sulakishop:


We have similar stories. Seems we're both based in the same city. We can use a little friendship if you don't mind.

huh?

zeyney:

huh?

Pls reply my pm or
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sulakishop:


Pls reply my pm or
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sorry brother not to sound rude but I don't mk frnz wit d opposite sex.not to worry.Allah is ur strength

sulakishop:

Pls reply my pm or 59037D03

not to sound rude brother BT I don't mk frnz wit d opp sex.Allah is ur strenght

zeyney:

sorry brother not to sound rude but I don't mk frnz wit d opposite sex.not to worry.Allah is ur strength

I understand how you feel sis, may Allah guide us.

sulakishop:


I understand how you feel sis, may Allah guide us.

ameen brother

sulakishop:


I understand how you feel sis, may Allah guide us.

ameen brother

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I am still very skeptical about getting married in this day and age. Maybe its because of the bad news I am always reading regarding marriage. Maybe its because I am scared it won't work. Then there is the high expectations (regarding the deen), fear of responsibilty and my ambitions in life.

snapscore:
I am still very skeptical about getting married in this day and age. Maybe its because of the bad news I am always reading regarding marriage.
Maybe its because I am scared it won't work. Then there is the high expectations (regarding the deen), fear of responsibilty and my ambitions in life.

everything seems difficult except when you try your hands on it.

lexiconkabir:


everything seems difficult except when you try your hands on it.

I don't think it's same regarding marriage. I think it's the opposite- people go in underestimating what it's about and then realize it's not that simple

snapscore:


I don't think it's same regarding marriage. I think it's the opposite- people go in underestimating what it's about and then realize it's not that simple

with this you are already thinking "its difficult", I'm speaking about you in particular.

lexiconkabir:


with this you are already thinking "its difficult", I'm speaking about you in particular.

Well I have reasons to. There are a lot of expectation on women (and I had a conversation with a friend who is married about it).

What do you mean by difficult?

snapscore:


Well I have reasons to. There are a lot of expectation on women (and I had a conversation with a friend who is married about it).

What do you mean by difficult?

by difficult i mean, you are already preparing your mind that marriage won't be easy...

and as for "high expectations from women" men could say the same, it all depends on who you end up with

lexiconkabir:


by difficult i mean, you are already preparing your mind that marriage won't be easy...

and as for "high expectations from women" men could say the same, it all depends on who you end up with

I just think it's not for everyone.....It doesn't work for everyone.

I know it depends on the but........ I have not come across a person that doesn't have high expectations(except very few). But then again I really don't know a lot men.

snapscore:


I just think it's not for everyone.....It doesn't work for everyone.

I know it depends on the but........ I have not come across a person that doesn't have high expectations(except very few). But then again I really don't know a lot men.

ok.....enjoy!

lexiconkabir:


ok.....enjoy!

which one is enjoy?

snapscore:


which one is enjoy?

lol, i usually say that if i mean to say "do what you wanna do but I'm telling you, do not look at it from that perspective"

lexiconkabir:


lol, i usually say that if i mean to say "do what you wanna do but I'm telling you, do not look at it from that perspective"

Oh okay!

I know I shouldn't look at it from that prospective and I am trying to change my mindset especially because marriage is encouraged in Islam. A few years back I had a different mindset but when I realized marriage isn't Romeo and Juliet, it just sort of changed.

snapscore:


Oh okay!

I know I shouldn't look at it from that prospective and I am trying to change my mindset especially because marriage is encouraged in Islam. A few years back I had a different mindset but when I realized marriage isn't Romeo and Juliet, it just sort of changed.

The prophet said the best out of all the temporary enjoyment of this world is to marry a virtuous wife(by extension we can say husband too), which is why;

1.) you don't rush into it but do lots of prayer for Allaah's guidance.

2.) you don't over demand for "physical qualities" if you know what i mean.

3.) you don't marry to "manage the person like that" {i know you might say 2 and 3 is a contradiction, but its not}.

if you can get someone that is virtuous, then you'll be among those that enjoys the best of this world's temporary enjoyments....


emm, have you registered for that stuff?

lexiconkabir:


The prophet said the best out of all the temporary enjoyment of this world is to marry a virtuous wife(by extension we can say husband too), which is why;

1.) you don't rush into it but do lots of prayer for Allaah's guidance.

2.) you don't over demand for "physical qualities" if you know what i mean.

3.) you don't marry to "manage the person like that" {i know you might say 2 and 3 is a contradiction, but its not}.

if you can get someone that is virtuous, then you'll be among those that enjoys the best of this world's temporary enjoyments....


emm, have you registered for that stuff?

No. I was thinking about it yesterday. Will go sometime next week in sha Allah.

Jazakallahu Khiran

snapscore:


No. I was thinking about it yesterday. Will go sometime next week in sha Allah.

Jazakallahu Khiran

procrastination?

lexiconkabir:


procrastination?

Not really.

Been busy.

snapscore:


Not really.

Been busy.

ok, enjoy! and this time, i really mean enjoy.

DEmejioba1:
pls can u get me one too

LMAO... Na phone ni, wey make dem get one for u!!!

snapscore:
I am still very skeptical about getting married in this day and age. Maybe its because of the bad news I am always reading regarding marriage. Maybe its because I am scared it won't work. Then there is the high expectations (regarding the deen), fear of responsibilty and my ambitions in life.

First all, reading about marriages of NOW is really discouraging. If you're conversant with ahadith regarding the signs of the Last Hour, nothing will suprise regarding the crashing of marriages like MMM, no matter what.

I always rmb dis hadith by Ibn Abbass or Muadh ibn Jabal or so, when rasulullaah told him when you want to ask anytyn, always ask Allaah, anytyn(Husband, wife, children, job, biscuit, etc to mention a few).

Point is, as muslims, we should know aw to make duas, what doesn't make dua to be answered, but once all d criteria are met, den ask Allaah for a good spouse, putting it in mind that Allaah shud also make you a good person ur sef, bcuz Allaah says, good men are for good women, and vice versa, and read salafi books about how rasulullaah lived with his wives, aw d sahabas did wif their wives and all, not this zaman/generation of scallywags whr from their nikka it is disobedience to Allaah(music, pictures, gender mixing, alcohol etc) and you expect Allaah to put Barakah in that marriage, Laa, illaa inShaaAllaah.


Screw Beauty and the Beast, screw Paloma and Diego, If we dey find love stories, na Khadeejah bint Khuwalid and Muhammad ibn AbduLlaah, Sarah and Ibrahim, Muhammad and Aishah bint Abi Bakr and many of them, they lived peacefully long together, mutual respect, hoping to meet in Jannah, not this zaman of ours whr ppl think love is doing something for a spouse and bringing it to internet to showcase like say na PHONE,naked baby bumps, shower <>baby, you buy sometyn for ur spouse, na social media straight, bi eni ti won fi se/like person wey dem do.

In a nutshell, don't get scared of marriage, strive to be a good muslim on the path of the salaf, and make dua, trust in Allaah, patience, Allaah knows what's best for us, wallaahi.

lexiconkabir:


The prophet said the best out of all the temporary enjoyment of this world is to marry a virtuous wife(by extension we can say husband too), which is why;

1.) you don't rush into it but do lots of prayer for Allaah's guidance.

2.) you don't over demand for "physical qualities" if you know what i mean.

3.) you don't marry to "manage the person like that" {i know you might say 2 and 3 is a contradiction, but its not}.

if you can get someone that is virtuous, then you'll be among those that enjoys the best of this world's temporary enjoyments....


emm, have you registered for that stuff?

Hehehehe...That number 2 though..awa ti a fine/handsome, a ma wa rogo/we wey no fine, see OGO oooo...
LOL

RABIUSHILE04:


First all, reading about marriages of NOW is really discouraging. If you're conversant with ahadith regarding the signs of the Last Hour, nothing will suprise regarding the crashing of marriages like MMM, no matter what.

I always rmb dis hadith by Ibn Abbass or Muadh ibn Jabal or so, when rasulullaah told him when you want to ask anytyn, always ask Allaah, anytyn(Husband, wife, children, job, biscuit, etc to mention a few).

Point is, as muslims, we should know aw to make duas, what doesn't make dua to be answered, but once all d criteria are met, den ask Allaah for a good spouse, putting it in mind that Allaah shud also make you a good person ur sef, bcuz Allaah says, good men are for good women, and vice versa, and read salafi books about how rasulullaah lived with his wives, aw d sahabas did wif their wives and all, not this zaman/generation of scallywags whr from their nikka it is disobedience to Allaah(music, pictures, gender mixing, alcohol etc) and you expect Allaah to put Barakah in that marriage, Laa, illaa inShaaAllaah.


Screw Beauty and the Beast, screw Paloma and Diego, If we dey find love stories, na Khadeejah bint Khuwalid and Muhammad ibn AbduLlaah, Sarah and Ibrahim, Muhammad and Aishah bint Abi Bakr and many of them, they lived peacefully long together, mutual respect, hoping to meet in Jannah, not this zaman of ours whr ppl think love is doing something for a spouse and bringing it to internet to showcase like say na PHONE,naked baby bumps, shower <>baby, you buy sometyn for ur spouse, na social media straight, bi eni ti won fi se/like person wey dem do.

In a nutshell, don't get scared of marriage, strive to be a good muslim on the path of the salaf, and make dua, trust in Allaah, patience, Allaah knows what's best for us, wallaahi.

Jazakallahu Khiran!!

Really appreciate this!

Bookmarking!!!

snapscore:

Jazakallahu Khiran!!
Really appreciate this!
Bookmarking!!!

Allaahu allaam

snapscore:


which one is enjoy?

I love your personal text. we are to thank God for everything he has done for us!

Yet to meet a truly devoted Muslim sister, except those used and dumped sisters that had previously engaged in haram relationship.
I seriously need a committed and devoted sister

niyi123:
Yet to meet a truly devoted Muslim sister, except those used and dumped sisters that had previously engaged in haram relationship.
I seriously need a committed and devoted sister

Everyone deserves a second chance.......their pasts shouldn't matter since they are now better Muslims