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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by firstking01(m): 10:36pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Hmmmm, i think the write up is a food for thought for the ladies but op, telling a nigerian girl this is just like coming to say that lionel messi is better than ronaldo which is the blunt truth and far too obvious to argue about...i always tell my female colleagues, until a man pays your bride price still keep your options open...i don't even know were this engagement, dating and courting thing came from sef cos it's not even in the bible....in the olden days if you see a young damsel/virgin(as it's what they used to adress a young girl in the days of our fathers and mothers), you just make enquiry about her parents and before you know you guys are getting married....and most times you are only meant to see each other on an approval by both parents not to talk of having sex, but today the world don spoil. 4 Likes |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 10:41pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
firstking01: Aye ti dori kodo. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by pocohantas(f): 10:46pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Oh Lawd! Which rule women go follow now...I done confuse sef. https://www.nairaland.com/3753080/get-marriage-proposal-women-should <<<This thread was trying to say same thing...women should keep their options open, though it advised women to sleep with multiple men, which is wrong. Without reading through or getting its implicit meaning, lots of people started bashing, calling it advanced oloshoism. I don't support unnecessary flaunting, but I am all for full concentration is a relationship. When you keep the so called options open, you make room from distractions. Humans are emotional beings...slowly, things begin to go wrong. 11 Likes |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 10:54pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
pocohantas: When you tactfully leave your options open,it does not mean you will start sleeping with different men.. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by kindnyce(m): 11:03pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Taken what? Ohh,like Adam and Eve? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by trendyupdates: 11:04pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
This is just too quick for many ladies. I wonder why guys don't always say that. How to get a guy to love you in few days http://www.updatesflow.tk/2017/04/10-amazing-steps-on-how-to-get-guy-to.html |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by aleeyus(m): 11:05pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
don't blame me for saying this is nonsense Post 3 Likes |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by repogirl(f): 11:05pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
You make sense jare, OP! Afterall, in Uncle Reno's voice, you CANNOT cheat on your boyfriend only your husband |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Opakan2: 11:06pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
80% of them are single.. it's reverse psychology The ones really taken won't tell you.. it's you the guy that will find out 1 Like |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Timiblanko(m): 11:07pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by GodblessNig247(m): 11:07pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Somebody did that to me here. I keep wondering, so I helped her to operationalize the word 'taken'. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by jbaby265(f): 11:10pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Toks welcome back.. You spoke to someone spirit with this thread.. Great job |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by obi58: 11:10pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Toks2008: Buffoon. It's pple like you who promote infidelity in relationships 5 Likes |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by GodblessNig247(m): 11:10pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
refiner: Are u married? If yes u are taken and if no girl with due respect u are deceiving yourself |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by kachi19: 11:11pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
refiner:Show us the ring :/ 1 Like |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Doctorfitz: 11:11pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Toks2008: God bless you bro. Some girls just amaze me. Cynthia Morgan wey sing I'm taken still dey find husband til now... Una go hail. 1 Like
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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by kachi19: 11:12pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Omotayor123:It doesn't mean; you can still be taken again |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 11:12pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
We only say that when we don't find you attractive and we don't want to hurt your feelings or if we truly are committed to someone else for a woman we see it as not fair to double date spiritually it's somehow even to cheat not to imagine the consequences health wise so it's best to be honest I hope heaven no go full with women sha lmao There are some men that just make you want to say you are even married before they will understand commitment is real with women If you want to build a positive relationship start as friends or even better yet never count the first year of being together against each other you will fight you will argue you will hear insult them never call you but if you can make up everytime you have a friend for life 5 Likes |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by babyfaceafrica: 11:13pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Toks2008:leaving options open is dangerous... How many men will date you without finding ways to sleep with you..look I have never in my life dated two women at the same time,If I find out that a lady I am dating has other options ,she is a gonner!!.people should be focused 10 Likes |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by darbeelicous(f): 11:15pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
I don come back...... Cholls: |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by generalbush(m): 11:15pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Bullshit thread with nothing to offer the Economy!! #Trash!! 3 Likes |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 11:15pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
just like the op has stated, this is one of the things causing delayed marriages in women, I remember a relationship expert talking about keeping your options open, from experience, I remember about 4 guys I turned down for my ex,infact I didn't even want to be friends with them cos in my naive little mind, I didn't want to "emotionally cheat", and now, they are married and my ex and I broke up. ladies wise up, a man who is ready doesn't need a decade to consult his ancestors if you are the one or not,that's a fact,If after two years,he not showing signs of commitment, throw him the question and if his answer isn't satisfactory, walk away o 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Yewandequeen(f): 11:16pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
I second Op. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Absolutezero: 11:17pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
obi58:Baboon |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by chachauche(m): 11:17pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Girls now
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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Yewandequeen(f): 11:18pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica: Nah Ure wrong. Are you saying you cant keep a relationship without being intimate? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by virtuedagirl(f): 11:20pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
This is serious o,if we are in a relationship & someone else comes,pls Op what should be our reply?Most time when you try to keep your options open the guy will be complaining |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by darbeelicous(f): 11:21pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
but y u dey vex na? generalbush: |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by babyfaceafrica: 11:21pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Yewandequeen:I can..but as long as I don't have options,why should she?....like I said I don't double date,so I'd a lady because of insecurities do..she is gone....no be everything be sex..hut that is me..I know lots of men that can go a week without getting down!! 2 Likes |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by EBBari(m): 11:21pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Hm 7 Likes |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Omoluabi16(m): 11:22pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
I think you are right. Some of these girls are automatically 'taken' when they see someone they're crushing on. Sometimes their so called relationship is non-existent. 1 Like |
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