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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by titsqueez(m): 8:22am On Apr 24, 2017 |
...I call on Liam Neesen to rescue her |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Oneday82: 8:25am On Apr 24, 2017 |
U make sense my dear. At times the kind forming u get from them will like shuu. I know of one 7 years still in a relationship |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:27am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008: You are a dead meat if Nadia cheats on me |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 8:30am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Tajbol4splend:Lol! I wonder why people juxtapose this to cheating... |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Oladokunst: 8:30am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008: @toks2008 Well finally its obvious you have some serious personal issues going on with you, my uncle dated his wife from jss3 and latter got married after 11years of dating. I have a 5 years relationship also and we are perfect ,I never had any break up. Because we dont go online to rant over our grieve ,if you have any issue with your babe talk to her. Put your self in a guy shoes,a gentle man jejely,has a relationship and he loves his lady, so because he never marry am,she should now be opening option to suitors... Abeg if you finally find out,how will you feel? I almost had an heartattack the first time I saw a guy texted my babe a love message and of which she didn't even know who sent it. Baba,find your own babe dont break people relationship because you are grieving ,if she is taken ,go somewhere else. Thank you. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 8:31am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Oneday82: 7 years small....I Don see 10years of engagement....in fact they celebrate engagement anniversary.
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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Oladokunst: 8:36am On Apr 24, 2017 |
[quote author=Toks2008 post=55858820] Be smart gal..carry him along and keeping options open does not mean spending minutes talking to them...be smart. [/quote I dont like when a lady is unpredictable, cmon we are guys now,all does ladies tactics ,we already know,if your girl is cheating you will know if you pay attention. Once I notice something is fishy.and I can't trust you....so you think I will settle down for you? When there are like over 50million yellow girls in Nigeria without man in there life] |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by refiner(f): 8:38am On Apr 24, 2017 |
TheLordIsGr8:Stalker!!!...i see u cannot live without me... |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Chommieblaq(f): 8:41am On Apr 24, 2017 |
[quote author=Oladokunst post=55861258][/quote] 500 million yellow girls...
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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 8:42am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Oladokunst: lmao! this guy go fit shoot me if he sees me o....Chai! naira land is one forum I can recommend for high BP patients...oh my Bro abeg o nah creative writing be this o and 99% of my write ups...I no get issue with any babel lol! But come to think of it....if you be woman and you get one Bobo we dey date you for years without wedding and you Don dey near 30,you go like am? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Oladokunst: 8:46am On Apr 24, 2017 |
2dugged: Well said. But you are sharing your grieve not advise, a lady is not yours until you marry her fine,we agree,so also a man is not yours until you are married.so why grief over what's not yours? Abi. But for people who are faithful in there relationship and they share common goals and have big dreams together ,they already own each other, its not about the ring or showing up on the altar . So open your eyes, choose wisely . dont use your own mistake to poison innocent minds. If it doesn't work for you,that doesnt mean its bad. Thats just your own luck. 1 Like |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 8:47am On Apr 24, 2017 |
refiner: so to quote you now don turn me stalker. chai!!! this geh.... fear God ooooo. if no be small thing now ehn... I for ... no worry. I no go ever quote you again. But I go tell u one last time. Your temper no go let you progress for life |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Oladokunst: 8:55am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008: Lol. See baba, no be all this ladies worth having a man. So dont even advocate for them, check most ladies that clock 30s and still not married ,I didn't say all, but most of them , they always have one thing or the other wrong with them that they dont wish to change , sum it cud be there past, for some it cud be there current behavior and some are husband and boyfriend snatcher. So after many ori oke,the owner will still come and collect her thing.... But to does that are faithful and man still chop there eyes. What's not yours will never be yours. So dont be sad. Just pray for your own to come and live your life and be happy you are alive. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Juliearth(f): 8:55am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008: Touchè |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by jacksparrow001: 8:59am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Hmm, this is a thread for girls. But author seems unidirectional in thinking, never considered dangers. Every good condition has its signs and symptoms. The advice should go for girls that are in an unbalanced relationship. Life has no particular formula, the way yours came so you knew. Many gullible one that will follow this, many not come back. If they do, it will be with several degrees of injuries. God to leads. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 9:04am On Apr 24, 2017 |
story.. go and look for single ladies and stop asking Ladies to av double mind |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Omotayor123(f): 9:04am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008:Like seriously Engagement Anniversary That's hilarious |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by refiner(f): 9:05am On Apr 24, 2017 |
TheLordIsGr8:Only if u stop being uptight...that emoji there meant i was only joking with u... Bye. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by chesseed: 9:16am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Omotayor123: see what u r teaching ladies. Ladies that can't control their emotions. At the end, they lose on both ends because of their indecision. Ladies Beware. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Oneday82: 9:22am On Apr 24, 2017 |
[quote author=Toks2008 post=55861123] 7 years small....I Don see 10years of engagement....in fact they celebrate engagement anniversary. 10 years what!! And they are courageous enough to celebrate anniversary join. What a world. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by keneharry: 9:25am On Apr 24, 2017 |
So OP what are you insinuating. .that if you are in a relationship..yhu don't have to be faithful to one man?? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by EBBari(m): 9:27am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Weda dx dude likes it or not, there is more risk involved in hvn this open option than stickn to a guy who has tkn u serious. Keep campaigning 4 girls to be loosed....when u finally gt dt girl u want to marry, during the stage u preparn to marry her, a guy will nack her as she has to be open to more suitors till d wedding is done and dusted. Hw abt dt? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Critically: 9:39am On Apr 24, 2017 |
2dugged:bold enough to be honest. Kudos |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by TeeFeh(f): 9:47am On Apr 24, 2017 |
This is a very wrong post...doesn't apply to everyone...you're unfortunate in your relationship doesn't mean everyone will be...what about guys flaunting their women? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Impeller(m): 10:09am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008:Wehdone sir! |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by godman01(m): 10:16am On Apr 24, 2017 |
queenbetsy:You'll surely be misled, if you're planning on following sure advice. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by loswhite(m): 10:16am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Even marriage doesn't guarantee anything. So she is with sumbody she should open up herself for all men and build emotional attachment all in the name of marriage? Some ppl put men on their wall and Facebook page they end up in the Alter some did not and yet alter them no see. So all this online expert that think that life is all about marriage sorry to disappoint u even after marriage nothing is guaranteed 1 Like |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 10:16am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008: Dearest OP, what exactly are u driving at? if any other guy ask us out wen we re already in a relationship,what re we suppose to say? single? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by NoToPile: 10:18am On Apr 24, 2017 |
2dugged: You are right even biblically too, the marriage process starts once you seek the consent thats when you can even start laying claim that she is yours The reason why these issues are springing forth is because things are not done the way it used to be, in most Nigerian cultures theres nothing like dating, now its a different thing entirely. It used to be boy sees girl, boy tells his parents , his family go to seek the hand of the girl (parents may ask the girl of she likes the boy) if yes deal is signed, A date is chosen, and the period between when the consent of the parents is sought and the wedding ceremony proper is the courtship, they meet in a public place or properly chaperoned. That setting no longer exist, now people date and then court . One of the major things that cause trouble for ladies is relationship flaunting especially on social media. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by loswhite(m): 10:18am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Omotayor123:ladies are expert in the above you just mentioned |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:25am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008: If you were actually telling me you could easily take it with ur gf/bf having relationship another person giving you this same excuse, you would not be a realist |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by loswhite(m): 10:27am On Apr 24, 2017 |
firstking01:lol... you love old days maybe u should get a donkey or a horse to ride on. marriage guarantees nothing. What works for u may not work for someone else. My advice to lady follow your instinct. You can say I am taken and u get to the Alter with that guy on the other hand u can keep your options open and still not get to the Alter afterall most of the guys that wishing u keep options open are actually selfish some feel they can just buy a woman. Trust your instinct. I for one if you keep your options open I will also keep my options open so don't expect high level commitment chikena |
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