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Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by segzybam(m): 12:33pm On Apr 01, 2018

I only check her phone when I'm done with her and need an excuse to break up
Check the phone find what I need then I'm out the door.
There's always something incriminating.

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Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by reservd(m): 12:39pm On Apr 01, 2018

Op, I shake my head in advance for u

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by Greenstar1(m): 12:50pm On Apr 01, 2018

mickeyenglish:

It's not trust and maturity my brother,you do that because you are sacred of the unknown.

Your case is like a foolish man who keeps having unprotected sex with random prostitutes and is very scared to go for a free HIV/AIDS test.

Better go through it now or forever live with the coming consequences.

BTW, spying or intruding on the privacy of your lover is actually synonymous to spying a country.If a country like US spies on its citizens, they are able to weed out the perpetrators of crime to save them and their fellow countrymen from collateral damages, same as spying on your lover, you quickly detach yourself and terminate all forms of treachery and false commitments with the postiferous vermin of a Woman.

You are a wise man, I had to hack my girlfriend's account to discover she was cheating and I played along, imagine she was cheating and still professing love...If not for that hacking, I wonder what the relationship will amount to. A girl I had plans to marry. She changed my mentality about women and life in general. Don't trust NOBODY...SCUMS EVERYWHERE

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Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by SeanDada1(m): 12:50pm On Apr 01, 2018

UDUJ:

On point

G-B-A-M !!!!!

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by Nobody: 12:57pm On Apr 01, 2018

the interesting thing is that it is the same people whe are obsessed with going through their spouses devices that are also maniacally secretive. go figure

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Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by PapaBaby: 12:59pm On Apr 01, 2018

Good for him.

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Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by Donald7610: 1:01pm On Apr 01, 2018

Don't wanna give myself headache

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by vicben27(m): 1:10pm On Apr 01, 2018

l dont go through my fianceez phone! But some times she personally hands it over to me to go through! all l do is check her pix! l no one die younge abeg .ladies will alwayz have guyz constantly trying to woo them n win them over. soo l dont give a fucck until l notice a strange pattern or behavior. she often tells me of any new toster besides l trust my woman! she goes through my phone n to me its normal,but am really for anytin the fear of woman is the begining of wisdom after the fear of God. they can be loving n dangerous too.

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Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by Nobody: 1:22pm On Apr 01, 2018

mickeyenglish:

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How did u hack her phone

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by Nobody: 1:23pm On Apr 01, 2018

Were those who cheated not trusted. The truth is they were trusted hence it is called betrayal.

Anyone promoting the thrash above is either scared of the truth or in an open relationship

I cannot even trust myself talk less of another grin

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Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by donnie(m): 1:39pm On Apr 01, 2018

I don't do it as a policy, not just to my woman, but anyone.... cos I don't like it to be done to me. Especially SMSs and chats... Check my phone for what... to see my account balance and then position yourself? grin

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by mylove4God(f): 1:40pm On Apr 01, 2018

Hofbrauhaus:

If she has another bobo...

Same with her. Why am I taking someone else panadol?

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Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by Nobody: 1:40pm On Apr 01, 2018

Hofbrauhaus:
I check my girls phone but I don't allow her to check min3...Girls are made to be loyal to men. Why would my girl be checking my phone, what is she looking for?

point of correction, at relationship platform is a side by side thing. Both parties are to be loyal to each other. it takes a selfish and pride man to hide his phone from his girl why he spies on his lover's phone.

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Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by MichaelUweh(m): 1:41pm On Apr 01, 2018

I will not check my girl phone if only I don't love her.. But if otherwise, know that it's time to call it a quit..... But any girl I love, I must make your phone checking my Facebook account. your password must be my phone number.

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by MichaelUweh(m): 1:43pm On Apr 01, 2018

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by Curvydick001: 1:47pm On Apr 01, 2018

Uyiii:
common shattap there, just tell us your babe's using a Nokia torch light phone.
maturity ko, insecurity ni

Fellaz in the house, there's no way, I repeat no way your girlfriend will have a NL, instagram, Facebook, whatsapp, snapchat, twitter accounts and you tell me she's not cheating on the matured arse you're forming.

the only way I won't check my partners phone is if she's using a toy phone, even at that, I'll still check from time to time to make sure there's no inbuilt device in that toy phone

p.s: I do the checking only, she doesn't have any right to check mine, nor be trade by barter.
I can see the girls angered and triggered, if you like vex.
if this will make you not like me and not slide to my dm again, ehnn even though, I like am like that

NL account too ? Glad I finally joined as a member after years of visiting. Let's see how lucky I get lol

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by Curvydick001: 1:50pm On Apr 01, 2018

The kind of men that gets stab while asleep shioor

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by Ndolarr: 2:12pm On Apr 01, 2018

Maturity my foot! It is imperative to have access to your babe's phone anytime, anyday. She equally has the privilege. It is even worse in the case of married couples shielding their password from each other! If they can open their unclothedness to each other, why hiding their phones or Ipad password from each other?! It means one party is cheating outright! The earlier you discover, the better! A cheating spouse is like dealing with a drunk policeman with a corked AK 47! It is absolutely dangerous!

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Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by Newboss(m): 2:16pm On Apr 01, 2018

Don't worry, I will send you a screenshot of the nudes she sent to her other guy last night! angry

Women love men like you because you approve of whatever they do without even knowing that you approve them! angry

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by israelmao(m): 2:22pm On Apr 01, 2018

And also to save you of possible heartache.

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by samvega: 2:25pm On Apr 01, 2018

Look this is not about maturity, without intelligence and relevant data you are toast. There is more to relationships than meets the eye and you need to gather data to make informed decisions. You could be taken for a ride your whole life because people aren't just that straight forward. Maybe after a while you could lower your guard but all I know is you need to know what your partner is up to. All nations have sophisticated intelligence Agencies, Companies gather Market Intelligence so whats wrong with individuals doing a little data mining. What is good for Cambridge analytica is also good for you.

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Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by petenweke: 2:30pm On Apr 01, 2018

So?

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by Nobody: 2:31pm On Apr 01, 2018

QueenSuccubus:

As much as possible i dont like it either...I love my privacy & i want my partner to respect that...

But u know.."THINKER ARE DOER" ..this is very true. If he insist to check my phone, we'll do it the same time..

Haven't seen you on the MMA thread ...how's the ONE championship going ...

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by Fourwinds: 2:34pm On Apr 01, 2018

LifeIsGuhd:
Has nothing to do with maturity...

I also believe we shouldn't go through our partner's phone but when that partner is making a conscious effort to keep his/her phone away... then my brother, it is time to throw away maturity and trust.

you have spoken well...more power to your elbow

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by QueenSuccubus(f): 2:35pm On Apr 01, 2018

tobianthony:

Haven't seen you on the MMA thread ...how's the ONE championship going ...

Ooh hi. .

I didnt follow this week so i have no idea how was it..

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by marvin906(m): 2:39pm On Apr 01, 2018

thats good
i check my ex phone alot just to check the newest guy trying to gist her
anytime am bored and just need something to laugh about
she can have about 30 guys on her contact gisting her
i really dont give a damn
i just sit and start reading chats till my tired
buh some guys stupid ohhh grin

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by abby26(f): 2:43pm On Apr 01, 2018

Ok.

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by insignegianniga: 2:46pm On Apr 01, 2018

I can't seem to understand when people ask others to stay away from their partners' phones. Not because of privacy but because they will be heartbroken. So it's better to live in denial? You're enabling cheating. You know your partner is cheating and you can find out from their phones but you don't because you know you wouldn't like what you see.

It is better I see those things so I can know who I'm dating, so I can walk away. You won't believe the disaster checking my partner's phone saved me from in one of my past relationships. Nothing on earth would have made me catch her cheating if I hadn't checked her phone. Check their phones if you feel like it, you may be saving your future self a whole lot of heartbreak.

Many stories we read. Stories of lady's finding out their boo of 12years getting married to someone else. They could have found out earlier if they had given in to the urge to snoop.

You're married and you're talking about privacy with your cell phones, I think I can confidently state that you're mad. Privacy kee you.

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Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by Painkila: 2:50pm On Apr 01, 2018

A shocker is waiting for you the very day you change your mind.

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by abimic(m): 3:05pm On Apr 01, 2018

So long it's my partner, nothing is hidden, we have access to each other's life, be it Bank account, phone, emails, all. I don't get along with women having privacy, if u want privacy, stay single Biko. Checking your partner's phone isn't immaturity and not trust issue, u can just do that occasionally when u just feel like get busy with something else, and if you see something raising suspicion, clear your doubts, settle it and move on, not living to be heartbroken in the end and be disturbing us on nairaland.

Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by darrellg9: 3:07pm On Apr 01, 2018

if my girl wants, she can check or go through my phone all she wants....it does not move me one bit. going through or not going through your partner's phone does not change anything!!

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Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by BlueScholar(m): 3:08pm On Apr 01, 2018

LifeIsGuhd:
Has nothing to do with maturity...

I also believe we shouldn't go through our partner's phone but when that partner is making a conscious effort to keep his/her phone away... then my brother, it is time to throw away maturity and trust.

Thank you!
I couldn't have word it better

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