Organism000:


1. Slapping a woman shows immaturity.
2. As long as she is not yet married to you, she is not your wife hence she has the right to meet other suitors. If you want her to be faithful then you should pay her bride price.
3. The fact that she begs means she is a good girl trust me any girl who is not a virgin has been bleeped so stop getting upset cos the pusssy remains intact you can always take as much as you want. No one is uprooting it.
4. Call her back and sit her down and plan a marriage now. Street is military, so learn to be a soldier.

5. Nude pictures or not, Kim Kardasian makes millions from bring naked. Learn to use your weaknesses

gsharp12:
My own 10kobo comment Is that both of you have an issue.. Urs seem to be very serious bcs with your temper you can kill . so the issue here is that can she even marry a domestically violently man like you who can't control his temper but to hit a woman. She should thank God got her life that she has seen signs of such violence before marriage.
Her own problem is that she is promiscuous and easily swayed with words from men. She can't be a faithful wife. Truth is that she will do it again and still feel bad or remorseful if caught. So both of u have seen signs that u too can't blend.
She can eventually change notwithstanding but it would be better off without you. Lastly. Both of u lack the fear of God. And I strongly recommend jesus to both of you. Until jesus is involved. Both of you might end up marrying the wrong partner. Even if you guys are meant for each other only God can approve of it. God bless you

Adamummya:
you don slap her na, wetin you wan make we do ?

Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.

I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period.

So After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.

So back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US. I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.

Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it. I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened, but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me...

Honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable, too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death..

Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come?

Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.

pocohantas:


You need common sense more. If only it were sexually transmitted, I might oblige you. So, the world can have one less dunderhead to worry about.

RedDistrict:
I still dy imagine how this 3 hot slaps went down sef

is it that you gave her one, she went down crying, looked at you again to beg you and you gave her another slap, then she cried again and as she looked up to beg again, you landed her the last one

or

you just gave her the 3 slaps on a back to back combo move

Baba, just leave this girl abeg before you kill somebody's child and land in jail or she pours acid on your face after you beat her

Gidilagoon:


Thanks bro.. I wouldn’t call her a nympho but I know she likes sex so much and she’s not the type that will Bleep for money. I just think she ain’t clever enough and has never dated a better guy which really serious with her before, I believe she’s too emotional and can easily fall for sweet words.

Luxuryconsult:
you dey mind the useless op. Forming king kong on top another man pikin face. Slap my daughter and die, e no concern me. Nothing like second chance where i come from

Gidilagoon:



No be my fault bro.. the thing Dey do me strong thing ni and I so much love her.. the best thing for me is to avoid her, she’s not the type I can stay mad at for long if am seen her around. E Dey happen baba. Man Dey fall mugu for one girl in his lifetime.

Gidilagoon:



No be my fault bro.. the thing Dey do me strong thing ni and I so much love her.. the best thing for me is to avoid her, she’s not the type I can stay mad at for long if am seen her around. E Dey happen baba. Man Dey fall mugu for one girl in his lifetime.

famzynet:
Similar thing happened to me about 2 years ago. After about 3 weeks of which she persisted calling,I forgave her. We are about tying the knot. I have enjoyed the relationship since then though that past act still brings doubts at times but I have learnt to disregard them. If you truly love her and you believe she loves you,forgive her and observe her attitude for another year. Forgiving her will make her know you truly love her and she will make effort to behave well. No one is perfect. You don't know the vices of the other girl outside there. If you are not meant for each other,I guess things will sort out itself in the following one year. In my case ,I gave her two more years to observe her before I made up my mind.

Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.

I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period.

So After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.

So back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US. I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.

Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it. I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened, but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me...

Honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable, too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death..

Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come?

Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.

Gidilagoon:


Oh wow. Thank you so much. I was extremely provoked, that’s why I did that and I’m so much in love with her and letting go is so fucking hard, so that’s why I overreacted, but thanks,NOTED

franchasng:
as in, some guys get liver sha....how dare u slap my daughter and she tells me about it and you aren't sleeping at the nearest Police cell waiting to be transferred to Kirikiri....what nonsense

I stopped sympathizing with him when I read the part where he said he slapped her thrice, gosh....ladies de suffer for Naija guys hands sha, its well.

Now I see why ladies are clamoring for equal right. Its totally unfair to the poor girl no matter what she did. Maybe she was deceived by the American based man that he will marry her...and she fell for it cos most Nigerian ladies out of poverty and financial lack fall easily for guys living abroad just for the opportunity to travel out of this hell hole of a nation

Guys are to blame in all these....guys pressure ladies a lot....just because u have small money as a guy, you now see it as a right to be deceiving every girl in town with "I WANT TO MARRY YOU" and due to scarcity of able guys to marry, they fall for it and later u guys turn around and still call them hoes or whatever, its not fair.

We guys aren't saints o...in fact, some of the guys looking for faithful women are dogs that move around looking for anything in skirt to hump....some have had over 500 sex mates, sighs...life isn't fair to most women sha, its well

kandi006:
I would have asked you to forgive her but i won't.
Any girl that sends her nude to a man both married with 2kids or single is stupid so I can't advise you to end up with a stupid girl!

You should also be careful with a liar and a cheat, what if you did not catch her?

mimimile93:


Even the married ones are prostitutes..

Any Nigerian lady born from the 80s whether married or single is a prostitute..

I respect the ones at the brothels.. They keep it real.

Not the ones disguised as girlfriends and wives..

abimic:

That he could boldly type it shows he's proud to have done it sef, on top of the slap,he even dragged Her out of his house, Chai, I'm not sure she's One of these present day girls because these girls of nowadays, you slap them once, they grab your shirt, we go die here together!

pocohantas:


You need common sense more. If only it were sexually transmitted, I might oblige you. So, the world can have one less dunderhead to worry about.

pocohantas:


There are different types of uncles. Biological, Romantic, Spiritual and Academic. Undercover oloshos are very familiar with the romantic uncle.


Mayweather!

Anyway, are you single now?
Make another babe enter set.
You shouldn't be asking this question.

awwfar:
Awww!! Oya sorry my bad,stop crying ehn! ...see your ur phussy is not smelling like rotten fish, God I meant to say rotten egg..
Send me your accnt number, let me send u little something for the emotional distress I caused u