Jazakallaahu khairan

zarinaAin:
Jazakallaahu khairan

wa iyyaki

Wait o, where's 'snapscore' oooo?

RABIUSHILE04:
Wait o, where's 'snapscore' oooo?

Still around alhamdulliah.

Just not very active.

Been busy.

Thanks for the remembrance

As salaam alaekum warohmatuLlah wabaarokatuhu

Pls pass dis message to my beloved sisters (especially d single ones), May Allah preserve us all upon khaer.

My dear sisters, do not be interested in making your nikkah a suprise, u have nothing to benefit from that. Ask anybody about d brother and do not restrict your findings.

Don't carried away with that jumping trouser or full beards.

Who cares if he works in an oil company!

Enquire about his character because that is what u are going to live with.

Even if he has memorized the whole qur'an, and d soheehain are in his head, if he isn't well behaved, u still won't enjoy living with him.

Dear sister, think with ur head and not ur heart.

Do your istikhooro *sincerely*. May Allah grant us d best in both worlds.

A Muslim doesn't make his dealings a do or die affair, if it's not working out perhaps Allah is protecting u from danger.

Don't make ur parents ur enemies because u want to get married. Be calm and patient with them.

I hope this lil piece is better understood than it has been composed.
May Allah reunite us all in jannah.

Love u all liLlah
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Before you marry him /her...
Shaikh Muhammad Saalih Al-uthaimeen [rahimahullah] said:
Some people say: "I will marry a woman who is not religious, perhaps Allah will guide her at my hands."
And we say: " We are not entrusted with what will happen in the future.As for the future,we do not know about it.It may be that you marry her while desiring that Allah will guide her in your hands.however,it may be that she may change your state to what she is upon."
(Sharh Al-Mumti' kitaab An-Nikahp.14)

sallam aleykum, im a 30years old poor university graduate from ilorin in kwara state, i got N-power job recently before then i have been teaching in a private school, pls i wish i could have a muslimah for marriage. Pls msg me... Ma sallam ....jizak!

bynat:
Marriage, marriage, marriage. May Allah make it easy fr us.

yeah marriage cos its half of our deen..may Allah make it easy for us..ur name pls?

bynat:
Marriage, marriage, marriage. May Allah make it easy fr us.

amin may Allah make it easy for us with the right life partner

Getting married isn’t going to miraculously fix life problems. It isn't always an out to loneliness or an escape from current situations. Folks must work on self-development without simply waiting for marriage to somehow magically change lives.

Marriage can be a great tool of self-improvement and can help us change for the best, with God's will. A blissful marriage is amongst the greatest blessings that God can bestow on a person, and the creation of a family, and taking care of that family, is amongst the greatest acts of worship. But if single folks are not personally working on self-improvement now, how it be expected that it will be easier with the additional baggage of another individual who is also imperfect?

Would you want to marry you? If not, how can you get to where you should be? If yes, how can you increase in your good qualities to get even better?
-Ibn Khalid

We often hear the singles say that its very hard to meet someone as a Muslim because we do not free mix etc.
YES, I must say its harder to 'meet' someone but I have realised that we are truly blessed as Muslims even though we have certain restrictions in place.

Those restrictions are not placed by Allah to hinder us but to protect us.
I am watching some videos on the male female psychology, love, dating, meeting someone, how to get him to commit and so on, and SUBHANALLAH the 'dating scene' for the non Muslims is 'horrible' and very unpredictable!

It's full of do's and don'ts, all sorts of rules, texting rules, communication rules, when to move forward, when to hold back, what to say and how, how to smile and not smile and all of this just for a DATE. All of this just to see how it goes and where it 'might' end up....
YES, we should all be aware of how to be the BEST version of ourselves even if we search the HALAL way, we should know how to present ourselves in meetings, how describe our wants, needs, our dreams and goals in life, how not to come off as 'needy' or 'desperate', however at least the environment is controlled and safe and halal.

We KNOW why we are there! We are there for MARRIAGE, we are there with the 'intention' to get to know someone for a committed long term relationship and non Muslims are not. They are simply floating along hoping it will turn into something amazing when most of the time it is simply a fun relationship or a casual one (hate this word - casual!) with no clear intentions, mind games, hidden agendas and fake promises.

Even though there are many players among the Muslims and many offer the world but don't follow through, yes sadly this happens, however IF we follow the right way, the Sunnah way of meeting someone then all of that rubbish and second guessing will be eliminated and our hearts protected!
ALHAMDULILLAH WE ARE MUSLIMS!
-Umm Adam

^^^

They even have "90 days rule"

That's to protect interest of their women.

It means dont c.opulate yet but you have to give, give and give women within that 90days of accessement

Jst noticed ds thread...quite a funy one. Evry1 complainin bout d opposit gender... D Marriage topic neva gets boring n old. "Staying married"is what is..n not getn married.Ova time, it'l begin to dawn on u,n u wonder how u missed d bd attitudes of ur spouse bfre marryn dem. Den d woman begns to b not as "beautiful" n d man begins to b not so "caring & nice" as bfre now. Arguments n quarrels,silent treatmnt,resentment....Den if he can, he resolves to mayb takin anoda wife,..n she,on d oda end, fgets she eva got married. N d story chnges
Lets b who we wud want to marry...#ChangeBeginsWithYou

Ssthorm:
Jst noticed ds thread...quite a funy one. Evry1 complainin bout d opposit gender... D Marriage topic neva gets boring n old. "Staying married"is what is..n not getn married.Ova time, it'l begin to dawn on u,n u wonder how u missed d bd attitudes of ur spouse bfre marryn dem. Den d woman begns to b not as "beautiful" n d man begins to b not so "caring & nice" as bfre now. Arguments n quarrels,silent treatmnt,resentment....Den if he can, he resolves to mayb takin anoda wife,..n she,on d oda end, fgets she eva got married. N d story chnges
Lets b who we wud want to marry...#ChangeBeginsWithYou

This is nice, especially the emboldened..

I have one principle, generally I dont like doing unto others what i cannot accept and i don't like it when you do to me a thing (i know)you can't accept.

AbdelKabir:


This is nice, especially the emboldened..

I have one principle, generally I dont like doing unto others what i cannot accept and i don't like it when you do to me a thing (i know)you can't accept.

O yea. Its a gud principle 2 live by...

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peace be onto this room,i want to ask a question, not that i want to marry or anything, just want to seek knowledge, is it allow to marry a christian lady that you convert to islam?

Kaybeeeee:
peace be onto this room,i want to ask a question, not that i want to marry or anything, just want to seek knowledge, is it allow to marry a christian lady that you convert to islam?

you need to call people to answer this, sir. Folks like albaqir, snapscore, abdelkabir RABIUSHILE04 busar lexiconkabir sino tbaba1234 among others

Now responding to op, reason men arent married yet is bcus our women are confused. We dont understand them. They mean EXACT OPPOSITE of what they say. They are the most confused beings in the world

We need "manslator" to be able to understand women, otherwise, you go enter 'gobe'.


The video below is ONLY for men. Women should not watch. CLOSE YOUR eyes and block your ears please (women)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EW0SICPgp44

rilwayne001, tintingz

Kaybeeeee:
peace be onto this room,i want to ask a question, not that i want to marry or anything, just want to seek knowledge, is it allow to marry a christian lady that you convert to islam?

Yeah a Muslim man can marry a new revert but I would be curious as to whether she converted because she she believes in Islam or it was part of the conditions of the marriage.

Empiree:

Jazakallahu Khyran for the mention.

Empiree:
Now responding to op, reason men arent married yet is bcus our women are confused. We dont understand them. They mean EXACT OPPOSITE of what they say. They are the most confused beings in the world

We need "manslator" to be able to understand women, otherwise, you go enter 'gobe'.


The video below is ONLY for men. Women should not watch. CLOSE YOUR eyes and block your ears please (women)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EW0SICgp44

rilwayne001, tintingz

@ bold, it's not always true oo

Most of us are not ready. Marriage is the last thing on my mind for now. Although if i see N5million, i will marry 2 women straight away.

Rilwayne001:


@ bold, it's not always true oo

Most of us are not ready. Marriage is the last thing on my mind for now. Although if i see N5million, i will marry 2 women straight away.

You dey mind me?.

That was delibrately posted to provoke our sisters here

^^

Glad I didn't fall for it. I was sooooo close to commenting on it.

Trouble finder

Empiree:
Now responding to op, reason men arent married yet is bcus our women are confused. We dont understand them. They mean EXACT OPPOSITE of what they say. They are the most confused beings in the world

We need "manslator" to be able to understand women, otherwise, you go enter 'gobe'.


The video below is ONLY for men. Women should not watch. CLOSE YOUR eyes and block your ears please (women)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EW0SICPgp44

rilwayne001, tintingz

Many women if not all express their feelings, anger with deep emotion that you won't know what they really want.

Maybe I will get the manslator machine when I marry.

Lol, I like the humor in the video.

Empiree:
you need to call people to answer this, sir. Folks like albaqir, snapscore, abdelkabir RABIUSHILE04 busar lexiconkabir sino tbaba1234 among others

Always not mention me in a sentence with a shia... For Allah's sake.
Jazakallaahu khayra