Empiree:
You dey mind me?.

That was delibrately posted to provoke our sisters here

Lol, Seeing your posts, 20l blood pump into my brain I was about to trash you. I was like how can a brother utter that message If not that I scrolled down

Are you married? If yes
Do you crack this type of joke at home. I bet you will go to bed hungry sometimes

And If no, get ready for war

Next time write I'm joking to avoid bottles flying in the room

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Live Marriage Matters in New York


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qW-wEucFoLY

If you are among those using the statement of the Prophet that the one who does not have the means to marry should fast as evidence for this liberalism in the garb of fighting poverty, note that you are creating problems for yourself because you are speaking before you know:
1) You are saying this hadith contradicts the Qur'an wherein Allah says “And marry those among you who are single and (also marry) the Saalihoon (pious, fit and capable ones) of your (male) slaves and maid‑servants (female slaves). If they be poor, Allaah will enrich them out of His Bounty. And Allaah is All‑Sufficient for His creatures’ needs, All‑Knowing (about the state of the people)” [Qur'an 24:32].
2) You are also saying that it was a a command to fast not an advice. This means every youth who cannot marry who is presently not fasting is commiting a sin.
This is how liberalists make the religion more difficult while thinking they are making it easy (i am not saying everyone who makes this mistake is a liberalist). This is the explanation the scholars give for the hadith you are misquoting:
"The one who cannot afford it is instructed to fast so as to suppress his desire, but that does not mean that he is not allowed to seek to get married. Perhaps he will find someone who will help him to get married, or perhaps he will find someone who will accept him in his current situation because of his religious commitment and righteousness. These are individual cases that vary according to people’s situations and customs. As for the meaning of the hadeeth of Ibn Mas‘ood, it is a general teaching and advice to those who are not able to get married, instructing them to protect themselves by fasting. If anyone among them finds a means to get married, there is nothing wrong with that; in fact he is encouraged and urged to do so. Hence when he said “and whoever cannot afford it”, he did not say “let him not get married”; rather he said “[he] should fast”, lest he fall into sin. But if he is able to get married with some difficulty, there is undoubtedly nothing wrong with that. Rather fasting is given as an alternative when one is not able to get married; if one is able to get married, even with some difficulty, then that is preferable." - Shaykh Muhammad Salih Almunajeed
Go and argue with the scholars.
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Your definition of marriage is wrong; it is union between one man and four women

We will get married when we meet the right one

I don't even know why

AishyWemsy:
May Allah lead and guide us. Marriage is a beautiful thing. I smell fp.

You have a beautiful nose

While marriage is a good thing, i believe one should be psychologically, physiologically and financially ready so as not to regret it.
May Allah guide us

Baseema:
I don't even know why

well, perhaps we can talk. you can pm me.

Lovely post. My hitch is maybe am not seeing the right ones. The last muslim lady i met lied she's a virgin but pretty as she lost it since 13yrs old and she's 26 now. Muslim ladies that are worth a wife material are just 30 out of 100. She dated sum1 for 7yrs saying she never had sex with d person and with her level of romance it sure she as been into this long time. What is wrong with our muslim sis. Despite i was honest and never hide any of my past relationship with her. It complicated

Waiting for Suitable partner

I can marry a muslim girl as far as she doesn't rub her religion in my face

Wiseandtrue come here let's join and marry here

It is mostly because of money. The bride's family will request for the dowry. This sometimes amounts to hundreds of thousands or even millions of Naira. All in all I pray Allah (SWT) makes it easy for the Muslims waiting to get married. Aamin.

I've never thought about marriage

Jazakallahu khairan, may Allah S.W.T bless you and enrich you more in wisdom and knowledge. Amin

Wizeboy:
Marriage refers to the mutual relationship ordained by Allah for the believers as an act of worship between two people who love, trust, care, understand and respect each other for the sake of Allah; so as to attain jannah, procreate children, fulfill their sexual desires, unite and enjoy companionship forever with its continuation in paradise
in shaa Allah.

The Prophet (pbuh) said: “Three matters should not be delayed: prayer when its time comes, burial when the funeral has arrived, and the marriage of a single woman when a well-suited man has proposed.” [Tirmidhi]


Why should you delay marriages then?
The Prophet (pbuh) addressed the youths encouraging them to get married as soon as they are capable of shouldering the responsipility of marriage saying:
“O youth! Whoever amongst you is able to marry, let him marry, because it helps him keep his eyes away from lustful looks and preserve his chastity. And whoever is not able to marry, let him observe fasting, as it is a shield for him (i.e. protection from lapsing in fornication).” [Agreed Upon]

Early marriage doesn’t mean that the spouses could be not mature and responsible, the Qur’an hints saying:
“If you find them of sound judgement.” (An-Nisa': 6) That means puberty or marriageable age is not enough to be qualified for marriage. If a son is capable to run a household life and he is able to maitain mentally, psychologically and financially and everything of his wife, then early marriage is the only way to keep our children away from haram.

Marriage is a great tradition of the Prophet (SAW). Brothers and sisters in Islam, why are you still single? Are you not tired of having wet dreams and staring at the opposite (non-mahram) gender?

Is it financial issue? Money is not an enough excuse for you because some companions were almost penniless as at the time they married. Allah promises to enrich
married couples from his bounties. If unemployment is your excuse? Allah promises to make a way for you from sources that you couldn't have imagined.

Is it tribalism? Allah said He created us from a single pair of male and female and made us into nation and tribes so that we may know each other.

Is it your fear of heartbreak? [/b]The prophet said; what hit you couldn't have missed you and what missed you couldn't have hit you.

[b]Is it because you dislike early marriage and you want to graduate from school before marriage? Allah said: "Perhaps you dislike a thing but in reality it's good for you and perhaps you love a thing but In reality it's bad for you"

Is it because you want to have your own car/house first? The Prophet said: whoever trust Allah sincerely, Allah will provide for him just the way He provides for the birds who go out in the morning empty and return home satisfied.

Dear single brothers and sisters, what then is your excuse and why have you refused to marry? Don't you believe in the words of Allah and the sayings of the Prophet?

Trust in Allah and get married irrespective of your situation once you met the right brother/sister. Allah said: "Has the time not come for the believers that their hearts should be affected by the Qur'an and to embrace the truth which has been revealed" -(Surah hadeed:16)

Once a person reaches puberty, he naturally starts getting inclined to the other gender, because he/she has feelings and emotions running through the veins and hearts which has to be fulfilled either through the halal way or haram way.

Some people are born with high level of shahwa (sexual desire) while some have low hawa. This is why you see today in primary and secondary schools, small children now go to the bushes and uncompleted buildings to have haram fun (zina and its preliminaries). On valentines day, that's the day of zina especially in tertiary institutions.

If every family follows Qur'anic injunctions in conjunction with the sunnah of the Prophet and forms the habit of giving out their children or encourage their children to marry as soon as they are mature emotionally and a male child is financially buoyant, then many people will be married with their chastity intact.

Another thing that increases temptation in people is all these TV and western media we watch everyday. It's part of the agenda of the unbelievers to create a Godless society where people will now fornicate like chickens, that's why they entice through their movies with lots of
romantic scenes and this is what corrupts young minds today; may Allah protect us.

“Early marriage is recommended as long as the requirements of marriage are met including the ability of each of the spouses to fulfill his marital duties and protect his/her partner against temptation. The husband should also be able to shoulder the financial responsibilities at the sufficiency level. There is no specific age for marriage according to Shari`ah but the criterion is the capability of both spouses.”

BROTHERS AND SISTERS, is time to access yourself properly and marry that brother/sister you have found compatible in order to complete the other half of your deen and earn reward from Almighty Allah who prescribe marriage to all Muslim.


Maa Salam

Ma shallah, who knows, could be me

abat4real37:
Waiting for Suitable partner

Well.. Who knows if she's gonna send me a pm right away....

I'm single & searching

My soul is willing but pocket is weak.

Not thinking about marriage now. What am after is, how I will have a better life not marrying without kobo.

I have a Facebook page for matching Muslims. We are mature. Avoid zina for your own sake. SINGLE MUSLIMS IN NIGERIA.

Baseema:
I don't even know why

Where are based?

jiddama:
finally somebody dares to ask...
op you hit the nail on the head.
currently busy but will contribute later inshaAllah.
until then expecting to come back and see both the common and uncommon answers to this oft repeated question.

From this,I guess you've been putting them brothers on hold,probably zoning them sef

jiddama:
finally somebody dares to ask...
op you hit the nail on the head.
currently busy but will contribute later inshaAllah.
until then expecting to come back and see both the common and uncommon answers to this oft repeated question.

From this,I guess you've been putting them brothers on hold,probably zoning them sef

I have to marry this year by God's grace.

Keyana:
Barka Jum'mah to y'all

same to you

waiting for my fellow HIV partner

Been considering the idea of getting engaged but I am still not ready.

Well, its employment and steady salary that is keeping making me stay single for now. Its those two are sorted, i will surely get married

May Allah make it easy for all Muslim brothers and sisters seeking for halal marriage