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Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by AgreatMan: 12:34pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
Op needs to calm down, someday when she is no more around, this same attitude you hate is what you would wish she was there to give. You will miss that attitude, n will blame yourself for it. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by Nobody: 12:53pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
ABINTUK: Some people are just so difficult to please! Buy her an Android phone and she will start demanding for an iPhone once she sees someone else using it, some people are just like that and it could be as a result of greed, age related issues, hormonal imbalances, environmental factors, type of companies/associations one keeps and lack of self control etc. The only way to deal with such situations is for one to provide only those things that are really essential. You can also grant some wishes to make your loved one's happy but if such privileges are been abused through constant frivolous demands then you should draw the line. 5 Likes |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by EmmySparky(m): 1:00pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
This Op is grossly stupid and foolish...talking about ur parent publicly like this is a taboo...u dont know the gravity of wat u have done now till u have kids of ur own 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by ABINTUK(m): 1:09pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
EmmySparky:Stop hiding in your little harmlet and feel you know better.. Travell a distance and get your head filled with some sense on how to deal with pressing issues in better climes. i say leave ur village. 11 Likes |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by EmmySparky(m): 1:16pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
ABINTUK:i see...u also drag ur parents to public forums and publicly bombard them with all sorts of insultive words right?...continue...karma is definitely going to catch up with y'all ungrateful kids...u would one day have ur own kids...and hopefully they won't just say these things behind ur back but directly to ur face....mark my words...and for ur information...the places i have travelled to in my life time , i doubt if u would ever get there... 3 Likes |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by Ilias2: 1:18pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
The thing is if you cannot cope with your mum.. how are you going to cope with your wife.the thing is many families with there peculiar problems.. u cannot fix your mum to be right. .. it the work of your dad and the more you get attach to trying to fix her the one you loose your senses... Also watch your language ..if you cant at least pretend to filter your language on an open platfom like it... it very bad..no matter how bad she is... we still have far more worse mothers out here... My advise get it together. ..u and ur siblings should sit down with her with ur dad... dont coreect her cos u will never win that battle... just tell her how u fell..that all... 4 Likes |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by Ilias2: 1:20pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
EmmySparky: Stop using fire to kill fire. ..correct this fellow.. we are all humans. .. we pray he understands the way u do... 3 Likes |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by EmmySparky(m): 1:30pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
It just pains me to see people acting this way...its just so pathetic and irritating 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by coolpenny: 1:31pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
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Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by Nobody: 1:31pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
Annamma: So you know your mum is sick and you can't be patient and understanding? What sort of person are you and why do you think it was necessary to insult your mum on social media? Smh 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by BCISLTD: 1:32pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
Op ..you just described yourself growing up..imagine how she felt taking care of ur lame ass 3 Likes |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by SmartyPants(m): 1:33pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
You thought of committing suicide because of your mom's megalomania (as described by yo)? Are you sure you are not the one in need of help? 5 Likes |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by Nobody: 1:33pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
Annamma: Menopause..... 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by Erngie(f): 1:34pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
Do anything for mama..make her stay happy..God might call her anytime, so that you won't regret the things you didnt do 4 Likes |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by actright2(m): 1:34pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
I doubt if this person had a proper upbringing. I'm sure you also wish to attain old age? 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by Sultty(m): 1:34pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
Annamma:just know that 1 day u will b old and want love and attention from ur children. Whether u like it or not, ur mum i's ur mum |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by Olufemiolaolu(m): 1:36pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
Annamma:Ur mum is ur mum no matter what. Keep on loving her & pray DAT God changes her kk. Agba bowa kan e. I.e you too will become old one day. Sow a good seed today. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by Handsomecole(m): 1:37pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
Your problem is not new, to be sincere it's similar to what I'm experiencing with my mum in the same age bracket. She wants things done her own way and complains too much, well I see it as effects of old age ( though not all mums are like dat). Well as for me. I try to mind my business and do what she asks me to do ( so far it has no effect on me) meaning so far it's not going to affect my decisions. So do your own part as her daughter or son. Try and mind your business stop trying to please her. Just do what you know you are supposed to do. And also make plans to leave the house for her by marriage or relocating. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by obyrich(m): 1:37pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
Annamma:If you are a christian, stop contributing to your church forthwith until you buy it for her! It doesn't matter what she does with it. Buy the android phone for her. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by fpeter(f): 1:37pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
Annamma: You know in Nigeria we don't take mental health seriously. Have you considered inviting a Psychologist or Counselor to see her? Moreover, you need to move out of the family home and give her some space. She may get better when she begins to miss you. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by KevMitnick: 1:37pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
toluine56:No she doesn't. He'll be patronizing her. He needs to tell her about her attitude. If she wasn't his biological mum, I'd have advised him to bolt. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by Senorprinz(m): 1:38pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
just commit suicide and you'll be free from her forever. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by Samsimple(m): 1:38pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
Some pple are looking for mother they couldn't find any...dis one is complaining ...as long as u still live under her roof she has the right to have a say in everything u do |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by Shegzy8(m): 1:39pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
I guess this is bubu's fault again |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by konfused: 1:41pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
Your mum is going through issues associated with menopause. What she needs more now is more loving words and care. Your dad needs to start doubling his ehmmm, effort per se. She needs the D more now, that's what will tame her 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by health2wealth: 1:41pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
Just booking space. I might have something to say later |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by Nobody: 1:41pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
KevMitnick: He said she is sick so why shouldn't she be shown more love to make her happier or did your mum not show you were ill? |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by Itulah(m): 1:41pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
Move out. |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by babyface224(f): 1:42pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
hmmm...no matter wat, jst try n understand her. pple av different ways of showing their love. she's in her 60's she needs attention. A friend of mine lost his mom, he cried for days while she was alive, he was always complaining about his mom nagging ways. d say she died, no one could console him. He found out all she needed was attention. She's ur Mom, give her d respect she deserves, if she's doing Some things dat u don't lyk, sit her down n talk to her or u include ur siblings to let her know the effect of her attitude. |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by proffemi: 1:42pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
EmmySparky: Relax. Expecting people to bottle everything up usually leads to disaster (e.g., OP has already contemplated suicide). I see absolutely nothing wrong in asking for advice, and, yes, using strong language (if that is how s/he truly feels) as long as s/he remains anonymous. Either help him/her or move on. 6 Likes |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by sapientia(m): 1:43pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
Op... buy it for her.. if she needs iphone.. get it for her.. you dont know what passed through for you to be whp you are.. you cannot even pay her back. Just wish mine is alive... Even she wants a phone that uses command line.. i go buy am. SHE IS MUM. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by Reference(m): 1:43pm On Feb 20, 2017 |
Annamma: Your mum is in her 60's which means you are an adult but you talk and act like a child no wonder you are treated as such. If she was still providing for you will you have a choice or what phone you are gifted. You are too old to be doing mummy and daddy's boy or girl and the journey ahead is one of psychological disaster. Better slam the phone down and go get a life. That you are even competing with your siblings that you have no future relationship is just pathetic. Tomorrow they will tell you how to bonk your partner. |
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