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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Nobody: 8:38pm On Jan 29, 2020
Tony bro, one day when I meet you I'll buy you one bottle of Gulder. Nice write-up.
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by iLegendd(m): 8:46pm On Jan 29, 2020
Even though I didn't read, I like the title.

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Danwakae(m): 9:00pm On Jan 29, 2020
The last one




GAMMA MALE ...
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by luminouz(m): 9:01pm On Jan 29, 2020
Lmaoooo....


Strive?


Alpha male is 90% inborn,you can't wake up and decide to be one.

The 10% left can be learned but you will never be an alpha male with that.


How do I know? I was born as an ALPHA.

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Fastecash: 9:02pm On Jan 29, 2020
Relationship is scam

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by favour32(m): 9:08pm On Jan 29, 2020
Pray!
When u jam sweet kp€k√$ ur so-called alpha male go metamorphos to gamma male nai worse pass beta male.
Guy hol ur side na be the highest!

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Nobody: 9:09pm On Jan 29, 2020
Alpha online sissy offline

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by MissJoy29(f): 9:10pm On Jan 29, 2020
jamesversion:
Bla Bla Bla Bla Bla Bla Bla.

E be like dem don sack you for Akwa Ibom government.
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Sokosuji: 9:14pm On Jan 29, 2020
What about zigma male?

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by bamasite2: 9:14pm On Jan 29, 2020
We rep!
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Brightgem(f): 9:14pm On Jan 29, 2020
TonyeBarcanista:

Of course, you should know where I belong
I recall this moniker and some exchange we've had, how are you an Alpha male in the light of those comments?

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by TechWows: 9:16pm On Jan 29, 2020
Also, Alpha males get levels too. The best is to become an Alpha that your wife can never leave for another, and I learned how to become that in the thread below.
A million thanks to the guy that created the unbelievably awesome thread. Thanks for showing me the far more sweeter way to give my girl multiple Orgasm kiss https://www.nairaland.com/5652053/cunnilingus-husband-wife-sin-husband-wife-sin

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by MissJoy29(f): 9:16pm On Jan 29, 2020
healthserve:
Another perspective. Mature


Martinez39
Ericsmith
Ubunja
JohnnySpute
Your food don done na grin
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by cardoctor(m): 9:17pm On Jan 29, 2020
These beta males sef.
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by healthserve(m): 9:17pm On Jan 29, 2020
MissJoy29:

Your food don done na grin


Na so na wink


I nondeybuse this type food play
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by persinpapa: 9:18pm On Jan 29, 2020
TonyeBarcanista:
By Tonyebarcanista

Most people falsely misconstrue Alpha males to be irresponsible men filled with arrogance and are disrespectful towards women. They misconstrue Alpha males with with cocky males.

Many also misconstrue guys that are body builders with nice physique to be alpha males. Some misconstrue wealthy and fierce looking men as alpha males. Some even misconstrue womanizers, famous or people of high status to be alpha males. While some alpha males may belong to the aforementioned groups, not all those groups are alpha males.

Who Is An Alpha Male?
An Alpha male is the real man. He is a man's man and a warrior. He is very confident and a stand-up guy. Irrespective of what you call him, he is a leader. He is the guy others look up to for motivation, inspiration, and often with a hint of jealousy. He is a man that knows what he wants, confident of himself and can't be tossed around. The alpha male knows his power as a man and doesn't use it as tool for oppression. He can't be manipulated by women, and this makes him attracted to women. He's the kind of man every woman want. The Alpha male is mentally and emotionally strong but kind. He is very Confident, yet humble, he assertive, yet gentle at times. He is very powerful, yet calm and tempered. He has self worth yet doesn't proud! He is the kind of man every man should be. He is the kind of man that every woman crave for and hold in high esteem.

Who Is A Beta Male?
Beta males are men that always seek to fit in. They are the typical human pleasers with little or no opinion. Beta males in relationship and marriages are the typical Mr Nice Guys that always bury their thought, desire and want so as not to offend their partners. They are typical followers that always seek to blend with the society. They are not stand alone guys as they are easily manipulated. Because of these traits, Beta males are often disrespected and controlled by their partners, the society, their church, families etcetera.

ALPHA MALES VS BETA MALES

1. In Relationship

Alpha males go for who and what they want, and are men with standards. When their partners err, they are not afraid to speak their mind, address the problem and speak up when the boundaries they set are crossed. They inform their partners on the effect of their ill informed, they tell their partners the consequences on the relationship and take action to ensure that the partner falls in line. Alpha males don't seek conflicts but are not afraid to tackle conflict head on. They are active and not passive

But Beta males don't have any standard nor boundaries that they hold sacred. They would rather endure and die in silence when their partners err because they are afraid of causing conflict in their relationship. The ones that speak up do so in form of a plea or nag. They are passive men that live with burden in their heart in their bid to maintain peace that they never get.

2. Gentlemen Vs Mr Nice Guys
Alpha males are polite, nice to others, respectful but respects themselves and aren't doormat; Alpha male will never allow anyone treat him like second fiddle no matter what. An Alpha male priories his own well-being, irrespective, he genuinely care about the needs of the people in his life and want the best for others. He does this not do this for validation, to gain attention or to be praised by people around him, he simply does it because it is the right thing to do. When an Alpha male doesn't agree with you, he tells you.

Beta males on the other hand may be nice, courteous etc, but they don't prioritise themselves. They are doormat, Yes-man. They are nice because they need the validation and they agree to a fault because they want to maintain the "Mr Nice Guy" tag.

3. Beta Males Are Bitchy, Alpha males Accepts or Change A Situation:
Alpha males takes responsibility for their lives. Once anything happens in their lives, an Alpha male seeks to do something about it. If an Alpha male finds his partner with another man, he takes action- whether to breakup with her or any other action. An Alpha male makes decision for himself; whether relationship, career or whatever.

But Beta males always look at someone to pass blame on. They don't take responsibility, they bitch over it. A Beta male will find his partner in an unpleasant situation with another man, he runs to his pastor, family or social media to bitch about it... Seeking their help to take action because "he doesn't want to act irrationally". He's a weak man! Simple!!!

4. Genuine Connection Vs validation
An Alpha male always seek genuine connection and friendship with their partners and people around them. They have no time for fake relationship. Alpha males don't seek anybody's validation to feel good. They are true to themselves.

Beta males are pretenders. They desire validation of their partners, friends and society to feel good about themselves. They are fake towards themselves and others around them because they suppress their true feelings for external validation.

5. Alpha males trust themselves to make decisions for their lives, Beta males follow popular opinion.

An alpha male may consult others before making decision, he evaluates the response he gets, and compare with what he had always wanted to do. If he still believe that his desires is the best for him ahead of popular opinion, he follows his mind, makes his decision and swim or sink with it without blaming others.

Beta males consults with people, he may or may not evaluate responses, but he follows popular opinion even if it doesn't tally what he really wants because of his conformist character. He is always ready to blame others should his decision not turn out the way he wishes.

I will stop here!

I remain TonyeBarcanista


Last last..if u get money, ur alpha Male traits go sharp

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Jman06(m): 9:20pm On Jan 29, 2020
Some people are naturally passive and submissive while some are naturally the opposite.

I think there's no need trying to change one's nature just to suit the expectations of others. People should just find partners who compliment them and live their lives in peace.

I know some people reading my post would think that I belong to the passive class, but that's not the case! I'm just typing from what experience has taught me about life.

Life is not a straight road! There are bends and turns here and there!

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Jgoldie: 9:20pm On Jan 29, 2020
Trash
Trash
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And more Trash

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Nobody: 9:21pm On Jan 29, 2020
I'm a mixture of both, depending on the situation I'm faced with.

I'm a nice guy but not a YES-Man, I'm totally unpredictable.

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by IghravweIG(m): 9:21pm On Jan 29, 2020
Beautiful piece.
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by jaxxy(m): 9:21pm On Jan 29, 2020
Op succeed in painting the perfect picture of the Alpha he forgot to tell us the down side or weaknesses or are they superhuman? tongue

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 9:21pm On Jan 29, 2020
My brada if u try to manifest this Alpha male characteristics in the presence of naija police, sorry will be your name.

Just be flexible,

Switch between alpha to zigma (if at all anything like that exists) personality as occasion demands. Be a good actor.

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Mstick: 9:24pm On Jan 29, 2020
It’s 2020 see Barcanista acting brand new, dude that moves like nylon bag in the wind, no direction. He can’t even stand for a particular belief for a full year but go wherever his stomach leads.

Alpha male ko, Omega male ni.

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:24pm On Jan 29, 2020
Preshy561:
Well written, but all those qualities without money? Huh
There is no way someone with those qualities won't be a hustler
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by YorubaPrince: 9:24pm On Jan 29, 2020
cool
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Papanwamaikpe: 9:26pm On Jan 29, 2020
TonyeBarcanista:

Those threads humor me bro. Imagine someone reporting his mother and wife on Nairaland forum grin
Lmfao
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by worldclass68(m): 9:26pm On Jan 29, 2020
I think I'm Omega male undecided undecided

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by FLYFIRE(m): 9:26pm On Jan 29, 2020
donstan18:
Hustle ooo!!


Make you get time to dey know wetin be Alpha make and Beta Male.
DONT MIND THEM. ALPHA MALE KO ALFA MALE NI. TENANT ALPHA MALE. Not particularly referring to the OP though; just generally observing.

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by AfroKnight: 9:27pm On Jan 29, 2020
bukatyne:


The 'Alpha' qualities are qualities everyone need to develop to enjoy healthy relationships and lead quality lives.

So maybe of Alpha male, we should talk about 'Alpha people'.


You just had to quote the lengthy post.

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Papanwamaikpe: 9:27pm On Jan 29, 2020
Jezyfreezman:
I just weak, now I'm avoiding the romance section for good, make em no jazz me too with some sissy stories, grin
I swear. Me too dey avoid there oh! I just stick to my ashawo thread. Na there real niggas dey grin

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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by OlawaleBammie: 9:27pm On Jan 29, 2020
Brightgem:
I recall this moniker and some exchange we've had, how are you an Alpha male in the light of those comments?

Ahh!! Do u want to scatter tins??

Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:29pm On Jan 29, 2020
Jman06:
Some people are naturally passive and submissive while some are naturally the opposite.

I think there's no need trying to change one's nature just to suit the expectations of others. People should just find partners who compliment them and live their lives in peace.

I know some people reading my post would think that I belong to the passive class, but that's not the case! I'm just typing from what experience has taught me about life.

Life is not a straight road! There are bends and turns here and there!
That's the point! Being passive is weakness and a turnoff for a man

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