Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 7:07am On Apr 25, 2017 |
Adanne9110: But come to think of this,how will a lady be trust worthy to a man without saying "NO" to others? The same set of people thatwill say trust no lady,will still come out to say "why did you say no to the second man..in summary,are u encouraging ladies to double date,cos i cant imagine a man meeting his girl in a fastfood with another man ans gladly call it a harmless date,definately not a naija man. That moment when you read an article up-side-down. .. If you like don't just say yes to every other guy that woos you....you can as well go to bed with them. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 8:57am On Apr 25, 2017 |
|
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by queenbetsy(f): 9:16am On Apr 25, 2017 |
godman01:
I would rather tell you to say Yes to the man that sincerely knows that the relationship at the very beginning is to get married to you, and not to test. With that there won't be any question of showing him off or not. The very fact that many relationship these days starts with no purpose or rather the wrong one, is the more reason for many heartbreaks. Selah true anyway... but do u know that someone that promised marriage can also say he's no more interested? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by queenbetsy(f): 9:24am On Apr 25, 2017 |
Toks2008:
That moment when you read an article up-side-down. ..
If you like don't just say yes to every other guy that woos you....you can as well go to bed with them. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by mick12017(m): 9:33am On Apr 25, 2017 |
solasoulmusic: We only say that when we don't find you attractive and we don't want to hurt your feelings or if we truly are committed to someone else for a woman we see it as not fair to double date spiritually it's somehow even to cheat not to imagine the consequences health wise so it's best to be honest
I hope heaven no go full with women sha lmao
There are some men that just make you want to say you are even married before they will understand commitment is real with women
If you want to build a positive relationship start as friends or even better yet never count the first year of being together against each other you will fight you will argue you will hear insult them never call you but if you can make up everytime you have a friend for life Solasoul I like the name...a girl who can sing always gets my attention..i you'd like to we could get to know each other better... BTW I love soul music |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 2:49pm On Apr 25, 2017 |
Nma27: Amebo Are you shitting me? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 2:55pm On Apr 25, 2017 |
|
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 3:52pm On Apr 25, 2017 |
|
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by vuc1(m): 4:40pm On Apr 25, 2017 |
Toks2008: You ask an obviously unmarried lady out and she says "sorry I'm in a relationship" and many ladies will quickly change their status on their social media handle to...."in a relationship or Engaged" ...worse still some will go as far as putting up the pics of a man who is not yet officially theirs and I keep wondering what goes on in the minds of some ladies ..
Shall we call that being faithful or being naive?
Every lady reading this should wake up and understand that until a man is officially married to you,he can not be trusted in anyway and that a man is even engaged to you does not guaranty marriage
Each time you tell a guy who asks you out that you are taken while still unmarried,you are simply shutting the door on yourself too soon and many ladies have shut out their husbands simply because they got carried away by an unserious man who is only good at mouthing their love and giving them forlorn hope.
Don't get it twisted, this is not about being unfaithful to that particular guy you truly desire but it is about tactfully leaving your options open by not flaunting him on or offline thereby driving away possibly more willing suitors.
Many ladies remain taken for years without wedding bells and I have seen several ladies who have been engaged for years.
The bottom line is that you should stop flaunting any guy you are courting and only flaunt your husband
Ladies should stop blocking their chance cos In the real world...there is no in between and there is no such word like "I'm taken" while you are still unmarried.
You are either single or married
Don't know if this makes sense. So tell me how a serious man will want to go ahead to marry a woman whom he is aware makes herself available to any man that comes her way.Most ladies remain engaged and not married because of this reason. They keep blaming the guy.Believe me no alpha male will take such ladies serious.Personally the moment I see evidence that she is still interested in other men that's the moment I'd start a backup plan.We all need wisdom to deal with these issues. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by godman01(m): 5:11pm On Apr 25, 2017 |
queenbetsy: true anyway... but do u know that someone that promised marriage can also say he's no more interested?
Well, that's another issue. But if you are sincere and he is too and not a player (which you should have find a way to know before saying yes), all things been equal, the relationship should get to marriage. Why did u make that first comment, if i may know? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 6:16pm On Apr 25, 2017 |
|
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 7:35pm On Apr 25, 2017 |
Nma27: yea sure About getting me on greatjoe0912@yahoo.com Perhaps, call or watsap on 07061978863 or 08081802139. Yea that's it. 1 Like |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 11:48am On Apr 26, 2017 |
vuc1:
So tell me how a serious man will want to go ahead to marry a woman whom he is aware makes herself available to any man that comes her way.Most ladies remain engaged and not married because of this reason. They keep blaming the guy.Believe me no alpha male will take such ladies serious.Personally the moment I see evidence that she is still interested in other men that's the moment I'd start a backup plan.We all need wisdom to deal with these issues. True |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 11:52am On Apr 26, 2017 |
Jolar101:
Can we PM? please pull down your contact. Sorry |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 11:59am On Apr 26, 2017 |
Nma27: please pull down your contact. Sorry 07061978863 calls/watsap. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by jakandeola(m): 12:01pm On Apr 26, 2017 |
Nma27: please pull down your contact. Sorry u proof urself as a fake friend |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by jakandeola(m): 12:02pm On Apr 26, 2017 |
Jolar101:
07061978863 calls/watsap. guy stop dis |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 2:58pm On Apr 26, 2017 |
jakandeola: u proof urself as a fake friend Oh OK... Thank u. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 10:52pm On Apr 26, 2017 |
Nma27: please pull down your contact. Sorry
Chai! |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 8:19am On Apr 27, 2017 |
mick12017:
Solasoul I like the name...a girl who can sing always gets my attention..i you'd like to we could get to know each other better... BTW I love soul music Hi sorry for the late reply thank you ...awesome and sure |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 1:27pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
Toks2008:
Chai! what's d exclamation about? I did wrong? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by queenbetsy(f): 8:57pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
godman01:
Well, that's another issue. But if you are sincere and he is too and not a player (which you should have find a way to know before saying yes), all things been equal, the relationship should get to marriage. Why did u make that first comment, if i may know? ...was going through some things and what i saw made me forget part of the worries.. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 12:27pm On May 02, 2017 |
|
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Tklabelle(f): 9:03pm On May 17, 2017 |
Toks2008: You ask an obviously unmarried lady out and she says "sorry I'm in a relationship" and many ladies will quickly change their status on their social media handle to...."in a relationship or Engaged" ...worse still some will go as far as putting up the pics of a man who is not yet officially theirs and I keep wondering what goes on in the minds of some ladies ..
Shall we call that being faithful or being naive?
Every lady reading this should wake up and understand that until a man is officially married to you,he can not be trusted in anyway and that a man is even engaged to you does not guaranty marriage
Each time you tell a guy who asks you out that you are taken while still unmarried,you are simply shutting the door on yourself too soon and many ladies have shut out their husbands simply because they got carried away by an unserious man who is only good at mouthing their love and giving them forlorn hope.
Don't get it twisted, this is not about being unfaithful to that particular guy you truly desire but it is about tactfully leaving your options open by not flaunting him on or offline thereby driving away possibly more willing suitors.
Many ladies remain taken for years without wedding bells and I have seen several ladies who have been engaged for years.
The bottom line is that you should stop flaunting any guy you are courting and only flaunt your husband
Ladies should stop blocking their chance cos In the real world...there is no in between and there is no such word like "I'm taken" while you are still unmarried.
You are either single or married
Don't know if this makes sense. Preach!!! I definitely practice this |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by loshybab(m): 11:34pm On May 17, 2017 |
Toks2008: You ask an obviously unmarried lady out and she says "sorry I'm in a relationship" and many ladies will quickly change their status on their social media handle to...."in a relationship or Engaged" ...worse still some will go as far as putting up the pics of a man who is not yet officially theirs and I keep wondering what goes on in the minds of some ladies ..
Shall we call that being faithful or being naive?
Every lady reading this should wake up and understand that until a man is officially married to you,he can not be trusted in anyway and that a man is even engaged to you does not guaranty marriage
Each time you tell a guy who asks you out that you are taken while still unmarried,you are simply shutting the door on yourself too soon and many ladies have shut out their husbands simply because they got carried away by an unserious man who is only good at mouthing their love and giving them forlorn hope.
Don't get it twisted, this is not about being unfaithful to that particular guy you truly desire but it is about tactfully leaving your options open by not flaunting him on or offline thereby driving away possibly more willing suitors.
Many ladies remain taken for years without wedding bells and I have seen several ladies who have been engaged for years.
The bottom line is that you should stop flaunting any guy you are courting and only flaunt your husband
Ladies should stop blocking their chance cos In the real world...there is no in between and there is no such word like "I'm taken" while you are still unmarried.
You are either single or married
Don't know if this makes sense. You made sense bro but my observation isnt abt words but rather the attached pic e be like say the lady for that pic get pot-belly |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by lalanice(f): 9:17am On May 27, 2017 |
Makes alota sense, Wish they would learn |