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Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by HarveySpecter1: 2:09pm On May 19, 2017
pocohantas:
She lied, why did she lie?
Was she planning to download hymen from Playstore?

Next time, she should say the truth.

For a change, let's forget what men think or say. You as a babe, are you satisfied with having several sexual partners? If you're satisfied, then fu<ck what they think and keep fu<king. The thing no get meter sef, na you go use your hand set the mileage

....but if you're overly bothered about what they think,then the answer you seek lies within you.

Not every man likes virgins though.

Your fellow girls would continue to like this post of yours. In your post lies the reason men cheat. The pu$$1 hasn't got a pu$$1 but it depreciates with more sex. Which man would be happy to marry a woman with used pu$$1? Would you prefer a used phone to a new phone? I'm damn sure you would prefer a new phone. Men too would prefer a virgin to the wife pu5513$ we see everyday.

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Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by mikedimeji(m): 2:09pm On May 19, 2017
Hyerin:

I'm just curious but I watched a movie were a guy broke up with his girlfriend after he found out she wasn't a virgin (cos initially she lied she was but later told him the truth). Not only in movies do these things happen, but also in reality. Why?

Men want virgins but they themselves aren't virgins. Going to mess up and shxt like that but when females do it. Oh no. She is a slut/LovePeddler etc. Gender inequality much? Not to be a "third wave feminist" or "neo-radical feminist" but this is how I feel. So much is expected of a lady but little is expected of a man. I mean, why?

The world is changing everyday. Stereotypes are being broken. If you expect women to be pure & chaste before marriage then why can't you? (referring to men)

P.S. if you can't be civil or polite. Get off this thread. Don't be a nuisance.
U don't need to explain further, this might just be the problem

Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by HITTED(m): 2:09pm On May 19, 2017
Who doesn't like brand new materials? grin
By virtue of their virginity they have the right to make demands from men, not all these overused material with loose pussies. grin

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Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Nobody: 2:09pm On May 19, 2017
Because we pay the bride price.
Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Macgabe(m): 2:10pm On May 19, 2017
pocohantas:

Hmm...I still think she should have said the truth. Personally, I won't be with a man who sticks with me just because of hymen.
So, if were her, I would have cut off that guy the moment he became overly interested in my 'virginity'. The only exception is if he is one.

What exactly was she scared of?

How do we know if a guy is a virgin? The word "virgin" is relative and depends on our understanding. If hymen is the ONLY proof of virginity, how do we classify ladies who got theirs broken as a result of tedious exercise or nature of their jobs
Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Nobody: 2:16pm On May 19, 2017
hylyne:


If you can't stop posting movie scenes on NL, and at the same time requesting real life response get off NL.

Movie scenarios must be accompanied by movie responses....

If you don't have anything reasonable to comment then why comment? And at the same time, get off NL if you cant understand the topic at hand.

And who's/what law states that?
Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by phnibeogu: 2:17pm On May 19, 2017
Hyerin:
I'm just curious but I watched a movie were a guy broke up with his girlfriend after he found out she wasn't a virgin (cos initially she lied she was but later told him the truth). Not only in movies do these things happen, but also in reality. Why?

Men want virgins but they themselves aren't virgins. Going to mess up and shxt like that but when females do it. Oh no. She is a slut/LovePeddler etc. Gender inequality much? Not to be a "third wave feminist" or "neo-radical feminist" but this is how I feel. So much is expected of a lady but little is expected of a man. I mean, why?

The world is changing everyday. Stereotypes are being broken. If you expect women to be pure & chaste before marriage then why can't you? (referring to men)

P.S. if you can't be civil or polite. Get off this thread. Don't be a nuisance.



only when it comes to sex them women want total equity huh? what about paying for dates? house rent? building houses and buying properties? and providing for the family? do women want equity in giving out gifts ?
am also trying to understand these things too

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Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Nellybank(m): 2:18pm On May 19, 2017
Same here... it stings to see them bleed.
sonofspada:
Excuse Me .!
I don't like Virgins
Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by BabbanBura(m): 2:19pm On May 19, 2017
Huee:

Damn!! .. so deep

...dey there dey console yaself with this. Team Fresh bread, any other bread carries 'mould'!

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Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by loswhite(m): 2:21pm On May 19, 2017
Hyerin:


She lied because she was scared. She still told him the truth at the end but despite that, he left her and the main reason was because she wasn't a virgin. Not because she lied. Like y'all lie all the time but make a mountain out of a molehill when a woman does. I think that was very insensitive of him & all he was after was that clean cut.
your problem is u think lying is not big deal well...I feel pity for your boyfriend. As for the topic nobody cares if u are virgin or not but just don't go about claiming what u are not...it is that simple
Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Rori(m): 2:21pm On May 19, 2017
pocohantas:
She lied, why did she lie?
Was she planning to download hymen from Playstore?

Next time, she should say the truth.

For a change, let's forget what men think or say. You as a babe, are you satisfied with having several sexual partners? If you're satisfied, then fu<ck what they think and keep fu<king. The thing no get meter sef, na you go use your hand set the mileage

....but if you're overly bothered about what they think,then the answer you seek lies within you.

Not every man likes virgins though.

Hhehehe! You will get many likes for this and also a handful of guys that share your opinion.
But ( am assuming you are not a virgin) most guys that share your sentiment on this matter if left to choose between you and a virgin in reality for marriage ( assuming equal love for you and the virgin) wld most definitely go for the virgin.

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Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Nobody: 2:26pm On May 19, 2017
phnibeogu:




only when it comes to sex them women want total equity huh? what about paying for dates? house rent? building houses and buying properties? and providing for the family? do women want equity in giving out gifts ?
am also trying to understand these things too

That's just your mentality or maybe in a more generalised form "Nigerian mentality". Its not bad for Women to pay for dates or build houses or pay rent or provide for the family (tbh because women do these already) it's just called stereotypes. That's what it is. Haven't you heard, 'anything a man can do a woman can also do?'. We just live in a somewhat closeminded, conservative country.

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Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by HarveySpecter1: 2:26pm On May 19, 2017
pocohantas:

Hmm...I still think she should have said the truth. Personally, I won't be with a man who sticks with me just because of hymen.
So, if were her, I would have cut off that guy the moment he became overly interested in my 'virginity'. The only exception is if he is one.

What exactly was she scared of?

Why the girls of this generation no wan get sense? You can't be with a guy who sticks with you because if hymen ? To morally challenged people like you, it's just hymen. We , the men , know the difference between a fresh pu$$1 and dilapidated ones.

Continue deceiving the young girls so they can turn out to be like you.

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Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by niyi123: 2:27pm On May 19, 2017
jorion:


Bro, if that's the case, then I am sick. it's this simple, if she isn't a virgin, then she is a runs girl or a repentant one. Forever is too long a time to live with an ex domestic prostitute biko

I share your view too.
Non virgins= prostitutes except the raped ones
Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Justicealh3(m): 2:27pm On May 19, 2017
grin grin grin

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Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by IFNOTGOD(m): 2:29pm On May 19, 2017
Hyerin:
I'm just curious but I watched a movie were a guy broke up with his girlfriend after he found out she wasn't a virgin (cos initially she lied she was but later told him the truth). Not only in movies do these things happen, but also in reality. Why?

Men want virgins but they themselves aren't virgins. Going to mess up and shxt like that but when females do it. Oh no. She is a slut/LovePeddler etc. Gender inequality much? Not to be a "third wave feminist" or "neo-radical feminist" but this is how I feel. So much is expected of a lady but little is expected of a man. I mean, why?

The world is changing everyday. Stereotypes are being broken. If you expect women to be pure & chaste before marriage then why can't you? (referring to men)

P.S. if you can't be civil or polite. Get off this thread. Don't be a nuisance.

WHAT u ladies fail to undastand is dat the dick does not get wide like d pussy, with different drilling tools going in n out of the female part makes it wider hence men crave for virgins, u can never tell if a man is a virgin or not but u can tell if a lady is on ur very first penetration(not closing d legs), met a girl who told me she was 19 n den discovered she was 17, d hole down there was dem wide n i asked wen did u start she said 15, my dear early sex makes a lady age faster n d female body becomes weak over time due to sex with different partner but in d case of a man its different, d organ of d man may grow in size n he becomes more experienced whereas dat of d lady goes wider n wider such dat any man who eventaully marries her will have problem satisfying her.

lets start wit u can u tell me dat ur private is still same as it use to b, if u have ever slept wit diff men?(no offence n no insult) these days we have cases of women saying my husband can no longer satisfy me, my gf of 2 yrs told me one day my dick is small(mind u dis is someone dat use to cry wenever we have sex n i wud asked her if its too large, she said no, its ok) but den i was taken aback to believe she has tasted a bigger one n i asked her do u want it enlarge she shouted no dont even dare its my perfect size.

ladies d truth is d more men u sleep wit d more ur pussy gets enlarged n less satisfaction u derive as time goes on cos u will keep needing a bigger size to cover up d space.use vaginal cream or tighetening its only for one round by d second its goes back to been d borehole it is

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Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Akjwyzepal(m): 2:33pm On May 19, 2017
Hyerin:


She lied because she was scared. She still told him the truth at the end but despite that, he left her and the main reason was because she wasn't a virgin. Not because she lied. Like men lie all the time but make a mountain out of a molehill when a woman does. I think that was very insensitive of him & all he was after was that clean cut. Because if he truly loved her instead of trying to hit that, he wouldn't have left. Just like that.
lies may run for a thousand years but one day truth go catch am. If u build a relationship based on lies and u don't tell ur partner d truth and he finds out. There is a higher probability 4 break up. Eg if d guy was a virgin and has always longed to loose it 2 a virgin, and d gal lied he would dump her. I hate lies especially of this magnitude, if i cnt acept ur past, let me go. By her lies she lost 2 things, 1. She was fvkd. 2. He left her. By d way would u prefer fairly used iphone 6 to a new one? If i wanted to dash u. Ur answer is d answer to the topic.

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Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by damosky12(m): 2:33pm On May 19, 2017
Fadman4real:


It is only unserious men that see virginity as an important decision to make when choosing a life partner. There is no where in d bible that says a man must marry a virgin.

For the lady to lie is enuf for d guy to dump her but for d guy dumping her cause she is not a virgin means the dude is not matured enough for marriage. To me I believe virginity is between you and God has nothing to do with your husband. It is your body you are keeping yourself for God not for any man.



Well, my guy, the Bible does not expect a anyone to have sex before marriage. In a way, the Bible prescribes the marriage of virgins.

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Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by geronimoedeh1(m): 2:33pm On May 19, 2017
personally I don't like virgins, reasons​ being dat their excessive 'i too holy' mentality is disgusting and 75% of dem afta being disvirgind loose control and wants to explore.... although i also do not desire a borehole...
secondly too much is also expected from men but not in same category...an average man is expected to have a house,a car and a tangible business b4 venturing into marriage...dat is far harder to achieve than just shutting your two legs up...

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Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Nobody: 2:34pm On May 19, 2017
kpaofame:
Op if you were given a New Car and a Used(Tokunbo) car which one would you choose grin grin



Very predictable comment. What has that comparison got to do with virginity? I understand your analogy but it doesn't make any sense tbh. So because a woman has had sex that now automatically makes her 'second-hand' or old smh. I have no other words for you.
Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by phnibeogu: 2:36pm On May 19, 2017
Hyerin:


That's just your mentality or maybe in a more generalised form "Nigerian mentality". Its not bad for Women to pay for dates or build houses or pay rent or provide for the family (tbh because women do these already) it's just called stereotypes. That's what it is. Haven't you heard, 'anything a man can do a woman can also do?'. We just live in a somewhat closeminded, conservative country.

you just shot yourself on the foot ? why do you think Nigerian men like virgins ? its also stereotype, 70% or more of undergraduates or people you went to university with, before you and after you are not virgins, are many of them not married? how did u come about men dont like virgins ? the girl clearly told a lie, but instead you have a fixed perspective as to why he left was cos of the hymen shit...and totally ignore the possibility that the guy could have lost trust
Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Fadman4real(m): 2:36pm On May 19, 2017
celestialdamsel:
Go read your bible besides the bible neither said we should commit adultery nor does it support premarital sex.

You could point out the verse that said so. Sure the bible is against premarital sex the same way it is against lying and anyone who lies or fornicates and asks for forgiveness would be given d same gift of forgiveness.

I am in no way trying to support fornication, I am just against it used as a yardstick for picking a partner.

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Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Nobody: 2:36pm On May 19, 2017
well the reason is that men feel we are more responsible and we are not going to complain if he doesn't satisfy us becos we av not don it before and we won't knw if he doesn't satisfy us. and is also good to keep ur virginity girls... I don't knw why u girls rush to av sex when u knw u will be tired of sex when u get married. pls keep ur virginity becos its also part of ur dignity
Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by vantage001: 2:37pm On May 19, 2017
Hyerin:


Very predictable comment. What has that comparison got to do with virginity? I understand your analogy but it doesn't make any sense tbh. So because a woman has had sex that now automatically makes her[b] 'second-hand' or old [/b]smh. I have no other words for you.
Biologically, she is though. I know it sounds rude.
There is a significant difference between an untouched vagina and the other type.
Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by kjhova(m): 2:38pm On May 19, 2017
I despise virgins today as I despised virgins way back in school days.

I don't do rookies and I don't do blood.

You wana ball with me, go get yourelf trained first.

Thumbs up to the guy with the endurance to train you.
Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Nobody: 2:38pm On May 19, 2017
EmpresFIDEL:
well the reason is that men feel we are more responsible and we are not going to complain if he doesn't satisfy us becos we av not don it before and we won't knw if he doesn't satisfy us. and is also good to keep ur virginity girls... I don't knw why u girls rush to av sex when u knw u will be tired of sex when u get married. pls keep ur virginity becos its also part of ur dignity

Are you a virgin though ?
Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by vantage001: 2:39pm On May 19, 2017
I have no preference though. Virgin or no Virgin.
As long as my woman is not the town LovePeddler, i don't care if she has no hymen.
But i understand why some men want it though. It is also rational.
Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Fadman4real(m): 2:40pm On May 19, 2017
damosky12:




Well, my guy, the Bible does not expect a anyone to have sex before marriage. In a way, the Bible prescribes the marriage of virgins.

Marriage of virgins would love to hear dat verse in the bible. Am not trying to discourage you if you are a virgin please keep it but don't use dat as the ultimate yardstick to pick a wife.

Sin is sin which was why when people wanted to stone the adultress in d bible. Jesus said whoever is without sin should cast s first stone. Since Christ has forgiven her what gives u the right to judge her. Are u without sin yourself?
Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by lonelydora: 2:40pm On May 19, 2017
pocohantas:
She lied, why did she lie?
Was she planning to download hymen from Playstore?

Next time, she should say the truth.

For a change, let's forget what men think or say. You as a babe, are you satisfied with having several sexual partners? If you're satisfied, then fu<ck what they think and keep fu<king. The thing no get meter sef, na you go use your hand set the mileage

....but if you're overly bothered about what they think,then the answer you seek lies within you.

Not every man likes virgins though.

Example: Me. They are too timid and they don't Slay. grin

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