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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 6:44am On Apr 24, 2017 |
davidif: There is nothing like side dude here... This is not about me but about her...no lady should keep two dates so stop twisting my write up...a lady should remain SEXUALLY faithful and disciplined with one man but keeping her option open means not flaunting that guy in her life or singing to every guy that comes her way that she is taken but must learn how to maintain surface and cordial friendship with other suitors....is this too hard to decipher? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by tabithababy(f): 6:51am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008:. See who dey talk. Are you married now?? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by iycebube: 6:51am On Apr 24, 2017 |
PLZ I have a question to ask why will a man love a lady with all his heart and evry drop in him and d lady begins to take d man for grAnted,U,ve shown her dat yhu lov her and dat U,re ready to settle dwn wt her both of yhu are matured adults,yet she still takes yhu for granted why |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by bassette(m): 6:53am On Apr 24, 2017 |
repogirl:hahahaha I would take it that you don't really mean the above.. There's a caveat to all of this..If you get into a relationship only so u can get into another n another n others at the same time when would u determine the marriage intended one. What guy would take u serious when he sees u also with B,C and possibly a D??.. My angle with Toks' advice is that many ladies would read it wrong n go south |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by FILEBE(m): 6:54am On Apr 24, 2017 |
EBBari: Exactly! Toks2008, you goofed on this one big time. You keep on saying you don't mean it for women to be unfaithful or flirty. How can't that be? when the options are open and you let every Tom, Dick and Harry endear you while you are in a serious relationship. If you are in a serious relationship, work to see it become something rather than seek for options here and there and might end up being the city slut. See ehn, ladies know how to deal with issues like this. If they find no future with a guy, they are entitled to leave. You don't have another date while you are dating someone. It defeats the whole purpose of love. You can just advise ladoew to know when to quit and not be finding options. It is called cheating and that's how it starts. Same ways guys leave their options open and have multiple girlfriends and at the end of the day, they will choose one or none from them after being intimate with them. Toks2008. you should know better than this na |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by virtuedagirl(f): 6:55am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008:When you eventually decide to keep the guys you fancy as friends,let say two of them,the start with constant calling,asking you out on dates,sending you lovely text messages,sometimes you are with your main guy the other call you talk for 15 minutes or you tell him to call you back later. What will you guy be thinking,will he still trust you enough to make you a wife with this attitudes,if he should do the same by keeping female friends he fancy and thing like that will you love it so 2 Likes |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by davidif: 6:56am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008: Since when did having sex with someone validate a relationship? Ehn? The fact that you are not having sex with someone in a relationship does not mean you are not dating each other. If i am dating a girl and we are not having sex, her going behind my back and dating someone else (even if they are not having sex) is still CHEATING bro. Its dishonesty and deceit period. No matter how you try to justify it she is still cheating on you. 3 Likes
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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 6:56am On Apr 24, 2017 |
tabithababy: Aunty how does my marital status bring down the price of original garri ijebu? Abeg park well make people see road. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 6:59am On Apr 24, 2017 |
virtuedagirl: Be smart gal..carry him along and keeping options open does not mean spending minutes talking to them...be smart. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 7:02am On Apr 24, 2017 |
bassette: Some are already going south south sef and that is their plate of casava. Some dey find excuse to cheat before but this is not about cheating or keeping multiple guys. 1 Like |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Jay1F(m): 7:06am On Apr 24, 2017 |
dingbang:very stupid bro |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by pepemendy(m): 7:10am On Apr 24, 2017 |
abdulkayus:big man aboki
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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 7:11am On Apr 24, 2017 |
FILEBE: I get where you are coming from but isn't it high time we told ourselves some home made truth? What is this trash about dating and courtship sef? how long our mama and papa court if they even did? Please let's face it...this courtship and dating thing is becoming boring...no lady should go into any affair if she is not ready to settle down and no guy has any reason to court a lady above a year except the girl just wants to waste her time or be a sex partner |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by generalbush(m): 7:13am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by bassette(m): 7:15am On Apr 24, 2017 |
virtuedagirl:MY point exactly.lemme share a personal experience...Recently my lady came around and I decided we meet in an eatery,while together talking n bonding her phone rings.. err she dint pick immediately cos it was an unsaved number but well told her to pick which she did and I could hear d guy ask her where she was n my girl was sounding fidgety now you can imagine how I must have Felt.am not saying she cheating but I scolded her there and then...Even if she got nothing with the guy fact is when u act that way u give d one you are with doubts about what u guys share and d other one is given impressions that he's something to you..This is not downplaying my lady in any way... She's an amazing woman 2 Likes |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by bassette(m): 7:23am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008:hahahaha |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by tabithababy(f): 7:34am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008:. Bros, fuckkk off. Make I see better people |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 7:36am On Apr 24, 2017 |
davidif:let me guess you are the fault finder crew, I guess your next answer will be it was my fault, well, I already know it was my fault, infact, I never even realised I was already relegated from the main chick to the side chick till I decided to go all FBI on his ass, yeah, you can say I was too trusting( why trust another human who is prone to weakness just like you), and I was too relaxed too, and I obviously didn't know how to get advice, that's is why I want every lady reading this to be cautious, a relationship is 50/50, only serve the arm you are dealt, if he brings 20 give 20 back, simple, like I told the other guy, if we are to remove sentiments aside and look at it from every conceivable angle, a woman isn't yours until you have gone to see her father( both in.our culture and constitution) , I know this red pill will be too bitter for alot of guys to swallow, but that's the fact, many guys who aren't even ready to settle down in the next decade, use dating as a free passage 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by darbeelicous(f): 7:38am On Apr 24, 2017 |
I thought as much! How u doing? generalbush: |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by legendsilver(m): 7:38am On Apr 24, 2017 |
I can faithfully date or court a lady I love till we are ready for marriage. If she chooses to open her options, then I will simply remind her that I am a man and that as a man I can still open my options till age 60-70. Bottomline Ladies should be faithful to guys that are faithful to them. No allow one ugly mod spoil your relationship with his devilish advice because its like a pride for guys when dey date several women than when when ladies date several men. Just ask yourself, have you heard of a man that people calls olosho? Even if he get multiple babes. Na ladies get that title and am very sure you wouldn't like to be called that cus of one useless advice like that. Shior |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by zeezeegal(m): 7:40am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Will Continue Tellin Them I'm Engaged... Even If He Breaks My Heart No P, No B Only 1 Buyer Dy Market... Say No To Double And Multiple Dating 3 Likes |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by generalbush(m): 7:44am On Apr 24, 2017 |
darbeelicous: So you really believe I was sleep typing... Lol.. This madam sef! Doing what I do best on Monday morning... Meandering through traffic as I rush to work. Stay safe... |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Chommieblaq(f): 7:47am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008: Been friends with suitors? Friendzoing the person? He didn't come for friendship but love, so why friend zone the person if you ain't ready to give him what he wants? How will a guy feel, if he knows the gf is friends with her suitors (might even hang out with them one or two times). I'm not saying that one cannot be friends with her suitor or toaster, but there should be a define boundary. Na this advise go make people dey say girls are heartless, wicked, cheats etc Know what you want and stick to it, if you ain't getting what you deserve or what you putting in, work on it or better still take a walk. 2 Likes |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by EBBari(m): 7:49am On Apr 24, 2017 |
This guy thinks his smart buh his absolutely dull. Quoting him "you either single or married" . Dull thing again..... His type will also say you either a post graduate or not in school at all. How abt undergraduates? As regard his post y does the word Courtship exist if its not to be applied?. Informal dude, to maintain formality in the society certain things have to be put in stages or phases and thats exactly what you fail to understand( i.e. the result of ur post) |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by EBBari(m): 7:53am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Its obvious this guy is campaigning for dull nairaland girls to agree to him so the said open stuff could make them also open to him, which in returns gvs his lazy and non commitment lifestyle an opportunity to explore multiple well. Or That girl his bn chasing 4 weeks told him "am tkn". E pain am reach him brain which resulted to this trend. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by BlackOnassis(m): 7:57am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Let me just hear that my girl is keeping her options open. Kai! everybody dying! |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 8:02am On Apr 24, 2017 |
EBBari: One of the signs of intellectual stuntedness is the inability to discuss subject matter without insulting or attacking the persona of the discussant(s). Guy you ble*p up..please grow up. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by TurboBuilder(m): 8:09am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Good one op. I wish 'somebody' on this forum is reading this. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 8:11am On Apr 24, 2017 |
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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 8:13am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Oladokunst: 8:16am On Apr 24, 2017 |
This is just an excuse to justify sleeping around, free - OLOSHO ,an excuse to justify cheating on your man. Some ladies will know a guy can't even marry them if they are the only lady left in the world.but because they love him, they will still stick to him that he will still love them. To me everybody get K-LEG both guy and lady ,anybody fit Bleep anybody up, so stop using your own experience to judge others ,its sha better to marry Kate than to turn free olosho. Maybe you think guys are foolish,I will be dating you for a while and I will latter know you have one side bobo,my dear I no go say anything, I will even spend the night with you a day to my wedding with another lady .who will marry a lady you can't even trust during ordinary relationship. 2 Likes |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 8:18am On Apr 24, 2017 |
refiner: Hahahaha. abasi mbok !!! wonders must continue.... Taken to where and by who and on whose authority? refiner:Ladies nko? In fact, no be u suppose dey issue warning. Na who get sth dey tell others to keep off. Na person wen get space dey put signboard say no trespassing, so stop wasting mb biko. I know how much I spend to buy am for u. btw, wetin u dey refine sef? because last time I check naija still dey import fuel |
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