roommate ? shocked

Na homezone chick be that and jealousy go dey on Overdrive.

Girlfriend for same compound sef na one hell of a tingy talkless same room. The devil will definitly use your prick or you use it urself grin
lol grin
thunderbabs:
A hot female as my roommate ? shocked

Na homezone chick be that and jealousy go dey on Overdrive.

Girlfriend for same compound sef na one hell of a tingy talkless same room. The devil will definitly use your prick or you use it urself
lol
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by NaeChris: 5:53pm On Jan 19, 2017
Princess4ng:


I mean how safe I'll be with the person... Mentality matters.... Make person no rape me for night biko grin
LOL. Fear fear.
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by IgweBUIKE1(m): 5:53pm On Jan 19, 2017
centboy123456:






Abeg go na u holy pass abi
to talk your mind na crime.. she must bleep the hell out of the guy if she finds herself in such situations.. Pls understand her point
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by jasysandra(f): 5:55pm On Jan 19, 2017
grin grin grin
Eglobalma:


U are so boring i wonder who dates ur kind..
Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by NaeChris: 5:56pm On Jan 19, 2017
princeemmma:
dem swear give you, abi ur life don scatter, girl sleep your ouse for two weeks, u never did tungu tungu at all, hee heeee
LOL. I no want wahala. Somehow i wan show am say e get guys wey no send. The issue of 'guys and sex' is being blown out of proportion such that for that girl mind she go say ''this guy fit misbehave this nite o'', so i wan prove a point.

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Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by ogtavia(m): 5:58pm On Jan 19, 2017
Kingsley1000:
is like your organ of copulation isn't functioning properly....so u couldn't read the signs
hehehe .....man shall not live by copulation..

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