Demmzy15:
You're very sick o, who told you you need to sleep, cook and all those rubbish before you can get a good husband. I don't blame you, your moniker shows that you're silly

highqueen:
lmao.
guys are never pleased.
he will still cheat on you with a lazy dependent girl.

pocohantas:


Which energy are they saving?
I honestly do not understand this particular reasoning. Some ladies have sex with their bfs, he spends on them...then time to cook, she says she is saving energy for husband? Which energy pass the one she burnt on top bed?

These things are nothing. As long as he doesn't put a gun to her head. If you love someone, you won't see these things as anything.

You won't go about thinking your effort will be a waste if he 'dumps' you. You just do you best while you can and leave the rest.

Cynthiabelle:




Happened to me.

CaptainG00D:


Bia nwanna no dey talk to her like that abeg.
Shez actually one of the best behaved gals here. Majority na coded ashewo. if u know u know.

openmine:

Sorry what did women change into according to you?
They became bad right and you think that will get them a good partner?

So you had a bad past with your previous relationships... does that imply that other guys will do the same thing to you?

So you Were good before and some one used your goodness for granted....does it now stop you from being good?

victorian:







Well apologises accepted

[s] But am already decent and my mother brought me up well. Am even a role model to lots of married and single ladies who know me out there . Am not boasting , even married men wish their wives are like me .
So don't worry am very OK the way I am

A wise man with foresight will see me as a God sent attribute to his life and that's the truth . so dear. Don't worry about me [/s] .

victorian:







Did I mention categoritically that have become bad ?

The fact am no longer doing everything she's doing at this time , does not mean am now bad .

OK?

IamD18:


Please shut up and stop making a fool out of yourself online.

openmine:

But that's what you are insinuating.....
For the very fact that you are holding back some certain things esp due to what happened in the past confirms my assertions...

We all have had heart breaks in our lives at one time or the other but that should not make you change simply because of a certain guy that never cherished what you were doing for him.....

victorian:






OK but have not turned bad .
Have only become wise and careful with my decisions and actions , that's all.

XhosaNostra:


Hello, stranger What's with the frown now?
Btw, I checked-in on you on FB the other day but you were nowhere to be found, so I left. Hope you're good. Missed you

ImaIma1:
Boyfriend or husband?

I think she made a mistake and wrote boyfriend instead of husband. Someone should try and correct her.

XhosaNostra:


I'm not going to entertain your provocation, not today. Go stick that dirty, taloned finger you used to type this shìt above, into a wall socket. You will not be mourned. Bye.

jessca048:
all what she has listed is good, but she should have one thing at the back of her mind men are unpredictable she shouldn't be surprise when that same nigga leaves her for a Chic that can barely even measure of to her

sexdoll:


likewise me.

i won't blame you at all.

most likely, you are just too old school in nature to even realize that the world have changed from that time when marriage used to be strictly by arrangement.

sorry.

openmine:

So you are suggesting like some one said that she should not do anything for her bf until she is married to him simply because you feel the guy in question whom you don't even know will dump her?

Please try as much as possible not to use your personal experience or what you have seen to judge another person's relationship....

Everyone is different.... and many have gone through lots of heart breaks but that didn't stop them from offering unlimited love to their partner....

Move on from your past....learn to forgive your self and forgive that person....and move on....

ImaIma1:


Not talking from personal experience.

No sad past to move on from.

But as long has not made her his wife, everything she is doing is just background noise.

Demmzy15:
So for me to laju, my prospective wife needs to have sex with me, cook, massage, cuddle, etc before we get married? You must be out of your mind, I'm not talking about arranged marriage. You can meet a good wife without even doing all those rubbish and a wife can be arranged for you in which you'll do the same nonsense with her.

It's very unfortunate that this generation can't reason beyond sex, anytime they're dating it isn't complete without sex. This same people would end up sleeping all around when they eventually get married and ultimately divorce each other. If you need to truly found out about someone you want to marry, ask questions from those close to her. A lady or man can hide all their bad sides from you during your period of fornication and rubbish and show them when you are married, what would you do then? Divorce!

I know all you won't pay attention to all this because your moniker shows you're silly.

IamD18:


Reasons why mothers should do well to train their daughters well to avoid them growing up to be online prostitutes and wayward hoes.


Now, tell the forum how married men wished their wives to be like you with what you just replied me


Ashawo-Mentor bagging on Nland as an intelligent woman. What stops you from getting married if you are what you claim to be?

Chubby Alexaline

victorian:

IamD18:


Just take corrections and move on without pouring your frustration or insulting the person.

That's what a smart lady should do.



Smally.

victorian:







What you don't know about, better be quiet about it.

Be it Alexialin or Victorian, you have no either about my life.

So focus on your struggles in life and stop spreading what's not true.
I laugh at your stupidity and to others who feel they know me. Lol

Bunch of ignorant clowns.
Abeggi! Advice yourself and not me

You have no clue.

IamD18:


I intentionally didn't spell your main acc correctly, but you did it yourself Meaning we know what you are pretending not to know


You are not wise atall Smh

IamD18:

Will you shut up!

How about wishing her well since you can never be like her? You ladies are so much filled with envy.

Look at you saying men are unpredictable and she might be cheated on, how many ladies are like her in this country? You think every lady must have the stupid mentality of an average Nigerian lady in a relationship? Or you think a man can just loose such a unique lady?

If reverse was the case, would you have made such silly and envy-filled comment?

Next time you find it difficult to control your jealousy, kindly ignore such thread than to end up spilling rubbish.

openmine:

Nothing special about being married.....
If he doesn't love her before marriage,he won't love her after marriage!

Pls stop putting to much priority on marriage as if its going to take one to their Eldorado....

marriage does not breed commitment or solve all problems associated with relationship!

So don't relegate the significance of a relationship.... its a pointer to how ur marriage will pan out!

stupidity:
Should we tell her?

ImaIma1:


It doesn't change the fact that doing all these things for a boyfriend is just a ticking time bomb and not advisable for any lady.