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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by ojun50(m): 5:30pm On May 03, 2017
For using that word mistakely u need 10 slap to reset yr thinking......
Yr matter serious

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Nobody: 5:52pm On May 03, 2017
You will mistakenly be a father

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by sevantex(m): 5:52pm On May 03, 2017
Bros, calm down till she gives birth and run a paternity test, you can make conclusive decisions by then

For now, just lockup about the issue and takia of her till then,

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Origin(f): 6:04pm On May 03, 2017
@ OP read your post, go and wash your eyes and read your post again.

You met her chaste. You don't have credible evidence for cheating. She went to have fun at a club(were u thinking she would sleep with all four men). You've been tracking her calls and messages.

No wonder she is scared to tell you the truth. You are the type of person who owns a wife's life, movement, friends (monitoring spirit..... A control freak).

Do you know how I save names on my phone, by the places I met them . So u will see- Tope Unilag near moremi.

But you had no right to monitor her calls and be calling her friends. Now you are claiming she got pregnant ( it takes two). My advice to her is not to marry you. She should drop the baby for you and leave. As I don't think it can get better.


So someone like me that has never been to the club before and I see four friends to bodyguard me, I no go go. I will go and give my eye food. Yes i will drink Fanta. And will not dance but I've always wanted to know what the hype is all about that will not make someone sleep in his own house.

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by infantlion(m): 6:25pm On May 03, 2017
ojun50:
For using that word mistakely u need 10 slap to reset yr thinking......
Yr matter serious
hahaha
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by infantlion(m): 6:27pm On May 03, 2017
Origin:
@ OP read your post, go and wash your eyes and read your post again.

You met her chaste. You don't have credible evidence for cheating. She went to have fun at a club(were u thinking she would sleep with all four men). You've been tracking her calls and messages.

No wonder she is scared to tell you the truth. You are the type of person who owns a wife's life, movement, friends (monitoring spirit..... A control freak).

Do you know how I save names on my phone, by the places I met them . So u will see- Tope Unilag near moremi.

But you had no right to monitor her calls and be calling her friends. Now you are claiming she got pregnant ( it takes two). My advice to her is not to marry you. She should drop the baby for you and leave. As I don't think it can get better.


So someone like me that has never been to the club before and I see four friends to bodyguard me, I no go go. I will go and give my eye food. Yes i will drink Fanta. And will not dance but I've always wanted to know what the hype is all about that will not make someone sleep in his own house.


Are u kidding me?

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by infantlion(m): 6:27pm On May 03, 2017
Origin:
@ OP read your post, go and wash your eyes and read your post again.

You met her chaste. You don't have credible evidence for cheating. She went to have fun at a club(were u thinking she would sleep with all four men). You've been tracking her calls and messages.

No wonder she is scared to tell you the truth. You are the type of person who owns a wife's life, movement, friends (monitoring spirit..... A control freak).

Do you know how I save names on my phone, by the places I met them . So u will see- Tope Unilag near moremi.

But you had no right to monitor her calls and be calling her friends. Now you are claiming she got pregnant ( it takes two). My advice to her is not to marry you. She should drop the baby for you and leave. As I don't think it can get better.


So someone like me that has never been to the club before and I see four friends to bodyguard me, I no go go. I will go and give my eye food. Yes i will drink Fanta. And will not dance but I've always wanted to know what the hype is all about that will not make someone sleep in his own house.


Are u kidding me?LOL
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Nobody: 6:28pm On May 03, 2017
What a convoluted story. Paternity test that's all I can say.

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by ikp120(m): 6:30pm On May 03, 2017
That pregnancy is not yours! Take my words to the bank. cool cool cool

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by crackhouse(m): 6:31pm On May 03, 2017
One chance

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by BeautifulGuy(m): 6:48pm On May 03, 2017
I have used withdrawal method on several occasions. Lost count of them. How comes i'm always lucky? undecided
Op, just hold on until she put to bed, then DNA will be the sure test for paternity grin You can never trust all these girls, even the innocent ones, they can do and undo like computer system grin

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by dingbang(m): 6:59pm On May 03, 2017
nursennenny:
U see why I advice girls to keep their virginity atimes, it will save u a lot of headaches.
its not about keeping virginities.. Some virgins get raped..

Bad things happen to good people too..


Its only God dat saves.. People shouldn't put a lot of pride in virginity

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Apina(m): 7:14pm On May 03, 2017
infantlion:
Hello fellow Nairanders,

Once upon a time in 2016, I fell in love with a beautiful damsel who happened to be a virgin. We became very intimate and had great sex.After sex, she always thanked me for making her feel so extraordinary.As at that time, I was madly in love with her.

We got engaged in December 2016 in a grant style due to the fact that am working as a graduate engineer in a multinational firm.

I sincerely had the intention of taking her to the altar until early February, my friend alerted me that he saw my girl in a club with four(4) young men...I got worried and quickly called, her phone rang, no response.I gave her 458 missed calls until later in the evening, she answered"Nkem, am so sorry, I was sleeping while your calls came through"

I wept and called my friend to confirm if his is very sure of what he told me...He insisted.I kept wondering, how could an engaged woman flirt around with guys? I was shocked because I got 95% of what women need-money, good sex,good looking, good job e.t.c

In a nutshell, I invited her to my place and interrogated her and she admitted that she went to club with those guys but nothing happened.No woman would truly agree that she "spreaded" her legs for another man.

My feelings for her crashed to 0%..She pleaded for 30 days until she involved my pastor.My pastor told me to embrace forgiveness which I did...We started all over again and she promised to be faithful, loyal and honest at all times..

A month later she took in.The badnews came as a shock to me because I never cum inside her whenever we had sex...I quickly rushed to see my family doctor.He told me there is 100% chances of any woman to get pregnant with the method I adopted.

Due to the fact that my feelings for her is still at 0%, I begged her for an abortion and she replied"over my dead body"..Her family called me and I told them I am not ready and they threatened to arrest me...They sent her to my house last week with her protruded stomach without my consent...It was very late and I had no choice than to let her in.

Luck ran out of her this morning when she got a call from one Pastor Mike...I was curious to know if it is "hygienic" for a pastor to call a beautiful damsel in the early hours of the day...I questioned her and she told me the guy is a genuine pastor...
Me:pastor of which church?
She:Catholic Church
Do catholic church ordain pastors?

I called the so-called Pastor Mike and he said, he is not a pastor.

I have contacted my family and friends, but am not yet comfortable with their counsel.

One good thing about Nairanders is that from the bad, the good and the ugly comments, a wise OP should be able to get something out of nothing.

Long live Nairanders!!!
Long live the Federal Republic of Nigeria!!!




See the way ur pastor put u for one chance. This one wen b say she carry una mata go meet am sef Hope say e no join dey shine her Congo, just saying sha. She's crafty and not trustworthy which u are very much aware of. If after the paternity test, its indicated that the child is urz, no harm in taking ur child since from all indication u no longer want her talk more of loving her.

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by nursennenny(f): 9:16am On May 05, 2017
dingbang:
its not about keeping virginities.. Some virgins get raped..

Bad things happen to good people too..


Its only God dat saves.. People shouldn't put a lot of pride in virginity
i never mentioned pride, I said it saves u a lot of headaches
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Nobody: 10:57am On May 05, 2017
Hmmm....

My dude ... Allow me to be retrospective ...I would advise you and everyone one here in this life to never propose to anyone within one year of being in a relationship with them or at least till the " honey moon" period is over . Truth be told you really do not know this woman that well enough to spend the rest of your life with her .

And to every one out there no matter how infectious or appealing a partner is to you do not get engaged till you have created enough experiences or information for you to fall back on when trials of love come .

Same thing happened to me last year .


Most people have given you advice on the pregnancy so I will refrain from repeating the popular sentiment .

However if this child is yours I want you to be in his or her life full on ...everyday . Whether this lady is within this picture is entirely up to you .

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by spencekat(m): 11:25am On May 05, 2017
hopeforcharles:
Oh the deed has already been done.
But a little voice inside me tells me that u might not be the father of the child.
Don't be fuckn scared of arrest and the police call her parents and tell them what happened and how u don't trust their daughter because she bike the trust you have on her, and that u have a feeling that the kid is not yours and you can only marry her if she delivers and u do a paternity test on the child or better still tell them you no go marry but u go take care of the kid and mother.
Or Just marry her.
All these things weak me for women stuffs.
My own story about the girl I meet recently that lied to me used another maga to the extreme just make my zeal for looking for a partner reduce to 45%. cry
Sorry.Pls don't be discouraged.

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by FreeSpirited: 11:34am On May 05, 2017
The problem is you...... she went clubbing , many girls do that, either single, engaged or married sef...that's not new. The issue is, you are the one to set the boundary and it is after u set a boundary and she crosses it, that u can raise a serious eye brow.
The major stuff with you is that you don't love the girl again, and what u should have done was to break up with her if u couldn't cope, but u accepted her and impregnated her. Now, you are evil if u leave that girl to suffer
A girl who is still a virgin of recent, u have no evidence dat she cheated, yet u are messing up... All girls don't get fvcked every time they go clubbing.

She received a call in the morning from a pastor or a priest -and so what?.That's childish of you if u can't get a thorough evidence before concluding.Besides, can't she receive call again?

You only need to groom that girl if she has attitude u dnt like. it is after u think she cant change that u can leave her, imagine, somebody u already engaged....

Good ladies are scarce, we still have the responsibility to groom and norture our babe...cos they all have the tendency to stray

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Loski26(m): 11:48am On May 05, 2017
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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Loski26(m): 11:49am On May 05, 2017
Loski26:
Arrest tanker. You raped the girl? Abi she be under-aged? Those are the only two instances you should be scared of arrest. The law has no say here... Two consensual adults had unprotected sex and nature took its course.


PLS DO NOT MARRY SOMEONE BECAUSE OF PREGNANCY. That's a shortcut to life-time misery.


I can deduce you do not trust her enough.


Your options:

* She can abort the child
* She can keep the baby and you take your child after DNA test confirmation
* She can give birth and put up the child for adoption.


You no committ any crime!

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Nobody: 2:29pm On May 05, 2017
458 missed calls?? undecided

She is beautiful and a chronic liar. Reminds me of a chic smiley

Bro, calm down. Una just get engaged abi?? Let her give birth then she keeps the baby and goes jejely or you keep it and she goes jejely because you guys ain't married.


The pastor asking about forgiveness, did you ask him how he would feel if his wife went clubbing??


Her Family to arrest you?? Did you tell them that she was whoring?? I hate intimidation. Now it seems they coercing you to marry their promiscuous daughter. Nigga, don't fall for this bull crap.


You don't wanna make a LovePeddler an housewife.

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by bumi10(m): 2:30pm On May 05, 2017
oh chineke

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by timilehin007(m): 2:32pm On May 05, 2017
ellagabs:
first of all, change dat ya topic, hw cn u "MISTAKENLY" giv her belle.
was she pasin by wen u wia abt to trow ur spam over d fence n it mistakenly pour on her?



Blood of sarah

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by GeneralOjukwu: 2:35pm On May 05, 2017
Attention-seeker....

NEXT!

In the spirit of play.... She was gangbanged by all the 4 and creampied like this gal shocked

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by PresidentBuhari: 2:35pm On May 05, 2017
infantlion:
Hello fellow Nairanders,

I got worried and quickly called, her phone rang, no response.I gave her 458 missed calls :ountil later in the evening, she answered"Nkem, am so sorry,

Long live Nairanders!!!
Long live the Federal Republic of Nigeria!!!



On behalf of my fellow Nigerians, i crown you the greatest liar of all time.


458 missed calls shocked

Which phone did you use?




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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by chuckTHINGS: 2:35pm On May 05, 2017
this kind mistake ehn. Na so dem mistakenly forget millions for Ikoyi

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Nobody: 2:36pm On May 05, 2017
Oga, the best you can do for this girl is to support her till she puts to birth.

If you love yourself and your future, do not get married to such human being.

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by JuneOctober(f): 2:36pm On May 05, 2017
458 missed calls? shocked shocked Op you try oo haba! cos my own is if I call you twice and you don't pick I'll just drop my phone.

That woman ehn, just do DNA test. Then it is finished! You'd know what to do after the DNA test.

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Amicable24: 2:36pm On May 05, 2017
ellagabs:
first of all, change dat ya topic, hw cn u "MISTAKENLY" giv her belle.
was she pasin by wen u wia abt to trow ur spam over d fence n it mistakenly pour on her?



correct girl
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
funny you

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Nobody: 2:37pm On May 05, 2017
dna test after delivery.
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Nobody: 2:38pm On May 05, 2017
Don't marry her yet, let her have the baby outside wedlock. Go for a DNA test after it is born before you take a decision. If you don't trust a woman, don't marry her but know that what she did could be done by 99% of Nigerian ladies today. Trust them at your own peril.

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by HAYWHYBAM(m): 2:38pm On May 05, 2017
I'm not sure you're the one impregnated her.Be wise.

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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by thunderbabs: 2:38pm On May 05, 2017
Guy, ur story should be retitled "Nkan bee"

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