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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by zarinaAin: 10:28am On Feb 04, 2017 |
Empiree: Lol, Seeing your posts, 20l blood pump into my brain I was about to trash you. I was like how can a brother utter that message If not that I scrolled down Are you married? If yes Do you crack this type of joke at home. I bet you will go to bed hungry sometimes And If no, get ready for war Next time write I'm joking to avoid bottles flying in the room 2 Likes |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Empiree: 5:02am On Feb 09, 2017 |
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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by ModestGal(f): 12:26pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Empiree: 7:03pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 10:54pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
If you are among those using the statement of the Prophet that the one who does not have the means to marry should fast as evidence for this liberalism in the garb of fighting poverty, note that you are creating problems for yourself because you are speaking before you know: 1) You are saying this hadith contradicts the Qur'an wherein Allah says “And marry those among you who are single and (also marry) the Saalihoon (pious, fit and capable ones) of your (male) slaves and maid‑servants (female slaves). If they be poor, Allaah will enrich them out of His Bounty. And Allaah is All‑Sufficient for His creatures’ needs, All‑Knowing (about the state of the people)” [Qur'an 24:32]. 2) You are also saying that it was a a command to fast not an advice. This means every youth who cannot marry who is presently not fasting is commiting a sin. This is how liberalists make the religion more difficult while thinking they are making it easy (i am not saying everyone who makes this mistake is a liberalist). This is the explanation the scholars give for the hadith you are misquoting: "The one who cannot afford it is instructed to fast so as to suppress his desire, but that does not mean that he is not allowed to seek to get married. Perhaps he will find someone who will help him to get married, or perhaps he will find someone who will accept him in his current situation because of his religious commitment and righteousness. These are individual cases that vary according to people’s situations and customs. As for the meaning of the hadeeth of Ibn Mas‘ood, it is a general teaching and advice to those who are not able to get married, instructing them to protect themselves by fasting. If anyone among them finds a means to get married, there is nothing wrong with that; in fact he is encouraged and urged to do so. Hence when he said “and whoever cannot afford it”, he did not say “let him not get married”; rather he said “[he] should fast”, lest he fall into sin. But if he is able to get married with some difficulty, there is undoubtedly nothing wrong with that. Rather fasting is given as an alternative when one is not able to get married; if one is able to get married, even with some difficulty, then that is preferable." - Shaykh Muhammad Salih Almunajeed Go and argue with the scholars. Copied 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 1:41pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Your definition of marriage is wrong; it is union between one man and four women |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by rajshamz: 1:43pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
We will get married when we meet the right one |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 1:47pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
I don't even know why |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 1:49pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
AishyWemsy: You have a beautiful nose |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 1:50pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
While marriage is a good thing, i believe one should be psychologically, physiologically and financially ready so as not to regret it. May Allah guide us 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Siddeek: 1:54pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Baseema:well, perhaps we can talk. you can pm me. 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by akeenalee(m): 1:56pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Lovely post. My hitch is maybe am not seeing the right ones. The last muslim lady i met lied she's a virgin but pretty as she lost it since 13yrs old and she's 26 now. Muslim ladies that are worth a wife material are just 30 out of 100. She dated sum1 for 7yrs saying she never had sex with d person and with her level of romance it sure she as been into this long time. What is wrong with our muslim sis. Despite i was honest and never hide any of my past relationship with her. It complicated 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by abat4real37(f): 2:05pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Waiting for Suitable partner 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nukualofa: 2:07pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
I can marry a muslim girl as far as she doesn't rub her religion in my face 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nukualofa: 2:09pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Wiseandtrue come here let's join and marry here |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Bsmartt(m): 2:31pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
It is mostly because of money. The bride's family will request for the dowry. This sometimes amounts to hundreds of thousands or even millions of Naira. All in all I pray Allah (SWT) makes it easy for the Muslims waiting to get married. Aamin. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Raintaker(m): 2:39pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
I've never thought about marriage |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by dimexy247(m): 2:47pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Jazakallahu khairan, may Allah S.W.T bless you and enrich you more in wisdom and knowledge. Amin Wizeboy: |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by dimexy247(m): 2:49pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by jd1986(m): 2:52pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Well.. Who knows if she's gonna send me a pm right away.... I'm single & searching |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by madridguy(m): 3:20pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
My soul is willing but pocket is weak. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Gaddafithe2nd(m): 3:41pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Not thinking about marriage now. What am after is, how I will have a better life not marrying without kobo. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by doskie(m): 3:45pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
I have a Facebook page for matching Muslims. We are mature. Avoid zina for your own sake. SINGLE MUSLIMS IN NIGERIA. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ask4Info: 3:49pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Baseema:Where are based? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by WaleOsu(m): 3:51pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
jiddama:From this,I guess you've been putting them brothers on hold,probably zoning them sef jiddama:From this,I guess you've been putting them brothers on hold,probably zoning them sef |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by jamislaw(m): 3:56pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
I have to marry this year by God's grace. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by WaleOsu(m): 3:57pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Keyana:same to you |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 4:02pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
waiting for my fellow HIV partner |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Been considering the idea of getting engaged but I am still not ready. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Kakamorufu(m): 4:18pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Well, its employment and steady salary that is keeping making me stay single for now. Its those two are sorted, i will surely get married |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by abat4real37(f): 4:27pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by maradelkitchen(f): 4:35pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
May Allah make it easy for all Muslim brothers and sisters seeking for halal marriage 2 Likes 2 Shares |
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