Humility017:

you see OP situation perfectly explain what i am going through now...

getting a good lady is now an Herculean task...

sometimes I wish I could be a bad guy...those are they guys ladies love and crave after....
recently it has been affecting me.....it is frustrating when those you truly love keep taking you for granted...

My dear be patient.

Yours will come.. Just be patient and pray about it.

Dont let people turn u into what u aee not

Not all girls love bad guys.

And thats fact!

IamAirforce1:

Most good girls find good guys boring and won't take them serious .

They often cheat on the good guys with a bad guy they find interesting.

I get many girls wey dey relate with me berra.

He he he
So those are your good girls??
Some people lack aptitude sha

ashewoboy:







oya make me hook you up then na. hope say you fine? btw, my instinct dey tell me say you don marry, how true?

Am damn hot!
Am not just fine

Lol, no mind me

Am above average, am not married cos am taking ma time not to fall into the wrong hands.

I cant marry and divorce, God forbid

So am careful no rush until God says its time.


But you wey one hook me up? You name sounds like a bad guy


I no get power for bad guys.

I will pass biko.

Skinni:

I have heard this several times but how do I change myself?
I thought people are being advised to change from bad to good? Why should I do otherwise?
I have a very strong Christian background. I can't just give in to some things. Most of my friends have tried to force some certain lifestyle yet I hardly succumb.
I just can't

But he's somehow right....Most good girls like bad guys!

alexialin:



My dear be patient.
Yours will come.. Just be patient and pray about it.
Dont let people turn u into what u aee not
Not all girls love bad guys.
And thats fact!

you're right... thanks. it's just that many singles don't really know what they truly want.... .

OP I REPEAT BECOME A BAD BOY IT IS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD O. A FOOLISH REITERATED BY 100 NAIRALANDERS IS STILL A FOOLISH STATEMENT. IGNORE ALL THESE PEOPLE TELLING YOU TO BE A GOOD BOY. BECOME A BAD BOY O HEHEHEHEHE I DON YARN YOU FINISH SHA

Just stop being too nice and stop trying to impress rather than just being yourself...try being an alpha male.

alexialin:






Am damn hot!
Am not just fine

Lol, no mind me

Am above average, am not married cos am taking ma time not to fall into the wrong hands.

I cant marry and divorce, God forbid

So am careful no rush until God says its time.


But you wey one hook me up? You name sounds like a bad guy


I no get power for bad guys.

I will pass biko.

i could be a gentle guy for you my lady. you are hot for real? guess you look 16 like rorachy? oya pm me your picture, let me see you.

How Can I post a thread on this page to make headline

girls are corrupt like my country

Humility017:


you're right...
thanks.
it's just that many singles don't really know what they truly want....
.

U can say that again.

alexialin:




Op don't mind peeps saying u should change to a bad guy
If u are naturally a good guy, and u change to bad guy because of having a good woman, my dear u will feel empty and become entangled with your true nature and the make believe nature.
Dont change, u wil just waste precious time pretending to be who u are not. And u will look back and regret afterwards. Cause come what may, u will still end up as you are. How long will u play such role to keep a good girl that drools over a bad guy.

There are good girls out there that crave for a good loyal guy. Be patient. U will have one by your side. Just be patient and work on yourself, your dress code and communication skills. Add swags to it. But dont change to a bad guy.
It doesnt work for every guy out there.

I turned into a semi bad girl thinking it would help my love life cos deep down i cant fully become a bad gurl or slay queen, at the end I felt like a totally different person. Which end up making me feel empty and unfulfilled. So, I went back to the drawing board and retraced my steps back, cut off guys who wants a bad girl ( that tag is not for me) and focus on bn who I am,

Which is a mummy's girl ( even though shes late, am still her girl)

And I love myself die!

I just love who I am now, no apologies whatsoever.

Hate me or love me? I don't care. Its my life.

So have crossed that bridge and am better off this way and at peace inside out.


And I love good guys with sharp dress code, great goals and good communication skills..

Bad guys, I run like kilode from

My dear, weda u cross am with flying boat or jet, Hole go still be Hole anyday anytime!
Correct guys wey jasi shey i lie?

Skinni:
I'm a guy of 28 years but I have a serious problem.
Throughout my life I have never been in any 'serious' relationship. Although I have had couple of relationships in the past but most of them fizzled out just like that. In fact, few girls that I have been with were never committed.

I must say that I'm introverted, so I have only been into few relationships.

But that aside, I just realised that most girls that I have wasted my time with; were nothing to write home about. And I find it very hard pretending to be in a relationship that isn't heading anywhere.

My own case is just simple, once I discover that a girl is neither truthful nor committed, I will just quit the friendship.

I'm the kind of person that can't date two ladies at the same time. This makes me to always be out of relationship for long before I could find another.

My friends do call me pastor because once in a relationship with any girl, I can never enter into another.
But my only problem now is how to know and meet a very nice lady. A lady who is sincere. A lady that is dependable. A lady that has conscience.

The last girl that I broke up with was so terrible that I am now even scared to approach any other lady. I don't want to waste another part of my life in an unserious relationship. It weighs me down.

Guys please i need advice.
How do I get to meet a good girl?
What signs should I look for? What will the body language look like?
Please I need sincere advice.

The answer to your vital question is simple. I'm very glad to know that "you have a very strong Christian background." in fact, for any spiritual, sensible, and foresighted lady, that is an enormous turn-on. Since you're rooted in Christ Jesus, boldly table this matter before Him. He is the omniscient God. Wholeheartedly and humbly ask Him to help you locate that "good girl" that you can partner with for life. This would forestall you from making any regrettable mistake.


Although there are good girls out there and it may be lawful to date them, not all are expedient for you! Precision is primary in making that crucial choice, hence the need for you to inquire from God with confidence. I assure you that Lord Jesus will show you her, as long as you are attentive to His instructions. I strongly believe the potency of this measure and it will indeed work for you if you have faith. So dear brother, your missing rib beckons--find her. Happy Married Life in advance!

Skinni:
I'm a guy of 28 years but I have a serious problem.
Throughout my life I have never been in any 'serious' relationship. Although I have had couple of relationships in the past but most of them fizzled out just like that. In fact, few girls that I have been with were never committed.

I must say that I'm introverted, so I have only been into few relationships.

But that aside, I just realised that most girls that I have wasted my time with; were nothing to write home about. And I find it very hard pretending to be in a relationship that isn't heading anywhere.

My own case is just simple, once I discover that a girl is neither truthful nor committed, I will just quit the friendship.

I'm the kind of person that can't date two ladies at the same time. This makes me to always be out of relationship for long before I could find another.

My friends do call me pastor because once in a relationship with any girl, I can never enter into another.
But my only problem now is how to know and meet a very nice lady. A lady who is sincere. A lady that is dependable. A lady that has conscience.

The last girl that I broke up with was so terrible that I am now even scared to approach any other lady. I don't want to waste another part of my life in an unserious relationship. It weighs me down.

Guys please i need advice.
How do I get to meet a good girl?
What signs should I look for? What will the body language look like?
Please I need sincere advice.

bro we so much alike bt me ehnnn my own problem is i hit shiit up and the love goes bt now i found my bae we did shii yet i still love her and ama marry her sef.....keep trying bro the real girl will cum and stop discarding girls they might come in handy later boooty call things

Skinni:
I'm a guy of 28 years but I have a serious problem.
Throughout my life I have never been in any 'serious' relationship. Although I have had couple of relationships in the past but most of them fizzled out just like that. In fact, few girls that I have been with were never committed.

I must say that I'm introverted, so I have only been into few relationships.

But that aside, I just realised that most girls that I have wasted my time with; were nothing to write home about. And I find it very hard pretending to be in a relationship that isn't heading anywhere.

My own case is just simple, once I discover that a girl is neither truthful nor committed, I will just quit the friendship.

I'm the kind of person that can't date two ladies at the same time. This makes me to always be out of relationship for long before I could find another.

My friends do call me pastor because once in a relationship with any girl, I can never enter into another.
But my only problem now is how to know and meet a very nice lady. A lady who is sincere. A lady that is dependable. A lady that has conscience.

The last girl that I broke up with was so terrible that I am now even scared to approach any other lady. I don't want to waste another part of my life in an unserious relationship. It weighs me down.

Guys please i need advice.
How do I get to meet a good girl?
What signs should I look for? What will the body language look like?
Please I need sincere advice.

check amongst your female friends... there must be one

If you're desperate you wouldn't like the outcome. Just be you, make more female friends ( if you have money ooh, because you will take them out lol). I wish you goodluck.

ashewoboy:







i could be a gentle guy for you my lady. you are hot for real? guess you look 16 like rorachy? oya pm me your picture, let me see you.

My dear, a leopard never change his spots.

U be ashewo boy already. Which means u too like woman!

Sharp sharp u don dey use your skills on me.

Easy man!

U are too fast!

alexialin:





My dear, a leopard never change his spots.

U be ashewo boy already. Which means u too like woman!

Sharp sharp u don dey use your skills on me.

Easy man!

U are too fast!

i just checked your picture though. you be chinko. which state you come from? you are not sweet 16 like rorachy joorh and you are not even hot as you portrayed. well, you are not looking bad either. i could still take you home with me.

I don't want to act like an ASSHOLE but Don't listen to any religious bullshit OP ((( The guy talking about fish and christianity on Page 3 ))).

Remember the story of that 45+ Christian woman looking for a husband through her niece on Twitter?.

I'm sure this is the kind of bullshit she listened to in her youthful years.

If you're waiting thinking Christ will find a husband or wife for you, you're sleeping on a mother_fucking bicycle. Christ is 'ded', let him rest!

btw, see as ladies full this thread. na wa oh. all these ladies dey hustle plenty, them dey find husband. if we toast them now, them go dey do shakara. awon hypocrites.

MrOwonikoko:


My dear, weda u cross am with flying boat or jet, Hole go still be Hole anyday anytime!
Correct guys wey jasi shey i lie?

Jasi?

Not all holes are the same bruv!

And with this your mumu smile?


You are lost already, u have no one to tell u.

Pursue your life goal, and love or say girls of all kinds will pursue you. But if you abandon your life goal and chase after girls, girls will run from you.

Lastly, to attract the right woman in your life as a man, you must be lively and interesting to be with because women only enjoy being with lively guys.

Good girls don't usually like good guys who are introvert because they themself are boring and want to change and are desperately looking for a guy to help change their boring lifestyle, so when u another boring good guy come asking them out, it makes them angry and turn u down.

Only bad girls love good guys cos they already know that bad guys don't pay at the end so the bad girls know how to attract good guys while the good girls who are dying to catch some fun end up getting attracted to the bad guys that have the fun to offer them for the time being.


So to attract both good and bad girls, be a lively and interesting guy and then use your male instinct to select the best from the pool. You must change your cold nature if u want to get even with women. Women aren't for boring men but for bold and rich men, sadly

silounds like me

just stop being such a wussy and go out there, fetch as many pussies u can find and then u'll start talking about the right one.... who 'introverted' epp

Then it's me you have been waiting.i also hate cheating but you must posses the following.
Ability to Suck my juicy pussy until I pee or fart.
Rich or atleast comfortable.
Have a big dick.
A graduate.
You are from ss or se.
Handsome.
Dress well and neat.
Ready to settle down incase belle come.

alexialin:




Op don't mind peeps saying u should change to a bad guy
If u are naturally a good guy, and u change to bad guy because of having a good woman, my dear u will feel empty and become entangled with your true nature and the make believe nature.
Dont change, u wil just waste precious time pretending to be who u are not. And u will look back and regret afterwards. Cause come what may, u will still end up as you are. How long will u play such role to keep a good girl that drools over a bad guy.

There are good girls out there that crave for a good loyal guy. Be patient. U will have one by your side. Just be patient and work on yourself, your dress code and communication skills. Add swags to it. But dont change to a bad guy.
It doesnt work for every guy out there.

I turned into a semi bad girl thinking it would help my love life cos deep down i cant fully become a bad gurl or slay queen, at the end I felt like a totally different person. Which end up making me feel empty and unfulfilled. So, I went back to the drawing board and retraced my steps back, cut off guys who wants a bad girl ( that tag is not for me) and focus on bn who I am,

Which is a mummy's girl ( even though shes late, am still her girl)

And I love myself die!

I just love who I am now, no apologies whatsoever.

Hate me or love me? I don't care. Its my life.

So have crossed that bridge and am better off this way and at peace inside out.


And I love good guys with sharp dress code, great goals and good communication skills..

Bad guys, I run like kilode from

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ashewoboy:






i just checked your picture though. you be chinko. which state you come from? you are not sweet 16 like rorachy joorh and you are not even hot as you portrayed. well, you are not looking bad either. i could still take you home with me.

Guy! For your matter? Am taken already

bror if u continue like this... I'm afraid 4u u might never get married oh!!!.... U'll be ur life partner all ur life.... 'introvertcy' & 'timidity' are a very unhealthy traits one should have, it makes u vulnerable all the time .

@op. don't believe that "bad boy finds gud girl trash" u don't need to be a bad boy to find a good girl. No real gud girl will find a boy with a questionable character attractive. That thing only happens because women are mostly confused over what they want. that's why we have a lot of failed marriages today because of incompatibility and mixing up with the wrong person.

Don't be deterred in your search for a gud girl. Good girls are still in abundance. Just expand your friendship radar. spread your tentacles reach out to more people in your daily life.

Visit good places so as to meet good people . Some places of worship have a sizeable number of good people, try reaching out to more people in church. Go for outreach and take up leadership roles. Good girls like men that are sound and have good leadership qualities,dress well and speak good English. If u are in an academic environment or u like books, try visiting the library often. Most good girls like reading.

Also make make good male frnds too. Most of them wud have sisters or female relatives that they can introduce you to who are good. A lion must beget lions and wolves beget wolves. Don't mingle with people from rotten backgrounds and with bad reputation and expect them to introduce you to good people. it's hard to find such..

Finally be jovial and pray also. God is the one who holds the answer to everything we want. And if you have a reasonable Pastor in your church or place of worship you can let him know your issue, he or can help u find a good sister in the fold. Pastors usually can tell a whole lot about people in church . They know the good ones and the bad ones. goodluck #

Guys please i need advice.
How do I get to meet a good girl?
What signs should I look for? What will the body language look like?
Please I need sincere advice.

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Skinni,

There's no extraordinary thing that you have to do to change your situation. I would say our cases are similar but I'm not completely introverted.

Look, the effect of friendship is usually understated. I can go to movies with a girl regularly and I'm not even having a relationship with her.

The more female friends you have increases your likelihood of getting a good girl. That's logical. Through interaction with these girls, you can then decide which is worth asking out.

The downside to this is that while you're doing all the studying, another guy may just beat you to it. On the other hand, if you ask someone you barely know out just because you feel you should, that's when you start to uncover some things you do not fancy later.

The key to this whole thing isn't changing who you are. You were made an original, don't tamper with your identity. Go to social meetups, hangouts, travel and just have fun.

Life is for living.

fumiswtpusy:
Then it's me you have been waiting.i also hate cheating but you must posses the following.
Ability to Suck my juicy pussy until I pee or fart.
Rich or atleast comfortable.
Have a big dick.
A graduate.
You are from ss or se.
Handsome.
Dress well and neat.
Ready to settle down incase belle come.

hehehe. you done pursue op be that.
but in this Buhari era, being Rich/comfortable alone and being rich/comfortable with a lady are 2 different things. besides, you have told op what you want, what are you bringing to the table?