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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by niyi123: 2:13pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Zeinymira: Well, Allah says Al muminuna lil muminatu, Alhafisuna lil hafisotu and so on. So everybody deserves someone like them. Moreso, I have come to realized that most guys/ladies that had promiscuous life after getting married still find it difficult to the away with their exes |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by niyi123: 2:19pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
I have met a lady in early twenties that told me she has had 6 exes which was a very big turn off, which I can't just cope. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Zeinymira(f): 2:24pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
niyi123: ok |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
niyi123: you don't ask... scholars discouraged that... |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by niyi123: 9:21am On Dec 28, 2016 |
lexiconkabir: All those kind of opinion doesn't work in this generation. Is it not better to know the type of person to be in a relationship with. Instead of getting married and discover a lot of unbearable situations 3 Likes |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 11:06am On Dec 28, 2016 |
niyi123: goodluck in your bid to find a saint, someone without an ugly past. 3 Likes |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 5:33pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Ya Allaah! I desire to marry, so arrange for me a woman from those who willingly abstain from what is unlawful and who safeguards her soul for my sake and because of her, not only my means of sustenance will increase, but also make there be in it abundance and also make it sure that she will give me a virtuous son, who will be a noble successor in my life and after my death. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 5:36pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
lexiconkabir: Ameen. But na only son you dey pray for? What of baby girl ? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 5:45pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
lexiconkabir: Ameen but are you seriously prepared to get married now? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 5:48pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
FriendChoice: lol, when i was typing, my mind didnt go to a girl, but ofcourse i will need a baby girl, infact 3! i hope you know why , but its only natural for me to desire a son because Allaah says; "The love of desires, of women and sons and hoarded treasures of gold and silver and well bred horses and cattle and tilth, is made to seem fair to men; this is the provision of the life of this world; and Allaah is He with Whom is the good goal (of life)." so a man desire a woman first, the next thing is son before money. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 5:50pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
snapscore: actually in less than 3years i should be ready insha Allaah. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
lexiconkabir: Okay. May Allah make it easy for you. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 5:53pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 5:58pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
lexiconkabir: I dunno. I guess when I'm mentally prepared. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:00pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
snapscore: how come i predicted this reply accurately? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:01pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
lexiconkabir: And you know "Walirrijali alaihinna darajah" So sometimes the male gender stands for both male and females. In both Arabic and Hausa. So you want 3 girls so they can shield you hereafter by the will of Allah, how many boys do you want? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by dmjinc(m): 6:06pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
niyi123:m on with you on this one...maximum should be 3 @least and you cant get that kind of girl on NL....very very RARE!!! |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:07pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
lexiconkabir: Well I've always been open about why I am hesitant to get married. But it depends on the person I guess. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:12pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
FriendChoice: perhaps 2 |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:14pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
snapscore: Assalamu Alaikum. I don't know why. But I can predict. May be your profession. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:23pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
FriendChoice: Wa alaikum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, My profession plays a role but it's not the main reason. I can always compromise. For example, I don't intend on working in the hospital. I just feel like marriage is a lot of responsibilities and there are a lot of expectations on women (especially women who work). There is also the bad news about marriages that I read almost everyday. There are so many things that could go wrong in a marriage. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:34pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
snapscore: OK yasanyi. ? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:37pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
snapscore:I no understand oh. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:42pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
snapscore:Not sani but "Sanyi" = Cold Ya = How 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:46pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
snapscore:A very good weather indeed 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by osolee(m): 8:24pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
niyi123: |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 7:17am On Dec 29, 2016 |
As salaamu alaykum, getting a Saint as a Zawjah is a very rare thing. Even the brother searching for a Saint ain't close to be one at all. I think marriage is about compromising. You can't actually get all what you dream for in a woman as a wife. The most important feature that a woman should possess is the deen (coupled with the right aqeedah), ready to learn even if she is not close to being perfect. It could be disastrous if someone marries a wife who is not ready/accommodate new teaching (that might seem new to her) when such thing is presented with evidence(s). Heard so many from married friends and brothers. wearing the right garment isn't enough (but it is definitely part of it),seeking the right knowledge should be put along side. This also goes to the brothers too(in fact they need it most). NOTE: You can never get a perfect partner or let me say it is very rare to get a perfect partner with no ugly past. Majority of us get to understand Islam/Sunnah better after some ugly past..... Search for the one with the DEEN 8 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 8:49am On Dec 29, 2016 |
busar: i hope the brother listens.... a woman with deen and right aqeedah, khalas, everything after that is secondary. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 9:41am On Dec 29, 2016 |
Jazakallahu Khiran busar I learnt a few things |
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