Mbkite:
Here are the reasons why most men prefer ladies that are above 30years:
1. Most ladies in their 30's hardly NAG.
2. Most ladies in their 30's are matured in mind.
3. Most ladies in their 30's are set for true love and never too interested on a man's MONEY.
4. Most ladies in their 30's are always INDEPENDENT.
5. The longevity of a lady's beauty is seen fully in her 30's.
6. Most ladies in their 30's have no business with DOUBLE DATING.
7. Most ladies in their 30's know how best to CARE for a man. Men will understand what I mean.
8. Most ladies in their 30's know what they want in life, unlike d 20's
9. Most ladies in their 30's have a good DRESS SENSE
10. Most ladies in their 30's are COURAGEOUS.
11. Great, admirable and heartmelting MANNER.

whiteTORTIISE:


You couldn't find a partner among these women

Bro, you need 200days fasting and prayer. Your ancestor and town people have join hands to make sure you are not married.

Sirlala:
We don't need to beat about the bush on this. A man who is not married at 40 or has never tasted marriage at 40 is useless. A woman who is not married at 30 has issues. There may be exceptions, but the exceptions are those who after realizing their issues decided to address them. We know the truth, please let's stop ignoring it.

geronimoedeh1:


babe all the people you just mentioned here are billionaires and are by no mean a good comparison. The people in such class are 1 percent. we are talking about an average Nigerian lady.

kunleweb:


Hahaha You no well atall

MrBrownJay1:


ARRANT NONSENSE!
marriage isnt/shouldnt be a reason to value someone, thats is the exact same SOCIETY BS. many today dont NEED/WANT to get married because they already have baby mamas (or baby daddies) and what not?! why buy the damn cow when you can get the milk for free.

the above message is the reason why so many useless people will desperately go and get married to donkeys out there... and with the rate of divorce (and stories of murder within marriage), no wonder many prefer to stay single and play "away games".

RiyadhGoddess:







Thank you sir. When I realize I have an issue, I will seek solution but for now, I have none.


All the best at your work.

Boss13:


You do have a problem and your inability to identify and address it is shocking. You are 31 and do you know that the risk for you having children is higher than that of a 25 years old and as you aged it gets more expensive for you to have children. The number of eggs you have has an inverse relationship with your age. As you grow old, your eggs reduces and the chances for your having children decreases.

Second, as you aged gracefully, your attractiveness in the romance market reduces. You cannot pick and choose your partner like a lady of 25 who still have time ahead. Also, you attract desperate men to your life because they know you are old.

Please go and work on yourself and if the man you are with is not considering settling down, please seek to address such concern.

Boss13:


You do have a problem and your inability to identify and address it is shocking. You are 31 and do you know that the risk for you having children is higher than that of a 25 years old and as you aged it gets more expensive for you to have children. The number of eggs you have has an inverse relationship with your age. As you grow old, your eggs reduces and the chances for your having children decreases.

Second, as you aged gracefully, your attractiveness in the romance market reduces. You cannot pick and choose your partner like a lady of 25 who still have time ahead. Also, you attract desperate men to your life because they know you are old.

Please go and work on yourself and if the man you are with is not considering settling down, please seek to address such concern.

anigold:
if being 25 was the only recipe for getting good life partners then why do we still have millions of single under 26 ladies at Shiloh every year.. marriage is a very complex institution.

vicben27:
most of this girls under 25 are walking around with an over drilled borehole. my Dicck almst got lost in one last week! na. only God go help Man. you find the perfect one you discover that no one is 100% l have dicide to manage the borehole like that because of love. insult me at ur own peril lol

slap1:
Nairaland should not encourage posts like this. Seun and Lalasticlala, this comment should be removed. I'm a guy, but this is hateful and hurtful.

vivie01:

Good comment! That guy's comment was very gross and savage to the core! Lots of psychopaths and mentally deranged roaming NL these days.

@IamD18, "30 and above are expired and should consider suicide as option" really boy? #SMH#

Reelmii:
what did u do to have made her chase u away, most women in their 30s have had relationships in the past where the guy only came to take advantage of their single life and dupe them of their properties. Ask urself what u did to have made her chase u away

Sirlala:


I have sisters and one is yet to be married and she is 32. She has issues and I have told her that. She has refused to address her issue and as a result, continue to remain single. To make matter unbearable for her, she is the first daughter and her younger ones are married. So let's stop kidding ourselves on this matter. It is simple. I married my wife at 25 and I will never advise anyone to go for a lady at 30 except I see that the lady is genuine and ready to adjust to marital life.

Boss13:
It’s not the right way to pass your message, but the message is clear.

iamsammie:

How will I be interested in her money when I'm working and making my own money. I truly liked her but she killed any form of likeness before it got a chance to grow

Sammiejokes:

There are two sides to this issue, we have those that desire to be married but yet no serious relationships. Those ones need to change their attitude, i have loads of them in the office, also within the family. I must say most of these ladies are extremely chosy with wierd character. Maybe that is why men end the relationships prematurely. There are always exemptions in these cases though.

There are some ladies that do not desire marriage, they are just living there life. These category of ladies are mostly single mothers and they are having a fulfilled life.

As a man if i want to marry a over 30Nigerian lady who also desires marriage, then you have to take ur time to observe her. There is a 90% possibility of an hidden issue.

Boss13:


You need to re-examine your cognitive ability to reason. Who are the many people that prefer baby mamas or baby daddies or the children are products of gross irresponsibllity. Marriage certainly increases your perception in any society as it shows that you can handle family responsibility. As we are very aware that many employers terminate the employment of staff engage in gross immorality such as extra-marital affairs or conducts not acceptable by society. Trump, one of the most powerful men in the world, is under serious scrunity as a result of his sexcapades with a porn star and many are calling for his resignation. Bill Clinton was impeached by the House of congress because he engaged in sexual immorality with an intern during his presidential tenure. Some employers would not promote you to higher responsibility such as CEO if you are not married because it is assumed you are afraid of commitment.

Some people in the West do not marry or marry late because the government has brought its law to family affairs whereby the women seemed to have the advantage. However, in Nigeria, the cost to get married is relatively cheap in comparison with other society. Hence, what is the excuse. Even LGBT fought right through to the Supreme Court to have their right to marriage acceptable to the society at large. Now, I repeat again what is your excuse for not getting married or what is the excuse for any Nigerian lady above 30 not to get married. I see none other than self denial and the inability to address their issue.

Any man who is above 40 or a woman who is above 30 and not married is grossly irresponsible. The point on people getting married to the wrong partner is not society’s fault, but the lack of due diligence and not pressure. Why put yourself under pressure when you can effectively plan your life and decided when and whom you want to get married to.

milemimi93:
Below is a diagram showing the sizes of Nigerian females' poronima and their age category.

Age 0 to 5 falls under no1
Age 6 to 12 falls under no2-3
Age 13 to 15 falls under no4-5
Age 16 to 24 falls under no6-7
Age 25 to 29 falls under no8
Age 30 and above falls under no9

Source: IWA Nigerian Chapter.

The likes of
cococandy
Preshy561
jessca048
Oyindidi
Sijo01
kimbraa
Pataricatering
NwanyiAwkaetiti

falls under no9

MrBrownJay1:


ARRANT NONSENSE!
marriage does NOT make a man being responsible (as the majority in Nigeria will gladly cheat if the opportunity presented itself)... in Africa, marriage is synonymous with happiness, and nothing more. if you ask the majority of people WHY they want to get married, many would give you answer that, although may be "right" to them, it is clear BS.
if you want to get married because your holy book demands that you do in order to be happy, then i am sorry to say, its BS! same with people marrying because that is what society demands of you. then most of you would have the audacityto come and blame whatever other nonsense when (not if) these marriages miserably fail... come on!



again, look at Nigeria and open your eyes... even though society looks down on baby mamas, MANY are going into it. you can only look at how many celebrities have them to understand that its a way of life that you better accept, unless you wanna fool yourself that it is NOT happening.
today, with the rate of how many women out there are single and desperate to have a man they call their own, it is damn easy to NOT get married and still have a babe for years (and if that babe prefers to marry a donkey, then let her join the miserable people's queue)



BWAAAAAAH look at you talking about pressure, yet you are the one to demand that people over a certain age should be married or be called irresponsible. have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe, with the way women are desperate for a man, men dont NEED to get married at all? give me a good reason why a successful men should get married, if he doesnt want to? what is marriage gonna change about his way of life and/or success in life? is marrying the GF that cooks/cleans/and fukcs him every night gonna change anything? doesnt this same babe who does that unmarried know that there will be 1000 babes begging to be with this successful man, if she doesnt act RIGHT? so again, why should a successful man get married, if he doesnt desire to do so?

abeg, think about it while i go watch the 2nd half of that thrilling match here ouais!

Revolva:
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Boss13:
Nothing complex about marriage. If people who act responsibly, we won’t have marital issues. You still find irresponsible people having extra martial affairs even when married. Marriage is what you want it to be. But there is no excuse not to be married or for the guy who said having children out of wedlock is cool, that’s the height of irresponsibility.

What we find now is people who are irresponsible wanting society to accept them for who they are and the choices they make. Please they should go and fix up their lives.

26 is not a bad age to get married. However, at 40, for a man or 30 for a woman, what are you still looking for?

jessca048:
too many mentally unstable human roaming around the internet spewing trash everywhere, the government should please come up with a regulatory body to oversee to the affairs of netizens in this country. instead of them to utilize the ten mb borrowed from mtn effectively

vivie01:


So who's talking about right or wrong way of passing message here? Birds of a feather.