Jodha:


Demanding sex from one's husband makes are unchaste ?

"Men don't marry nymphs" ... Please speak for yhurself alone...

Jodha:


I see yhur point now....

Although i don't subscribe to this yhur philosophy...

I can demand for sex...and still make him want me like never before...

Jodha:


This is not the 1900's please
... ain't nothing wrong in a woman asking her " husband" for sex...

Personally i feel seducing him is more sexy... because he'll get in the mood too...
But it's not wrong for a woman to demand for sex....men do it all the time...

shekauvsbuhari:
Well, I disagree with you on this.I like my woman asking me for sex when she needs it. I abhor pretences in sex. A woman givin me impression she doesnt want it makes me to lose interest. I like a woman who loves sex, only she should not be a sex vendor or promiscuous. I like my woman being raw, real n direct.

Jodha:


This is not the 1900's please
... ain't nothing wrong in a woman asking her " husband" for sex...

Personally i feel seducing him is more sexy... because he'll get in the mood too...
But it's not wrong for a woman to demand for sex....men do it all the time...

Michellekabod2:
i think I agree with ubunja here. Sex is the only power a woman have over a man, that puts him in her control,if you are in charge of it(and not it being in charge of you) ,you have some power to yourself. When you sexual drive equates his,them you are no more a master or the one in charge of the sex,you are both slaves then.


The op used the word "husband" but I believe the chasing of a woman should continue after marriage.

PS:this is from my own lens,don't apply to everyone though. Things are really evolving fast. But I think you should heed to this if you aren't sure your spouse has evolved

ubunja:
do you buy your woman gifts because she loves sex?

shekauvsbuhari:
Yes I do. It turns me on too. You see I love bold women naturally. Bold, yet intelligent, kind and lovely to be with.

ubunja:
you are Masculine. Ladies don't demand for sex. No matter how long they've been with a man. You need to reconnect with your femininity.

shekauvsbuhari:
I am with U dear. I like a woman being bold to demand sex when she needs it. I give it n still respect her. I only hate promiscuity. A woman demanding sex or loving sex a lot does not make her a LovePeddler. She is just being human.I prefer such ladies. That is for me.

Michellekabod2:
i think I agree with ubunja here. Sex is the only power a woman have over a man, that puts him in her control,if you are in charge of it(and not it being in charge of you) ,you have some power to yourself. When you sexual drive equates his,them you are no more a master or the one in charge of the sex,you are both slaves then.


The op used the word "husband" but I believe the chasing of a woman should continue after marriage.

PS:this is from my own lens,don't apply to everyone though. Things are really evolving fast. But I think you should heed to this if you aren't sure your spouse has evolved

shekauvsbuhari:
Yeaaah. You just hit the nail for me. "seducing him is more sexy". I like that. I once dated a girl who would grab my dicck once she enterd my house. Yet she remains the most loyal n faithful girl I ever met. She loves sex so much but she is still not wayward. She demands it from me whenever she wants it. I loved her guts.

Jodha:


There's nothing masculine about wanting something and asking for it.... I'm just a very straight forward person...

Men like women that can take the bull by the horn
...

Gone are the days when women act like logs of wood... that'll wait for a man to initiate sex...and lie down like fire wood and do nothing...

NwaAmaikpe:




A woman must NEVER open the mouth given to her by God to ask her husband for sex unless she was married from a brothel.

As a husband, the day your wife opens her mouth to tell you that her kpekus is hungry should be the day you chase her out of your house because no responsible woman who was conceived from the sperm of an intelligent father and the egg of a decent mother does that.

It shows that she is a nympho. If she can beg you, then she can beg your friend too.

However, a woman who does not want to go through the hassles of begging her mother-in-law to help them draw up a Sex timetable can convey her preek cravings to her husband through non-verbal communication which is termed in BedRule 101 as TripleBL or 'Basic Bedroom Body Language'.

A decent wife who wants her husband's submarine to sojourn in her Bermuda Triangle can just spread her legs and plead with him to help examine a fictitious razor bump on the tip of her canal using his finger then gyrate her hips like the blades of a low-voltage powered blender while biting her lips like hard Suya as he does this.

Or she can roll from her end of the bed to his using his body as wedge but ensuring that either her Gluteus Maximus brushes against his 'Omenuko' or her mammary glands bumps into his hand each single time.

A real husband who truly thinks through his preek will react positively to either of these scenarios.

But the best bet for a stubborn husband who is unable to read the writings on the wall is to pray to God to send down the spirit of Conji to trouble him till he can sleep no more.

If all of these fails, she should then look for either a pastor, a neighbor, an ex-boyfriend or a colleague in whom she can confide her sexual woes to.

ubunja:

Buying her gifts turns you on?

ubunja:

Buying her gifts turns you on?

Jodha:


Stop twisting his replies ...he didn't say that
..

People no longer subscribe to that yhur philosophy again...

ubunja:
then what did he say? Since you understood him. Explain it for me.

shekauvsbuhari:
No! I mean her demanding for sex turns me on. Makes me respect her boldness and guts. I dislike timid n boring women.

shekauvsbuhari:
honestly marriage is terrible. Am into it but want to get out. Its suffocating, has dwindled my drive n has been a wasted investment. At least I want to pay less attention to the scam for now and put more energy into my life's dreams.maybe later I throw the rubbish away entirely.

Jewessgratitude:
Y ask?
Just start rough play before you know e don shele. But if oga de sleep ;, just dey trowey body dey touch am small small until he stirs and wakes up. Then you can tell him to help you scratch your back. Dem no born that man well at that wee hours not to know what to do ...

Disclaimer: This is not my hand typing.�

NwaAmaikpe:




A woman must NEVER open the mouth given to her by God to ask her husband for sex unless she was married from a brothel.

As a husband, the day your wife opens her mouth to tell you that her kpekus is hungry should be the day you chase her out of your house because no responsible woman who was conceived from the sperm of an intelligent father and the egg of a decent mother does that.

It shows that she is a nympho. If she can beg you, then she can beg your friend too.

However, a woman who does not want to go through the hassles of begging her mother-in-law to help them draw up a Sex timetable can convey her preek cravings to her husband through non-verbal communication which is termed in BedRule 101 as TripleBL or 'Basic Bedroom Body Language'.

A decent wife who wants her husband's submarine to sojourn in her Bermuda Triangle can just spread her legs and plead with him to help examine a fictitious razor bump on the tip of her canal using his finger then gyrate her hips like the blades of a low-voltage powered blender while biting her lips like hard Suya as he does this.

Or she can roll from her end of the bed to his using his body as wedge but ensuring that either her Gluteus Maximus brushes against his 'Omenuko' or her mammary glands bumps into his hand each single time.

A real husband who truly thinks through his preek will react positively to either of these scenarios.

But the best bet for a stubborn husband who is unable to read the writings on the wall is to pray to God to send down the spirit of Conji to trouble him till he can sleep no more.

If all of these fails, she should then look for either a pastor, a neighbor, an ex-boyfriend or a colleague in whom she can confide her sexual woes to.

Oluwadamilare118:


Smile!
You're on your own!

Jodha:


What happened...why did yhu guys part ways?

shekauvsbuhari:
She had this her boss's daughter that "liked" her a lot and never allowed her to concentrate in the relationship. Wont say the lady was a lesbian. No.She later moved her to work in her own office and never allowed her a life of her own. I was also a friend to de lady's elder bro. My girl was torn between loyalty to me n her n could not make her own decision. I told to leav de job 4 me to set up a biz 4 her cos we were talkin marrg, but she was afraid of failin in biz.So in order not to cause a crisis, I took a walk. Very painful thing to do then.Lady later abandoned my girl n went abroad. She came back but I was already in another serious rltnship.

ubunja:

Is this the same woman you're referring to?

ubunja:
like I said.... Masculinity. When a woman chases sex she is not in her feminine energy.

shekauvsbuhari:
haa. U realy out for me. The relationship failed as I narrated earlier, got involved in this marriage, it was so drab and rubbish, saparated but not divorced yet. Got into relationship in attempt to remarry, but friends n family are on my neck to restore de marriage bcs marriage is taken very serious in my family but I am a non-conformist. I am taking my time to decide anyway.

shekauvsbuhari:
A woman asking her man for sex is chasing sex? No I disagree. What I see as chasing sex is promiscuity or prostitution.

ubunja:
"men do it all the time". That's why you must never do it. Leave the chasing for the men.

Sex is your only leverage over a man. Always control it. Even when you want it, make it appear like the man is the one who wants it, as if you're doing him a favour. Even in marriage, Keep the chase alive. Its how you keep a man's attention.

Plead:
Only thing I learned from this post is many of the folks here are very primitive especially that nwamaikpe and ubunja dude.