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My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 8:19pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
Where do I even start from Is it from numerous cases of rape that get turned against the woman?? I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape. The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his way. The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go. What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there " I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went out innocently to pay a visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend. This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust? This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a girl that claimed her male friend tried to have his way during a.visit I dint believe my eyes when I was seeing comments like "did you expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" so these guys now see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her. I don't know what it feels like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations because they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either. Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing This kinda thread needs to be on fp Mods should do the needful 295 Likes 39 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Sanmel(f): 8:21pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
Hmmmmm... |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by afolwalex20(m): 8:23pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
The poster above me stole my spot 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by wordbank(m): 8:27pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
Ur conclusion makes no sense in any way. U met d wrong dude so what? So others should be slaves to their own selves? U r just amusing! 191 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Cutehector(m): 8:31pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
Why must it be an eatery? Food no dey ya hous 254 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 8:32pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
those guys tried to molest you buh they didn't have their way. to me, when it comes to rhape the two parties are guilty but that's mostly is not true cuz at times the lady raped might just be completely innocent. op, there's something you've gotta always remember which is "NOT ALL GUYS ARE THE SAME", we still have good eggs among us buh nah the bads ones full market, so i put it to the ladies to be watchful and very careful... 53 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by falconey(m): 8:39pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
the question is what's the motive of the visitors?........I believe most guys do initiate their intention when inviting girls over, even when he lies you can tell. 80 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by donholy28(m): 8:39pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
There u go...painting all guys black 8 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Brugo(m): 8:55pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
Girl dresses scantily to visit a guy who is sexually active. They get cuddly and start kissing and touching then she says no when he makes further moves to take off her clothes. Not all guys have the will to stop when the process has been initiated. Ladies if you don't want to get raped, stop setting yourselves up. Don't get to the point of heavy petting then pull away. You may be dealing with a guy who has little control when aroused. You can't put hot coal on your lap and hope it won't burn you. 172 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:06pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
wordbank:I met the wrong guy, like that that 18year old girl met the wrong man, just like those kids that get raped daily met the wrong guy 90 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:08pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
Cutehector:I can actually foot my own bill 46 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by weyreypey: 9:11pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
classicB: Lie! 117 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:11pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
Brugo:Let assume some girls dress scantily to get raped. What about those underage girls?? What about that innocent housemaid that get raped daily by Oga simply.because Madam isn't available, those men that rapes their own daughters nko?? 90 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by weyreypey: 9:11pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
classicB: True? 5 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:12pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
weyreypey:That's just the truth you guys have failed to know. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Cutehector(m): 9:12pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
classicB:lol I dnt believ dat... U"d stil go behind d guy"s bak and call him stingy 78 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by knostbrown01(m): 9:13pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
You r not ready to have a boyfriend.....the fact that all bird could fly doesn't mean the have equal feather 2 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:14pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
Cutehector:Why will I do such a thing? U won't believe that a guy who insisted I come to visit him in his house just said I should not bother simply.because I told him am meeting him in an eatery. Na by.force to buy food for eatery?? 11 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Brugo(m): 9:15pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
classicB: Madam. Discuss within my context. Thanks. 31 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Cutehector(m): 9:16pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
classicB:I dnt like meetin girls in an eatery... We could meet in a church... 85 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:17pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
lol...girls sef dey rape na. 12 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Mznaett: 9:18pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
Op,God bless you for putting this "devilish act" an average girl faces into writing. I've been a victim several times and believe me it wasnt not funny. The latest that just happened to me was when a course mate of mine asked me to come help him prepare something as usual,I went and after eating, I was abt leaving but he got hold of me and threw me on top of his bed. Imagine? This was a guy I took as a friend not knowing he was a monster. After much struggling though he was stronger I managed to escape since then,I had to set up my own policy o 39 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:19pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
knostbrown01:I.do have a boyfriend and we've been together for a long time now. He's the only guy I trust with myself 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:20pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
C'mon. This is totally ridiculous. If you fear that the guys' you hang out with may pounce on you and rape you one day, then you really need to consider changing your circle of male friends. This is exactly how it starts, then you become psychotic/paranoid for life. 64 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:20pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
Cutehector:That aint bad either So far it's.not your room 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by wordbank(m): 9:23pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
classicB:First thing first, let's address the topic 'we ladies should stop visiting guys, rape is real' smh... now u know u fuccked d hell up right thurr. *Back to quote* I can't say rape is not real but in most cases that the culprit and victim are adults, it is very easy to spot who paved the way and that been said you know what's what. Child molestation is a crime which I see no relativity between 'visiting the accused and raping the accuser'. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Cutehector(m): 9:23pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
classicB:naaah.... My room is sacred..... Judgin frm ur threads, u seem u hav a problem wit guys 16 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:23pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
Mznaett:My sister na only God fit save us. These guys are so wicked that they will eventually turn the whole matter against the girl. What more of a bad thing can happen to a raped girl than turning against her? Telling her she initiated the act If he had raped u that day, he will surely tell his frnds u.came with condom in handy 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by opeaceo: 9:24pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
Wisdom is key here, but giving a blank statement ( the title of the thread), I don't agree. "good" guys still exist. 51 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:27pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
come visit me, we go play ps3 tire 7 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:27pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
Cutehector:I do,. Like I said in a previous thread am currently working with guys and the way they talk about girls is insane. It's like they believe a female frnd coming for visitation is coming for sex, that's insane! How dare you rape your innocent female visitor I so have male frnds, but when it.comes to visiting you alone?? Abeg count me out. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:28pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
But ehn? Tbh,I cannot visit a guy in his house o! The last time I visited a guy who was not my boyfriend was in 2006,was much younger and naïve. But now! No way! 5 Likes 2 Shares |
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