donsteady:
May we never experience this kind of one chance. Amen!

omoharry:
i concur..however, i will dissolve the marriage with the mother and continue the father son relationship..after all, people adopt children and love them as their own.

soberdrunk:
Looking at the pictures, you dont need a DNA test to tell you, its very obvious. Apart from physical features, there are certain behaviours i expect my child to display, i guess the man was just too ignorant

Stupedinluv:
Thanks a lot. It would get... in short it has gotten to me but not the way you think.

I'm just embarrassed that in 2017 we still reason like cave men. One reason I don't post as much anymore. It's a dumb world I found myself in.

Can we get any better than this? too bad.

Stupedinluv:
You have to understand that our average guy cannot handle a woman who knows her onion.

Stupedinluv:
i know my country men. "Cowards" is their collective name

Stupedinluv:
A man who exchanges blows with a woman is no man
Black "men" exchange blows with their women

Conclusion: Black "men" are no.......

Reference:
People are senseless. You raise a child to 32. What else is he other than your son or daughter. What other parent has he ever known. Or what is sonship or parenthood? Do people not adopt. I just don't get it. Can the real father lay claim to the young man under any law on earth. He was deceived and secrets kept for a long time but that is no reason to wail in proper, healthy marraige. The parents are obviously having a relationship crisis and one wants to get back on the other but if I was the man..... no big deal. He remains my son.

waternogetenemy:


All of u shouting women this, women dat.

Na women commit offense abi Mrs Oscar.

Nigerians need to start reasoning properly, women have nothing to do with this and i find the blaming of women for wat an individual did offensive and sexist.


Correct ya self or go back to school.


meanwhile, any info on their tribe, abeg share.

Jacko1970:
this case as I feel it was a case of tit for tat! the man must have hurt the woman so very bad?...hmmm, law of moses!

Stupedinluv:
That's what irks me the most. I don't think any woman with a healthy self esteem will tolerate any form of downgrading of her person.

This is a crime committed by a single human who happens to be a woman. And then one way or the other every woman gets roped into it. That's not even bad yet, Now that's how the average guy around thinks. Something like 4 out of 5 going by this thread

It even gets worse, when one realises they follow same pattern of reasoning in all spheres of their lives.

Africa is doomed baby

soberdrunk:
Looking at the pictures, you dont need a DNA test to tell you, its very obvious. Apart from physical features, there are certain behaviours i expect my child to display, i guess the man was just too ignorant

wickedworld:

See advise O, too many babies on nairaland

thorpido:
That woman is wicked.Why can't she be upfront from the beginning instead of causing sorrow to the man and the son.

Like I always say,men that are not street smart or men who are philanderers are the ones who 'buy' these pregnancies.How will you not know 'when' you sowed and also 'examine your harvest'?
You sabi.Some men just dull.How will you not look out for similarities with you in a child you see around your house all the time?

Berlynn:
lol asif you are igbo

TonyeBarcanista:
You sef know na. I am Igbo from Abia state, you are Okrika from Rivers state. Humble and learn my language

you are not far from the truth jare i am from the peterside family .... Nd which family are u from in Abia state?

Berlynn:



you are not far from the truth jare i am from the peterside family .... Nd which family are u from in Abia state?

TonyeBarcanista:
Which Peterside family is in. Okrika? Maybe you mean your maternal family is Opobo-ama.

I'm from Kalu's family in Bende LGA

oh my God kalu is a common name in Abia almost all familes in Abia hv a touch of tat name .... See you



i know ders no peterside in okirika but there is in River state dont ask me where

zsch:


Don't be ignorant. I look nothing like either of my parents but bear a close resemblance to my paternal grandfather. My mannerism also leaves my parents befuddled. Looks and characteristics of an offspring does not have to bear any similarity with the parent to validate paternity/maternity.

I feel sorry for the man. I can imagine he feels betrayed but family isn't always about blood relationship, I bet he would realize this after he calms down.

Now, did the man come out on a reality tv or something as I doubt someone snapped his photograph at the point he found out..

LuvU2:
U made great points Let's agree ta disagree on this one.
I am Just hoping yes against hope, prolly xpecting divine interventn.

I am realli yawning, off 2 bed. See ya. Goodnyt.

Goodnyt Haute darling

Berlynn:



oh my God kalu is a common name in Abia almost all familes in Abia hv a touch of tat name .... See you



i know ders no peterside in okirika but there is in River state dont ask me where

TonyeBarcanista:
I specified my LGA- Bende. I know you have no idea of Bende LGA in my state (Abia).


You don't even know where you are from in Rivers. Are you sure you aren't a Fulani from Cameroon?

i am from peterside in River state


lol hv u been der before i can even sell u in Bende (ur claimed LG)

Berlynn:



i am from peterside in River state


lol hv u been der before i can even sell u in Bende (ur claimed LG)

TonyeBarcanista:
Yeah Dear, I was there last March.

You can't sell me in my LGA! I'll be the one to sell you and use the proceed to buy Shawarma for you.

Have you ever been to Bende, my LGA?

to do what?


so if u sell me na shawamar u go buy with the money i am offended


i only passed by to my own LGA

Berlynn:




to do what?


so if u sell me na shawamar u go buy with the money i am offended


i only passed by to my own LGA